Comments on Crazy Days and Nights: Chris Brown Says He Is Sorry

Blah, blah, blah... what a piece of sh*t this guy ...

2009-07-22T21:54:10.607-07:00

Blah, blah, blah... what a piece of sh*t this guy is! He is still referring to it as "the incident" and not "the night I kicked my girlfriend's ass."

Thank you CDAN for not making me watch. I only rea...

2009-07-22T11:26:36.607-07:00

Thank you CDAN for not making me watch. I only read the first 2-3 paragraphs. I barfed when I read "I told Rihanna....blah". No, I do not believe he is sorry (sorry he was caught) and I cannot stand the sight of him. Sorry John, peace be with you.

In other words: I want your money, no one is downl...

2009-07-21T18:21:29.989-07:00

In other words: I want your money, no one is downloading my music, and I can't get anyone to take me on a tour - the way I spend money I will be broke. Plus I have all those legal bills that need payin'.

The only reason this apology is happening is despite P Doody standing up for him, he's not in good standing. Toe to toe, no one is going up against Jay Z - Rhianna carried that so so singer on a couple of tours but he's starting to realize it's affected his income and future earnings. Good! I am so sad that Mary J Blige, who claimed to a be victim of Dv didn't say no to working with him, she let down every beaten woman and child and that's another one that won't see a dime of my money in the future.

We can speak with our wallets, it does work - we get to say who has a career and who doesn't.

Like this asswipe has spiritual teachers. What is ...

2009-07-21T13:15:45.924-07:00

Like this asswipe has spiritual teachers. What is he, the Dalai fucking Lama?

He's finally having a go at contrition which must mean he's getting desperate.

Good.

I loathe him and hate what that poor beautiful dam...

2009-07-21T13:06:25.190-07:00

I loathe him and hate what that poor beautiful damaged girl had to go through. I believe she had some domestic violence in her family background as well.

Every time this clown opens his mouth, someone sho...

2009-07-21T10:03:08.963-07:00

Every time this clown opens his mouth, someone should put a fist in it. I don't think he's learned a thing from this incident or is at all repentant; otherwise he would stfu and work on his issues instead of bringing it up every time he shows his face. He's milking it for publicity at this point, imho.

seems chris brown went to the school of joe jackso...

2009-07-21T08:35:17.595-07:00

seems chris brown went to the school of joe jackson social interacting.

Hugs @ John. I cannot possibly imagine what you w...

2009-07-21T08:00:10.686-07:00

Hugs @ John. I cannot possibly imagine what you went through as a child, but I do feel just a fraction of your pain when I read your story. Blessings and peace to you.

As for Chris Brown - too many people are unwilling to call him out on his actions, and let the situation slide. This man should be in jail.

Actions speak louder than words. So far his actio...

2009-07-21T07:19:37.266-07:00

Actions speak louder than words. So far his actions don't support the words coming out of his mouth. He played the clean-cut image and since that blew up in his face I think he's shown more of his true colors. Those that continue to worship him - most of them under the age of 18 - should get a good sit down with a parent; what a great time to teach children what is appropriate and not appropriate. It sucks we live in a culture where we just let things like this "slide by" just because someone has name recognition and money. Do we have absolutely no values or morals in this country anymore?

john- I am so sorry to hear that, I cannot even i...

2009-07-21T06:20:14.469-07:00

john-

I am so sorry to hear that, I cannot even imagine what that must have been like. I wish you every happiness possible.

As for Chris Brown, I don't necessarily think that he is too far gone to learn from this and become a better person, but it will take a LOT of soul-searching, hard work and effort to change, and honestly I don't know if he's even capable of it. He has to WANT it, and I just don't see that. But I could be wrong, and I think most people do deserve a second chance. I don't mean that Rihanna should get back with him or anything like that, but we should just wait a little and see if he learns anything from this. But obviously he shouldn't have hit her, she shouldn't have clawed him (I think she did, I can't remember), and as horrible as it all was, I hope everyone involved can use it as a learning experience. Sometimes that's all you can do.

John<----Blessings and peace to you. Thanks for sh...

2009-07-20T21:06:21.205-07:00

John<----Blessings and peace to you. Thanks for sharing your testimony.

I pray that CB really accepts his role in this situation. Only God knows his heart. It will take some time and work ,however if he is sincere, he will be alright.

He has some growing to do. He is a 20 yr old young man/boy. I have come to realize that at that age most kids don't know their ass from their appetite. The public statement is out, let's let the young man have the opportunity to practice what he preachrs.

I believe that everyone makes mistakes and should ...

