While his baby mama is in the hospital recovering from a suicide attempt or whatever it was, Gary Shirley showed how sensitive he is to Amber Portwood's needs by throwing a BBQ and party and inviting all of his friends. Apparently Gary wanted to party, throw back a few drinks and get wild. Oh, but he wants you to know his daughter is his first priority. He is not sure where she was during the party, but she is the number one priority. Oh, right after getting paid to appear at events and finding as many women as possible who love fat men. Take it from me, it is not easy. You would think there would be more women who would be interested in a man with a lot of meat on his bones, or fat, or excessive Twinkie bars, but in my case, I have not really found that to be true. The number is barely two hands worth and I married about 70% of those.