Sunday, November 18, 2012

Happy Anniversary Tom Cruise & Katie Holmes

Most years on this date I try and write a missive or an open letter to Katie Holmes about why she should leave Tom Cruise and break free. This year, I don't have to do that. I can share in her joy of freedom instead of mourning her 6th wedding anniversary. I wonder if Tom is ever going to see Suri again. We are well past the 100 day mark since he has seen her last. If you ever thought all those stories about Scientology splitting families was crap, I hope you have reconsidered. As much as I would like Suri to see her father, I also am grateful that she will probably not be sucked into the Scientology vortex that was inevitable if the couple stayed together. Katie Holmes to me looks like a struggling actress who happens to be a single mom. She is dressing a little worse, taking the subway more often than limos and attending fewer parties, but she looks happy. You can sense it. You can feel it. She broke free. She was in a cocoon for five years and was desperate to break free. No amount of luxury was worth more than her freedom or her child. Contrast that with Nicole Kidman who would still be reveling in all of that if Tom had not dumped her. I think that if Tom Cruise came calling right now that Nicole would divorce Keith Urban and get back with Tom. She is way too longing for what once was in her interviews and I feel like she never says anything nice about Keith that you would not say about the teacher of your 4th grader. They are nice. They have a warm heart. They are good with kids.

54 comments:

Nutty_Flavor said...

Enty, I thought your official line was that Nicole was paid to say those nice things about Tom.

Melinda9 said...

Yeah I was surprised by the stuff Nicole was saying about Tom in that last interview, it was like 'bitch, please - what are you gaining from this? you aren't fooling anybody.'

FrenchGirl said...

@Nutty_Flavor : +1

izz said...

I thought Nicole said that Keith brought her back to life and sexually awakened her, if most people said that about a teacher a lawyer a jail sentence or a firing would be happening

CarmeliteLady said...

I agree with Enty. I wouldn't be surprised if she was angling to be with him again. Why did he get rid of her in the first place? Was it that she was a supressive person and wouldn't support his being a big part of scientology? He made her the ice queen that she is according to Enty's blinds. Why should she keep living the way he taught her if she's over him? They were cute together,and it seemed real. I'd be willing to bet TC isn't gay, he just is very controlled and regimented. B/c of the Church of cash, and his own issues.

CarmeliteLady said...

Oh and go Katie! Watch her meet some sweet guy from old money and live out her days happily ever after. She deserves it.

Kiki K said...

I don't buy that Nicole wants Tom back. I've seen her on some Australian tv interviews recently and she is clearly very in love with Keith.

donner said...

Yea Katie!

SusanB said...

I would refer you guys to this article:

http://www.wtsp.com/news/article/282987/34/Federal-suit-Scientologist-spent-30-mil-to-cover-death

PuggleWug said...

I think Nicole is longing for her two eldest children, not Tom.

nancer said...

i think nicole got her heart broken. but when someone's done you that dirty, you can still feel the hurt without it meaning you want them back. i don't believe that for a minute.
as for katie, GO GIRL. i wish her nothing but the best.

bobbi_1025 said...

Hey guys I'm back! I ended up being admitted into hospital Wednesday and got released yesterday. I had to have a laparotomy instead of a laparoscopy due to the size of the mass and the fact that I had severe endometriosis that had attached to my bladder and bowel. The dr is optimistic that a lot of my previous stomach problems that other drs couldn't figure out were related to it. I'm in a hell of a lot of pain but got pain meds and hope that in a few weeks I'll be a new person. For the first time in awhile I am looking forward to and optimistic about not planning around the pain that might flare up.

Thanks to all of you for the prayers, hugs, well wishes, and words of encouragement. It means a lot to know that people care.

Oh and agent **it, I'm in Nassau county about 30 min outside Jacksonville.

timebob said...

agree with @puggle I think she is just trying to get back in Tom's good graces so he will give the go ahead for Bella & Connor to see their mother more often.

I loved all the PR sping that Tom was buying a private jet to fly Suri to London and buying new house in NYC to be closer to her. It was all such horeshit, Suri is the past now, he is looking for a new mare to breed.

seaward said...

Glad to hear the good news, bobbi :)

Miz said...

I know Nicole is known as an ice queen, but damnit I love her anyway. I really think she's happy with Keith and their kidlets, if not sad at the lack of relationship with her eldest two.

Apart from that, that is defo one of my favourite pictures of Katie and Suri. Tots adorbz.

@bobbi, glad to know you're doing ok, well wishes for a swift and permanent recovery!

goes in circles said...

Katie used to have great legs.

@bobbie
:)

SusanB said...

Great news bobbi1025!!!! Hopefully 6 months from now you'll forget you ever needed surgery!!!

Angela said...

I read that, I wonder how much they shell out annually for the shit they pull that we don't hear about.

White lilly said...

@bobbi, I'm happy to know you're ok now! Hang in there!!

I love this pic too, them seemed so happy!I also don't think Nicole wants Tom back, she may just want to see the kids more.

smash said...

Awesome Bobbi!!! I was thinking of you the last few days! Glad your are doing well. :)

auntliddy said...

Welcome back!!!!!!

auntliddy said...

Conor and bella are well old enough to contact their mother if they wish.

timebob said...

no they aren't @auntliddy since Nicole is a SP and that is off limits to contact in CO$. They aren't going to risk being labeled SPs themselves and cut out of the fold.

Renoblondee said...

Wow, I always wonder why so many are sympathetic to Katie. She knew what she was getting into. I don't buy the act. Please.
Love Nicole too. BTW, Tom was not into Scientology much when he was with Nic. He only went crazy into it after they split.

Jessie said...

Welcome back Bobbi!!!

