Saturday, February 09, 2013

Blind Item #1

This A+ list rapper who talks a big game when it comes to women and has had a few high profile relationships with women has always preferred guys. Fairly open secret. The thing is he has never practiced safe sex and one of his conquests is threatening to sue him saying that the rapper passed on the HIV virus. The rap star has refused to take a test proving he is negative.

101 comments:

Pen-a-lope said...

Fiddy

Lizzie du said...

This is either kanye or Pdiddy .

MinnieSaSa said...

Diddy?

La Descarada said...

I'm seconding the Fiddy.

MISCH said...

Who ever he's an idiot...

crapbag said...

Clue, the game? The Game....

PS said...

I think Pen-a-lope got it, but I this blind was better off unwritten. Enty, private medical information should be private...and if this is totally untrue and a shake down, then it's all the worse. That said, EERYONE SHOULD PRACTICE SAFE SEX, including the "conquests!"

Bloggertobenamedlater said...

Fiddy.

PS said...

I think Pen-a-lope got it, but I this blind was better off unwritten. Enty, private medical information should be private...and if this is totally untrue and a shake down, then it's all the worse. That said, EERYONE SHOULD PRACTICE SAFE SEX, including the "conquests!"

MrWolf said...

PDiddy's pretty solidly straight as far as I can tell.

50 Cent, Kanye West, and the Game less so. I don't think the Game's A+ list, but 50 and Kanye are.

Outside shot, LL Cool J. He seems like the experimental type and he's definitely A+.

Its just U said...

But what high profile relationships has Fiddy had?
That said, I got nothing.

Jeff Macauley said...

Didn't Fiddy "date" Chelsea Handler for a hot minute?

Meanie Reese said...

*If* this is true, I would have no problem with this being revealed. If you're possibly endangering the lives of others, you need to just stop. Yes, all partied involved need to be protecting themselves, but shit happens: condoms break. Ugh. This pisses me off. ;(

Christopher Cruz said...

Yep...

La Descarada said...

LL Cool J is considered A+? Not being snarky at all, just genuinely surprised.

Lizzie du said...

Yah mr wolf i thought about LL cool as well but since hes more into acting this days than rapping .., but i do remember there was a rumor about him back in the day.

Renoblondee said...

Fiddy. Ted C had a blind about him being into dudes.

Beef Eater said...

It is Diddy. He has been linked to Cameron Diaz and Jennifer Lopez. Fiddy has Ciara and Chelsea.

Anna Nonymous said...

Morning Everyone! I have good news.. I have talked to my parents, friends, and have a plan to get out! You all were so helpful to me when I was trying to figure out if I should stay or not. Letting me know that what I had experiencing was not love, not acceptable and that I need to go. I do deserve better, and I'm out the door! Thanks again everybody!!

tracynator said...

@it's just u - uh, J. Lo??

Meanie Reese said...

@Anna! Yes! Hell yes! I'm so very proud of you! Good to hear from you again, girl!

Beef Eater said...

It is Diddy. He has been linked to Cameron Diaz and Jennifer Lopez. Fiddy has Ciara and Chelsea.

Ruby Soho said...

Yaaaaayyyyy!!!!
Great news
Congratulations!

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Tuxedo Cat said...

I'm just sad that anyone gets it, but it's really careless and selfish to pass it on knowingly.

Sugar said...

Anna- i must have missed that post but it sounds like a congrats is in order! ~cheers to a better life~

Agent**It said...

Anna, xoxo. Where's Shelly?

Tish said...

50 cent also dated Vivica Fox for a while.

Tish said...

50 cent also dated Vivica Fox for a while.

Frufra said...

I'm so glad to hear it! Keep us updated, and much love and support to you.

Kraymond19 said...

And Vivica Fox

Amber said...

Good job, Anna! Stick to your guns no matter what he says, because he WILL try to manipulate you!

rejectedcarebear said...

Anna- that's awesome and I'm so proud and happy for you!

My guess is Fiddy.

PuggleWug said...

Yay Anna! I am bored to tears at a work conference, and this made me smile. I'm very happy for you!

SusanB said...

I had a giddy moment when I thought of Kanye & Kim but I know it's wrong, darn it!

Best wishes to you Anna!

Vita19a said...

Only one person is not practising safe sex – then the other people were being raped or sexually assaulted.

Agent**It said...
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RedHeadMed said...

I'm SO happy to hear this. Please let us know how you're doing and stay strong. Having a plan is key, and I'm glad you have the support of your family and friends!

yodelay said...

@Anna, good for you! What Amber wrote is right, he'll try to get his claws back into you, but you need to be free of him more than he needs you! Good luck!

Its just U said...

Uh, that was Diddy not Fiddy...

Veech said...

I think it's 50; doesn't he have "beef" with The Game? Hence the hint?

Anna Nonymous said...

