How desperate are you to get married that you need to have a bridal shower while your husband to be is still married to his ex-wife? The whole Tiki Barber/Traci Lynn Johnson things has been a mess from day one and has been the downfall of Tiki. In case you are not up to speed on this mess, let me give you a recap. Tiki was married to a woman for 11 years. He got her pregnant with twins. Prior to her getting pregnant he started having sex with a college student. During his wife's pregnancy with twins he walked out on their marriage so he could keep having sex with a college student. He lost his job and people hate him but he is still getting married to the student who is now 24. Tiki's ex is making his life miserable as she should. Traci wants to get married and is having a bridal shower and wants to get married the day after the divorce is final.