Saturday, February 09, 2013

Blind Item #1

This A+ list rapper who talks a big game when it comes to women and has had a few high profile relationships with women has always preferred guys. Fairly open secret. The thing is he has never practiced safe sex and one of his conquests is threatening to sue him saying that the rapper passed on the HIV virus. The rap star has refused to take a test proving he is negative.


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  1. This is either kanye or Pdiddy .

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  2. I'm seconding the Fiddy.

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  3. Who ever he's an idiot...

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  4. Clue, the game? The Game....

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  5. I think Pen-a-lope got it, but I this blind was better off unwritten. Enty, private medical information should be private...and if this is totally untrue and a shake down, then it's all the worse. That said, EERYONE SHOULD PRACTICE SAFE SEX, including the "conquests!"

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  6. I think Pen-a-lope got it, but I this blind was better off unwritten. Enty, private medical information should be private...and if this is totally untrue and a shake down, then it's all the worse. That said, EERYONE SHOULD PRACTICE SAFE SEX, including the "conquests!"

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  7. PDiddy's pretty solidly straight as far as I can tell.

    50 Cent, Kanye West, and the Game less so. I don't think the Game's A+ list, but 50 and Kanye are.

    Outside shot, LL Cool J. He seems like the experimental type and he's definitely A+.

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    1. LL Cool J is considered A+? Not being snarky at all, just genuinely surprised.

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    2. You're correct. Diddy did a couple chicks I know back in his Jlo days. My girlfriend said he likes to choke chicks out in bed and then refuses to talk for five minutes after sex. He says it's " thinking " time .

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  8. But what high profile relationships has Fiddy had?
    That said, I got nothing.

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  9. Didn't Fiddy "date" Chelsea Handler for a hot minute?

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  10. *If* this is true, I would have no problem with this being revealed. If you're possibly endangering the lives of others, you need to just stop. Yes, all partied involved need to be protecting themselves, but shit happens: condoms break. Ugh. This pisses me off. ;(

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  11. Yah mr wolf i thought about LL cool as well but since hes more into acting this days than rapping .., but i do remember there was a rumor about him back in the day.

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  12. Fiddy. Ted C had a blind about him being into dudes.

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  13. It is Diddy. He has been linked to Cameron Diaz and Jennifer Lopez. Fiddy has Ciara and Chelsea.

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  14. Anonymous9:32 AM

    Morning Everyone! I have good news.. I have talked to my parents, friends, and have a plan to get out! You all were so helpful to me when I was trying to figure out if I should stay or not. Letting me know that what I had experiencing was not love, not acceptable and that I need to go. I do deserve better, and I'm out the door! Thanks again everybody!!

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    1. Yaaaaayyyyy!!!!
      Great news
      Congratulations!

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    2. Anna, xoxo. Where's Shelly?

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    3. I'm so glad to hear it! Keep us updated, and much love and support to you.

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    4. I'm SO happy to hear this. Please let us know how you're doing and stay strong. Having a plan is key, and I'm glad you have the support of your family and friends!

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    5. Yay Anna!!! I'm so happy for you! xoxo

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    6. love ya Ana and good luck!!

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    7. Good woman Anna. There is no more empowering feeling than taking charge and saying enough is enough.
      If you know you deserve better you get better.
      Stay strong. We got your back.x

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    8. Wonderful news! Lots of love to you.

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    9. Congrats! You have the test of your life ahead of you! Carpe diem

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  15. @it's just u - uh, J. Lo??

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    1. Uh, that was Diddy not Fiddy...

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    2. Fiddy.. Diddy. Lol. Fiddy was Chelsea Handler. My bad.

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  16. @Anna! Yes! Hell yes! I'm so very proud of you! Good to hear from you again, girl!

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  17. It is Diddy. He has been linked to Cameron Diaz and Jennifer Lopez. Fiddy has Ciara and Chelsea.

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  19. I'm just sad that anyone gets it, but it's really careless and selfish to pass it on knowingly.

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  20. Anna- i must have missed that post but it sounds like a congrats is in order! ~cheers to a better life~

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  21. 50 cent also dated Vivica Fox for a while.

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  22. 50 cent also dated Vivica Fox for a while.

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  23. Good job, Anna! Stick to your guns no matter what he says, because he WILL try to manipulate you!

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  24. Anna- that's awesome and I'm so proud and happy for you!

    My guess is Fiddy.

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  25. Yay Anna! I am bored to tears at a work conference, and this made me smile. I'm very happy for you!

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  26. I had a giddy moment when I thought of Kanye & Kim but I know it's wrong, darn it!

    Best wishes to you Anna!

