Saturday, December 29, 2012

Blind Item #3

This B+ list all movie actor in a huge franchise was expecting his still young C list actress/singer girlfriend with A list name recognition to tell him that she had lost her virginity at 15. He knew she had been crazy when she was a teen. What he did not expect to hear was that she was 12. With a guy in his 20's.

162 comments:

dia papaya said...

Eep!

JSierra said...

WTF IS GOING ON TODAY ENTY!!

Is it pedo Saturday and I missed the memo? I don't think any of us want to read about preteens loosing their virginity. At least I know I don't, it gives me the skeevies.

Tampa Shawn said...

I don't believe Miley did that at 12. She maybe wild now but I can't imagine any parent allowing that to happen so young with someone much older.

skimpymist said...

Miley

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supapimp said...

Where are the parents?

Happy final saturday of '12!

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MadLyb said...

It's another edition of "Tweeners and the Pedos who Deflower Them". I knew a lot of girls in Jr. High who were sexually active, but 12 IS a bit young, regardless, especially when it's a guy well out of high school. GROSS!

JoElla said...

Uugg Reeses bite your toung

Amber said...

If this is meant to be glaringly Miley today, then it's a big nod to the blind the other day about the lap dances.

mynerva said...

Miley is a C?

it took forever said...

Told you all gaston wasnt the first! Mileys's mom is way worst than the dad

Seachica said...

I'm not sure this is Miley. Is Liam really B+? His role in hunger games pt 1 was minor (I know it gets bigger), and I think they would have had this conversation years ago. Also, they are engaged, not Gf/bf. who is Demi dating these days? Or Selena?

JSierra said...

Damn, I hope not! I don't think I can handle that, lets hope for mainly funny/kindness reveals.

Anyone have any fun New Years Eve plans?

Call me yndy... said...

Miley isn't a C and Enty almost always describes her as "former tweener" not singer/actress...
But yeah, can we quit with the "she was only a child!" sex blinds? We all know that it happens, but it causes speculations about the victim, not the perpetrator. Unless the 20-something guy is someone we should know or who will be outed instead.

SusanB said...

Oh, I've got great New Years Eve plans. I mentioned yesterday Mr. B had the worst cold in the history of civilization. Today he woke up grey and a fever of 101. Took him to an urgent care facility, he has pneumonia. He's back home with steroids, antibiotics and some codeine cough medicine. So I think we'll be spending New Year's Eve asleep.

funkyniblets said...

Who is Taylor Momsen dating?

goes in circles said...

I am not condoning sex with minors, but there is a difference between a pedophile and statutory rape.
Pedophiles like sex with children, prepubescent.

Nellie said...

This is rape. Even if she acts cool with it, like its a sign of a wild sexy life. It's rape and her wild sex antics now are probably a direct result of trying to validate and justify away the pain and confusion and shame of events like this.

E Gee Be said...

Yay JSierra for trying to turn this thread in a different direction! We celebrate with our best friends and watch the ball drop in NY, toast, hug, kiss each it her then head home since it will only be 9 pm our time. My son always has a group of friends over and I serve them all pasta, garlic bread and crab, then make them all spend the night so I'm not worried about them. New Year's Day is always spent at the beach, followed by our favorite pizza in north beach. Take good care of Mr. B, Susan!

Sugar said...

No 12 year old is capable of making a mature and informed decision about sex.

PuggleWug said...

I would say Miley is a C listers. She hasn't been doing too Mich lately, other then Two and a Half Men. With the Hunger Games franchise, and its fanbase, I can see how Liam would be B+ in that respect. God, when I was 12, I was still secretly playing with Barbies. Too young.

PuggleWug said...

Argh! *Much, not Mich*

JSierra said...

I'm glad Mr.B is at home and getting better! Hopefully some syrup and sleep will have him feeling good as new in no time.

E Gee that pasta sounds really good right now! So does spending New Years Day on the beach, I'm going to be spending it looking at tumbleweeds and winter scrub. Hopefully we will get some snow to cover it all up.

markla said...

@funkyniblets - Don't think Momsen is dating anyone famous; and in one of her songs she says she was 13.

urban chaos said...

Hope MrB feels better soon! we have a nasty case of germs floating around our house too! Thanks to family that didn't get the memo you don't bring a full on sick, rashly, feverish child to Christmas dinner filled with loads of little ones..

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Unknown 1 said...

Who in Miley's camp is calling in all these blinds to Enty? Everyday it's Miley giving lap dances, Miley losing her virginity, Miley having threesomes on set, Miley worried about losing Liam, and on and on.
New Year's Eve is going to be a quiet one with champy, dog, me and hubby probably passing out around 9:30pm.

Cara said...

I read this as Hayden Pannitiere, or however you spell her name. Is she dating someone that would fit?

MacAttack said...

