Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Teen Calls Police When She Heard Her Mom Having Sex


A teen girl called 911 last week after she heard her mom having sex. Apparently the teen wishes to be put into a Christian children's shelter. The Smoking Gun got their hands on the police report which said that mom and the 15 year old girl got into a verbal altercation but the girl admits there is no abuse or neglect just that she felt disrespected that her 35 year old mother was having sex in the house.


The bedrooms of mom and daughter are next to each other. That is always an issue. When the police asked if the daughter really wanted to go to a shelter the girl saw it was morning so she said no because it was time for school. Have you ever heard your parents having sex? Luckily I think I was conceived through immaculate conception and choose to think my parents just liked watching National Geographic channel late at night which would explain some of the burned in my memory sounds.

64 comments:

crila16 said...

I was brought by a stork...as were my 3 other siblings...actually 2 of them I think came from the cabbage patch. My mom's a virgin...my dad is too.

nolachickee said...

The girl felt disrespected that her mother was having sex in the house. This is creepy to me.

Is it because of WHO the mother was having sex with? Perhaps a midget? A farm animal? Ashton K?

RocketQueen said...

I once SAW my parents having sex on our balcony when they thought I'd be gone for a couple of hours. I was 18. *shudder* I can still see the image. It's burned in my brain.

Ice Angel said...

I'm sorry, but this is where I draw the line. I totally agree with the child. Her mother's behavior is completely innapropriate when you have children in the home. What kind of example are you setting?

Obviously, we aren't talking about mom and dad here. This girl is 15 years old and has to hear her mother going at it with some guy in the next room? I don't blame the girl one little bit. The mother is out of line. Period.

Since when has become OK to have sex whenever and wherever you feel. If her mother wants to have sex with a different guy every night, that's fine, but keep it out of the home where her daughter is. This is just gross.

Little Miss Smoke and Mirrors said...

My parents' bedroom was on the ground level of our house, and the kids' bedrooms were all upstairs. I never even caught of whiff of my parents having sex, thank god. A friend of mine walked in on her parents as a teenager, and it scarred her for life.

RQ, so sorry!

SusanB said...

I heard my parents having sex about 40 years ago - still can't get the sounds out of my head.

Vicki Cupper said...

Ice Angel, you're kidding right?

If parents didn't get it on we'd all be only children. Little freak needs to learn about life and not be so religious. Or better yet, just let her grow up in a Christian foster home. She needs to nurture her warped sense of reality. Does she think children come about through prayer?

She needs to get over herself.

Lori said...

lol I was raised in Napa, Ca and Panama City, Fl...I can totally see this happening in PC, especially the specific request for a CHRISTIAN children's shelter. My mom's room was downstairs and all the kid's and guest rooms were upstairs, so it wasnt a regular occurance for me to hear anything, unless I was somewhere that I wasnt supposed to be at night. I SAW my mom and stepdad having sex in the pool once, though. My bedroom was upstairs above the pool house and the pool lights were on...uuggghhhhhhhhh. I still turned out ok.

bits of moxy said...

If the mom is putting her needs and being non discreet, I feel for that child. Maybe this girl is super religious due to what happpened between her mother and father.

On a side note, I never heard my parents doing it. I did however hear my dad beg, and mom decline, and that still makes me huzz thinking about it.

Sadie said...

Me thinks Ice Angel is aptly named.

Sex is perfectly normal and natural. Maybe the mother should have been more discreet with the audio...but its her home and she should not be forced to go "elsewhere" to have sex.

Ida Blankenship said...

Yeah. I'm with Vicki on this one.

It's a humiliating experience to hear your parents having sex (or, uh, for them to hear *you* having sex), but it's not an example of trauma or abuse. Jeez.

Ice Angel said...

@Sadie-I am no angel, but I am a parent. And as a parent, I put the needs of my children above my own-both their physical and emotional needs.

And I am sorry to disagree with those of you who feel the girl is "too Christian" but I believe it is about much more than that. We aren't talking about mommy and daddy making babies. We are talking about her mother banging some dude in the next room and forcing her daughter to listen.

Now I agree the girl probably overreacted in calling 911, but she probably didn't know what else to do at the moment and was probably very upset.

And just because you pay the bills doesn't give you the right to have absolutely not the slightest respect for those under your roof.

I just love how mom acts like a whore and the kid is called out for acting like a child.

selenakyle said...

I heard my 'Rents banging a few times and got so grossed out I could hardly function for a few days.

