Apparently Emily Maynard has cast some type of spell over Jef Holm and he is too in love to see it. There are a zillion reports out there about how Emily cheated on him and the guy just does not care. This is just like the winner from Vancouver who moved down to Chicago to be with the guy she picked because she didn't believe any of the stories about him cheating. Well, when he kept getting phone calls in the middle of the night or disappearing a few hours at a time she finally got the message and moved back. Jef says that all he cares about is moving closer to Emily and her daughter and moving on in their lives together. Uh huh. Meanwhile I think his family is spreading reports about the couple fighting because they want Jef to get his head out of the sand and see what is going on around him. This is going to explode into the biggest Bachelor/Bachelorette breakup ever other than anything having to do with Vienna.