Evelyn Lozada Makes A Bad Decision
Evelyn Lozada is engaged to Chad Ochocinco. She broke up with him last week and called off their wedding after she found he cheated on her. Oh Evelyn that is not the first time he has done that and it will most definitely not be the last. Despite the evidence, she allowed herself to be apologized to and now, according to TMZ, the wedding is back on. Probably the worst mistake ever. Let me tell you something about professional athletes, especially as they get to retirement and beyond. From the time they were about in middle school, professional athletes have been put on pedestals and are used to having whoever they want. As they get close to retirement and into it, the accolades start to dry up and athletes go looking for it wherever they can get it and to feel like they used to they cheat. A lot. You are in for a world of heartbreak Evelyn.
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It's hard for me to feel bad for any woman who dates/marries a professional athlete. You get what you get. I'll bet Tom even screws around on Gisele.
Yeah, they must know going in that 99.9% of these athletes will cheat.
@Elvira - disagree a bit with your comment.
Yes, it's true that more and more athlete's cheating has come to light, but you also have to understand that these men go after those poor woman with a passion. I'm talking about the woman they want to marry, not screw.
Can you imagine being wined and dined and sought after by one of the hottest athletes in town? I think you fall for it. YOu fall in love, and as many women before her, when in love, you are blind. You only see the best in your partner.
Poor woman, wish her luck. For I don't think he'll change.
I remember the wife of a professional athlete interviewed on the Phil Donahue show many years ago. She divorced him when she found lipstick on his shirt - but not on the collar. It was on the shirt tail.
And some of these women see dollar signs and bling and are wiling to overlook everything else.
it's her life,her decisions!
There are rumors she cheats on him too.
Please. She was married to Antoine Walker, who famously burned through hundreds of millions of dollars--certainly some of them on Evelyn.
@Rita -- But what *I* don't understand is why they get married in the FIRST place. If they're constantly on the hunt for some strange, then why pursue a woman who insists on having a ring put on it? It seems as if there's a neverending parade of chicks who are willing to debase themselves, for whatever godawful reason. Just have them form a line outside the bedroom.
It's just hard for me to respect women who know their men are cheating douches and think that a wedding is going to make them commit somehow -- especially when kids are later brought into the situation.
I have more sympathy for a woman like Elin Nordegren, who was totally blindsided by her husband's indiscretions waaaaay after they exchanged vows. But Evelyn knows what she's getting into.
ok, are there any out there that don't cheat? Just curious because it appears not.
What about Hillary Duff's hubby Mike Comrie? Do you think he cheats on her? Just wondering.
@Elvira - I understand your point of view, absolutely! Why commit on paper to a monogamous relationship, when you know you still have a lot screwing around to do?
Simple answer: The Chase.
Hasn't changed much in the past centuries, men still love the chase. And with a good hunt, comes an incredible sense of possessiveness. Once you got your catch, you piss around it and make sure everyone knows that she's yours.
You think Woods would've accepted it if his wife was screwing around as well? She was the hot trophy wife par excellence!
I think it's time to put romance novels aside, and understand that boys were not raised the same way girls have been. That boys coming into manhood will go through life experiences where sexual release is very different, and completely separated from being in love.
Like many before him, he will marry for love, but still find sexual thrills elsewhere, whenever and wherever it will be thrown freely at him.
I've said it before, and will say it again: we've raised our sons to become men without honor.
Raise your boys with honor, and in turn, they will not dishonor their women and children when they become men.
@Doc Girl -- Not according to Lainey.
"I guess if you’re going to cheat, you’re going to cheat. It doesn’t have to be after a year, it can be much less. And you don’t have to wait for 5 either. Also, at that age, is it realistic to expect something to last forever? I suppose you don’t know that until you know it. And by then it’s too late.
She’s more famous. And he’s, well, he’s ok at what he does, but he’s certainly not great at it although when it comes to actual talent, I’m not so sure she has much of it either, and definitely not with the last project she pimped. Still, there’s no question that she’s the B+ in this relationship, and he’s the solid D+, which is VERY generous. In another league maybe we’d consider him a C-. A C at most. He’d never be one to wear that on his sweater though.
