Throughout the past few months when I told you that Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes had a private custody sharing agreement going on while Katie pondered Tom's $5M one year offer to stay married, Katie was also worried that Suri would not be returned to her as promised. There were several times where Katie had to be out of town while Tom had Suri and she always feared that Suri would not be there waiting when she got back. Her biggest fear was when she went to China last month. Katie knew she would be gone over a week and that Tom would figure out that Katie was there simply to get a huge paycheck which would help when she left Tom. It was right before going to China that she decided she would not take Tom's offer. She thought the bodyguards that came with her would somehow sense her decision and tell Tom and Suri would vanish into Scientology somewhere and Tom make some kind of announcement about SeaOrg. Apparently about six months ago Tom decided that Suri should start doing more intensive Scientology stuff to prepare her for life as a leader of COS. That is when Katie said no and that she was leaving him. Then Tom made the offer and that was where everything kind of stood until last week.