Colorado gunman, James Holmes was apparently rejected by three different women on Adult Friend Finder shortly before he went on his killing spree. I have seen people speculate that if he had hooked up with someone that he might not have done what he had done. He had been planning this thing for months and I don't think anything was going to stop him from carrying it out. When you put in your ad that you want someone to visit you in jail, I think that shows where he knew he was going to be. It is so strange that he surrendered. Usually that doesn't happen. I'm not sure if this happened in Los Angeles that they would have let him surrender. There were a lot of victim's family members at his first court appearance yesterday. I don't know if they have him on drugs or what, but he looked dazed and sleepy. And demonic.