PuggleWug said...

Tom was into Scientology when he was married to Nicole.

Miz said...

@pugglewug I think even though Tom was Co$ he wasn't the poster boy he is today. There was talk, I believe, that Nicole's influence meant he almost stepped away completely and they dragged him back.

MrPresident said...

Anna Torv / Fringe

InTheKnow said...

Katie is a really nice girl. I agree it's good to see her happy again. That took balls to do what she did to get out of that marriage before her time was up. That being said, she really should have known what she was getting into. He's not gay, but he sure is nuts.

I was flabbergasted when I saw Nicole gushing about him. I was not expecting that. At all.

babo said...

Bises :-)

Dagny said...

@bobbi Good to hear from you! You've been on my mind the past few days, I was wondering how you were holding up. Hopefully this surgery will make your daily life much easier! Be sure to keep us updated on your recovery! Best wishes!!

jennifer hansen said...

i think he divorced nicole b/c she wasn't fully committed to scientology and was still catholic

Nutty_Flavor said...

I thought he divorced her because she was screwing her fitness trainer.

Henriette said...

I thought Nicole was with the guy from Moulan Rouge. She was sleeping with him.

Hazeldazel said...

great news, bobbi!


I think with Nicole, she is angling to get in Tom's good graces so she can see the kids again - especially since he needs good PR again.

brittiany said...

@Bobbi im happy to see you back and feeling better. I have a question regarding your endometrosis. I am 27 and also have it. It's gotten unbearable. Can you tell me any treatments that have helped you? I'd really appreciate it. Im trying to decide my next move.

curlyhairslacker said...

@Reno, I agree with you about Katie. She knew what she was getting into with him.

@Bobbi-happy to hear the good news! Hope the pain goes away very soon. :)

califblondy said...

Your post is very optimistic Bobbi, good luck with everything. You sound great.

From what I've read about COS, once a relationship is over, it's dunzo. No going back. I hope Enty is wrong about Nicole being willing to go back with Tom. I was surprised at the recent article though and Nicole still talking about the Tom break-up. Jeez, will she really do or say anything to get a reaction?

Keith Urban versus Tom Cruise? There's no contest in my opinion and if Nicole screws it up, she's dead to me, dead I tell ya.

InTheKnow said...

@Henriette: Tom and Nicole divorced because she cheated on him (with Ewan McGregor), got pregnant (with Ewan's baby) and miscarried.

I don't really blame her, not that I condone cheating, but Ewan is hot, and Tom doesn't like to have sex.

dia papaya said...

Get news @bobbi. Glad you are in the mend!!! Hugs :)

@brittiany - Have you tried acupuncture and Chinese herbs? I had a lot of success treating endometriosis. Your young age is an advantage. Younger people tend to heal faster. Although a lot depends on the size of your cysts and amount of internal scarring. I would also eliminate estrogenic foods bc it aggravates cysts. Good luck!

https://www.acufinder.com/Acupuncture+Information/Detail/Treatment+of+Endometriosis+and+Fibroids+with+Acupuncture

http://www.livestrong.com/article/16099-foods-reduce-estrogen-dominance/

dia papaya said...

Sorry I'm on my phone and can't insert the hyperlink :(

Agent**It said...

Bobbi, glad you're better. I was hoping you would be close to Broward:)

Agent**It said...

dia, those are great sites !

Henriette said...

Yes, Ewan McGregor! Nicole went crazy for him.

BlindItemMe said...

im pretty sure it was on this site that i read about ewan and nicole's affair that ended her marriage to tom. gosh i just love nicole (i know, i know) she and ewan had amazing chemistry in that film. hope she and keith are happy.

brittiany said...

I've had surgery and undergone lupron therapy. The surgery helped for years. I will never have lupron therapy again. It makes you go through menopause for six months. My growths on my uterus don't look bad but they cause tremendous pain after intercourse and my menstrual cycles. It is much worse during times of stress. My husband left me six months ago and he was our main source of income. I have had acupuncture for back and neck pain and loved it however, I no longer have the money for it. I struggle every month to pay my bills and am living on canned food from my parents food pantry. The mall I work in has a place that is affordable that offers Acupressure therapy. Any advice on if it could be effective?

InTheKnow said...

@BlindItemMe that made me laugh out loud: "hope she and keith are happy."

dia papaya said...

I'm so sorry about all the stress. I totally understand! I'm not sure where you are but you may want to try community acupuncture (group treatments) or visit a local acupuncture college. Both offer reduced treatments costs.

I don't know about acupressure but it wouldn't hurt to ask? Big hugs to you!

AKM said...

Glad to see you back, bobbi!

Frufra said...

bobbi, glad to hear the surgery was a success. Take it easy and good to have you back around here!

feraltart said...

@bobbi, fantastic news! Glad to hear how great you are feeling. I found my bowels settled down after my hysterectomy & I slept better as well -endometriosis is a bitch.
@brittiany, so sorry to hear what you are going through. I totally sympathise, had a hysterectomy at 42 because I couldn't take the pain. My ob-gym told me my pain relief had to be more aggressive. I was taking Nurofen once the pain hit & it was too late, when I took it as soon as I felt my periods coming it was much better. I hope a more natural treatment works for you, as I am sure my liver didn't appreciate all the pain meds. Good luck & let us know how you go.

feraltart said...

^ that would be ob-gyn, not ob-gym.

brittiany said...

I've begged my mum for a hysterectomy since I was 13! The docs won't do it. Unfortunately the Only thing that helps me is Vicodin -which I cannot stand-. I just feel lost!

Silly Girl said...

@bobbi, welcome back! Glad to hear everything went well! LOVE the pain meds!