Thanks all!! You guys rock. Listening to you was the first step in realising, yeah, this is super f'd up, and I don't think it's just me. I talked to my Mom, and she's letting me stay there for a month or so. Then I have a plan to move in with a friend long term. Everything's going to be ok. I can't wait! Thanks you guys!! I know he'll try to get his hooks in, but he's a dumb ass, an idiot. He's one of those super manipulative weasel types, and to do that effectively the person must be smarter than you, or at least as smart. To confuse you, outwit you, pull the wool over your eyes. He's good, but he's not that good is what I'm trying to say. I see through him, I see the game, the lies, who he really is. The jig is up. He's an asshole. I'm so so soooo sooo sooo done. I changed my name to where's shelly, because I was afraid of him backtracking me. But you know what? I hate him, and I don't give a damn if he finds out.

Sherry said...

Anna: good luck and stay safe.

No clue for this guess.

Agent**It said...

This is a despicable, made up post,a money grab.For the record, it takes 2 people to practice safe sex. There's no "rape". Geez.

tracynator said...

Fiddy.. Diddy. Lol. Fiddy was Chelsea Handler. My bad.

L'auteur said...

Anna, I wish RiRi was as smart as you are...

chopchop said...

Anna I'm so proud of you!!!! Stay strong, stay safe, and take care of yourself. *beaming with pride and happiness* (seriously, this just made my day)

Sherry said...

Your partner should trust you and not feel the need to track your computer habits or check your phone. I certainly don't on my husband and he doesn't on me. That says a lot Anna. Run as fast as you can.

Vera L- said...

pen-a-lope - good guess and I LOVE that movie!

safe sex everyone. condoms all around!

Its just U said...

:-) :-) :-)

prolixe said...

@Anna -\o/

Dating Chelsea Handler for a hot second would make me bat for any other team, too.

Blind ItemMe said...

Yay Anna!!! I'm so happy for you! xoxo

__-__=__ said...

love ya Ana and good luck!!

KPeony said...

Yay Anna! You have our support! If you ever need to talk you know we are all here for you. The world is yours now :)

dragon said...

Congrats Anna

I'm going with DR. Dre. Didnt that little girl outed him on twitter. He is well known to be gay! Trust me I know

curlyhairslacker said...

Fiddy.

Good luck, Anna. I missed the original post, but I gather you're leaving an overbearing asshole of a boyfriend. I did it at age 22 and it was one of the smartest decisionsI've ever made. Stay strong and look forward to a happy future! :) hugs!

Its just U said...

Good woman Anna. There is no more empowering feeling than taking charge and saying enough is enough.
If you know you deserve better you get better.
Stay strong. We got your back.x

Nothanksdarlin said...

Ol Puffy dated JLo

feraltart said...

Anna, great news. Please keep us posted when you do get out. All the best wishes in the world. Your honesty & openness may well have inspired someone else in your same situation to leave too. Great start to my Sunday (in Australia).

Xander Dyle said...
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Xander Dyle said...

Good for you Anna! Stay strong. The ladies here are so supportive, remember that they are here for you. Please keep updating your positive steps.

JSierra said...

Yay Anna! I hope everything goes according to plan!

I hate irresponsible sexual partners. Fuck with your body all you want, but don't fuck with mine. This is why you should ALWAYS WEAR CONDOMS! I would double wrap them if I could, but I heard that makes them break easier.

Nosey Parker said...

Fiddy was also linked to Jessica Alba. I think this blind is about him.

dragon said...

I aint buying fiddy as A+ list Rapper. That's like some one like Dr. Dre

E Gee Be said...

Oh, Anna, this makes me seriously proud of you. You have been on my mind a lot lately, thank you for giving us the update, stay strong and know that you got this.

All about Eve said...

Good for you Anna!! I hope everything works out and keep us posted! This is the beginning of a new life for you :)

I'm not sure it's Diddy because wouldn't it say celebrity instead of just rapper? He's a producer and he was in a reality show and has a clothing line.
Dr Dre is an interesting guess but what high profile relationships has he had?
Kanye might be a good guess too but again who were his famous relationships? All I know is Amber Rose and Kim. I think this is Fiddy Cent, he's had a few high profile relationships and there's always been rumours about him.

timebob said...

good luck Anna, stay strong and be brave! You know you are!

CK76 said...

Anna, glad to hear that you're ready to take this step toward the rest of your life. I pray for continued strength to get through the difficult part.
It's a marathon, don't get discouraged because the road is long--the destination will be worth it! :)

MrWolf said...

@La Descarda - LL's a legend in rap, so I'd say so.

Mango said...

@ Anna - That's great news! I didn't realize you were Where's Shelly. Please keep us posted and let us know how fabulous you are doing!

PuggleWug said...

Anna, he will call, text, email. Do not respond. He is a piece of shit. I slept on a relative's couch for over a month, after an asshole ex cheated, chose the "other woman", and left me essentially homeless (name wasn't on the lease). It was the best thing that ever happened to me! I felt like shit, but it got so much better. Without him around, making me feel like i was worthless, I learned I am pretty damn cool on my own! He tried to contact often, and I blocked him on my phone, email, you name it. Life is so awesome when you are in a better frame of mind, just wait. I am thrilled you are out of there.

