Friday, March 16, 2018

Blind Item #3

This foreign born athlete is hopeful that the new freedom that this foreign former boy bander is showing sexually will allow them to finally step out as a couple together.

40 comments:

Tricia13 said...

Xavier/styles

Brayson87 said...

+1 Tricia with the speed

Krispyc said...

I just want Harry to be completely comfortable with coming out. But seeing what some “ fans “ are saying after all this hoopla this week... I get why he doesn’t.

Geeljire said...

They're all gay!
Grown gay men fussing about their sexualities!
Is there anything more trivial?

Vessimede Barstool said...

Tween girls aren't going to get wet when they know their hunk of spunk loves to suck down on D and get covered in man milk. Harry has waited til the OD craze died a death before revealing his fag side, and even then he parrots bullshit about being bisexual. Maybe he could get into that Sam Smith market, or appeal to the blue hair Tumblr crowd, who think that straight sex gives you coochies, because weighing 300 lbs and looking like a hot smelly mess has nothing to do with dudes not wanting to bang you. I say the more homos come out the closet the better, all these straight for pay actors and singers is false advertising, and that's wrong.

Geeljire said...

Haha
"R u str8 4 pay?"

Brayson87 said...

I thought it was all about the music and talent, why would these female fans care what he wraps his dick around?
It's not like they'd ever have a chance with straight him unless he lost a dare or felt like goin' hoggin'.

Geeljire said...

@Brayson maybe men who feel their calling is singing and prancing around on a stage are unlikely to be suitable mates. For women.

Vessimede Barstool said...

One Direction? Talent?

You've heard their records?

Boy Bands are carefully put together to appeal to prepubescent girls fantasies. They have to be good looking, project as uber hetero, each representing a fantasy archetype. The bad boy, the sensitive one, the joker, the jock etc. This shit is all about moving product via young girls wet underpants. You don't get them wet you don't sell records and tickets.

Tricia13 said...

Hey Bray 👋🏻 Hey....:)
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srproject said...

Who is Xavier?

The G Man said...

Had to google who "Xavier" was ... Xavier Dolan not an athlete.

Dorina Montego said...

Ricky Martin got even bigger audience after getting out of the closet

Only furious one was an ex gf of him saying everyyybody accused her of being a beard and "she wasnt"

Danilo müller said...

Harry Styles is just annoying ... His fans know he's Gay and the whole world (only some old women think he's straight) zzzZzzz

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kar5279 said...

Okay I really doubt Harry has some secret athlete boyfriend. I also don't think he's "coming out" at all. this seems like his typical queerbaiting. He's done this for years. Half his fans want him to be gay so he plays both sides to keep 'em happy. Don't get me wrong, I do think he's messed with guys in the past but c'mon he's never gonna put out a statement anywhere near soon.

srproject said...

Rio Ferdinand and Harry Styles

Danilo müller said...

You mean he's Gay because his fans want it?

longtimereader said...

Rio ferdinand!?! what does a middle aged widowed father currently dating a reality star have to do with a gay boybander banging at his closet door?

Samantha Willow said...

Lewis Hamilton needs to 'fess up.

Jimmy said...

LOL @ Rio Ferdinand. He looks like that porn star with the big ass mole on his dick

trufflepig said...

The truth is that lots of girls and women get off on the idea of a hot guy sleeping with another man. I'm sure many fans would love Harry even more if he came out as bisexual.

LeahBryar said...

If Zayn and Harry got together the little girls would be hysterically happy. Same if it were Harry and Louis....but Zayn is prettier.

Halloweenie said...

Interestingly survey says ( I don't know who keeps doing surveys like this but) that straight women prefer gay m/m porn to straight porn. And also many prefer w/w porn to straight porn. They feel it's more a balanced/safe type thing? M/m books on places sites like goodreads are very popular with the ladies . It's funny though we easily as a society say that straight men love the idea of two beautiful women getting it on , twice the boobs! lol but get all weird when women like the idea of two hot men together. What's that about? Let's unpack why that is lol.

trufflepig said...

I'm female and yes, I love m/m porn! But it's hard to find videos that meet my criteria (kissing, foreplay, the bottom has to be really hot). When it comes to straight porn, I'm less picky.

Although I like female bodies, w/w porn bores the heck out of me. For me, it lacks a certain type of energy. Maybe it's that 'balance' thing Halloweenie mentioned which does NOT turn me on.

I like a bit of power imbalance and I love it when a hot man is in the 'weak' position ;-) Maybe that's hard to accept for some people?


Itttt said...

Jeeze wtf, people.