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  27. Only one person is not practising safe sex – then the other people were being raped or sexually assaulted.

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  29. @Anna, good for you! What Amber wrote is right, he'll try to get his claws back into you, but you need to be free of him more than he needs you! Good luck!

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  30. I think it's 50; doesn't he have "beef" with The Game? Hence the hint?

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  31. Anonymous9:59 AM

    Thanks all!! You guys rock. Listening to you was the first step in realising, yeah, this is super f'd up, and I don't think it's just me. I talked to my Mom, and she's letting me stay there for a month or so. Then I have a plan to move in with a friend long term. Everything's going to be ok. I can't wait! Thanks you guys!! I know he'll try to get his hooks in, but he's a dumb ass, an idiot. He's one of those super manipulative weasel types, and to do that effectively the person must be smarter than you, or at least as smart. To confuse you, outwit you, pull the wool over your eyes. He's good, but he's not that good is what I'm trying to say. I see through him, I see the game, the lies, who he really is. The jig is up. He's an asshole. I'm so so soooo sooo sooo done. I changed my name to where's shelly, because I was afraid of him backtracking me. But you know what? I hate him, and I don't give a damn if he finds out.

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    1. Your partner should trust you and not feel the need to track your computer habits or check your phone. I certainly don't on my husband and he doesn't on me. That says a lot Anna. Run as fast as you can.

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    2. Well done Anna!! Very proud and happy for u. Good luck to u, and remember no matter how hard it might seem initially, it will get better. X

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    3. I've been reading this blog for years and have never written in the comments but had to today to say good for you x

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  32. Anna: good luck and stay safe.

    No clue for this guess.

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  33. This is a despicable, made up post,a money grab.For the record, it takes 2 people to practice safe sex. There's no "rape". Geez.

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  34. Anna, I wish RiRi was as smart as you are...

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  35. Anna I'm so proud of you!!!! Stay strong, stay safe, and take care of yourself. *beaming with pride and happiness* (seriously, this just made my day)

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  36. pen-a-lope - good guess and I LOVE that movie!

    safe sex everyone. condoms all around!

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  37. @Anna -\o/

    Dating Chelsea Handler for a hot second would make me bat for any other team, too.

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  38. Yay Anna! You have our support! If you ever need to talk you know we are all here for you. The world is yours now :)

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  39. Congrats Anna

    I'm going with DR. Dre. Didnt that little girl outed him on twitter. He is well known to be gay! Trust me I know

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  40. Fiddy.

    Good luck, Anna. I missed the original post, but I gather you're leaving an overbearing asshole of a boyfriend. I did it at age 22 and it was one of the smartest decisionsI've ever made. Stay strong and look forward to a happy future! :) hugs!

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  41. Anna, great news. Please keep us posted when you do get out. All the best wishes in the world. Your honesty & openness may well have inspired someone else in your same situation to leave too. Great start to my Sunday (in Australia).

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  43. Good for you Anna! Stay strong. The ladies here are so supportive, remember that they are here for you. Please keep updating your positive steps.

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  44. Yay Anna! I hope everything goes according to plan!

    I hate irresponsible sexual partners. Fuck with your body all you want, but don't fuck with mine. This is why you should ALWAYS WEAR CONDOMS! I would double wrap them if I could, but I heard that makes them break easier.

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    1. Never double wrap....the friction will cause a tear.

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  45. Fiddy was also linked to Jessica Alba. I think this blind is about him.

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  46. I aint buying fiddy as A+ list Rapper. That's like some one like Dr. Dre

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  47. Oh, Anna, this makes me seriously proud of you. You have been on my mind a lot lately, thank you for giving us the update, stay strong and know that you got this.

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  48. Good for you Anna!! I hope everything works out and keep us posted! This is the beginning of a new life for you :)

    I'm not sure it's Diddy because wouldn't it say celebrity instead of just rapper? He's a producer and he was in a reality show and has a clothing line.
    Dr Dre is an interesting guess but what high profile relationships has he had?
    Kanye might be a good guess too but again who were his famous relationships? All I know is Amber Rose and Kim. I think this is Fiddy Cent, he's had a few high profile relationships and there's always been rumours about him.

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  49. good luck Anna, stay strong and be brave! You know you are!

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  50. Anna, glad to hear that you're ready to take this step toward the rest of your life. I pray for continued strength to get through the difficult part.
    It's a marathon, don't get discouraged because the road is long--the destination will be worth it! :)

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  51. @La Descarda - LL's a legend in rap, so I'd say so.

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  52. @ Anna - That's great news! I didn't realize you were Where's Shelly. Please keep us posted and let us know how fabulous you are doing!