Also stumbled upon some of my Dad's porn mags/books which also grossed me out so bad I'm surprised I have a libido to this day...

selenakyle said...

I believe it is totally classless and inappropriate for any single parent to be indiscreetly banging in the house with kids around. Just tacky as all hell...regardless of "whose house it is" and "who pays the bills" blah, blah.

MAC said...

I agree with Ice Angel.

evergrey said...

I'm with @IceAngel on this one.

What kind of mom has loud enough sex next door to her daughter's room KNOWING the daughter is home and can hear???? A lousy mom - that's what.

She's truly disturbed in my opinion.

Lori said...

it clearly states in the article that it was the mom's regular boyfriend and not some random she picked up at a truck stop...hardly "whore" behavior. Also, she says that it was super late at night (4am when police called) and she didnt mean to wake her daughter....not like it was 5pm and in the next room. She thought her daughter was asleep. I see nothing wrong with what she did.

RenoBlondee said...

I walked in on my parents once when I was a teen too. UGH. So gross.
It sounds more like mom was indiscriminately screwing some random guy and loudly, with her kid in the next room. Not classy at all. That is kinda sick actually. When my kids are home we make sure they can't hear us. Gross again.

RocketQueen said...

You know, you have a right to your own opinion, Ice Angel, and I can see your point, but calling the mother a "whore" for having sex in her own house?? Last I checked, an adult woman can make choices about what to do with her own body in her own goddamn home. Many children have accidentally overheard or, god forbid, accidentally seen their parents having sex. It's not fucking child abuse.

txtommom said...

ITA with Ice Angel. Perfectly said.

RenoBlondee said...

^Oh, didn't know that part! that changes things then, for sure.

Syko said...

Okay, the police asked if the girl wanted to go to a shelter and she saw it was morning...so this must have happened very late at night. I don't believe having sex in your bedroom while your 15 year old sleeps in the next room qualifies as child abuse. Mom might have tried to keep a little quieter but hey, maybe it was really good sex.

I was a single mom, and I tried to not subject my kids to that sort of thing, there were never any new "uncles" at breakfast, etc. - but you can not expect someone to simply put her own life on hold until the daughter grows up and moves out. The daughter overreacted and sounds like a brat.

Vicki Cupper said...

The daughter overreacted and sounds like a brat.

Exactly. She sounds like a hyper-religious nutcase. If she didn't think movies were Satan's doing, she'd think Carrie's mother was misunderstood.

__-__=__ said...

I'm with crila. I'm sure my parents were virgins and I came from the cabbage patch.

timebob said...

people need to learn 911 isn't for family therapy or resolving family issues. It is for emergencies. Geebus get some common sense and a therapist and work it out on your own dime.

Seachica said...

This wasn't her mom having sex with her dad. It was mom having sex with a boyfriend. Long term bf or short term bf we don't know. It could be one of a long line of guys that mom has seen, in which case mom should be more discreet. Or it could be a long term bf, in which cSe daughter should show some understanding.

It could also have been raunchy play -- imagine if she heard mom telling bf, "punish me, daddy". We just don't know enough here to pass judgement. Maybe the kid seriously felt threatened because she didn't understand much about role playing during sex and took it the wrong way?

brendalove@gmail.com said...

Imagine what it was like back in the 1700's in rural Kentucky when there were 11 kids trapped in a one room cabin with their parents during the winter.

discoflux said...

How many of the people making the blanket statements condemning the mother actually clicked through to the article and READ it? The girl called the police at 4AM. The mother probably thought her daughter was asleep (it was a school night and she's obviously a good christian girl after all) and that it was a safe time for her and her regular boyfriend, not some guy she picked up at a bar, to engage in some lovin'.

"The teen acknowledged that 'there was no form of abuse or neglect in the house.'"

Sounds more like a 15-year-old who hadn't gotten her way and was trying to make trouble for her mother. If she was truly traumatized and being subjected to abhorrent behavior she could've chosen to go to the shelter. Instead this happened:

"After speaking with a representative from the shelter, the teen decided that she did not want to leave her home because 'it was almost time for school.'"

Cathy said...

Ice Angel - while the mom probably could and should have been more discrete, it is NOT OKAY to call 911 over this - that could have prevented someone with an ACTUAL life-threatening emergency from getting through right away.

Sue Ellen Mishkey said...

