I hate dudes that do this. You wanna lie to yourself then sure, go ahead but don't drag other people into your bullshit and make them believe that you love them and take years from their lives.
Many gay men think women are disposable. I know someone who is now a single Mother because she was used by a gay man. She had to raise the kids, do the housework and hold down a job while he spent most of the time lazing around the house drinking. He hit her on a couple of occasions too. He dumped her for a man he met online and everyone applauded him for being "brave" while she gets slagged off for being a single Mother.
But we're not allowed to talk about it because it's "homophobic" to criticise gay men who trap women into loveless, usually violent, marriages.
I know a lady that was married to a closeted guy for twenty years. All she wanted was kids and a stable family. Her ex-husband was fucking guys on the DL during their whole marriage then finally dumped her after two decades for some young guy. Now she's in her sixties and completely alone. You're right, VS. Everyone is calling that guy 'brave' and honoring his 'struggle' while completely ignoring the fact that he basically ruined this woman's life and at this point, she will never have the family that she always wanted.
Wow that’s an amazing point. It’s sad from every angle but this is so true. You never hear anything about how sad it is for the women they leave behind.
If it is Brandon Jenner, they were together for 14 years. They met as teens. It's not unusual for people to figure themselves out down the line. As we've seen with Bruce/Caitlyn and are seeing with Kendall. The Jenner side is looking to be a good argument for genetics.
I call BS. I don't know a single dude that questioned their sexuality after puberty. If this is Brandon, he knew he liked the D so he should have never married her and wasted fourteen years of her life. Bruce is a terrible example too. He always knew that he wasn't straight but still chose to enter relationships with women.
Meredith Baxter didn't acknowledge to herself that she was into women until she was well past 50, so I can see Brandon not having a handle on it until recently.
@VikingSong - I am a gay man i totally agree. Its one thing to live a closeted life, but to involve other people and children is wrong deceitful and just plain disgusting. I dont ever pressure anyone to come out of the closet. Its a very personal choice and should be done when a person is ready. But to drag someone into this just to protect you is so selfish and unforgivable. And for the men who then lie and say I thought I was a straight is a lie a bold face lie.
I think people don't want to acknowledge that sexuality isn't as concrete and "black and white" as they would like to believe. In Kinsey Studies and other famous sexuality studies, it's found that a majority of people fall within the bisexual spectrum. This man may have at one point loved this woman, but now, maybe the connection is gone and he wants to move on. People know when there isn't a good connection, so I'd doubt that the wife thought their marriage was great. People get comfortable or lazy. Over 60 percent of all marriages in the US become divorced. People lose attraction regardless of the orientation many times. For people under 40, sexual fluidity is a lot more common and accepted than for the older groups.
Had no clue about Brandon!! My oh my!! Off to google. Agree with you Viking Song. I now a few too. Usually very wealthy families afraid to come out to pops.
I knew a guy that was married to a woman for 20 years a she became a raging bitch and a pill head.... all he wanted was a family and a sane/sober partner. She wasted 20 years of his life...
Knife cuts both ways... life isn't a fairytale. MANY women have split from their longtime hetero marriage to run off with their vegan lesbian yoga instructor as well.
@orangesoda,Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner still prefers women,or so it seems. Brandon may not have been honest with himself at the time of his marriage. But I do agree,women get the raw deal when the man leaves for another man, unlike when he leaves for a woman.
Sorry but any man who gets in a couple to look “normal” then leaves the woman for a man, doesn’t deserve to be praised or glorified. Same goes for men who prefer other men but get in hetero couples, anyway. These men,generally hate women, are bitter and hold a lot of resentment,towards the woman they’re with.
Jack Osbourne? Really? When I heard he got divorced I was a bit surprised. But it could have been for any reason.
I was a bit confused because Ozzy is a metal god and therefore can never be B- list. But the terrible grammar of blinds tripped me up again and they meant the offspring was B-. Is Jack that low though? I'd think his name recognition would bump him up a bit. Especially since The Osbournes was so big.
So Orangesoda, because YOU didn't know anyone who questioned their sexuality past puberty...that has what to do with the billions of other people on the planet that you don't know? And just out of curiosity, how many of the people that you knew during and post puberty do you still stay in touch with? Some of them just might surprise you.
