Thursday, November 15, 2012

Jason Trawick Hates Britney Spears

There is no way that Jason Trawick can break up with Britney Spears. All he can do is hope to keep her heavily medicated and deal with the situation he has put himself into. A new report in US Weekly says that Jason hates Britney and that he makes fun of her and mocks her. His favorite trick is to put her on speaker phone when she calls so all of his friends can hear her nagging him. Do you get the feeling that a lot of people close to Britney mock her? I bet they do. I bet they treat her like crap behind her back. You know why? because they all want to keep making money from her. Why don't they let the woman retire and move to Louisiana and let her be her. Hasn't she made enough money for everyone by now? I guess if you are not having to do any of the work but get to keep all the money and have the court system helping you achieve it, things are a lot easier. I feel sorry for her.

83 comments:

Marisol Habibi said...

that is horrible. I actually feel so bad for her. WHY CAN'T SOMEBODY JUST SAVE HER

Amber said...

This guy gives me the heebies. Something just seems off, but who knows. Hopefully this is a load of crap. :/

urban chaos said...

IDk what her current mental state is but I have long felt she should quietly live out her days out of the spotlight.

Stefa-fa said...

I wish someone who truly had her best interests at heart (and no interest in her money) would pull her out of the public eye for good and help her.

MadLyb said...

Poor thing. I don't care how rich and famous she is. I've never seen a human being look more miserable in my life. Look at her eyes. It breaks my heart, and I was never one of her fans. I wish she could burn off all the leeches and life a quiet, simple life away from the madness.

MadLyb said...

life = "live"

Brian said...

I'll wager that he tells her all kinds of lies too. I'll bet that she thinks she is broke and if she doesn't work the court will take her kids away. He probably tells her that if she doesn't do as told, he'll have to report her to the judge and she'll be institutionalized again.

If she ever gets out from under this conservatorship, it will be very interesting to hear what it was like.

Vicki Cupper said...

Too bad she can't fake her and her kids' deaths and move to some bayou in Louisiana. Everyone around her is, for lack of a better word, toxic.

hunter said...

Agreed - her eyes always look so saaaaddd now. Didn't used to.

And she is NOT aging well, maybe it's too much California sun?

rhinovodka said...

he's yucky looking. hope she gets far away from him.

Jules_345 said...

This.

Icecat said...

Yeah.. Brit Brit has grown on me. I wish she would do the same. Move back home, buy a modest house and raise her children. I think it would do wonders for her psyche..

Jules_345 said...

I really hope this isn't true, such a sad story.

I have read in the comments that she doesn't even see the boys that often...is that true? This is the only gossip site I am on now that Ted C is gone so of its not posted here I don't see it.

Sugar said...

Poor Brit Brit. She is so medicated I can hear it in her voice. If this is true I am so sad for her.

And I just have to get this out: she's so boring on X Factor but I do think she is doing a good job with her mentees. Is that a word??

cc423 said...

I have felt bad for her for years. So many people in Hollywood are way more messed up than she is and they do not have all of their money, projects and time controlled by a conservatorship. Seems weird and fishy to me. Oh... and Jason is a total dick.

LottaColada said...

I am so out of the loop when it comes to Britney. Is Jason really that bad? I am shocked by everyone's comments. I was really hoping he would be a platform of stability in her life. What other dirt on Jason is there?

Cheryl said...

This sounds so much like what happened to Anna Nicole Smith (remember the HORRIBLE video of her made up like a clown??)

sifichick said...

My heart actually breaks for this poor woman. She needs to either gain control of her life back or have someone with no vested interest in her finances control the conservatorship.

I'm on board for her moving back to Louisiana & living a quiet life away from the public. She's made enough people more than enough money at this point. She also has enough to last her for the rest of her life. All the stress these people put her under is not good for her state of mind. Which is probably why she melted down in the first place.

I wish she'd find a nice guy for once. She seems to have a knack for picking losers. Men who are only after her because she's Britney Spears & she has money or can make them money.

It's really sad what's happened to her. I've never been a fan of her music. I just see in the gossip sites what's happened to her. The difference between her & Lindsay is that at least Britney is trying to get better. I've never seen a report where she blames everyone else for what she's done. Which is why I can empathize with her.

Moose said...

But if he leaves, who will actually author the book "she's" writing?

Del Riser said...

I've not been a huge Britney fan, wrong generation, but this kind of treatment, if true, is abysmal.

There must be enough money for her to still take care of her immediate family while living a quiet life somewhere with her boys.

Doesn't anyone truly care about this woman?