^Hahaha

And I also agree with Ice Angel's first post. Personally, I don't think it's such a hot idea to have a revolving door carting men into your home when you've got a child (especially a daughter!) in the room next to you. That's what shipping them off to grandmas for the weekend is for!

If that is the case. If it was a long term boyfriend, then the daughter should relax a bit, and definitely should not have called 911.

Sue Ellen Mishkey said...

The hahaha was @ brendalove

MadLyb said...

@Ice Angel - Have to thoroughly disagree with you on this one. Two consenting adults CAN have sex where they want, and it's really nobody's business. If you are the head of household with minor children, you should probably use your discretion, but you can do what you please if it isn't hurting anyone. Hearing your parent having sex in the next room at 4am is unpleasant, but it shouldn't be traumatizing.

This reminds me of the whole breastfeeding in public thing. It seems to gross out a lot of people, and they want to treat women who are doing what is natural like they're doing something dirty. I grew up seeing women breastfeed and knowing my mom had S-E-X, and I'm certainly not traumatized. In a healthy culture, these shouldn't even be issues.

Tara said...

I heard my mom having sex when I was 14...it grossed me out and I couldn't even think about sex for a long time. Ugh...the thought of it right now makes me shudder.

Sarah said...

As a product of a divorced family, it is awful to hear your parents having sex with people who are not your parents. The girl overreacted, but 15 year old girls aren't known for their common sense.
As a parent, I find it tacky for the mother to be having loud sex with her child in the next room.

Tara said...

Btw...I agree & disagree with Ice Angel on this one. While I agree that the parent should have been discreet, the mom is also the adult and consenting adults can have sex. As the mother of 4 children, my husband and I are as discreet as possible, but sometimes you gotta take it when you can get it. And that's usually when the kids are in school, at a friends house, or at 4 in the morning. LOL ;-)

Shay said...

911 is for EMERGENCIES. That did not qualify as such, nor was it an offense that should (and could have) land the mother in jail.

Ice Angel said...

@MadLyb-I respect your opinion as well on this. But I'm not quite sure I see the parallel with breast feeding. A woman should have the right to feed her child anywhere she wishes-the child needs to eat, after all. And while sex is certainly a healthy act in and of itself, there are certain acceptable practices one should engage in while doing that, and the main one is doing it in private. You certainly wouldn't expect a couple to have sex at a table in a restaurant because it is a "normal bodily function." There is a time and a place.

While the woman is in her own home and in her own room, I question her judgement if she managed to wake her daughter at 4 a.m. in doing so.

That said-I do agree with everyone on the 911 thing. Not appropriate for the girl to make that call. However, it certainly doesn't let the mom off the hook in my eyes.

timebob said...

honestly the kid should of been arrested for abuse of emergency services.

billybob said...

Twenty years ago as my parents humped away in the room above me there was only one thought on my mind. Why is it that my fifty year parents manage to have a night of glorious sex while I'm sitting downstairs on a Saturday night with no date, no boyfriend and no way of ever getting my first bonk!

i said...

I agree with Rocket Queen. I don't think it was smart, and all the teenager had to do was KNOCK on the damn door. To call 911 was way over the line. And there would be repercussions because they were called. Does she call the police because mom ate all the cookies? Mom learned to be a bit more discreet, but daughter needs to know 911 isn't her simple problem solver.

Jessie said...

This seems like the girl was disturbed by hearing her mum goin at it and potentially the distress was further fueled by her christian beliefs and/or dislike of her
Mother's boyfriend. And it didn't necessarily have to be loud sex. I can hear my parents talk through the wall between my bedroom and theirs. It wakes me up sometimes, I don't call 000.

EleanorRigby said...

Sex is normal and a part of life. I also completely agree with brendalove.
I wouldn't want my future offspring to see/hear me and my husband having sex, but I would want them to know that having sex is healthy, and nothing to be shameful about.
The mother in this post has a boyfriend - she isn't a call girl. The daughter is WAY out of line.

EleanorRigby said...

Sex is normal and a part of life. I also completely agree with brendalove.
I wouldn't want my future offspring to see/hear me and my husband having sex, but I would want them to know that having sex is healthy, and nothing to be shameful about.
The mother in this post has a boyfriend - she isn't a call girl. The daughter is WAY out of line.

xoApril said...

