tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post7112500663768121831..comments2024-03-20T02:18:58.950-07:00Comments on Crazy Days and Nights: Traci Lords Says She And Her Mom Were Raped In Steubenvilleent lawyerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08658046190988387228noreply@blogger.comBlogger66125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-76024955347722804292013-03-17T04:57:14.966-07:002013-03-17T04:57:14.966-07:00All of the victim blaming is disturbing. Teenagers...All of the victim blaming is disturbing. Teenagers, even 'normal' ones from safe, supportive homes, <i>cannot</i> make decisions the same way an adult can. Their brains are literally not fully developed yet. Mental and emotional maturity does of course vary from person to person. That said, a person who's been abused from a young age is highly unlikely to be able to make truly informed decisions about their life, just because their baseline for normal would have been so skewed by the abuse. If someone has been schooled from a young age to believe that being sexual is good and normal and you get rewarded for it, then they're likely going to think it is and act like it is and encourage it. That is not informed decision making, that's walking the only path they've been shown. It's not confined to one sex, either. Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15389313500231224519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-40426238735029596372013-03-17T00:13:37.816-07:002013-03-17T00:13:37.816-07:00Some EPIC victim blaming in this thread... almost ...Some EPIC victim blaming in this thread... almost all from men. What a surprise. doctressjuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10464482194620104273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-60631209435556182722013-03-16T08:42:14.740-07:002013-03-16T08:42:14.740-07:00Dick, you stated: "Hardly one of the most pro...Dick, you stated: "Hardly one of the most prolific actress," but then you state "countless men and women she worked with said she was ....". I have an issue with that contradiction and your opinion is thus meaningless to me. Agent**Ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08540236442474211199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-50209276428385763402013-03-15T20:54:12.653-07:002013-03-15T20:54:12.653-07:00My biggest problem with Lords is how she changes h...My biggest problem with Lords is how she changes her story to suit her needs. I don't think it's a coincidence that her story changed now that Steubenville has gotten into the news.<br /><br />I don't doubt she came from a really screwed up background, but a lot of people do who don't do porn. From everything I've read and watching Lords interact in business (1995), I find her to be a lot like Heidi Fleiss. She is opportunistic when it suits her.Henriettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04863981614467666363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-34888729440959101552013-03-15T20:39:17.940-07:002013-03-15T20:39:17.940-07:00Also thank you @Speakeasy.Also thank you @Speakeasy.paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15135141145497418574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-80109334952025937492013-03-15T20:38:05.436-07:002013-03-15T20:38:05.436-07:00Thank you @G
Thank you @Dori
Well said.Thank you @G<br />Thank you @Dori<br /><br />Well said.paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15135141145497418574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-32422437841961775652013-03-15T19:41:13.016-07:002013-03-15T19:41:13.016-07:00Thank you Dori, well stated!Thank you Dori, well stated!Joannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07819977314337759486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-5229182971500762132013-03-15T19:37:41.010-07:002013-03-15T19:37:41.010-07:00Thank you Dori, well stated!Thank you Dori, well stated!Joannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07819977314337759486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-39888114630145787972013-03-15T17:28:30.281-07:002013-03-15T17:28:30.281-07:00Coaches cover up for their athletes all the time. ...Coaches cover up for their athletes all the time. It happened to me, thank God it was only a copping a couple of feels in the hall, but I still remember how angry and helpless I felt when the coach(who was also the principal) told me to just forget about it. I did, until I got home, and told my mother, who brought holy hell and the school board down on his head. The star basketball player got three whole days, (big deal) and we(his other victims) got permission to beat the hell outta him if he lay hands on us again. Ah, the good old days when problems could be solved with fisticuffs. That principal still hates me though. It's mutual. <br />I kinda love Traci Lords, and she must be a good actress having faked it all those years. ;-)Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09102112039066331701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-44304886297770262992013-03-15T16:59:47.538-07:002013-03-15T16:59:47.538-07:00I give Traci a big hug. She was sucked into porn b...I give Traci a big hug. She was sucked into porn by a creepy stepfather after her mother fled OH after being abuse for years. I'm glad she's breaking the cycle finally. AuntJesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05933386000354809777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-65604753236100946382013-03-15T16:51:21.636-07:002013-03-15T16:51:21.636-07:00@YoMisho, I for one would still consider myself a ...@YoMisho, I for one would still consider myself a virgin at that age, despite being raped, if I were in her position. The sex was forced upon her, she had no say in "giving" him her virginity. Why should she allow him to claim it?Piphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08367572534927613411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-32715876879759537032013-03-15T16:48:38.716-07:002013-03-15T16:48:38.716-07:00I was responding to an earlier post concerning Lor...I was responding to an earlier post concerning Lord's stepfather turning her out.