PuggleWug said...

Ooh, he also tried calling at my old job. You may want to tell your coworkers, or the person answering phones, to not send him through to you. Stay strong!

Ms.Happenstance said...

lil' wayne

NL said...

This doesn't need to be revealed to be effective. People, not only we plebes, read this column. If it gives even one person pause about getting involved with A+ rappers without a wrap then it has done its job. Just because you're famous doesn't mean you can't also be a sociopath.

Scallywag said...

The reckless or intentional transmission of HIV is still a crime in most states. If this rapper thinks not being tested will keep him above the law, he is wrong.

Having said that, anyone who has unprotected sex with a rapper is an idiot.

Alicia said...

You're correct. Diddy did a couple chicks I know back in his Jlo days. My girlfriend said he likes to choke chicks out in bed and then refuses to talk for five minutes after sex. He says it's " thinking " time .

phoenix said...

Situations like this make me angrier than little else can. This is either going to come out, or the person he infected is going to walk away with at least half his fortune. I'm so thankful that HIV doesn't have to be a death sentence anymore.

Jessie said...

Wonderful news! Lots of love to you.

NoraRose said...

Congrats! You have the test of your life ahead of you! Carpe diem

NoraRose said...

*rest

SashaJames2 said...

Well done Anna!! Very proud and happy for u. Good luck to u, and remember no matter how hard it might seem initially, it will get better. X

Claire said...

I've been reading this blog for years and have never written in the comments but had to today to say good for you x

Elissa said...

I have to agree with Agent**It; willingly sleeping with someone who refuses to use a condom can't be construed as rape by any stretch of the imagination.
I don't understand how one can have consensual unprotected sex and then sue when one ends up with any of the predictable sexually transmitted diseases.

IMakeNoSense said...

Never double wrap....the friction will cause a tear.

Max Power said...

Didn't Diddy and Sienna Miller hook up for a while? He seemed pretty happy to see her on one of the award show red carpets a few weeks back!

phoenix said...

@Elissa, knowingly infecting others with HIV can lead to criminal prosecution.

MalibuBarbie said...

I immediately thought Piddy, Diddy - whatever he's calling himself these days. He rented a friends house in East Hampton years ago, and was known for having all guy parties with tons of pot.

dragon said...

Didy dating Cassie now

AllyInCanada said...

I don't think it is puffy. Puffy Daddy has a lot of kids, pays a lot of a child support, which a hell of extreme to cover up your gay. Plus, wouldn't any of his baby momma's or children have caught something by now?

I think Dr. Dre is gay, but I don't think it's him cause he hasn't really had any high profile relationship. I think this is Fiddy since he dated a few B list celebs (Chelsea, Vivica, and Ciara).

Jazzy said...

Yep, 50 and Floyd Mayweather has been his long standing boo. I loved when 50 picked up Floyd from jail and the two of them drove off in the Bentley. It was like Whitney being there when Bobby got out of jail.

NL said...

Hmm. I thought once it was found out that Tommy Morrison was HIV+ the sport started doing mandatory testing. If Floyd is Fiddy's love bug then at least he's playing safe, right?

Agent**It said...

I am in denial over Floyd:)

ino said...

Kanye. From the rumors, I always thought Fiddy/DIddy/Puffy was more bi (or bicurious for kicks) and Kanye was gay. Considering how tight Jay and Kanye are, it's funny how Kanye is never part of the women-related stories that get told about Jay.

greenmountaingal said...

Why isn't anyone guessing Jay-Z? He's as A+ as they come, and has been the subject of gay rumors.

Me said...

anna; late to the commenta here, but i left a bad marriage and i have to tell you; just backing out of the driveway, knowing i wasn't coming back felt like the biggest high in the world. not sure of your situation, but if you have stuff you want, move a little of it at a time to a friends or your moms. start getting copies of records, financial stuff, etc. take the thinga that really matter to you (pictures, family keepsakes). make sure you change all your passwords and the info on your accounts. if he has keys to your car get the locks changed.

good luck to you!

Bsyeventer said...

This is Wiz Khalifa (Black & Yellow). He is supposed to be Amber Rose's baby daddy! Rumors about him be positive for a few years now. Sad.

dragon said...

Wiz isn't A+ rapper and he doesn't have high profile relationship so it ain't him

Bubbles said...

Dr Dre has no high profile relationships not to mention he hasn't come out with anything in more than a decade, so while he's a rap legend and icon, I think its someone much more current on the scene.

And Diddy has been having all male parties in the Hollywood Hills as well and was thought to be involved in the suicide of a music industry exec as a result of a sex tape blackmailing scandal about to come about before his death.

NaughtyNurse said...

There have always been gay rumors about Eminem, but given his acting resume, I would think he would be described as a celebrity, not just a rapper.

tamarind said...

Anna,
i am happy for you but still a little worried. men like that don't take "no more" lightly.
remember to watch your back. it won't be for forever, but rejection to a man who has no respect for you may believe he has nothing to lose. be safe. and keep focused.

Schmucky Putz said...

Kan-gay.