I think Ali Fedotowsky and Roberto Martinez were doomed from the start. I think the only reason they even managed to stay together 18 months is because they spent so much time apart. This was never going to work. I think for these Bachelor type relationships to work, one very important thing needs to happen. No wanting to be famous. Plain and simple. Both people need to want to live a normal life and give up their 15 minutes and not try to get it back. It just does not work. Ali still wanted to be famous and Roberto did not. Jake wanted to be famous. Well, so did Vienna, so I think that might have had more to do with two huge egos or Jake maybe wanting some alone time with someone who does not look like Vienna if you know what I mean. If you look back at the very few successful matches from the shows, both people have said lets stay out of the spotlight except maybe to get our wedding paid for. There are still going to be splits when both people give up the fame like Jillian Harris. I put that one down to her picking a cheating tool of a man and didn't realize it until it was too late. Ali and Roberto would like us to respect their privacy during this time. Uh huh. So does that mean Ali won't suddenly show herself on Beverly Hills streets hoping for a pap to catch her in her time of grief? Please.