In the new Elle, Amanda Seyfried gives an interview in which she is promoting her new movie Lovelace. Remember when Lindsay Lohan was supposed to star in that movie? Yeah, that was when she still had a flicker of a career. Anywho, because the movie is about sex, I guess all her interviews will eventually talk about sex, and specifically her sex life. In the interview, Amanda had this to say about who she dates, “Everybody I've dated I've been sexually attracted to immediately. Sparks don't grow—your vagina doesn't become more inclined to wanting someone just because you're around them.”
I think there is a lot of truth to that, but I also think that you can meet someone and not be sexually attracted to them and that it can grow over time to the point where you do become sexually attracted to them.I'm not saying you were dating them while not being attracted, but just because you are not instantly attracted does not mean there is no hope. Unless you are Paris Hilton. No way anyone can truly be sexually attracted to her.