This is where I hope Karma gives these leeches a big 'ol smackdown.

cinephreak said...

*sigh* poor Brit, she really cannot catch a break can she? At this point I feel she'd be better off living up here in the mountains with some nobody whos never even heard of her and could care less. Then she'd actually be able to live her own life.

I can only imagine the cocktail of psych meds shes on... It honestly makes me so sad for her, I just wish I could help her, n0obody wants to help her...

I hope one day she realizes whats going on and stands up for herself. Sadly I dont think that would ever happen... She'll be drifting in a fog until she leaves us :/ I can't help but worry that shes at risk for suicide.

cinephreak said...

Also, Ive always thought Jason was a total creep, maybe not as in your face creepy as Lutfi, but definitely something shiesty going on there

Syko said...

I've always had a bad feeling about this guy. What an absolute asshole!

I feel so sorry for Britney. When she was on "Ellen" and learning to dance gangnam style, she behaved very oddly and seemed so pitiful. If you didn't see it, it's on YouTube. Poor little thing. She needs to escape even more than Katie Holmes did.

Robert said...

I feel sorry for her too, and I'd love to see her get control of her own life back so she could dump all the leeches like her family and Trawick.

CarmeliteLady said...

Look at her eyes! She knows. She totally knows. She sure as shit knows. Sure she went batshit when she was taking tons of adderall/meth with Lutfi, but she's got herself under control. She needs to see a lawyer and start speaking up for herself. Everyone sympathizes with her and wants her to be under her own control, you think a judge wouldn't see that too? She needs to start making big waves and doing so in a sane, legal, rational way. Go Britney! You can do it girl! Only she can break her own chains off, no one's going to hand her her freedom. And think what her career can be when she's free. Although, she doesn't seem to want to be in the spotlight anymore. I agree with Enty, let her retire, let her get off the cashmachine that she's been on for her parents her whole life. Let her be her. She has a right to be pissed and rebellious. Who the f wouldn't be?

donner said...

Please let her move to lousyana and retire with her kids. She needs away from Hollywood. Isn't she near 30 by now? Let her live her life. I feel sorry for her.

eris hilton said...

everyone with a soul feels bad for britney. Unfortunately, she doesn't seem to know anyone with a soul.

Karrots said...

I disagree with the sentiment of this thread. Britney has been free to petition the court for control of her affairs for a while now, and I believe at quite a few hearings I believe she was on board with the conservatorship continuing.

It is possible that Britney went to darker places than anyone knew during her meltdown, and feels safer in the care of others. She may even see it as her best chance at ever regaining custody of her children.

I could be way off base and here and everyone else could be right that she is getting the shaft, but she didn't have to accept the proposal to marry the guy.

ButterKwup said...

I think part of it is that Britney WANTS to stay in the public eye to some extent. She just isn't able to be what she used to be. I don't want her to end up like Norma Desmond. She just needs to ease off and relax with her kids. I think Jamie and Lynn and Jamie Lynn are too accustomed to their lifestyle to go back now.

supapimp said...

I don't feel bad for brit brit one bit. She doesn't even know to pick up after herself and has her maid do it. That's just effin' wrong.

T. E. Cuz said...

britney!! aww...

i never liked him. i think it's always weird/for the wrong reasons (on either side) when some star starts dating his/her manager/superior.

brit, i'm such a fan, always hoping for your happiness!

FS said...

Wasn't this a Blind item here, or did I read it on that other site during one of my very infrequent visits?

I would not be surprised if its true, and if it is, it's horrible. I think Britney likes to sing and dance still, but I don't think she likes being on X factor or likes dealing with the "lifestyle". I agree, she would be happier back in Lousianna, doing a simple tour every other year perhaps. I've never had a good feeling about Jason Trawick. He did a better job of faking it earlier in the relationship, but now he can barely stand to be near her in front of cameras and it shows.

Sandy said...

Oh good grief. This guy is just the caretaker and bodyguard - her FATHER is the one who has her on the stroll in her heavily medicated state. I'm sure Trawick is getting a very nice chunk of change for his duties, but her dad who calls all the shots about her career and work. Remember, he's the one who petitioned for conservatorship and GOT IT.

Trawick may be a horrible douche, but her father is a disgusting, grasping parent, much worse than harpies like Kate Gosselin and Octomom (although I'm sure neither of them would hesitate to do to their kids what Britney's dad is doing to her).

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Roman Holiday said...

Seriously, I didn't know that US weekly was running true stories now? Oh it's Britney so it must be true pfft.......

kelgela2 said...

