Comments on Crazy Days and Nights: Today's Blind Items

It's called personal responsibility.If you go to a...

2008-11-22T21:19:00.000-08:00

It's called personal responsibility.
If you go to a party, and you are the driver, do you drink because everyone else is drinking or do you stay sober to make sure you and your personal property are well taken care of?

And to the idiot that keeps calling those of us idiots who believe in personal responsibility? Yeah, you know who you are: Guess what? You're on the opposite side of uber-feminist Camilia Paglia so sit down and STFU you moron. Post when you have some life experience under your belt and not a couple of womens' studies classes.

Don't think it's Cassie. Reason being, I am myspac...

2008-11-21T12:06:00.000-08:00

Don't think it's Cassie. Reason being, I am myspace friends with her and Lauren London and just recently they were in New York for some Sean John business having drinks in there hotel room. Plus Cassie's man is Pleasure P from the group Pretty Ricky.

Janet Jackson and Jermaine Dupri? ... the B list A...

2008-11-21T06:43:00.000-08:00

Janet Jackson and Jermaine Dupri? ... the B list A list part doesnt really fit, or does it based on sales over the past few years

Gillian; I didn't do any detective work; you can f...

2008-11-20T11:49:00.001-08:00

Gillian; I didn't do any detective work; you can find anything on Google! And, yes, there was a pregnancy rumour with Aubrey O'Day and Diddy, too.

Hey, I would never trust a guy with the birth control -- if I want to be 100% sure I don't get pregnant, I will take responsibility.

Rhetorically it sounds great that both partners should take responsibility, but let's get real here.

i say ashanti and nelly!

2008-11-20T11:49:00.000-08:00

i say ashanti and nelly!

If you are having consentual sex, and do not want ...

2008-11-20T11:04:00.000-08:00

If you are having consentual sex, and do not want children, you are completely irresponsible and negligent if you do not use birth control. This goes for both men and women.

Kermie and Miss Piggy - Well, I am just saddened b...

2008-11-20T10:58:00.000-08:00

Kermie and Miss Piggy -

Well, I am just saddened by this. I thought they were more responsible.....

I am throwing out all my episodes of the Muppet Show. (sniff)

jay z and his jump off rhianna ..

2008-11-20T09:52:00.000-08:00

jay z and his jump off rhianna ..

beyonce is Not B-list....definitely a list.Not eve...

2008-11-20T09:30:00.000-08:00

beyonce is Not B-list....definitely a list.
Not even enty would slip up on that, lol.
I just went to WIKI and her resume is a mile long.
in summary she has ~10 grammys and every album went at least 3x platinum,
solo and/or group albums

NOOOOO!!!! My boy Kermie would NEVER do such a th...

2008-11-20T08:29:00.000-08:00

NOOOOO!!!! My boy Kermie would NEVER do such a thing! LOL.

Starburst beat me to it.I'll have to Kermit and Mi...

2008-11-20T08:09:00.000-08:00

Starburst beat me to it.

I'll have to Kermit and Miss Piggy

Jay-Z and Beyonce!

2008-11-20T08:03:00.000-08:00

Jay-Z and Beyonce!

I just want to put this idea out there - the blind...

2008-11-20T06:46:00.000-08:00

I just want to put this idea out there - the blind never says the guy (A-list singer/producer) is in the rap or r&b field.
Are there any producers/singers in another music genre dating a r&b singer?

i agree with mooshki - until a man is the one who ...

2008-11-20T06:39:00.000-08:00

i agree with mooshki - until a man is the one who can get pregnant, the woman needs to do all she can to make sure she's not going to get pregnant. i wouldn't put that in the hands of another person no matter who they were. after a child is born, it's both their responsibility.

but kristen is right. since he's the one who is so hell bent on not having kids, he should man up and take part of the responsibility, too, instead of trusting a woman to make sure she doesn't get pregnant.

Big Sur, I continue to love you. It's nice in theo...

2008-11-20T06:17:00.000-08:00

Big Sur, I continue to love you.

It's nice in theory to say a guy should share equal responsibility for birth control, but (and maybe I've just heard too many nasty stories) I would never trust a man to ensure that I didn't get pregnant. Men can lie about being snipped and they can lie about putting on condoms. It takes two to tango, but only one has to carry the watermelon around for 9 months. I think a woman should insist on a guy wearing a condom every time, but should also use a backup method. Just my opinion.

who is russell simmons dating now?

2008-11-20T06:07:00.000-08:00

who is russell simmons dating now?

In this case, it's the GUY who doesn't want kids. ...