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  53. Anna, he will call, text, email. Do not respond. He is a piece of shit. I slept on a relative's couch for over a month, after an asshole ex cheated, chose the "other woman", and left me essentially homeless (name wasn't on the lease). It was the best thing that ever happened to me! I felt like shit, but it got so much better. Without him around, making me feel like i was worthless, I learned I am pretty damn cool on my own! He tried to contact often, and I blocked him on my phone, email, you name it. Life is so awesome when you are in a better frame of mind, just wait. I am thrilled you are out of there.

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  54. Ooh, he also tried calling at my old job. You may want to tell your coworkers, or the person answering phones, to not send him through to you. Stay strong!

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  55. This doesn't need to be revealed to be effective. People, not only we plebes, read this column. If it gives even one person pause about getting involved with A+ rappers without a wrap then it has done its job. Just because you're famous doesn't mean you can't also be a sociopath.

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  56. The reckless or intentional transmission of HIV is still a crime in most states. If this rapper thinks not being tested will keep him above the law, he is wrong.

    Having said that, anyone who has unprotected sex with a rapper is an idiot.

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  57. Situations like this make me angrier than little else can. This is either going to come out, or the person he infected is going to walk away with at least half his fortune. I'm so thankful that HIV doesn't have to be a death sentence anymore.

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  58. I have to agree with Agent**It; willingly sleeping with someone who refuses to use a condom can't be construed as rape by any stretch of the imagination.
    I don't understand how one can have consensual unprotected sex and then sue when one ends up with any of the predictable sexually transmitted diseases.

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  59. Didn't Diddy and Sienna Miller hook up for a while? He seemed pretty happy to see her on one of the award show red carpets a few weeks back!

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  60. @Elissa, knowingly infecting others with HIV can lead to criminal prosecution.

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  61. I immediately thought Piddy, Diddy - whatever he's calling himself these days. He rented a friends house in East Hampton years ago, and was known for having all guy parties with tons of pot.

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  62. Didy dating Cassie now

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  63. I don't think it is puffy. Puffy Daddy has a lot of kids, pays a lot of a child support, which a hell of extreme to cover up your gay. Plus, wouldn't any of his baby momma's or children have caught something by now?

    I think Dr. Dre is gay, but I don't think it's him cause he hasn't really had any high profile relationship. I think this is Fiddy since he dated a few B list celebs (Chelsea, Vivica, and Ciara).

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  64. Yep, 50 and Floyd Mayweather has been his long standing boo. I loved when 50 picked up Floyd from jail and the two of them drove off in the Bentley. It was like Whitney being there when Bobby got out of jail.

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  65. Hmm. I thought once it was found out that Tommy Morrison was HIV+ the sport started doing mandatory testing. If Floyd is Fiddy's love bug then at least he's playing safe, right?

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  66. I am in denial over Floyd:)

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  67. Kanye. From the rumors, I always thought Fiddy/DIddy/Puffy was more bi (or bicurious for kicks) and Kanye was gay. Considering how tight Jay and Kanye are, it's funny how Kanye is never part of the women-related stories that get told about Jay.

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  68. Why isn't anyone guessing Jay-Z? He's as A+ as they come, and has been the subject of gay rumors.

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  69. anna; late to the commenta here, but i left a bad marriage and i have to tell you; just backing out of the driveway, knowing i wasn't coming back felt like the biggest high in the world. not sure of your situation, but if you have stuff you want, move a little of it at a time to a friends or your moms. start getting copies of records, financial stuff, etc. take the thinga that really matter to you (pictures, family keepsakes). make sure you change all your passwords and the info on your accounts. if he has keys to your car get the locks changed.

    good luck to you!

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  70. This is Wiz Khalifa (Black & Yellow). He is supposed to be Amber Rose's baby daddy! Rumors about him be positive for a few years now. Sad.

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  71. Wiz isn't A+ rapper and he doesn't have high profile relationship so it ain't him

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  72. Dr Dre has no high profile relationships not to mention he hasn't come out with anything in more than a decade, so while he's a rap legend and icon, I think its someone much more current on the scene.

    And Diddy has been having all male parties in the Hollywood Hills as well and was thought to be involved in the suicide of a music industry exec as a result of a sex tape blackmailing scandal about to come about before his death.

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  73. There have always been gay rumors about Eminem, but given his acting resume, I would think he would be described as a celebrity, not just a rapper.

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  74. Anna,
    i am happy for you but still a little worried. men like that don't take "no more" lightly.
    remember to watch your back. it won't be for forever, but rejection to a man who has no respect for you may believe he has nothing to lose. be safe. and keep focused.

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  75. Anonymous7:18 AM

    Kan-gay.

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