Wednesday, May 07, 2014

Willow Smith And The Half Naked 20 Year Old Man In Bed

Willow Smith is 13 years old. 13. Yes, I know she seems like she would be much older because she has been in the public eye for so long and had that song and is on all those red carpets with her parents, but she is 13. For a very brief moment in time yesterday on Instagram was a photo of the 13 year old Willow in bed with a half naked Moises Arias. Moises played Rico on Hannah Montana. When you were 20 did you hang out half naked in bed with 13 year olds? If you did, then most likely you are reading this from a jail cell. No one is saying anything illegal happened, but what 20 year old wants to hang around 13 year old girls. What parents let this happen? Oh yeah, the kind of parents that let their kids do pretty much whatever they want and hang out with people with no supervision. When I was 13, I don't think I knew any 20 year old people, let alone would have been allowed to hang out with them.

You know what would be nice? Someone asking Will Smith or Jada Pinkett Smith about the photo and what, if anything they did about it.

53 comments:

sandybrook said...

And this one....Willow is down the wrong path and Will and Jada better do something quick.

plokzy said...

Shocking as it may seem, this was industry standard backstage during 60s-70s rock era... Read led zeppelin bios or any other of the like for further info

TalksTooMuch said...

That is truly what we need, more people asking celebrities hard-hitting questions.

Odd pic. Who takes all these on Instagram?

MISCH said...

and this is what happens when you treat your kids like grown-ups (Scientology)

Violet said...

I have a 13 year old. She does not take pics of herself with half naked men (at least I hope not). Why is 20 yr old d lister hanging out with young teens? He was a peculiar looking boy back in his HM days.

The Dude said...

What 20 year old let's a 13 year old hang out in bed with them?

urban chaos said...

This is just sad and a reminder that $$ and fame isn't all that. Poor kid never had a chance with parents like hers..

Steampunk Jazz said...

I hung out with my brothers and their friends when I was that age, but there was no way anything would have ever happened because they would have killed whoever tried something.
Willow doesn't have the contacts for an innocent hangout re. Above and she has no supervision to keep things from happening , other than good intentions.
Are others there not pictured?
Maybe Moises is daddy's latest come to hang out til he's called...

Seven of Eleven said...

Well, you have to remember Will and Jada are $cio. $cio believes children are small adults and they should not be hindered from finding their own paths.

Parents are tempted to mold their children into the shape they think most appropriate. Instead, they should be encouraged to seek out their own paths, as they will more enthusiastically follow a path of their own design, rather than being driven down one of their parents’ choice.

Children in Scientology

Paint Chips said...

Her parents have clearly checked out. I guess they just have better things to do then be parents.

Steampunk Jazz said...

@Seven, that sounds like " don't apprentice your children " then let them do whatever the hell they want.
Will and Jada are using Sci to wash their hands and do whatever They want.

Renoblondee said...

That is not right.

ethorne said...

Wtf. We're going to be reading about her & Sourpatch Face's shenanigans for the next 60 years.

di butler said...

Exactly, Misch. For more info, Willow is often photographed alone w Moises, day and nightime. She attended Coachella with him, and her parents surely are aware. I was under the impression when she ran away from home last year, acting out to prove she wouldn't be acting/singjng for Will's Annie project, that she was saying that she was a lesbian. Huh.

__-__=__ said...

This is exactly why I believe children need to be schooled on ASPD. There are plenty of dangerous normal looking people stalking about like predators looking for prey. Willow would never see it coming. She either thinks it's normal or personality diversity. Run Willow! You in danger girl!!!!

The Dude said...

Shouldn't someone be sending CPS to look after these kids?

lower_scott_hill said...

I guess he's over Sue Heck now.

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Virginia Squatch said...

I wonder what their endgame is. They obviously knew that posting this picture would cause a fuss. Celebs do shit like this for attention. Why would someone go through the trouble of taking this boring, grainy picture, putting a filter on it, and uploading it? Bullshit aside, there is no way you'd find 20 year old me hanging out with a 13 year old, I was too busy going to frat parties

MikeAdamson said...

Normally I'd agree with everyone here but I'm conflicted on this one...it is Rico after all.

Common Tater said...

Mr. Smith & Ms. Pinkett are obviously attending to other, much more pressing matters and cannot be bothered with helping the kids learn how to build character. Poor chile, she looks so bored with all the lightness of being. Next: Her lifestyle blog for the unwashed masses.

Common Tater said...

Oh, yeah. Hi, everybody, glad to meet all you funny people !!!

JSierra said...

