Although Clive Davis met with Whitney Houston's family prior to his famous pre-Grammy party Saturday night, they are really upset at him for letting the party move forward and feel he should have canceled it. I really don't feel the same way. If it had been any other hotel guest they would not have canceled the party. What if she had died at a different hotel? People had paid literally thousands and thousands of dollars for tickets to the party and that was non refundable. I think it would have been a huge mess to cancel it and then what would people have done? They would have gone somewhere else and still partied. Apparently the family is so upset at Clive that it is 50/50 whether he is getting an invitation to the funeral on Saturday. Please. Clive made Whitney. Full stop. They were incredibly close and they need to get over it and invite him. As for Bobby Brown. Keep him out.