If you are going to cheat on your wife for two years and send naked photos and video to a woman, you should probably find out if the woman is real. According to TMZ, the woman Thomas was cheating with sent him a bunch of fake photos and videos of herself, mainly from porn sites. The couple also exchanged lots of dirty e-mails. Everything was great until about six months ago when Thomas found out the woman was not real. He was probably wondering why every photo and video was of her naked. I just can't believe she managed to find enough photos of the same porn star to continue a two year relationship. Didn't he notice the photos were all high quality and probably taken by a photographer while all of Thomas' photos and videos were selfies.
Ok, not that I wouldn't be upset that my spouse was doing that, but this is saying he didn't actually have physical interactions here. So..... Not actually cheating.
ReplyDeleteOk, not that I wouldn't be upset that my spouse was doing that, but this is saying he didn't actually have physical interactions here. So..... Not actually cheating.
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ReplyDeleteToo funny, but that's not real physical cheating...
ReplyDeleteWell that's embarrassing...
ReplyDeleteSo this is the new "Cheating?" You're a cheat with a person a continent away, with whom you've even been in the same room? That's the same as hotel rooms and bodily fluids and risks of disease and pregnancy?
ReplyDeleteReally?
little head ruled big head, his wife must be so proud of him
ReplyDeleteBut this dude makes mad bank with his series, so im sure all will be forgiven
So not only was he "catfished" but he pulled a Weiner?
ReplyDeleteHow long before this is greenlit as a Lifetime Movie of the Week?
So lame to expose this poor guy. how embarassing for him and he didn't even do anything that wrong.
ReplyDeleteWorst of all, he held the phone vertically! And he's even done some directing, so I hope the DP has some fun with that.
ReplyDeleteDr. Phil would call that emotional cheating.
ReplyDeleteYeah, it's emotional cheating. The cheating part is kind of up to the spouse's standards at this point. To me it's still a huge betrayal, even without the "exchange of fluids"
ReplyDeleteI dont considered that cheat for me. BUT LMAO.
ReplyDeleteIn this day and age how could this happen after the Manti Teo story I would think people would be smarter.
ReplyDeleteWell, if his wife was taking care of his needs, he wouldn't have to go elsewhere! Totally her fault. She deserves it. She should be thanking him for confining it to the Internet. Hopefully, she's learned her lesson. What an insensitive, selfish bitch. SMH.
ReplyDeleteEmbarrassing but not cheating.
ReplyDeletethankfully for his wife it was internet only. it's an emotional betrayal to his wife and their marriage, but that is for them to choose to work out. but who the heck is with this catfisher selling this story but wants themselves protected. WTH is with that!
ReplyDelete@little miss I dont know whether you are serious or not. SMH
ReplyDeleteDragon: I am about as serious as an honest Enty.
DeleteI think most would be livid if they found out their significant other had a relationship like this. There was an emotional relationship going on there. In my mind, that is cheating.
ReplyDeleteDharma would not approve of these shenanigans.
ReplyDeleteTsk tsk
Ehhhh, I'd be pissed for awhile but it's not a huge deal. It's not like he actually MET her in person.
Kinda like a pen pal, with benefits.
I'm with @Pip. This would be just as hurtful as physical cheating, IMO. It's not like there are no emotions involved just because it's online. If my wife did this to me or vice-versa, relationship would be over.
ReplyDeleteYeah this is cheesy in an anthony weiner way, but i guess it served as an outlet for him. When he films, he flies home to ky or tx or someplace , so thats alot of pressure. I lkie him but guess hes only human. Wonder how wife will handle this. I wouldnt be happy.
ReplyDeleteThis happened two years ago for all we know she probably already knows or they have an "arrangement"
ReplyDeleteIf its the latter she's probably upset it went public.
"Didn't he notice the photos were all high quality and probably taken by a photographer while all of Thomas' photos and videos were selfies."
