I have read a lot of dating books. A lot. More than anyone I have ever met. I keep hoping for some kind of magical answer. Maybe Katy Perry has it. In her interview with Esquire this month she claims the way she introduced herself to Russell Brand was by throwing a bottle at his head, and hitting him with it. In most states that will get you arrested. In their case they ended up going to Thailand together a week later.
"I was 25, 30 feet away from him. And I threw the bottle straight at him: hit him smack dab on the head. Can you imagine the horrible feeling he had, when he was used to getting everything he wanted? I was like, 'You've met your match, motherf*cker.' A week later we went on vacation in Thailand."
In the interview she also says that he was basically a prostitute before she met him. That he is an even bigger diva than she is and that she is in her own words "a f*cking strong elephant of a women."
She also says that if you want to keep a guy you should make him wait. How does the whole going to Thailand after a week fit with that??