I just want to go to LA, find her, kidnap her and her kids, and bring them over to Michigan to live a nice life.

Jules_345 said...

I don't like to look at her eyes, you are so right!

Dee Lurker said...

I am suprised by the compassion in this post. ITA w Enty on this one.

caralw said...

Yes, her dad pimped her out to this manager. Oddly, I think everything unraveled when she split with K-Fed. I'm not fan of him, but I think he truly cared for her...

ClaireFrasier said...

I'm old enough to be Brit's mom. (If I had married young). So, I just want to make it all better for her. And I believe her father has her best interests at heart... *HE'S* trying to take care of her, and trying to make sure the vultures don't permanently hurt her. She needs his help. He's not trying to profit off of her, I don't believe.

I would like to believe that she loves the guy in the pic, but the weasel looks like he got a pic with the prom queen (who's got issues of her own)... I hope I'm wrong, and if I am, I apologize Jason. I had hoped you actually cared for her.

NO ONE, no matter who they are, deserves this. Everyone should be loved for who they are... bah

parissucksliterally said...

I feel sorry for her. Even though I live paycheck to paycheck, I wouldn't trade places with her ever.

Graham said...

Has anyone ever seen the Documentary she filmed called, "For the Record?" I just saw it a few days ago, it's available on Youtube.

It was interesting that it was completely uncensored and the crew were allowed to ask her anything and film everything. They had complete access.

I've never had a problem with Britney and actually like her as a person (meaning, she's always been polite in interviews, nice to people, respectful, etc) and I liked her even more after watching this.

It was interesting because we have this perception of her that she doesn't have a lot going on upstairs and she's drugged and she doesn't know what the hell's going on.. but I got a different perspective watching this. I don't know about now, but at the time this was filmed (after the head shaving, et al) she seems pretty aware of what's going on, and she doesn't come across as a total idiot. She's obviously someone who's really sad, made a lot of mistakes (and owns up to it), and probably really feels the need to be loved.

As far as why her father still allows her to be in the spotlight... I think her dad actually does care about her and partly allows her to still record and do shows because Britney enjoys it. If you watch her talk about performing, it's the one time she lights up and she says it makes her feel alive.

Just thought it was interesting.

Desiree said...

FREE BRITNEY!

I am not so sure about this claim, but yes I do feel as though she is nothing but a meal ticket for lots of people INCLUDING DADDY. However, if Jason does feel this way, don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out!!!!

Yes I also feel very sorry for Britney. How in hell does this happen to someone? I know the answer, but still!!!! I don't think I've seen anyone else used and abused this publicly before!

Desiree said...

My thoughts as to WHY she stays? Coercion of course. She lost access to those kids long long ago and I truly feel that she stays because those kids are being used as leverage. She'll never be able to come home and raise those kids. NO WAY. NEVER>

AKM said...

I feel sorry for her, too. She seems like a good, decent person overall, and I'm not even really a fan. (Not a fan at ALL of her music, but I just keep rooting for her in general.)

She needs a genuine friend, for starters. Come to the Midwest, Brit-Brit, and we'll have some good clean sober fun!

OMAMA is BROKO said...

well, I hope this is not true

thetruth said...

I love britney so much!

lakeuniongirl said...

He kind of reminds me of Matt Lauer with hair in this pic. Brit looks confused and lost. :(

Rins said...

The US Weekly article, for whatever it's worth, says they've lost their affection for each other and he mocks her nagging on the phone. Honestly, that could happen between any couple who've replaced affection with resentment. Enty's interpretation makes it sound like Brit's mentally incapacitated and Trawick's mocking her for that, specifically.

That said, if he's sticking around in a dead relationship to milk a cash cow, he's still a douche.

zeldafitzgerald said...

is there anyway we can rescue her?

this akin to katie being held captive by scientology you know.

Mooshki said...

Jason spends two nights a week at a hotel to "clear his head." They should not be engaged. Nothing but misery will come from this.

lazyday603 said...

Jenny used to be exactly the same way when she was with Forrest Gump. "Run Brittany, Run!!"

Jaiden_S said...

I'm not sure I buy this one.

therealjadedentrepreneur said...

What a dick. She deserves way better than these leeching a-holes. She needs real friends who actually care about her, rather than her earning potential and bank account, to look after her.

Elissa said...

