Tom Gabel of the band Against Me! has given an interview to Rolling Stone where he comes out as transgender and says that he is beginning the process of becoming a woman. He says the most difficult part of the process is having to explain all of this to his wife who he says has been wonderful and that the two of them will stay married. They also have a two year old daughter. I think his wife will stay with Tom, who will be known as Laura Jane Grace in the future, for now, but I wonder if she even knows what life will be like living with another woman as your husband. Is his wife gay? See, this is where the whole transgendered thing is really hard for me to process. They were in a heterosexual relationship and now he is asking his wife to be in a lesbian relationship. Is his wife bisexual? You can't just make someone go from one to the other. I know there is love, but Tom/Laura is still going to be hot for his wife. His wife though may only like men. I can see them staying married, but maybe not together.