And sexuality and identity are two entirely different things so Bruce was a straight man and Caitlyn by all appearances is a lesbian female.
Bubbles, you just claimed that there are billions of gay people on the planet. Your argument is absolutely 100% scientifically WRONG. Don't pull the whole 'we are all on the bi spectrum' thing with me because that is bullshit and if you knew anything about human sexuality and the representation of homosexuals in humans, then you would know that. But you don't know that. You just want to screech.
And Bruce is not a gay female. Even after cutting his wang off, he said he'd fuck men now, so he clearly is not a 'straight female.' He was always a confused gay or possibly bisexual man.
Well that's surprising! I thought for sure Brandon and Leah broke up because of infidelity. He never pinged my gaydar, which is superb. Btw and ot, if Brandon's bro Brody is ever available--and not gay!--please oh please Enty let me know. Brandon is pretty yeah but Brody is beautiful! :-). I appreciate Caitlyn trying to be a man for so long just for creating that fine gorgeous offspring, lol.
Jack osbourne
ReplyDeleteBruce Jenner, obvs.
ReplyDeleteOh yeah Brandon Jenner
ReplyDeleteBrandon Jenner
ReplyDeleteHoly cow, there's always someone I've never heard of popping up, are they mole people?
ReplyDeleteI can see this. Hes awfully pretty
ReplyDeleteBrandon Jenner, for sure.
ReplyDeleteA family so big and no gay? Quite strange to be true, yet another family of rabbits...
ReplyDelete+1 Danilo, and yet they claim to be so tolerant.
ReplyDeleteI hate dudes that do this. You wanna lie to yourself then sure, go ahead but don't drag other people into your bullshit and make them believe that you love them and take years from their lives.
ReplyDeleteYup. Brandon Jenner. Don't know how the heck he rates B though.
ReplyDelete1+ @OrangeSoda
ReplyDeleteMany gay men think women are disposable. I know someone who is now a single Mother because she was used by a gay man. She had to raise the kids, do the housework and hold down a job while he spent most of the time lazing around the house drinking. He hit her on a couple of occasions too. He dumped her for a man he met online and everyone applauded him for being "brave" while she gets slagged off for being a single Mother.
But we're not allowed to talk about it because it's "homophobic" to criticise gay men who trap women into loveless, usually violent, marriages.
I know a lady that was married to a closeted guy for twenty years. All she wanted was kids and a stable family. Her ex-husband was fucking guys on the DL during their whole marriage then finally dumped her after two decades for some young guy. Now she's in her sixties and completely alone.
ReplyDeleteYou're right, VS. Everyone is calling that guy 'brave' and honoring his 'struggle' while completely ignoring the fact that he basically ruined this woman's life and at this point, she will never have the family that she always wanted.
Wow that’s an amazing point. It’s sad from every angle but this is so true. You never hear anything about how sad it is for the women they leave behind.
DeleteReally, Brandon!!! Well that wife did have a super annoying baby voice
ReplyDeleteI find this hard to believe.
ReplyDeleteIf it is Brandon Jenner, they were together for 14 years. They met as teens. It's not unusual for people to figure themselves out down the line. As we've seen with Bruce/Caitlyn and are seeing with Kendall. The Jenner side is looking to be a good argument for genetics.
ReplyDeleteI call BS. I don't know a single dude that questioned their sexuality after puberty. If this is Brandon, he knew he liked the D so he should have never married her and wasted fourteen years of her life.
ReplyDeleteBruce is a terrible example too. He always knew that he wasn't straight but still chose to enter relationships with women.
Meredith Baxter didn't acknowledge to herself that she was into women until she was well past 50, so I can see Brandon not having a handle on it until recently.
ReplyDelete@VikingSong - I am a gay man i totally agree. Its one thing to live a closeted life, but to involve other people and children is wrong deceitful and just plain disgusting. I dont ever pressure anyone to come out of the closet. Its a very personal choice and should be done when a person is ready. But to drag someone into this just to protect you is so selfish and unforgivable. And for the men who then lie and say I thought I was a straight is a lie a bold face lie.
ReplyDeleteCompletely agree.
