You know, if someone cheats on you once, depending on how long you have been together and your history, there may be forgiveness and a reconciliation. If the person cheats on you a second time and a third and a fourth and then runs out of fingers and toes, then I think it is time to move on because if you don't, then you look like a doormat. Well, Cheryl Cole must have been brainwashed because even though she divorced Ashley Cole for cheating on her way more than that, they are back together. I know Cheryl was probably desperate to get away from Derek Hough, but going back to Ashley? It is not like he has been a monk since they split. He has dated a few women and had sex with plenty more. I don't understand why Cheryl would take the guy back. I mean the guy was having sex with people from their first weeks of marriage. Heck, before then and continued up to the second they got divorced.