Taylor Swift does this all the time, just not half naked that the public can see. When you're an older adult a seven year age diff isn't a big deal. But when you're in your teens and early twenties a seven year diff is massive. Maybe these people are just incredibly lonely and looking for any friend they can get (Taylor) or maybe they're just using the friend for publicity and fame (Rico).

This is bad but I kind of agree with that CO$ child rearing approach, within reason. I think you need to set up disciplines and rules that are age and emotionally as well as cognitively appropriate, but let your children carve their own path.

Basil said...

That looks more like Jaden than Willow.

WritergirlinLa said...

I get the feeling he may be perpetually 13 years old himself. No excuse, mind you. Just an observation. He's a laggie, much like Taylor Swift. Being a grown up sucks. Being a 15 year old is way better!

Danielle Williams said...

Obviously someone else is there who also took the picture. If she is at his house with someone older (not shown) why should he put a shirt on. Folks are acting like men don't walk around their homes shirtless! The picture doesn't look romantic, I think too much is being made out of nothing. I need facts about this situation first.

ichabod absolom said...

Boy these parents are stupid if they somehow have themselves convinced he is nice guy and is only just interested in *their* child because she is an *old soul* or some shit. A pedo is a pedo which idiot parents will figure out after the victim grows out of the pedo's preferred age range.

Sherry said...

Common Tater welcome.

I'm with Danielle to an extent. No proof anything bad is going on and when it's hot men take off their shirts. But the curious part is that they are in bed and there is a big age difference. I can see her wanting to hang out with a 20 yr old. Not so sure why he would want to hang out with a 13 yr old though.

parissucksliterally said...

There are so many things wrong with this, I don't even know where to start.

T. E. Cuz said...

i can tell she is clothed, so there's that.

who knows, hollywood is weird, and maybe this is just a group of acting kids/actor's offsprings that all were hanging out at home.

the age difference is weird, and the body language suggests close friendship, but we don't know what happened in the context of the photo.

i will agree that will and jada need to be more involved with their kids in a non-career-acting way.

Tina Mallette said...

"Parents are tempted to mold their children into the shape they think most appropriate. Instead, they should be encouraged to seek out their own paths, as they will more enthusiastically follow a path of their own design, rather than being driven down one of their parents’ choice."

First of all this is funny because these kids have indeed been pushed into the career paths of their parents. From all accounts Willow does not want to do this singing stuff or not anymore.

COS is pushing bunk. Yes it isn't fair that many parents push their kids to be mini-me's living out their dreams, failed or otherwise - but there is a happy medium.

You still need to give kids guidelines and boundaries, most experts will tell your kids not only need but crave boundaries but then you allow certain freedom within those boundaries as are age appropriate with consequences for abusing those freedoms and oing outside the boundaries because life had consequences for going outside boundaries.

The kids who are raised by these kind of parents end up LOST LOST LOST. Because I am also sure they think their parents don't care because they don't "interfere".

Bee Haven said...

Sad. Poor girl needs some parental protective awareness and support. Kids need boundaries.

P. said...

not defending this at all but a quick google search shows that willow, jaden & moises have known each other for at least 4 years. they seem to run in mutual circles, namely the jenner girls.

willow (13) hangs out with her brother jaden (15) who is dating kylie (16) who hangs out with her older sister kendall (18) who is friends with moises (20.)

JoElla said...

Well we could twitter bomb Will and Jada.

Think they would answer any of us?

Jill of All Trades said...

She does look sad...

But that does not look like a "half naked 20 year old M-A-N"...even though it is, you get?

It looks like a couple of kids "sitting" (lounging) on a bed.

They have NO chemistry between them. They're bodies read like a hippopotamus and a zebra.

Tara said...

If anything, anything happened here that's statutory rape. She is 13 - three years away from an average age of consent. No sane 20 year old man, who can vote and legally buy cigarettes, would have a 13-year-old girl in his bed for any other reason. Unless he really sees her as a sister type, but still - I'm a 23-year-old woman and my 15-year-old brother's best friend is very close to our hearts. Despite knowing him and his family for 10 years, I would not let him or any of my brother's friends, boy or girl, in my bed when I was half undressed (or even fully dressed) and I certainly wouldn't share such photos on the internet.

Bee Haven said...

I love pulled apart by horses cover of I whip my hair back and forth. Aside from this, I just see Willow as a lost child. Come on mum and dad! Some protective awareness wouldn't go astray.

Brenda L said...

I am also not defending this....but I do want to point out that they are NOT "in bed".....they are "on a bed"....and they were apparently hanging with others including the Jenner girls. None of this makes it right, but these two were were not having sex.