Anyway he cheated on her. At least once. With some kind of no name, but well connected enough, and the sort of girl who gets off on hooking up with married men, and if the married man has a celebrity wife...well, even better.
The wife, so far, is happily oblivious. So far. But those kinds of girls, they love to step down on other girls. And they love when other people know about it. Not sure how long he’ll be able to keep this contained."
*I mean, according to Lainey, MC certainly DID/does cheat on Hilary.
@Elvira, oh yes I remember that item now.
I'm glad I'm not married to an athelete, for many reasons.
That's why I have the upmost respect for Jeeter. He never married and had children, because he knows he's a pro-athlete and has many women throwing themselves at him. The temptation is too great.
My husband works in the sports industry and there are constantly "cleat chasers" throwing themselves at athletes. They want to sleep with them, have their babies and get a payday, or marry them and live the sweet life. These women are RUTHLESS and will stop at nothing. They don't care if the person is in a relationship or already married. They want bragging rights at least, and the diamond ring is the ultimate prize.
I can imagine it's difficult for any red-blooded male, no matter how much he loves his significant other, to turn an easy offer down, day after day, on the road, after a bad game, or whatever. I'm absolutely not excusing their behavior. If a man says those vows to me, they better damn well keep them! I'm just saying that the situation is more complex than most of us can imagine -- and I would NEVER marry an athlete for that reason.
Hey musicians aren't much better although I swear it seems that all athletes cheat whereas some musicians I knew did know how to avoid temptation.
She probably dumped his ass because he sucks now and will be in the same broke ass boat as Terrel Owens. She knows better. Needs a dude who is a star and makes monies. Reggie Bush had a decent year. Hook em up.
Wait, this woman is about to marry her SECOND pro athlete? Is it just me, or is she just not that cute? I mean, the point of marrying for these athletes seems to be marrying the hottest trophy you can land, right? And this chick just doesn't fit that, imo.
I was married (after he retired) to a pro football player and have a pro baseball player (now retired) in the family. What Enty said is so true - they're taught that they are THE bomb and they live with the belief that everything revolves around them. I should have known from my experience with the family member what life with the ex would be like, but I was goofy in love and didn't want to see that stuff. The marriage was awful, and very short (not Kim K short but embarrassingly close).
@EmEyeKay - so sorry for your marriage! A lot of athletes have inflated egos. It feeds unfortunately their skill, for some, to excel.
@Rita - the inflated ego thing, it's no joke. They really think they're better than ANYONE. The fame and the fans make it worse - my ex thought he needed congrats just for waking up in the morning, I swear.
And it's okay - I look at it as just a bad mistake as opposed to something I failed at. Thanks for your words!
I just came on here to say Chad Ochocinco is the lamest fucking name in the world.
It's even worse than the goober whose named Chord Overstreet.
that is all~
Shocking!!!! It is funny that people feel bad for other people's divorce. It is the same heartbreak as to dating. Most women married for security and that is what they get a contract that sometimes get broken. Money is not happiness and it will never be.
isn't she a proverbial (and serial) star f*cker, tho? sorry, but no pity from me. he knows what he's getting into. they both get off on the publicity.
seriously people...athletes and musicians--for the sake of your heart, stay away.
Heartbreak from marriage is definitely not the same as with dating.
This is all for publicity. I refuse to get caught up in their mess.
I don't know (or care) who these people are, but I did laugh at the term 'cleat chasers'
I have a friend who is a cop and I worked with a girl once upon a time. I invited my cop friend to a happy hour outing (on his day off) with the coworkers. As soon as he saw her he pulled me aside and said "Why didn't you tell me a badge bunny would be here?"
A whaaaa??
Turns out little miss 'I'm so innocent' had a rep for uh, servicing those who protect and serve.
So yeah, all apologies for not adding anything to the discussion, it just made me laugh.
'cleat chaser' HA! 'badge bunny'
Now I'm wondering what Hockey guys call it. Skate skank?
^LoL @ABlake. Skate skank! Never heard though about the Badge Bunny. That is weird.
@Elvira - ITA (re: your first post)!
It's the whole power thing...athletes, musicians (like Pookie said), actors, politicians and even just "regular Joe's" like ABlake mentioned above. Some women are just drawn to that.
ABlake - they're called puck bunnies
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