I'm getting more annoyed at the faux outrage every time there's a blind like this more than anything else on this site. If you don't like it, either ignore it or don't comment, simples. saying stuff like, "oh, this is disgusting. i'm not going to comment on this" is pointless!

Roman Holiday said...

Yes, @ MacAttack!

SusanB said...

Thanks guys for all the kind words. That codeine cough medicine has knocked him out - he says he didn't sleep much last night. I told him he's on house arrest until next Wednesday - he's not allowed out of the house.

@Reeses - the weather here doesn't help. High of 86 today, low of 50 tonight. I'm trying to keep the windows open but he either gets too hot or too cold. What part of NC are you in? I grew up in Durham.

Maggie Casey said...

This does sound like Miley. I can't stand her and wish she would go away, but I always got a weird vibe between her and her dad, and it wouldn't shock me if she was being sexually abused by older men. Do y'all remmember Himm last year was saying how Tish Cyrus was one of the worst stage moms and we all were wondering about that? Maybe she was forcing Miley into sex when she was young. Ugh, now I feel bad for MIley

DBZee said...

Cara, I always want to call her Hayden Panini or pronounce her name like those fancy Christmas desserts in the red box!

12 is way too young to make that choice, and the 20yo is a perv if he knew she was only 12. I'm looking at my 13 (almost 14) yo son and imaging a woman in her 20s seducing him and the rumble that would follow. I'm pretty open about teens and what's eventually going to happen, but the combination of tween and the huge age difference is not ok.

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Christopher Cruz said...

I know of worse... When I was in fourth grade, a girl in my class had sex with a sixth grade boy... I wish I was kidding, but I'm not.

moussemaker said...

I think this is Liam and Miley.

dia papaya said...

I just got over the most horrible lingering bug and totally feel your pain. I didn't have pneumonia but the docs thought I did at one point. I'm not a big fan of steroids but it's the only thing that finally worked. Pneumonia is seriously bad news. I'm glad you caught it early.

Lots of fluids and love from a lovely wife! Hopefully Mr B will be on the mend soon.

phoenix said...

They just get younger and younger.. the (fill in an age) going on 30 mentality of present day kids, if you can still realistically call them that anymore after the age of 10.

Robin the Mad Photographer said...

Christopher: That's not good at all (and kids that sexually precocious most likely were abused at some point), but at least they're much closer to being peers age-wise, as opposed to someone in their 20s with a young adolescent just past puberty. It's not pedophilia per se, and, granted, was much more socially acceptable years ago (it was not unknown for girls to marry at 13 or 14; IIRC Laura and a friend discuss a recently-married 13-year-old in one of the Little House books, and Loretta Lynn was married at 13 and a mother by 14), but these days it's just not OK.

dia papaya said...

I'm not taking the bait today on all these pedo blinds aka "I hate Miley" blinds. Leave poor Miley alone.

If we (society, media, entertainment) keep sending kids and adults mixed messages, stories like this will become the norm. This girl in particular was probably surrounded by adults from a very young age and expected to act like a professional adult in her job, so in her mind she's just more mature than a "regular" 12 yo. It's still gross and creepy and illegal. But we keep dressing up little girls in overly sexy outfits and promoting sex over brains, well this is the future we are creating for our youth.

*Sorry that sounds way harsh. Dia Downer!!! Can't feign mock horror today over this after the tragedy in India. We need to take better care of our girls and women. Any ideas?*

Sherry said...

Okay while it sounded like I advocated early sexual behavior this is predation at the worst. A 12 yr old is just not emotionally mature enough and the age gap is definitely statatory rape.

White lilly said...

@SusanB, So sorry for Mr.B!! Hope he feels better soon!!

@JSierra, I do!! I'll be over my in-laws for the New Year's dinner. We'll go to the beach a little before midnight to watch the fireworks, then come back home to eat and after that we'll be going to a club with some friends. Fun night!!!!

Mango said...

@ SusanB - That codeine cough syrup in the brown bottle ROCKS. It will calm the worst cough and let your Mr get some blessed sleep! Be careful not to spill it or use to frequently because they usually won't refill it.

Not sure what my NYE plans are yet. Not sure if I want to attend a party or stay home and avoid the crazies on the road.

Mango said...

*too frequently

Kati Simons said...

I dont think this is Miley. I heard she list it to Thomas Sterges(sp?) When she was 15.

Sunny said...

@E Gee Bee
*checking flights on Southwest airline*
Your New Years sounds HEAVENLY!

Renoblondee said...

@Reeses and @Susan I live near Greenville, NC. My husband has to go to Edenton quite a lot for work! Hi!

LuLu said...

this is annoying!
who are you ostriches burying your heads? PULEASE! find a Christian blog where you resonate, but quit your complaining! Its a free world and last i looked this was Enty's masterpiece. This is about reality; not you smothering and suffocating Hollywood with your 'make-believe' template. Yup Im talikn to you, JSierra, ReesesPeace
E Gee Be , Call me yndy... , dia papaya. Highjacking a thread to blabber on about your boring lives sicknesses kids dogs and pasta is not cool. Start your own damn blog and focus on the mundane. Thank YOU MacAttack... faux outrage is right!

annabella said...

a 20 year old w/a 12 year old is not statutory rape, its actual rape. a 12 year old cannot consent.