Emily Yeah said...

A 13 year old went to coachella without their parents? That's not normal is it?

Just Another Girl said...
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Just Another Girl said...

If you look at this kid's photography website, it looks like something out of a Breton Easton Ellis book. A bunch of rich, bored kids without any parental supervision.

http://490tx.com/

Topper Madison said...

A lot of wild assumptions are being made from a rather innocent-looking photo. They don't even look like they're touching.

Jumping to another crazy conclusion...Maybe he is a friend of her dad's??

mooshki said...

Best comment I've read: "She needs to move in with her auntie and uncle in Bel Air."

auntliddy said...

This dogma is vintage scentology. You let the kids do their own thing, make their owned takes. It is beyond asinine. Shame on their parents.

RowdyRodimus said...

@Tara, my best friend who sadly passed the year after we graduated and his family were really like a second home to me, the same with my family and him. We called each others parents Mom and Dad we were that close. Anyway, I was always around his older sister when she was in her bra and panties, or she'd be there when I was in my boxers. I guess it was different in that we were only two years apart in age and they all knew we had a thing going on. The scariest part was the first time her Mom walked in after I spent the night and found me asleep with her in her bed. We both were scared shitless and her mom laughed and said, "Come on, we ALL know you two have been sleeping together. Chris, your Mom and I have even been talking about you two and both know you two are being safe and you care about each other." We were 14 and 16 respectively.

However, if she had been 20, I'm sure the story would've been much different. That's the thing that's really scary, the way kids now seem to want to attach themselves to older people. I was 28 and was tutoring a classmate when I went back to college. She went to the convenience store to get some cokes for us and while I was sitting there in her room playing PS2, her 15 year olod sister came in, sat down then put her head in my lap and offered me a BJ while undoing my fly. I jumped up and went straight to their Mom and was told she has a problem with doing that since her Dad abused her and then was sent to jail after they divorced. I guess it goes back to her being sexually abused by her Dad but she had been caught with men even older than I was at the time.

I think we've made children grow up too fast now. Maybe it's just because I come from the 80's and it was a better time for kids. Think about it, in the 80's every Saturday you could count on cartoons all morning long, now the only cartoons are made for pre-school age kids or older teens/adults, there's no middle ground. We had toys, everyone had a collection, we had He-Man, Transformers, GI Joes, girls had Barbies, Jem, Polly Pocket, there was stuff for everyone. Now kids are brought up with tablets, iPhones, iPads, etc... They're exposed to too much stuff now. Sure, times have changed but why can't we let kids be kids for a while? I'm proud of the fact that my nieces (5 and 7) have no interest in phones or tablets. They like actually playing while their friends want to just play Angry Birds or whatever. I gave them an old laptop but they just use it as a DVD player. The oldest has a birthday this month and I asked her what she wanted, she said a Fur Real Friend cat and a baseball glove. I got both of them for her and also a glove for her sister. Gave them the gloves Sunday and the two girls, my Dad, my brother and I spent about 3 hours playing baseball with them while we BBQ'd. It was a regular day playing with kids, kids need that and they never get that today.

Sorry I went a bit long and ranty but seeing this picture is just indicative of a larger problem in society.

Countess Eden said...

He looks nekkid. I can't see pants. So wrong. If he were somewhere close to her age, not a biggie. But what does a 20 yo want with a 13 yo? When I was thirteen, this 19 yo brother of a friend called me all the time and I hung out with him once. Thank God nothing happened but he for sure wanted something other than smelling my salonselectives hairspray and Benetton perfume.

NaughtyNurse said...

Who the hell was in the room with them taking pictures????

Cee Kay said...

I'm having a hard time getting worked up about this. There is absolutely NO sexual chemistry hanging in that air. Are we sure they aren't both gay?

LisaL said...

Innocent or not, this shit still isn't right. No parent should be ok with a 20yo man being BFFs with their 15 and 13yo children.
And something definitely is not right with the 20yo guy for wanting to hang with kids.

evie2345 said...

That's what I'm thinking too. No 20-year-old man should be hanging out with 13-year-old girls. End of story.

derek harvey said...

I had to think about this one. There is nothing wrong with this photo. I think some people here need to get a life.

derek harvey said...

I have a 12 year old niece and if some one took a photo of us like this together she would say "that's me getting my lazy uncle D-Rock outta bed!".

Aoife said...

Will and Jada said that Willow is old enough to make her own decisions.

I don't know about anyone else but they're on my permanent sh** list.