2008-11-20T06:02:00.000-08:00

In this case, it's the GUY who doesn't want kids. Maybe the woman in the scenario wouldn't mind having a baby. So, since it's the GUY that clearly doesn't want the kids, then the GUY should take steps not to have kids.

I agree with Squeezebox re contraception being a j...

2008-11-20T02:44:00.000-08:00

I agree with Squeezebox re contraception being a joint issue. Sure, the woman is saddled with the primary headache (to birth or not to birth? that is the question!) but we'd be foolish to think the man has no involvement or responsibility here. Just because you can spread your seed, doesn't mean you should. No contraception also involves the risk of STDs too, esp if either couple isn't practicing safe sex outside of the relationship. If Diddles has paid Cassie off, it's selfish on his part not 'responsible' and stupid on hers (risking her ability to carry a child without miscarrying due to excessive abortions)

Grace- good detective work, girl!

I immediately thought of Diddy, too, but with Aubr...

2008-11-19T22:17:00.000-08:00

I immediately thought of Diddy, too, but with Aubrey O'Day.

Long time...well, poster, and short time pissed-of...

2008-11-19T20:05:00.000-08:00

Long time...well, poster, and short time pissed-off gal. Seriously, regardless of the gender of this Victoria, insults during a discourse on the ramifications of sexuality is so counter-productive.

I agree with you all. I think that Victoria is right - if you don't want children, as a woman, then take the fucking pills already. If you're a man, and over kids - get snipped. It's the responsibility of both parties but in this case, the one with the least power had the burden. Or not, depending on her motive. Makes sense?

Either way, in the words of the great Dan Savage - dump the mutha fucka already.

Love you all....now continue the bitching. ;-)

While I'm at it.....90% of hollywood IS on drugsAA...

2008-11-19T19:56:00.000-08:00

While I'm at it.....

90% of hollywood IS on drugs
AAAANNND the men are just as gay as they were when they were the lead in every play that was put on by the drama club at your high school, lol.

They were gay/bi then. They R gay/bi now....

PK,If you follow the website long enough, (I have ...

2008-11-19T19:52:00.000-08:00

PK,

If you follow the website long enough, (I have been for about two years now)....These "blind items" are eventually revealed in real life i.e pink and carey hart; david duchovny and the tennis instructor; john edwards etc. If you care to do enough research you can figure them out. Enty's blinds as opposed to everyone else's blinds. They all write about the same shit esp. if it happened at a premiere or sundance etc. Its not even like its far fetched. people in hollywood cheat, people in movie's star's lives gossip.

Enty wrote about how he gets wind of blind items. I don't care enough to look it up, anyone else feel free. Have you ever had friends who were in LA trying to make it..workin as extras, personal assistants etc. If you did you would know that its so ridiculous you couldn't make it up if you tried.

I also like how, like the Taylor Momsen BI, these ...

2008-11-19T19:34:00.000-08:00

I also like how, like the Taylor Momsen BI, these items wind up creating an interesting discussion out of a segue. Unlike the Taylor Momsen BI (Gossip Girl: tween or not tween?), this discourse is much more interesting and ultimately entertaining.

Oh: c17 - I agree. "Victoria"? Come on! Why not just use "RuPaul" as your handle! ;)

I like Cassie/Diddy.

2008-11-19T19:26:00.000-08:00

I like Cassie/Diddy.

@ Squeezebox: I agree with you.@ Victoria: Diddy i...

2008-11-19T19:11:00.000-08:00

@ Squeezebox: I agree with you.

@ Victoria: Diddy is well know in the industry for knocking his women around. Misa Hylton-Brim left because he beat her. JLo left after the same treatment. Kim Porter allegedly had to have a plastic surgeon fix her face after a particularly brutal beat down from Diddy.

So it makes sense that a young, naive woman would be afraid to anger a brutal man by using birth control or demand that he use it. It happens all the time in domestic violence cases.

Also, as someone who used to work in the health care field, a lot of ob/gyns won't install an IUD in a young, nulliparous (a woman who has not undergone childbirth), fearing future lawsuits stemming from "impeding" future fertility. IUDs in nulliparous women are very common in Europe, but not as common in the US. You have to luck upon one.

It is also not recommended to have an IUD if you are not in a monogamous, STI free relationship, due to the risk of STIs doing extensive damage to the uterus and fallopian tubes. Diddy obviously dosen't use condoms (rumored to have eight children, not five), and he is not by any stretch of the imagination monogamous. An IUD would be a huge mistake for Cassie.

Besides, violent men are also usually very controlling. Do you really think that he would wait for Cassie to heal properly after an IUD insertion? I don't.