MadLyb said...

Holy shit, Lulu.

goes in circles said...

Ha!

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White lilly said...

@LuLu, hi troll!

Then the same goes to ya, huh? Don't like we talk about, don't stay or at least read our comments...

Jessie said...

LuLu this is the fourth post today about underage girls having sex so what has been said in the other threads will just be repeated here.

On NYE my friends and I will be having a picnic in N. Sydney to watch the fireworks because one of the girls has a friend from Sweden over. Otherwise I think we would have stayed local this year.

SusanB said...

@lulu and her sympathizers - obviously Enty approves of what we talk about - he could easily delete comments he doesn't like, or set up new rules, etc. He does seem to enjoy what we have to say, whether it's on topic or not - perhaps that's one reason he has us send our pictures in so he can post them so we feel more connected to each other. Perhaps you guys would be happier on a different gossip site - Perez Hilton comes to mind. Or TMZ. They seem to enjoy the bitchiness more.

dia papaya said...

Someone woke up cranky!

Love you CDaN ladies!!!

LuLu said...

i totally 'get' that the underage sex is hard to digest. it seems so unbelievable to me, but that's life. i just hate the complaining and the highjacking... hard to sift thru... its like Enty cant win. Truth is Im just scared one day he will just go away because people never seem to be grateful. When he used to post Ted blinds the complainers would squawk immediately, now they complain its all fabrication and lies, or he is copying the DM, or there are 2 of him, or that he is not he, or that he needs a proof reader. My gawd! I really dont want him to tone it down for the faint of heart...

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LuLu said...

@ReecesPEACE Thanks, i seem to have a very short fuse as i get older. i rarely comment but got very defensive today thinking you guys were inhibiting reveal day with your *outrage*. I do value this blog and all the comments (other than the complaints and highjacks) so thank you for contributing ;) Happy New Year. Peace ReecesPeace!

The Black Cat said...

Lulu, you have every right to express yourself without being called a twat, I really hope some of you think before you hit the send button next time. To Lulu's point I wonder if some get this blog and Facebook mixed up. It's great you have made friends but take it offline, you know, like NORMAL people do.

Sunny said...

@The Black Cat
Hi there! I am asking this question in all sincerity (we nicely resolved our differences a couple months back - thanks!) What's the best way to go about finding someone without having to post an e-mail address or one's full name (to find them on FB)?

I have been lucky that some brave souls posted their e-mail addresses on CDAN so I could talk to them outside the blog, but I would never do that myself. I haven't been comfortable making my e-mail address available through my profile, but is that how your group found each other? Seriously, enquiring minds want to know! :)

Syko said...

I think it's really unfortunate that Lulu should feel she needs to apologize for her short fuse, when she's the one who was called a twat and told to go fuck herself.

This isn't the place to discuss cold symptoms, potty training or menstrual cramps. Those of you who want to do that, please leave and start your own chat room.

The Black Cat said...

@Sunny, since you are all friends why not why not post a message on Enty's FB page? That is how someone reached out to me a while back. You could create a group on Facebook also and request others to join.
You can be sure none of the long time readers who have been made to feel unwelcome and suggested that they should go away will be joining your group if there are any concerns with that.

Sunny said...

@Black Cat
OK. Thank you for the suggestion. I didn't realize you still had an issue with me, but thank you for clarifying that as well.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend :)

White lilly said...

I just don't get the whole meaness one to another :(

astrogirl said...

This place is just like High School sometimes.

astrogirl said...

It seems hypocritical to me for people to gush over reader photos, then get annoyed when people go OT. Isn't that why this place is special? Because we care about each other and can call on each other for support or advice? Anyway that's how I feel.

MacAttack said...

wow, that escalated quickly...

i don't think it really counts as hijacking a thread when it's dying and everyone has the same answer.

The Black Cat said...

@Sunny, I have nothing against you, never did.

White lilly said...

@astrogirl, so... I tried to google "OT" but came up with "Old Testament" and "Occupational Therapy". Don't think it's what you meant... lol
Pleease... ? Non-English speaking person here :D


@The Black Cat puuuurrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!

astrogirl said...

Sorry OT = off topic

E Gee Be said...

@white lily- OT= off topic

dia papaya said...

@white lily, OT = off topic!

Your New Years plans sound great. Send some sunshine my way please :)

AND I have an OT topic for you but now where should I post it???

E Gee Be said...

@dia- how about the how to get rid of your Christmas tree post? That one's not getting much action....

PuggleWug said...