ReplyDeleteOnce men are being paid attention to, they fall into a dream world or something. Witness men who have lost their fortunes over strippers.
I love how a small independent film has become the vernacular for this sort of switcheroo. Did anyone here see the film "Catfish!"? Very interesting film and I hope that filmmaker goes far. He deserves it.
ReplyDeleteAs far as Thomas goes I hope things aren't bad at home after this.
NO HOTCH NO!!
ReplyDeleteIdk but he is a sexy mofo. SorRy for the wife though I guess.
He seems dull as dishwater.
ReplyDeleteHe took naked seldies and sent them to another woman. That's way more than emotional cheating. That's cheating. Period.
ReplyDeleteSelfies.
DeleteWho the hell is Thomas Gibson?
ReplyDeleteTbh, I always thought he was a nice dude.
ReplyDeleteHis co-stars on Criminal Minds are very fond of him and generally he seems charming and sweet.
But then he got caught drunk driving and now this? WTF?
I hope it's really some old woman with a 'stache. He deserves it.
ReplyDelete@Sherry: there is a tv show about that now. From the same dude, it's on MTV and also called Catfish :) He and his partner help people with online relationships find out who they are really talking to. Some are huge shockers!
ReplyDeleteU can watch it on thedarewall.com
I'm addicted haha
(If u are in the USA u can also watch it on mtv.com, unfortunately not possible in my case ^^)
ReplyDeleteWatching porn/fantasizing is not cheating. When you are interacting with another person -- even if you never meet up, or if they are lying about who they are -- that's cheating. It would certainly lead a spouse to wonder what else he's been up to that she didn't know about.
ReplyDeleteI actually felt sad for him when I saw this video. Couldn't quite tell if he was drunk, but with the DUI bust earlier this year I have this picture in my mind of him as a drunk who has alienated himself from his family. He's away a lot. Do they really want him around when he's home? Would that make him extra lonely/susceptible to wanting attention from inappropriate outlets?
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ReplyDelete@Ruby Dharma...hhahahahahahahah
ReplyDeleteIt's probably wrong that I was all excited to click on this post to see if Hotch was nekkid. I should probably tell the hubby.
ReplyDeleteit's not cheating if he never met her or never interact physically
ReplyDeleteDAMMIT HOTCHNER!!!
ReplyDeleteUgh, that shitty Catfish movie/MTV shit show. I refuse to ever use the word, "catfished." Just no.
ReplyDelete@Becca Parker LOLOL. He truly should know how to hold a camera correctly, agreed.
Yes, he was cheating. Even if he hadn't sent pics of himself. You ALL need to check out the cheesy beach movie he did forever ago. It's hilarious! Alcohol should be involved!!
ReplyDeleteIf I found out my husband had done this, I'd be devastated. I would consider this a sort of infidelity.
ReplyDeleteIf Enty had not called it cheating, you would have all thought that it was. For some reason, disagreeing with anything posted on this site is the new entertainment for the trolls.
ReplyDeleteYes, it was cheating.
@Syko -- I don't know if I would agree with that. We seem to be evenly split on our opinions, and a lot of the "not cheating" votes have come from long-time posters. I just think it's a hot-button issue for some.
ReplyDeleteAgain, I say it's cheating because it's interacting with another person, not one-sided like a fantasy. If you're sneaking around trying to hide your communications from your spouse, you KNOW that what you are doing is a betrayal, IMO.
Not cheating.
ReplyDeleteMy husband married me three years ago, this November, before discovering I was a Japanese sex doll
ReplyDeleteHow is this anyone's business? For all we know, his wife may be totally aware of this. It sounds to me like someone set him up. That's the story -- not the fact that middle-aged guys do naughty things. And, of course, there's the fact he has minor children who will be mortified by this "revelation" that, again, isn't anyone's business.
ReplyDeleteI agree - not cheating. He did this for two years without initiating a real life contact. In other words, he's a few notches above your average male, LOL.
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