Was Oksana Trying To Get Mel Back?
TMZ obtained an e-mail from Mel Gibson and the reply from Oksana Grigorieva. It is pretty obvious TMZ got the e-mails from someone on Mel's side since they have been huge Mel supporters from day one. As I have said before, you cannot have that Warner Brothers library go to crap so TMZ and the other Warner Brothers subsidiaries have been stepping up and making sure Mel gets as much positive spin on things as they can. Don't ever forget who owns TMZ when you read Mel Gibson stories on their site because they will never tell you.
With all of that being said, the e-mails they obtained are kind of strange. They are dated March 1st. All the taped things we have previously heard occurred in the first week of January. In March, Oksana was already discussing the events of January with investigators so you would think she would have extra anger towards Mel, but it seems like she wants to get back together with him. In his e-mail to her, Mel calls himself a failure and blah blah blah. Oksana replies a few hours later by telling him he is a great guy and a amazing and she will be sure to tell their daughter that too. Oksana's English is not fantastic and when you combine it with text abbreviations it can be tough to read. However, the last sentence is pretty easy to understand.
"I love u, that doesn't change. Even if u don't want it anymore."
Now is she saying that he does not want her anymore, or her love? It seems like the answer is obvious and it is referring to her love rather than her, but if you read the rest of the e-mail, you may get a different opinion. You can read them here.
They also posted his e-mails today, from a week later, March 7, and he was all about "our future" and us and love, blah blah blah.
ReplyDelete"In March, Oksana was already discussing the events of January with investigators"
ReplyDeleteWrong. She got the restraining order only in June, and the investigation started in July.
Plenty of Mel's movies on the shelves at Goodwill. Check it out!
ReplyDeleteIs her response part of battered woman syndrome? I am serious and don't mean to be naive about the subject.
ReplyDeleteWomen in domestic violence cases do not leave on average until about the 9th incident.
ReplyDeleteNo, her response is not about battered women syndrome. Her response has always been about money. No battered woman on God's Green Earth cares about money, only love...true love. She is not a battered woman. She's a greedy bitch, and does a disservice to every battered woman I've ever met.
ReplyDeleteThe way Mel treated her and her children, I hope she does get the money. Lots and lots of it.
ReplyDeleteShe may be a greedy bitch, but she didn't deserve what he did to her.
ReplyDeleteTheir relationship was/is so f**ed up in every way, I don't think even either of them could tell you the 100% truth of what happened between them anymore. I don't think either of them walk away from this a "winner."
ReplyDeletehere's part of Mel's mail to which I was referring to:
ReplyDeleteI'm beginning to actually see, in retrospect, how screwed up I have been. The work that needs to be done.
I have been kind of neutralized into a calmer consideration of all things in order to take stock & heal me & heal us.
I love you. I want to be here for you & Lucy.
I'm beginning to understand something of myself & my dysfunction
That may be a key to our future.
I was terrified of where we were going & my outbursts & the potential for damage.
I'm still a bit lost & instinctively feel that I have to go easy & let us flow back together.
I'm asking for your patience so we can grow into the future.
Anything worthwhile doesn't happen overnight.
I'm sorry for your discomfort.
I feel you are getting something from this therapy too.
Please don't be anxious.
I love you
I don't even care to know anymore about this case. Regardless of what type of "person" she is, she did not deserve any of the abuse he dished out at her. He's a crazy asshole, and that's that.
ReplyDeleteI agree Kate and Jamie's Girl. I hope this bitch gets an education and a job. Her child support can make this so.
ReplyDeleteDon't know much about Oksana but Mel has a long track record. Considering his emails to her, it's easy to think she believed he loved her and it probably wasn't easy to see the relationship end after just having a baby. Mel clearly has rage issues and he admits as much. I hope everything turns out well for her. I don't care about him.
ReplyDeletethese two again? mah.
ReplyDeleteMel was dead to me after the DUI rant.
ReplyDeleteWhen you're dealing with staggering wealth and a woman determined to get a huge payday using kids as leverage and releasing an angry rant to the media, I almost can forgive Mel's anger and frustration. And the abuse part. It may not have happened. If it did, no excuses.
ReplyDeleteOksana should be dealing with this privately instead of convicting Mel herself in the press.
@anarchi and others - I have seen NO evidence that Oksana has ever sought a huge payday or used her kids as leverage. Where do people keep getting this from?? And frankly, even if she WAS a gold-digger, NO ONE deserves to be called the filthy names he used for her or treated in such a degrading manner. No one.
ReplyDeleteHe's the one that should give HER a blow job.
I stand by what I say. This bitch needs to get an education and learn to support herself in the future.
ReplyDeleteI work with people from Africa who have lived in dismal places jst like her, who come to this fucking country for an EDUCATION. Because that opens the doors for better opportunities. Not jumping on some white westerner's dick. This trick came to trick with hopes that some man will care for her. I don't give a shit about her so called career either. Live and learn, then get the fuck on.
Mel can go to hell and take this Eastern Bloc bitch with him. The kids need better care anyway.
I didn't know Mickey Rourke commented here.
ReplyDeleteI don't think she deserved what he dished but there is something about her that I don't trust.....
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