Don't read the posts that are off topic, problem solved. These blinds are supposed to be shocking, if people don't react the way you'd like, tough. Lulu singled others out for no reason other than being pissed over not talking about a 12 year old Miley Cyrus and her sex life. These threads turn into junior high the minute someone disagrees with another. It is bullshit.

PuggleWug said...

Dia, post your OT comment here. If people don't like it, they don't have to read it.

dia papaya said...

Thanks PuggleWug and E Gee Be! Too much drama today.

@White Lilly - wanted to ask you about Joao de Deus. He was featured on Oprah recently and I'm SO curious. Do you know anyone who has gone to see him? Is he real? You are my Brazil connection and therefore an expert on all things Brasil! No pressure ;)

Audrey said...

I'm with Lulu. This is a gossip blog. We come here for salacious content, not to talk about our husbands' fevers (yawn). The comments section can be very cliquish, and therefore pretty boring to those not in the "In Crowd". Hijacking the comments section is just uncool and selfish.

White lilly said...

@astrogirl, @ E Gee Be, @dia, thank you guys, I feelt so stupid, lol


About João de Deus... well, yes, he's real and a lot of people go to see him, though I don't know anybody who has. I don't know what to say because I think it is so strange. While the whole reencarnation, and all the things he says it happens to him I believe, yet the fact that he does those procedures on people without no real medical knoledge it's so crazy. It is intriguing, I always ask myself about that, if he's for real, if that stuff works...

There was another spiritual guide that people went to see called Chico Xavier but he didn't do anything like João does. He just advise people, sometimes gave them messages from people who had already died, but those medical surgeries... no!

dia papaya said...

Thanks White Lilly! I'm done with OT today.

White lilly said...

@Dia or whoever who would want to talk to me, send me an email to: white.lilly.justforu@gmail.com and I'll send my fb name and real email :D

But, you know, I don't mind OT comments but I also understand people getting upset about it. But just because there are some OT comments doesn't mean some people or even everybody can keep talking about the subject of the post. There are over 6 billion people, in the world, not everyone will see/agree with your point of view :)


My last OT to @dia, do check about the other guy, I'm pretty sure you'll find him interesting! :)

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WUWT? said...

1) At 12, it is not "losing your virginity" it is being molested/raped.

2) Who is this adult co-star who thinks asking a "still young" co-star about her sexual history is appropriate? And then shares her answers with others (sourcing the blind)? He strikes me as skeevy as well.

3) The blinds are the reason for this blog, but the OT threads are the life of it. In my opinion.
(Heh, I just imagined myself at a get-together serving great brownies, and someone asks where I got the recipe, and I answer, "Eh, it was more interesting than discussing pedophiles.")

dia papaya said...

Right on WUWT! I can only talk about pervs for so long. Maybe that's just my ADHD kicking in. Just like a puppy - Squirrel!

And Robin's brownies are so freaking good!!!

MLE said...

@The Black Cat, it's kitties like you that give black cats a bad reputation.

Robin the Mad Photographer said...

Hope this doesn't count as hijacking per se, since it's still gossip of a sort: Over on DListed, there's the sad tale of a straight actor who's feeling just a wee bit too squicked about having to play a gay man:

http://dlisted.com/2012/12/29/straight-actor-grossed-out-thought-playing-gay-guys

Um, dude? It's called ACTING for a reason, you know--you're doing the (kindasorta) adult version of playing dress-up and "let's pretend" and playing a character. If it really bothers you that much, you might ask your agent to not send you out to audition for those roles, but you're limiting yourself unnecessarily; lots of actors out there have played roles very different from their own personalities--and I'm not talking gay here; I'm thinking of serial killers, cannibals, cannibal serial killers, etc. etc. etc.--but they don't make a huge fuss about it; they just get down to business and do whatever needs doing to make the character convincing...and hey, sometimes they even win awards for doing it. You'll get a much better rep w/directors, casting people, etc. if you do likewise, OK? (The Brits seem to be especially good at being matter-of-fact about going all out for a difficult role w/out getting way too Method about it, but they're not the only ones.) OK, rant over, but sheesh, do I get a whiff of "protesting too much" here?...

PuggleWug said...

I do understand what Audrey meant about "cliques". It took me awhile to comment here, due to the fact that there seemed to be a group of people who seemed to know each other very well, talking about gossip, and their own life. I started coming here after my dad died to get mindless entertainment. I finally decided I should just comment and not give a shit if I fit in. Luckily, most people are pretty nice here! I do hope people don't choose not to comment due to feeling like an outsider among folks who know each other.

astrogirl said...

Being bilingual makes you anything but stupid White lilly

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Robin the Mad Photographer said...