Wow. I completely disagree with a lot of these opinions. As much as I would love to see this poor girl out of the spotlight and living a quiet life, she's not capable of making responsible decisions; if that were the case, there wouldn't be a conservatorship in the first place. The only reason it seems that she's got her life in control is that her FATHER has made those decisions, and he's done it well. (Plus, I've read that on her last tour, he filled three different job positions, which saved a ton of money, even after his salary. Doesn't sound like someone who only considers her a "cash cow".) It's possible that she may never be in a position to make her own choices responsibly, without allowing people like Lutfi into her life, and I do think that her father loves her and wants what is best for her. What is he supposed to do, have her retire and spend her days knitting potholders in seclusion in Louisiana?
Mental illness is a scary thing, and I don't think we can accurately judge this situation from the outside. My opinion, though: Trawick shouldn't have been given any amount of control over her. I think her father should have held onto complete control until after the marriage, if at that point it was assessed and seemed like the best option. I'm not convinced that Trawick has her best interests in mind.
I'm also wondering how difficult it's going to be to wrestle that control back from him, if the marriage doesn't happen.

Sherry said...

Thanks Graham for that information. I think Brit loves to perform too and that her dad cares about her. I mean you never hear about the problems he and her mom have, they were quiet about their marriage. And whatever role he plays in her career isn't broadcast like the Loser Lohans or the Simpsons. But Mooshki knows Jason spends the night in a hotel (and I believe Mooshki) so something is NQR there. That being said, how do we know Jason mocks her? I want Britney to be happy but I'm not so sure about the whole truth of this story at this moment. Definitely she should be able to live her own life and find someone she loves and can trust. I just hope she isn't being played.

Lulu G said...

Wow thanks to whomever mentioned "Britney: For the Record". You can see it here: http://vimeo.com/2768467

She seems very much aware of her situation and trying to make the best of it even though she isn't happy about it. Yes there are things not addressed. She seems very determined to make the best of things and have a positive attitude but you can see the sadness. Literally when she starts crying. She says her work and her boys are the only things keeping her going... She seems very sweet and very small...

Lulu G said...

@Graham, thanks .. Also I wonder how much has changed in the 4 years since this For the Record was filmed....

Elissa said...

Slightly off-topic: when Britney was in the middle of her mental/emotional meltdown, updated daily for the entire world to watch, Craig Ferguson one night decided to forgo his nightly monologue and instead gave a very poignant speech about how it was no longer funny to watch this obviously troubled girl struggling, and it shouldn't be mere fodder for tabloids and comedians. (I believe there is a Youtube clip of it.)
I've always admired him for being among the first to see/acknowledge that she was truly in need of understanding and compassion, and desperately needed help.

Andy said...

You all are forgetting something: she does not have custody of the boys, Federline does. And he is not about to move to Louisiana. She is stuck in LA.

Agent**It said...

RumorFix says Trawick did not buy a bachelor pad, but rather “Stays at the W hotel a few nights during the week to ease his commute to Fox.”

Graham said...

@Elissa..

I've never fogotten Craig's monologue about Britney. I thought it was really compassionate and showed what a class act he was.

Graham said...

@Lulu G..

No problem. Glad someone else watched it and was able to take something away from it. I think it reveals a lot, even if it was four years ago.

I have a feeling now the Britney we see isn't so much drugged out as she probably just doesn't know how to act. I have a feeling she's just constantly scared of doing something, "wrong," and losing even more of her freedom.

I will say that having watched that documentary, I don't vibe that her dad is doing all this and treating her like she's a cash cow. This is a man who is basically having to give up his life and raise his daughter all over again.

On top of that, I'm convinced he loves her solely based on the fact that he made her cheese grits. Like, he could have had someone else do it, but he did it himself. I think that says a lot.

Lulu G said...

@Graham - Loved how her daddy made her the cheese grits with Velveeta. That was sweet. I think I pretty much agree with all you say. She sure does look sad though in the photo with this post. I don't know a damn thing about Jason Tarwick but if I had to judge him based soley on his looks, I don't think I like him. I do wish though, as she said, that she had realized she could have just taken her babies and gone back to Louisiana. Maybe then none of the really crazy stuff would have happened for her. It really made me sad watching her break down.

Elissa said...

@Graham, I think that Ferguson is one of the clean & sober success stories, and I like to think that he saw something of himself in her. I also think that his sobriety is still very difficult for him, even after all these years. Just by the way and the frequency that he talks about drugs and alcohol.

I really wish people would give Britney's father a break. I think that any parent would step in to take care of a child who suffered such a horrendous breakdown, but would any of us actually know what to do? HIS child suffered a meltdown with the entire world watching, PLUS brings with her the thousands of details involved in keeping her career/business going. I can't even imagine how difficult it must have been for him.
I know he's not perfect, he's made some mistakes, and I've read the many rumors of racism (not acceptable, if true, but not so uncommon in the southern states), but he did what he had to do for his child, and I respect that.

