Lacey Chabert did none of those things and just Tweeted a photo at her wedding ceremony. That is just not how the tabloids like it because it makes them think that the celebrity doesn't like them and they really do try to kiss celebrity butt so you love them and want to do all of this for them.
Good for Lacey. Keep doing what you like. Plus now the paps will be stalking her to get a photo of her husband so that means more publicity.