<br />But I 'm glad you're amused by my posts . I think fucked up white folks are hilarious. Anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17220552732678184915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-7553736967714939132013-03-15T16:33:39.447-07:002013-03-15T16:33:39.447-07:00A 16 year old cannot make a mature, informed, enth...A 16 year old cannot make a mature, informed, enthusiastic decision to do porn because....<br />IT IS ILLEGAL.Its just Uhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06401116553010240300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-82548534044197265112013-03-15T16:29:29.684-07:002013-03-15T16:29:29.684-07:00Wow, those saying she was "mature" enoug...Wow, those saying she was "mature" enough are absolutely fucking disgusting. A damaged teen lies, we shouldn't ever believe them? Give me a break.Piphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08367572534927613411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-80012734982314993162013-03-15T15:42:43.512-07:002013-03-15T15:42:43.512-07:00I guess so. Dick.I guess so. Dick.Anna V. Xolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04110237336173651909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-84817185109187626682013-03-15T15:30:28.902-07:002013-03-15T15:30:28.902-07:00Steubenville has a long history of covering up for...Steubenville has a long history of covering up for its star football players. The police chief and DA should be brought up on charges.Speakeasy Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15969516814446771163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-69051731867246137202013-03-15T15:24:12.059-07:002013-03-15T15:24:12.059-07:00Completely agree @Its just UCompletely agree @Its just UAll about Evehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13782533543520649126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-17079090781402383902013-03-15T15:23:44.128-07:002013-03-15T15:23:44.128-07:00I think the point here is that it's pretty dif...I think the point here is that it's pretty difficult to take anything the girl says seriously, as she has little to no credibility. I have no way of knowing if she was raped, molested, pimped out, or whatnot when she was a kiddo, but I don't buy it solely because she says so. What I do know is that countless men and women she worked with said she was a mature, enthusiastic, willing and informed participant. Others prefer their own beliefs that anybody who does porn at 16 is necessarily being abused. On that we just have to disagree.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04550770750585181303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-89192321133417267352013-03-15T15:20:29.817-07:002013-03-15T15:20:29.817-07:00And some people are rationalizing. It kind of make...And some people are rationalizing. It kind of makes me wonder why you're so bent on trying to convince people what occurred was okay. You wouldn't happen to have a teenage stepdaughter, would you?Speakeasy Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15969516814446771163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-90608496078845655482013-03-15T15:15:08.730-07:002013-03-15T15:15:08.730-07:00I think it has a lot more to do with the fact that...I think it has a lot more to do with the fact that she was underage and her stepfather got her into the business. But hey, try to justify your repulsiveness any way you'd like if it makes you feel better.Speakeasy Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15969516814446771163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-17740723005096068162013-03-15T15:10:30.705-07:002013-03-15T15:10:30.705-07:00^ So much this!^ So much this!Speakeasy Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15969516814446771163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-33857910679097746172013-03-15T15:08:26.961-07:002013-03-15T15:08:26.961-07:00Because after being pushed into porn while she sho...Because after being pushed into porn while she should have still been in high school, she had so many skills to fall back on, right?Speakeasy Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15969516814446771163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-6143092165867946672013-03-15T15:06:27.156-07:002013-03-15T15:06:27.156-07:00Sorry Dick Largeless, but she was exploited the mo...Sorry Dick Largeless, but she was exploited the moment someone put her underage ass in front of a camera. Speakeasy Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15969516814446771163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-17779866222213772882013-03-15T15:00:54.703-07:002013-03-15T15:00:54.703-07:00Just Curious, you are one entertaining moron. I kn...Just Curious, you are one entertaining moron. I know others on this site want you to go away, but you always give me my biggest laughs of the day. Please don't ever stop dropping your hate-fueled sh*t bombs on us. I'd miss your unique brand of idiocy.Speakeasy Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15969516814446771163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37309174.post-25721967121426885202013-03-15T14:49:44.650-07:002013-03-15T14:49:44.650-07:00@Dick: I completely agree with u teens aren't ...@Dick: I completely agree with u teens aren't dumbasses generally and understand what they are doing, but the thing with Traci is that she was abused at a young age and she was living with a stepfather who was taking advantage of her. If that happens at an early age, you change. She is/was damaged goods. When she was around industry people she was accepted and got 'love' by doing the only thing she knew how to do: spreading her legs. <br /><br />@YoMisho: she was raped as a kid. I don't remember the story completely but she didn't see the rape as the 'taking of her virginity' because she didn't want it to happen. She saw her first consensual-sex-act as her first time, eventhough technically it wasn't. Shit You Can't Buyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09614490460174968383noreply@blogger.com