Anyway, boy banders are supposed to be/project "uber hetero"?!? In what alternate universe/dystopian Orwellian nightmare are these limp wristed, noodle armed emo poofs projecting masculinity/hetero??? They all look like Korean Kpop boy bands which is to say, effeminate androgynous Japanese CGI/video game/anime/manga characters. Where what passes as the "women" look like young boys, and what passes as the "men" look like young boys. Like Square's Final Fantasy series characters.

lucy said...

I find it truly shocking that heterosexual women prefer gay male porn to straight porn. I dislike guy/girl porn just because it plays so outwardly phoney and boring. guy pumps girl, girl yelps (cue oh baby chant +cigarette) but to say one prefers m/m for whatever reason I question. I think it's time for first ever(?) cdan readers poll

TruthSayer said...

@Tricia, are you sure about that?

I thought Harry's secret guy is Xander Ritz, who is an athlete. Which would make Enty's clue confusing because he's not foreign-born (believe he's from Pennsylvania). Never heard of Xavier Dolan dating him (he's supposed to be with Winter Soldier right now).

Maybe this blind is referring to another One Direction member (Niall and Liam were both rumored to be dating athletes).

Danielle K said...

Ugh, I looked for a blind like this Wednesday. The puffy shirt and a lyric about messing around does not make Harry gay or bi. He just has the luxury of being able to f—- anyone in any room.

Orville said...

I thought Harry Styles was banging Aaron Rodgers on datalounge the gays there said he frequently visits Wisconsin. I also heard that Styles and Aaron Rodgers are very close. Rodgers promoted Harry Styles new album on his Twitter account.

Orville said...

Someone mentioned Sam Smith he is openly gay and his second album is selling in the millions worldwide. So I do not see why Harry Styles needs to be coy. He should just come out. Notice no one in One Direction solo album is selling millions.Zayn Malik and Niall Horan debut albums along with Styles success is just moderate. Coming out might help give Harry Styles an edge make him distinct.

Alesia said...
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Alesia said...

Harry Styles and Xander Ritz. Anyone can see that. It has started way back in 2015 when they were super obvious and they're still hanging out. Plus 'Medicine' - Harry's song about messing around with a guy - was written in 2015.

TruthSayer said...

@Orville, two big differences there:

1) One Direction members were marketed as sex symbols from the start. Sam Smith was overweight so no one cared who he was dating (but they're more interested now that he's lost the weight)

2) One Direction members don't hold a candle to Sam Smith when it comes to vocals. Now that they've gone solo, people are actually paying attention to their singing, and they don't want to shell out money for just "merely good."

Both of these factors make it harder for Harry to come out. But I agree with you that he should do it, for three reasons:

a) He'd be a lot happier in general. I think he's been itching to do it (he was dropping clues all over the place before his management pushed him back in) and he'd love to be able to walk around freely with his BF.

b) His fans are already the comfortable with the idea of him being with a man. They were convinced he was dating Louis Tomlinson (and shipped them hard), and many also knew about Xander back in 2015 (they created whole Tumblr pages about them). So he doesn't really have much to lose -- it's not like he relies on homophobic people for album sales. And his hardcore fan base will always be there.

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Max Bull said...

Though I do think Harry is laying more foundations for himself as being into guys, he could just as easily get married and have a baby with Rowe.

He's been interested in men for FAR too long for it to be fake imo, but only he knows his sexuality and he could genuinely like women as well and be happy to settle down. He sends mixed signals all the time and though he says he 'does not want to label himself' he then leaves his fans confused and jumpy as to what's going to come next.

If his fans expect him to come out anytime soon as Louis boyfriend or an out and proud full on gay man I suspect they'll be disappointed. All they'll get is more Rowe and songs about pining for the ladies. Harry knows how to play the game and he'll play it as long as it benefits his pocket and image. He is, after all, manufactured. Nice, but manufactured and well versed in the arts of self promotion.

Max Bull said...

*settle down with the woman he's supposedly with.

TruthSayer said...

@Max Bull, very interesting insights.

I can see Harry doing the whole beard marriage thing like you say. Why not, lots of other stars get away with it.

But I think it partly depends on his career. If he releases a few more albums that don't light up the charts, he'll probably feel like he has nothing to lose if he comes out. Conversely, if his next album is a hit (or his acting career takes off), he's more likely to stay in the closet. It's an interesting test case, as I can't remember a musician leaving so many clues without actually coming out as bisexual or gay.

Max Bull said...

He 100% knows how to play the game and be the puppet for his masters though. His earnest leaning to say more/ CO is trumped only by his love of money and fame, I think. Plus Louis Tomlinson is a constant monkey on his back.

He could parade Nick Grimshaw, Xander Ritz and Eminem down the street all wearing matching feather boas and promise rings and the Larries would still be shrieking that Louis is his husband/life partner.

Any boyfriend of Harry's needs steel underpants to cope with his fans.

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