This is what I don't understand. If you are going to a party with a guy and then end up going to spend the night at his place, what does it say about yourself that you want to hide and not let anyone see you. This is what Amanda Seyfried did Saturday night. She and Ryan Phillippe attended a Halloween party together. As they were leaving, Amanda attempted to hide from the paps. The next morning when she was leaving Ryan's house, she had no place to hide so admitted that she basically was dating Ryan. Why hide? If you feel like hiding maybe that is not really the right person for you.