WUWT & dia: Aw, thanks! I'm starting to wonder if I should ask Enty pretty please to just post the damn recipe on the site somewhere w/a link so whoever wants it can get it anytime...you think he'd go for it? ;-)

Speaking of recipes, here's a new one I just discovered through reading fanfic, of all things...not my usual reading material, but I saw the recipe in a chatroom, following the link to the story that inspired it, and, well... ;-)

*Porno Pancake Syrup*

1/4 cup (1/2 stick) butter
1/4 cup brown sugar
1/3 cup real maple syrup
1/2 cup Jameson Irish Whiskey
pinch of salt

Melt butter, add brown sugar, and cook several minutes until sugar is thoroughly dissolved, as if you were making fudge (but not that long or at that high a temperature). Add syrup, stir in well, and then add Jameson & salt. Simmer gently until slightly thickened, but don't boil if you can help it. Let cool, and store in the fridge if you're not going to guzzle it all immediately. (Note: sometimes the butter seems to separate a bit and rise to the top after it's been in the fridge for a while; just stir it up and warm it in the microwave for a few seconds, stirring again afterward.) If you don't happen to have pancakes or waffles handy, it's also scrumptious on vanilla ice cream, or dribbled on your S.O. (mind it's not too hot!), but I haven't had the chance to try that latter one out yet, so you're on your own there; due to the butter content, though, I doubt it's latex safe. (PS: While you probably could use rum or another kind of whiskey, I recommend sticking w/the Jameson, both for the flavor and for the sake of maintaining fidelity to the original story. ;-)

Bon appetit!

astrogirl said...

I agree Lisa B. Sunny to me is pure light and joy, I think she is one of the kindest people on here :)

PuggleWug said...

Robin, did you read the article that the guy wrote? It basically was talking about how he was uncomfortable, and not sure why he was, and how bad he felt for feeling that way. He went into studies on the subconscious. My dad was gay. I love and miss him everyday. While I was fine with him, I was a bit uncomfortable around others who were gay, since I was never exposed to it prior to reconnecting with my dad. I felt awful about it, and had no idea why I felt that way (I'm fine now, this was when I was 12). I suppose I can understand a bit of what the actor was saying. Annnnnnnnnd that was off topic. Sowwy!!!!

White lilly said...

@astrogirl, thanks, that's so nice of you! I guess that when I'm here I kinda think I need to speak perfectly, specially because I taught English as a second language for awhile. :D


@Robin the Mad Photographer, awwwwwwwwesome!!!!!


@PuggleWug I sometimes feel left out too because I usually get here way after most people so I'm kinda "talking by myself", lol. But gotta say, thats an adorable puppy!

Yeah, yeah, I'm OT, so? :P

Chicky said...

What they both said...

dia papaya said...

PuggleWug - I started reading after my dad died too. I was devastated and needed something to cheer me up! Met a lot of nice people here and I am grateful for this site. People like Sunshine Sunny, really embraced me when I first arrived a wreck with my grief.

Diversity is the spice of life! The more the merrier I always say.

dia papaya said...

Love you White Lilly! Can't wait to visit Brazil and have you show us around!!! Party Carnival!!!

White lilly said...

@Dia, awe, thank you, lovely Dia!! Love you too!!!
You're more than welcome here in Brazil, you're gonna love it!

Renoblondee said...

Yes, Sunny is an absolute sweetheart. She has never been negative on here.
Sigh. This happens every so often. We'll muddle through!

Tuxedo Cat said...

Whether or not this is Miley Cyrus, the parents have done an epic fail. Believe me, I have a tweener and I would not want to have to say no to one with a few million dollars, but like anything else with kids, you have to start early and keep on the same path eg. sex ed.

Perhaps a family therapist would have been able to intervene and provide reinforcement for the parents.

fancyscreenname said...

Variety is the spice of life. Shout out to LULU and her brass set of balls for "going there". LOL

I am not bothered by the off topic stuff, I usually just scroll down if I don't find it entertaining. But one time a.thread veered off to a discussion of periods, I think, a couple of posters didn't find it to their liking and started to mock the comments and I was a second away from telling them to fuck off and shut up. I quickly regained my composure and smacked myself across both cheeks for having such a Communist thought.

I would never want to livein a world where everyone thought the same same and held the same opinion aaaalllll the time. That isjust scary and unnatural. People are going to disagree.

Such is life.

We are all.adults, just keep posting....

I am not a.fan of rudeness, but sometimes it goes there. put on your big girl panties and brush it off.

WUWT? said...

I know most people are in agreement about the personal asides here, but for those who aren't, I just have a question:

Do you think of [Random Poster] as "the one who thought [Nicole Kidman] when I thought [Reese Witherspoon] on that one blind," or do you think of [Random Poster] as the funny one, the oboxious one, the one whose father had a stroke, the one whose dog was put down this summer, the one who has met [famous person]?
For me, a big part of what makes this a blog worth visiting are the interpersonal connections in the midst of the gossip. I personally would be bored discussing only who's [dating] who in Hollywood. I don't necessarily relate to every OT thread, and I don't need to, but I like that others are making connections, here and anywhere it happens.