Agent**It said...

"She went batshit when she was taking tons of adderall/meth" So true !! Wonder if people realize that meth can cause schizophrenia or a diagnosis of bi polar. It may take another 5 years or so, but heck ! She has the funds to help herself. Hope she is a success story. Meth is bad for ya', just sayin '.

Graham said...

@Elissa...

Don't know if you'v seen this but it's a brief interview of Craig talking about his decision not to mak jokes about Spears:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NocUu9aY7TQ

And it's really hard to believe that Britney's meltdown was fie years ago. Does not feel that long ago.

Anna said...

Either Enty is truly worried for Britney or it's the opposite, and his client (or firm) wouldn't mind taking over the conservatorship. I'm not in her home, so I don't know. All that I know is she was out of control, seemed to some degree delusional - and now she's doing better and the children seem happier, or in photos, at least not fearful.

Elissa said...

@Graham, thanks for that, I hadn't seen that one! (It's interesting to hear his accent over the years.)

Also, I find him strangely sexy. :D

PuggleMommy said...

Totally agree, Elissa. Also, I would take what is in US magazine with a grain of salt. Much like this site, I find those type of magazines entertaining, but I don't take a lot of the gossip as truth.

PotPourri said...

Jason Trawick, Jen Aniston's creep. Beautiful women who lack self esteem...it's very sad.

Egyptian Ankh said...

A very good friend of mine has severe bi-polar disorder. Severe. To where she is on long term disability from her job. From what I gather from my friend, she wants/needs someone to care for her when she is down, not so much when she is manic. Could be this Trawick takes care of Britney when she is down and with her father in conseveratorship her affairs are handled. Thankfully Britney can afford her meds and house-unlike my friend.

Unknown said...

This one is completely false, I have been around both and Jason by himself..he adores her, he is as protective of her as her father.

All about Eve said...

She does look scared all the time. I hope none of this is true and this is from US Weekly which is not really a source to be trusted (see Jen Anniston pregnancy story #501)

I just really wish her the best and hope she's able to find some happiness and peace.

ksus said...

i thought she recently broke off her engagement to him??

lc said...

I don't think she PICKED him.he was picked FOR her. She surrendered thinking that he's probably the best she's gonna get.
I hate to say it, but she seemed happiest with KFed. All her fam HATED him when they were together.
I feel so so sad for her. I just want to pull her in and give her a hug. Then plan an escape route for her. She is living a type of battered woman syndrome. Or Stockholm Syndrome. She will never ever know how many people feel for her since her internet usage is monitored.
I hope Simon Cowell helps her.....

lc said...

I don't think she PICKED him.he was picked FOR her. She surrendered thinking that he's probably the best she's gonna get.
I hate to say it, but she seemed happiest with KFed. All her fam HATED him when they were together.
I feel so so sad for her. I just want to pull her in and give her a hug. Then plan an escape route for her. She is living a type of battered woman syndrome. Or Stockholm Syndrome. She will never ever know how many people feel for her since her internet usage is monitored.
I hope Simon Cowell helps her.....

allthesun said...

I will be her friend, it seems like she needs one and has needed one for a very long time.

gr8p said...

I feel sorry for her too. She doesn't need a person to take care of her or to save her. She needs therapy and to be taught life/coping skills. She needs to take a break and get her independence. But she has too many leeches around her. It happens all the time, with child stars. Jacko had the same problem. He suffered with mental illness, most probably a personality disorder in addition to the body dysmorphia.

Charley said...

I read on Radar online that Jason and her are heading for a split: http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2012/11/britney-spears-jason-trawick-wedding-cancelled-heading-split

Im rooting for you Britney!

CSH813 said...

If Britney makes it out of the conservatorship she could, if she chooses, move out of state and still be allowed to have her kids visit her. Britney doesn't have to remain in L.A. just because her kids reside there. Kevin doesn't need to move to wherever Britney is either. They can work out a visitation agreement which will allow the kids to fly out to see her twice a month, alternating holidays, summer vacation and so on. They can be accompanied by another adult such as their personal security guard on flights since they're only 7 and 6 years old.

My comment is @Andy because he said that Britney is stuck in L.A That's not necessarily how it has to be.

Miss X said...

I agree. Someone needs to actually care about her & what happens to her.

AmandaKari said...

I watched a documentary on her a few years ago, and it was basically an hour long cry for help. This poor girl needs someone on her side helping her get out of the spot light so she can finally be free to live her life in peace.