2009-07-20T19:25:15.326-07:00

I believe that everyone makes mistakes and should be given a second chance. It's obvious that someone else wrote that little speech for him. I hope that at least he understands the words he is speaking because I'm not convinced that he feels them.

too little too late

2009-07-20T18:21:05.245-07:00

too little too late

a dear friend and i were IMing today about somethi...

2009-07-20T18:00:26.076-07:00

a dear friend and i were IMing today about something unrelated, and he made the best typo ever, and it totally fits in this case:
ass whole.

Why is he wearing a Star Trek uniform?

2009-07-20T17:55:44.079-07:00

Why is he wearing a Star Trek uniform?

Move along, nothing to see here.

2009-07-20T17:45:01.999-07:00

Move along, nothing to see here.

He is such a troll...and WTF is that shirt?

2009-07-20T17:34:40.806-07:00

He is such a troll...and WTF is that shirt?

Jax- There is actually a song out there called "do...

2009-07-20T17:25:31.444-07:00

Jax- There is actually a song out there called "don't get Rihanna'ed"... Ah, aren't kids creative?

Candi- I can see what you're saying, but I don't think this was a one-time, one punch type of thing.

I'm glad CB got bad press for this. He deserves to be ridiculed, not worshipped or admired. I do not accept his apology either. He's a loser.

Actions speak louder then words. I think his act o...

2009-07-20T16:40:39.990-07:00

Actions speak louder then words. I think his act of contrition comes more from the hit on wallet then from actually feeling guilt for his actions.

"But he apoooologiiiiized!" Kiss my a$$. He did i...

2009-07-20T16:24:07.647-07:00

"But he apoooologiiiiized!"
Kiss my a$$. He did it once; he'll do it again. No forgiveness here.

I grew up in a home where I was my father's punchb...

2009-07-20T16:20:45.441-07:00

I grew up in a home where I was my father's punchbag both physically and verbally. Every single day of my life I lived in terror and fear. I believed him when he told me I was unworthy of life and I still struggle with the aftermath of the violence and abuse. As a young girl, it left me struggling to find myself as an adolescent and it has given me a challenging legacy to overcome as a young adult. Because my voice was silenced and I was told by my father that he 'truly hated me', I had horrible latent anger issues and even to this day, I have to work hard to be conscious of my 'triggers' and not go down a path of inner self destruction when things get tough.

I have worked tremendously hard to live in the now and not react from behaviors I learned in the past. It's an emotional struggle and I work every day of my life to be the best person I can be and I try to cultivate gratitude and thanks for the many, many good things in my life. When your self esteem is literally kicked out of you, you have to take responsibility and find your own way. I didn't know what love was but I made it my mission to find it in my life (even when those voices told me I didn't deserve) and to never, NEVER make anyone feel the pain and terror I felt at the hands of a bully. I feel sick to my stomach when I see incidents like this and the ensuing media circus. I can only hope that there is a sincere wish in Chris Brown's heart to live his life responsibly and make the inner changes necessary to control his anger because one less man who raises his fists to women is a victory in my eyes.

candi- i might agree if not for the fact this very...

2009-07-20T16:13:45.366-07:00

candi- i might agree if not for the fact this very weekend i heard some boys talking about how some other kid "Chris Brown'ed him so bad he peed blood."

so in fact...he actually is defined by that. i hear you, people can change. but is he 'changing' for the right reasons? or becasue he is a social pariah in the music biz right now and getting pressure from everyone he bankrolls? i justhave the feeling if he was sincere, we see a lot more and hear a lot less.

Fuck him.

2009-07-20T16:04:33.193-07:00

Fuck him.

Also, here's hoping that there are intelligent, ma...

2009-07-20T15:26:32.493-07:00

Also, here's hoping that there are intelligent, mature individuals in his vicinity to take over, stop the publicity stunts, and guide in the right direction.

I know this is very hard for some to believe, but ...

2009-07-20T15:23:46.646-07:00

I know this is very hard for some to believe, but sometimes people make mistakes. Those mistakes, no matter how inexcusable does not always define the person.

Every time I think of his situation, I am a reminding of a cousin, that went to jail when he punched his gf. Horrible. He was 19 at the time. He is 30 now and though she has forgiven him, still regrets it. Not going to jail, but hitting a woman. We were recently discussing this incident and others were shocked to find out that he could have done that. He is just the beloved.

My point is that sometimes people have to grow up and recognize that the world does not revolve around them and that lesson is not easy to learn. I will not be giving Chris a hard time and truly hoping that he has learned something and that he is seeking the help that he needs. That being said, I certainly understand why others are not as forgiving, what he did was atrocious.