Andy said...

So 100 posts later, do we have a suspect?

fancyscreenname said...

ADDENDUM ....

1. same same...*same thing

2. I am a fan of rudeness if said rudeness is dispensed By Lord Baldwin. He's such a curmudgeon. And cute to boot. I'd never refer to HIM as a bloated old fart
;-)

kelgela2 said...

Miley is not the only singer/actress/tweener/former tweener in the world.


Pick someone else.

JSierra said...

@Lulu my bad. From now on I will preapprove all my posts with you, ok?

This is the comment section where we are allowed to post our thoughts and feelings on the post, and ultimately anything we want. I posted my feelings and posted what I wanted to post. Just like you did. It's a free blogosphere girl.

And I am not sure where you got the whole Christian bit. Last I checked everyone was allowed to be grossed out by this shit, it is not limited to your religion.

JSierra said...

I can agree about how some comments can come off as cliquish. I was really intimidated to comment at first and honestly, for some reason got a little offended when I would and no one would respond. Then I just said "fuck it" and started commenting left and right.

My advice to those who think it can be cliquish is don't by shy! Just because we are up each others butts constantly doesn't mean that we won't want to be up yours either. For the most part everyone on here is pretty great and honestly, I barely read the posts anymore. I come mainly for the comments and my CDAN friends.

But I like how there were so many complains about this post being off topic and we have veered off into several different directions despite it.

There is a real world beyond my keyboard and it is a mighty fucked up world indeed. I am aware of that. I can handle it. But that doesn't mean I want to spend every second thinking about it and commenting on it. No sense beating a dead horse. I can't go back in time and unrape Miley or who ever this is, so why create this big hullaballoo when I don't want anything to do with it anyways.


E Gee Be said...

Exactly what I was thinking

All about Eve said...

@white Lilly, sent you and email :) great idea!

All about Eve said...

Sounds like Miley but who knows if its true.

I also find these type of blinds sad and as a mom, very scary but it is a gossip site.

I love the OT comments! It adds to the fun! If I don't find it interesting I just keep scrolling but I have to agree with Audrey with the clique comment. It took me a while to comment also because I don't "know" anybody but so far it's been fun :).

Jenn said...

A few close girlfriends of mine had sex with their boyfriends at 12. Looking back now, they regretted it, but at the time, they wanted to do it, to 'prove they were grown up'. Boys kept the cooties til I was about 17, and frankly, sometimes, my husband still has them.

Agent**It said...

SusanB, Don't forget we're close by. Give a shout out if you need anything, including a mental health moment for yourself or an adult beverage or two. Glad you are ok DIA.

Agent**It said...

Robin I have the brownie recipe memorized. Thanks for the above. New Year' s brunch is now resolved. We used to go to Lockeober's(spelling?) for a Jameson' s after work back in the day:)

Leah said...

If people only knew how beautiful that area of NC is, they'd swarm there. We had a vacation home on Lake Phelps for years, until the big fire. My family still owns the acreage there, and my brother hopes to rebuild there someday.

Agent**It said...

Lulu, if all that frightens you in this world today is Enty 'going away' one day then you are a lucky lass or lad, indeed. As far as Enty "can't win"... ching ching ?? The Entities are winning, as they should. Seems to me that since day one Enty has always taken the time to thank his readers for making his blog what it is, good, bad or ugly. I believe that is how this masterpiece makes money.

Agent**It said...

LisaB, thanks for your comment. Sunny is so positive that she cheers me up, and that ain't easy these days:) Glad to see you back.

At the risk of sounding cliquish, where is OmamaIsBroko, LittleOldLady (not quite how she spells it) and Texshan? Disclaimer: I don't know them, just wondering if OK.

FSP said...

Good question Agent**It. There are a few regulars who have seemed to have dropped off.

Agent**It said...

FSP, I think it's the fault of the 14 year old fart child reader:)

FSP said...

LOL Thanks for the Sunday morning laugh!

Audrey said...

I think Texshan left as a result of all the Republican/conservative bashing that occured in the comments section during the election. Some people on this blog really like to pile on others, hence my cliqueishness comment above. Honestly, sometimes I think the maturity level of some responses to unpopular comments show as much maturity as those tweeners they "hate" to read about.

fancyscreenname said...

Snide remark?

fancyscreenname said...

@agent.....if u have something to say spit itout. I am here to enjoy myself and will continue to do so.

Audrey said...

It's Sunday, why the fuck not? I've had it thrown my way on here a few times and I survived... ;)

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fancyscreenname said...

@Audrey....;-)

Audrey said...

I totally understand where you're coming from, Reeses. For the record, I too come here for the comments and don't mind some OT stuff. But, what I didn't like was for one person to decide that she did not want to address the BI, and instead talk about what she wants to. Then all of her followers did what they do best, follow.

It's great that people have made friends on this blog. But if I want to chat with my friends, I take it off line and leave the comments section for actual guesses or on point comments.

