This auto tune loving former A- list singer loves having threesomes with his wife and without and will cheat on his wife every chance he gets, but has threatened to kill her if she ever cheats on him.
"Still boggles my mind - guys think it's ok for them to sleep around but aren't ok if their woman does the same. Why?"
I actually have a plausible explanation for this one.
Turns out it has to do with children. Once a couple has a child, what the woman needs from her man more than anything is to be supported. She'll be needing to focus almost all her energy on that child/children. She's got no time time to build and maintain shelter, to go out in the fields for food, or any of that. Both the mother and her child become highly dependent on the father.
Now for the dude to do all the things required of him as a father, there is one thing VERY important to him. That had BETTER be his child.
This is not cultural. It's genetic.
What women look for from men is to be able to depend on them. This is why they want big, rich guys. Little guys with no jobs have very little to offer most women.
And if their guy manages to very quietly score a little opportunistic sex now and then, it's not nearly as big a deal as if she finds out that he's actually keeping another woman on the side. THAT won't cut it.
What men look for from women is exclusive and regular sex. If he thinks his woman is doing another dude on the side, it is guaranteed to drive him absolutely mad.
In practice, of course, it is never quite that simple. But these two forces drive things between men and women and I think this goes a long way towards answering your original question.
Now, MY wife would not tolerate ANY hanky panky and thankfully I have nothing to hide. But my understanding is that this is not generally true.
T-Pain is my first thought for auto-tune singer. There has been talk of him having an "open marriage."
ReplyDeleteIt's T Pain
ReplyDeletehttps://www.hotnewhiphop.com/t-pain-threatens-his-wife-in-weird-instagram-love-letter-news.47545.html
Does Kanye count?
ReplyDeleteIs T-Pain the guy who sings Reverse Cowgirl?
Still boggles my mind - guys think it's ok for them to sleep around but aren't ok if their woman does the same. Why?
ReplyDelete@Liz Pop
DeleteYou see, women are property to be owned and used...
+1 @SteveD There’s a few to choose from on this one.
ReplyDeleteIt's not fair, but it's nice to know who the father is when your wife gets pregnant ;)
ReplyDeleteWhat did she expect? He named himself 'T-Pain'
ReplyDelete@Brayson87 - '87 and you havent been around much marriage or women to have that opinion, have you ? :))
ReplyDeleteT-Pain
ReplyDelete@Liz Pop
ReplyDelete"Still boggles my mind - guys think it's ok for them to sleep around but aren't ok if their woman does the same. Why?"
I actually have a plausible explanation for this one.
Turns out it has to do with children. Once a couple has a child, what the woman needs from her man more than anything is to be supported. She'll be needing to focus almost all her energy on that child/children. She's got no time time to build and maintain shelter, to go out in the fields for food, or any of that. Both the mother and her child become highly dependent on the father.
Now for the dude to do all the things required of him as a father, there is one thing VERY important to him. That had BETTER be his child.
This is not cultural. It's genetic.
What women look for from men is to be able to depend on them. This is why they want big, rich guys. Little guys with no jobs have very little to offer most women.
And if their guy manages to very quietly score a little opportunistic sex now and then, it's not nearly as big a deal as if she finds out that he's actually keeping another woman on the side. THAT won't cut it.
What men look for from women is exclusive and regular sex. If he thinks his woman is doing another dude on the side, it is guaranteed to drive him absolutely mad.
In practice, of course, it is never quite that simple. But these two forces drive things between men and women and I think this goes a long way towards answering your original question.
Now, MY wife would not tolerate ANY hanky panky and thankfully I have nothing to hide. But my understanding is that this is not generally true.
+1 on Kanye. “No sins as long as there’s permission; And deception is the only felony; So never f**k nobody without tellin’ me”
ReplyDelete@LoMo- Clumsy, go phish someone else name-I've-never-seen-before ;)
ReplyDeleteSeems fair....in Hollywood
ReplyDeleteKanye, former A- list? Former A+ list perhaps. Also, he is 100% EN FUEGO so no he is not doing much with Kimpanzee.
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