I saw my mom and bet boyfriend having sex at age 9. My parents separated at age 4. My mom had shoved me and my brother off to bed early and we weren't tired. I came downstairs to get a drink and found her boyfriend giving it to her on the floor. I was 9 and very confused as we hadnt had the sex talk nor was sex Ed in school until grade 5. I've also been awoken when my mom was doing it with a guy she met at a bar and her bed was very noisy. Flat out disrespectful.
I'm surprised the teen turned into such a religious freak. Usually, daughters from young single moms go the other way - they're the ones caught having sex instead. I give the teen a pass - glad there's some innocent teenagers out there.

MonstersInc said...

I had to walk past my parents bedroom to get to the bathroom at night as a teenager and sometimes they were drunk and left the door open. I saw them have sex and my mom doing 'something' to my dad. I never told anyone and it still haunts me. I felt like I couldn't speak to them for weeks after. They have no idea I saw anything. I know they needed to have a sex life but PLEASE CLOSE THE DOOR!!

Lelaina Pierce said...

I saw my parents when i was really young and it DEFINITELY scarred me.

The daughter definitely overreacted (ahh, the drama of being a teenage girl), but the mom might wanna be quieter during future sexcapades.

jax said...

the daughter is a fuckin brat.

if i tried telling my parents what then can and can't do in THEIR HOUSE, my Dad would have driven me over to the shelter while my mom packed all my shit up.

the mom had a boyfriend and has every right to have sex in her house.

can't believe how uptight and prudish some of the comments are.

ardleigh said...

Saw my parents 2x's. Once I was VERY young and sick with fever. I plan to think I hallucinated it. The second time I was older and it was burned into my brain. I prefer to repress it.

My friend's mom was my mothers bestfriend. My mom's friend had a "naughty nightie" party. My friend and I eavesdropped. It's always special to know that your mom won a black silk gown because of how ENDOWED your father is. (head meet desk)

Mooshki said...

Daughter should've just put on some headphones and listened to music. People have sex. Lots and lots of sex. Parents or non parents. It is the epitome of "human nature." Yes, it's nice to be discreet, but it's not that big a deal.

abigail7881 said...

My parents only had sex 3 times in 47 (so far) years of marriage, and each time mom got pregnant. At least that's what my 30 year old mind wants to imagine!!

Robin the Mad Photographer said...

While I've never walked in on my parents getting busy (thank God), I was disabused of the notion that they were virgins many years ago after my mom told me that they decided I ought to be a happy baby, seeing as my conception was most entertaining! Oh, and I was a planned pregnancy, too...on one hand, it's comforting to know I was conceived in love (and more than a little lust), but I don't want to ponder the matter in any real depth (heh, heh, she said "depth"!). As I understand it, my siblings could tell similar stories... ;-)

As for the case here, mom might want to look into soundproofing, but assuming they were at least trying to be somewhat discreet and that this was a longtime partner and not a pickup, I'm not going to blame her too much. I also understand the daughter not wanting to hear mom & her sweetie having sexytime, but calling 911 over it is a stupid waste of emergency resources that could doubtless be better spent, and is incredibly bratty on her part. Sounds like it might be time for some family therapy, eh?...

ecua said...

Oh, for fuck's sake; there are REAL problems in the world, and this is not one of them! This kid needs to get a life. If she wants to be a good Christian girl, so be it. Sounds like her mom wants to have fun her own way. It was 4am, and she was having sex with her bf. Get over it kid, because there are children all over the world who have to deal with much worse than this.
And I agree with Jax: there are a LOT of prudes here.

misspoppypants said...

We don't even know the kid is actually a devout Christian. She may have just said that in a lame attempt to justify calling 911 and to shame her mother with comparative righteous fortitude. Given how media savvy kids are and used to both seeing and posting crap over you tube she may have hoped and even believed this would become viral---maybe not to the degree it has. You'd have to be an idiot or oblivious to our culture to not know frivolous 911 calls make headlines, particularly outrageous ones. This could have been straight up emotional manipulation for some 'slight.' I would have let her be taken to the shelter after that. Consequences for public humiliation, disrespect. This is a separate issue from Mom's perceived boundary crossing. Knock on the door, wall yell, gag, but how dare she abuse 911 in that way!! Above poster is right, dont be a brat and abuse 911 for revenge, melodrama or family therapy. She is straight up obnoxious and should apologize for abusing a service she does not even pay for. Entitled brat. 15 year olds are not naive about media or their resources.

misspoppypants said...