But, this is an unmoderated blog, so we are all free to post what we want and when we want. It's rightly up to each commenter to decide what they want to put out there for the public to disect.

Mama Ray said...

I'm super late in the game to chime in, but I am also a long time lurker that often wants to contribute, but rarely do. This is in part due to the clique factor, but mostly because by the time I'm online it has been a few hours and feel like I'd be posting to an empty forum. That being said, I often enjoy the off topic comments as much as the on topic ones... Makes it feel like a real community. If you just want stories and no personal comments there are plenty of other gossip sites that offer that as well. For me the personal connection amongst the commentors is why I like this blog so much, even though I rarely post!

JSierra said...

Audrey you can address me directly, you seem to have no problem calling out others for what you don't like about them.

Scroll down if you don't like what I post. That's what I do to you, no one is required to read and reply to every comment.

JSierra said...

Welcome Mama Ray! Sorry you had to come in on a slightly unfriendly post

Mama Ray said...

The name calling and bickering gets way too personal though. No need to take it to a disrespectful level. We all obviously need a nice distraction in our day, and I'm looking for a little humor to take the edge off the stresses of being a mom of 3 kids under 10. Today I feel like I'm getting the same bickering here as at home!
Here is my final thought, in form of haiku!

This site should be fun
Can't we all just get along
For the love of Enty

For someone who doesn't post I guess I had a lot to say! While that wasn't my finest haiku, who cares, I'm posting to myself anyway right? I'm sure you all left here hours ago! ;)


Mama Ray said...

Aw thanks! :)

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Mama Ray said...

The insanity of it all is the beauty of this site! ;)

Sunny said...

1) Thank you folks above for your very kind words :)

2) I feel like every few months we have a big freakout like this, and then the dust settles. My takeaway is for us stinkers to try to respect all sides. I have really tried to cut back on my off off topic convos (yes, I realize I was out of control with my product recommendations BUT I STILL DO LOVE THOSE GD MAGIC PANTS) and if I really need to vent my non interwebs friends get an earful.

3) I hope we can all find a healthy balance so everyone can enjoy this lovely little blog without the drama.

I am going to try to take a teeny tiny break until REVEALS DAY. WOOOOOOOHOOOOOOO (except Readers Photos. I just can't stay away. I think it's the (non-pervy) voyeur in me.

Sunny said...

Although part of me wants to keep talking to bring this fucker to 200. Kidding!!!!

Mama Ray said...

Also, for what it's worth, I thought Lulu was trippin too, but was surprised to see you take it to that level! You apologized though and deleted it, so we should be moving on! Keep posting off topic whenever you want tho! I for one enjoy it! :)

FSP said...

Team Sunny

White lilly said...

I think it is very awful when things get nasty. But sometimes it does and the fact that Reeses apologizes makes a huge difference. We're all human and sometimes stuff like that will happen. The OT comments, reader's photos, nasty BIs post on the RHW (whiche I hate, lol) are all part of the blog. It's pretty impossible to please everyone, but I understand that not everyone sees that way so I don't take it personally when people get all nasty, though find it really unecessary. Plus, some people just come here to be trolls, let them have it, lol

OT from the OT, @Mama Ray, you have 3 kids under 10? Wow, I admire you and anyone who does that. My sister has 2 under 5 and she goes completely insane because the little one still doesn't sleep through the night. I consider having kids in about 2, 3 years and wish for a large family but I really think I can't handle it, lol. Oy, I'm not even pregnant and already so anxious about it, lol

dia papaya said...

Mama Ray! Welcome :)

Love your haiku!!! Thanks for sharing.

Go CDaN Go!!!





dia papaya said...

Look, I listen to others talk about their problems for my job. If the convo changes to sick hubby I just go with the flow and provide support. We all need some love and support during these crazy times. And I feel like this place brings us together in a (mostly) respectful way. At the end of the day we are all just humans trying to muddle through - regardless of our differing political or religious views. I come to CDaN for the human part, otherwise I'm just reading NE or some other rag by myself.

Roman Holiday said...

Wow I can't believe this is still going - my two cents:) Working towards the 200 Sunny:)

Agent**It said...

"opinionislikeafart"? so,you are telling us that's who you are on a previous thread?

Mama Ray said...

Yes! I have 10 & 7 yr old daughters & 3 yr old son! Very amazing and rewarding being a mom, but definitely exhausting! Especially now girls are older & easing into hormones while dealing with three yr old sons energy! It's the best though! (I do work part time, which helps keep it in perspective - too much at home only & you start to forget that you used to be your own person once before kids were your whole life!) Luckily I have a wonderful husband & both our parents live close by so an amazing support system helps keep it from being too overwhelming! (That and an occasional cocktail! Lol!) I don't sleep much, but more from insomnia than kids!

Mama Ray said...