DeleteI think people don't want to acknowledge that sexuality isn't as concrete and "black and white" as they would like to believe. In Kinsey Studies and other famous sexuality studies, it's found that a majority of people fall within the bisexual spectrum. This man may have at one point loved this woman, but now, maybe the connection is gone and he wants to move on. People know when there isn't a good connection, so I'd doubt that the wife thought their marriage was great. People get comfortable or lazy. Over 60 percent of all marriages in the US become divorced. People lose attraction regardless of the orientation many times. For people under 40, sexual fluidity is a lot more common and accepted than for the older groups.
ReplyDeleteI see many women going out as lesbians after living with men, having children. I also find this strange, but it should happen to men too.
ReplyDelete+1 Lou Diamond Phillips comes to mind.
DeleteExactly @orangesoda you wanna be gay that’d great but don’t involve others and make them waste their lives on you
ReplyDeleteHad no clue about Brandon!! My oh my!! Off to google. Agree with you Viking Song. I now a few too. Usually very wealthy families afraid to come out to pops.
ReplyDeleteI knew a guy that was married to a woman for 20 years a she became a raging bitch and a pill head.... all he wanted was a family and a sane/sober partner. She wasted 20 years of his life...
ReplyDeleteKnife cuts both ways... life isn't a fairytale. MANY women have split from their longtime hetero marriage to run off with their vegan lesbian yoga instructor as well.
The man hate from some of you makes Gloria Allred look like a Pamela Anderson.... DAMN
DeleteMaybe it's a relief for the woman, he's not ditching her for a younger woman, he's leaving her because he wants to take it in the pooper.
ReplyDelete"Keep your legs closed to married men!"
ReplyDelete@Mahogany1 keep your was covered to married men!! Lol
ReplyDeleteI think Tricia had it with Jack Osborne. Never got a vibe that Brandon batted for the other team.
ReplyDeletewho tf is brandon jenner... i didnt even know there were more of them...
ReplyDelete@orangesoda,Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner still prefers women,or so it seems. Brandon may not have been honest with himself at the time of his marriage. But I do agree,women get the raw deal when the man leaves for another man, unlike when he leaves for a woman.
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ReplyDeleteSorry but any man who gets in a couple to look “normal” then leaves the woman for a man, doesn’t deserve to be praised or glorified. Same goes for men who prefer other men but get in hetero couples, anyway. These men,generally hate women, are bitter and hold a lot of resentment,towards the woman they’re with.
ReplyDeleteYeah you either like cock or not ..he knew all along he was gay
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ReplyDeleteJack Osbourne? Really? When I heard he got divorced I was a bit surprised. But it could have been for any reason.
ReplyDeleteI was a bit confused because Ozzy is a metal god and therefore can never be B- list. But the terrible grammar of blinds tripped me up again and they meant the offspring was B-. Is Jack that low though? I'd think his name recognition would bump him up a bit. Especially since The Osbournes was so big.
No way Jack Osbourne is gay. In fact, it would shock me if Brandon was either but stranger things...
ReplyDeleteSo Orangesoda, because YOU didn't know anyone who questioned their sexuality past puberty...that has what to do with the billions of other people on the planet that you don't know? And just out of curiosity, how many of the people that you knew during and post puberty do you still stay in touch with? Some of them just might surprise you.
ReplyDeleteAnd sexuality and identity are two entirely different things so Bruce was a straight man and Caitlyn by all appearances is a lesbian female.
Bubbles, you just claimed that there are billions of gay people on the planet. Your argument is absolutely 100% scientifically WRONG. Don't pull the whole 'we are all on the bi spectrum' thing with me because that is bullshit and if you knew anything about human sexuality and the representation of homosexuals in humans, then you would know that. But you don't know that. You just want to screech.
ReplyDeleteAnd Bruce is not a gay female. Even after cutting his wang off, he said he'd fuck men now, so he clearly is not a 'straight female.' He was always a confused gay or possibly bisexual man.
Well that's surprising! I thought for sure Brandon and Leah broke up because of infidelity. He never pinged my gaydar, which is superb.
ReplyDeleteBtw and ot, if Brandon's bro Brody is ever available--and not gay!--please oh please Enty let me know. Brandon is pretty yeah but Brody is beautiful! :-). I appreciate Caitlyn trying to be a man for so long just for creating that fine gorgeous offspring, lol.