We don't even know the kid is actually a devout Christian. She may have just said that in a lame attempt to justify calling 911 and to shame her mother with comparative righteous fortitude. Given how media savvy kids are and used to both seeing and posting crap over you tube she may have hoped and even believed this would become viral---maybe not to the degree it has. You'd have to be an idiot or oblivious to our culture to not know frivolous 911 calls make headlines, particularly outrageous ones. This could have been straight up emotional manipulation for some 'slight.' I would have let her be taken to the shelter after that. Consequences for public humiliation, disrespect. This is a separate issue from Mom's perceived boundary crossing. Knock on the door, wall yell, gag, but how dare she abuse 911 in that way!! Above poster is right, dont be a brat and abuse 911 for revenge, melodrama or family therapy. She is straight up obnoxious and should apologize for abusing a service she does not even pay for. Entitled brat. 15 year olds are not naive about media or their resources.

LauraM said...

Ok, this girl does not need to get over herself. It was indeed very disrespectful of the mom to be doing that. Should she stop having sex? of course not, but just be discreet. people you live with should not really know when you're having sex. specially your kids.

lutefisk said...

I see nothing wrong with the mother having sex, but in the next room on a school night is probably not the best idea. It is midterm week in all of the high schools. The girl may have been stressed and this could have set her off.
My best friend in high school once walked in on her parents and was traumatized. Teenage girls at that age have all kinds of raging hormones This girl may have been having other problems and this pushed her over the edge. Calling 911 was way off. She should have spoken with her mother discretely.
This reminds me of the 40 Year Old Virgin when they were about to have sex, and the teen-age daughter walked in. She was upset that her mother could have sex, but she couldn't.

Fawn Neun said...

The kid's a pompous brat and like most 15-year-olds, needs to get over herself, stat.

As for the mother - she's a legal adult that has every right to have consensual sex in her own home. That's why it's fun to be a responsible grown-up. Because you you have 'rights'.

For those of you that think life ends after conception - the life of the mother, that is - you need to get over that, too. Mothers are real sentient human beings with needs that precede and survive the process of raising offspring. We cannot teach children to respect themselves and others if we allow them to treat their own mothers like service personnel, who come and go at their bidding and exist only to coddle little precious.

Parents have sex. Whether or not you are 'scarred' by the knowledge is up to you. Kids have been overhearing and walking in on their parents having sex for 10's of thousands of years, yet the species survives. How else do we teach our children to expect warmth, affection and passion in their own lives if we don't show that we have it in our own. So, sometimes parents are noisy. Kids have survived far worse.

The kids a brat, probably had a grudge, and should be grounded for abusing the emergency services.

EmEyeKay said...

I heard my mom and stepfather have sex, regularly, as well as my father and stepmother. My tween son regularly hears his father and stepmother having sex and isn't bothered by it. I was much more bothered by hearing my parents fighing, when they were still married, than by hearing them having sex. People have sex. My father is gone, but my mother and stepfather are obviously still enjoying their sex life (in their late 60s), and it makes me happy to know that they are.

Vicki Cupper said...

EmEyeKay, you bring up an interesting point. Americans don't bat an eye when it comes to fighting, but will flip their shit when it comes to sex. If her mother had been fighting with her boyfriend, I'm sure that little uptight princess wouldn't have done shit.

RenoBlondee said...

@Vicki and EmEye
You guys brought up perfect points. Love it.

B said...

I agree Vicki.I also am not surprised she's christian.They think it is their right to tell people how to live and behave.

Lori said...

Panama City is a suuuuper christian town...very southern bible belt-y and uber republican.

Principessa said...

Yeah, clearly the 911 call was meant to punish mom. Girl needs to learn consequences to her actions. Honestly it sounds like something I might have threatened to pull at age 15, when the world revolved around me and I was entitled to whatever I felt like. Parents don't live to serve their kids needs, and mom is certainly allowed to have sex with her LT lover in her own home. She doesn't need to "take it elsewhere", as was suggested, as I think leaving her daughter home alone on a school night is far worse than getting her rocks off at 4am.

As an aside, I don't understand all the comments from posters who refuse to acknowledge their parents right to a good sex life. Would you want your parents to be without good food, good friends, good health? Of course not. My prents are 61 and I'm hoping they have a good sex life, just as I hope to have one when I'm older. I haven't been weirded out by the idea of my parents having their own sexuality since I was a kid and I lived in their house. Grow up, and don't begrudge your parents right to a fulfilling, satisfying life.

Vicki Cupper said...

^^This^^