Thanks! (I'm a dork!) Went from never posting to over-posting all in the same thread! :)

The Black Cat said...

Lisa B, congratulations on winning the prize for the dumbest thing written on the Internet. You may be able to read and write but comprehension is clearly not a strong point, lacking I would say. I'm sure your kin must be so proud.
I don't mind getting dirty playing with the pigs so I would never say I was leaving and never coming back, those that are not here anymore got fed up with the hypocrisy of reading various opinions and then when they stated theirs, got attacked and bullied. Not just Texshan but others too. Some just got fed up reading bullying, name calling posts even though they weren't personally being attacked because that was not the way things used to be around here. Here's a direct quote from one very long time reader, "I don't have the energy to spare on these creeps". Good job alienating people, keep up the great work, bitches! While you sit there thinking you are all so great that is just your opinion. What I can't stand is being accused of something I'm not and typing something I didn't because that's just plain lazy on the part of whoever is attacking me. But to give them the benefit of the doubt I'll say they have difficulties comprehending the English language, even though it may be their mother tongue.
I know many of you have admitted to being on medication for different mental disorders/diseases and maybe this is why you go off for no reason, I guess it's better to go off on someone online that in real life, but yeah, I guess I was out of line expecting some people to behave like NORMAL people when it is clearly impossible.
Yes I dared to state an opinion that differs to many of your own, but I don't give a crap about your precious feelings as several of you have made it very clear you don't give a crap about mine.
It is interesting that you get into fights when none of the long time readers are posting so you cannot blame them now like you used to.

White lilly said...

@Mama Ray, I think that's awesome. And I agree with what you said about working, Ithink it's good to have something to yourself other just the house and the kids. And about the over-posting, I'm completely all for it, lol!!

Icecat said...

Liam and Smily Miley FTW

Remember the photo’s of Noah dancing on the stripper pole a few years back...Doesn’t seem like the Cyrus home teaches their children morals..

JSierra said...

Yikes

astrogirl said...

I find the clique comments amusing. We all start out here not knowing anybody, you just have to jump on and say your piece and hopefully say something interesting to create dialogue.

LuLu said...

@ Blackcat. i went off because i got urked. end of story, i have no meds or alcohol or coffee or tea or sugar, for that matter, in my system for like a year. It was selfish and stupid to vomit on the thread and i know that. Shit happens. Probably because im not sedating! ;) Really this not-holding-shit-in is getting me in deep doodoo. When im urked i blow because its real for me at the moment, and then, of course, i feel bad and want to erase it, even though it was my authentic expression - sans candy coating. I need a planet where its ok to say "Im pissed!!! GRRRR" and nobody is expecting me to hold it in like a stinky fart. Because clearly there is about as much acceptance of raw expression in this country as there is for SBD farts! :) Happy new year everybody! I hope the reveals rock our socks off!

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PuggleWug said...

I think it is shitty of Black Cat to say that because some folks here are on meds, being normal is an impossible task. I read, and reread your post, as not to be accused of lacking reading comprehension (my kin would be proud of my efforts!)

I never realized how deep some issues between one another went on here, but I am steering clear of that. I've only been around a few months, but I have learned there are certain people whose posts I choose to ignore. I don't really see why it is so difficult for others to do.

Agent**It said...

Enty lost some readers like Texshan because they read at their place of work on pc's and the increase in ads on the website was making it unpleasant.Some people at their workplace don' t have authorization to put ad block, etc on their pc' s. What they need to know is that the mobile address works on pc' s and is ad free. Save this and pass it along if folks start complaining on reveal day. http://www.crazydaysandnights.net/?m=1

fancyscreenname said...

@agent..huh? Opinions and farts? I don't remember making such a comment.

PuggleWug said...

@agent, there was a troll on a different thread named lord fart or something. I think the saying is opinions are like assholes though, not farts.

Lisa B. said...
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Agent**It said...

..and Bobbi who had serious medical issues, hope you are ok.

NL said...

I read this site daily, but my free time is limited. When I see a blind item with 155 comments I settle in thinking I'm about to read some juicy gossip. 20 minutes later I've seen 10 comments on the blinds and everything else is OT. I don't care that people have things other than gossip to share. I just wish there was a way to sift through it quicker.

Snowy Owls said...

^^^ I could not agree more. Telling someone to skip over it is not helpful either.

Agent**It said...

I thought you were referring to the joke FSP and me FSP, "I think it's the fault of the 14 year old fart child reader:)" . Go see comments under readers picks from Friday and look for "opinionislikeafart" :)

goettin said...

All the OT stuff on blinds is ruining this blog. And, no, "just scroll past it", isn't a solution.

That said, this has to be Miley.

babo said...

I m way too late to be read but I also think the amount of OT is over the top.
A little bit I have no problems with (and I sinned as well), it s part of the charm.

Systemic highjacking where OT > 20-25% of comments, it s really boring for other readers.