Sunday, September 23, 2012

Zoe Saldana Is Making A Really Bad Mistake

Dear Zoe,

I think you are amazing. When I have met you you have been funny and sweet and seem like a great person. I understand that you think Bradley Cooper is good looking and charming and when he speaks to you in French, you think he is probably saying nice things about you. Has he told you why he got divorced? The truth? You still want to go out with him? Do you remember all the times he has hurt you over the past year? Embarrassed you? Made you feel like crap? You had broken free. You had stopped taking his calls and now for some reason you let him talk you into a movie and then spending the night. Why? You know how it is going to end. The same way it has ended everytime that you have let him back into your life. You already broke free from one bad relationship. Show some of that inner strength and get rid of Bradley. Move on. Find a nice guy like Eric Stonestreet. He would probably love it if you and Charlize Theron were fighting over him.

Enty

199 comments:

MISCH said...

Can't stand Bradley Cooper...and yes I believe he's Gay or at least Bi, but there's also the talk that he can be violent....no I wouldn't introduce him to my worst enemy...

Ingrid Superstar said...

*jazz hands* DRRRRAAAMMMMAAAAAAA!!!

Jenn said...

What's the real reason why he got divorced?

Himmmm said...

I cannot BELIEVE you did this Enty. Just...wow. Big balls my friend. HUGE!

Colleen said...

I'm so sad Will from Alias ended up being such a jerk. :(

Kelsey said...

Plus, to date Bradley, isn't she lacking a very important piece of anatomy?

MISCH said...

The divorce , she either found him in bed with a guy or he beat the crap out of her...
I've heard both....but the one I believe is she walked in on him with a guy..

Unknown said...

She found him in bed with a guy everyone knows this. He meets guys of cragislist and other sites and insisted one time they he get blown throw a sheet - lol the guy pulled the sheet and there was bradly cooper. He is desperate not to be outed because he knows he will never get a list roles.

Basil said...

Did I miss some posts about Cooper over the years? I never knew he was a bad guy.

Ms. Good Intentions said...

Do you think this might be a pseudo reveal to the blind the other day about bearding?

Unknown said...

He can get very angry if you threaten to out him.

katsm0711 said...

We need a name for a closet dweller. Pair of shoes, party dress, I can't think but something that hangs in your closet.

Momster said...

This past year, she hasn't looked so good. She used to be absolutely stunning on the RC from head to toe, but now looks rather lifeless.

CamColty said...

What !!??

dragon said...

he's bisexual and she probably know this and doesn't care. The beating part well I dont know about that. If he hit her then she sent him to the curve

timebob said...

I don't get the vibe he is physicaly abusive but plays head games as well as if not better than John Mayer. It's the Bradley Cooper show and he is the star so be prepared to take a back seat if you want to be with him. Plus he doesn't seem like a particulary affectionate person from his interviews.

pretzel logic said...

@katsm0711

How about "hanger"?

MacAttack said...

Isnt enty basically saying that they're having a sexual relationship by saying he stayed the night and that he kept calling and she finally got away from him, thats a bit much for just a beard is it not? plus the reveal about renee saying he had a tiny penis. maybe he's bi but i dont think he's truly gay. i heard he beat his wife too, who knows. he was good in the Hangover but hasnt really made a decent film since. he's probably acts exactly like his character in wedding crashers, complete douche!

dia papaya said...

Ingrid, great image. Thanks! Do you perform somewhere in Portland? Jazz Hands - live!!!

Ms. Good Intentions said...

Nevermind. I read it again and this doesn't fit.

dia papaya said...

I really like Zoe. She's a strong beautiful woman. Run Zoe! You dont need B Poop!

I'm convinced this must be contract thing bc I never believed them together. I wonder why she agreed in the first place? The body language speaks volumes. She's not into him. B Poop reminds me of all the arrogant frat boys from my youth: good looking on the outside, mean and spoiled on the inside!

katsm0711 said...

More like @pretzelGENIUS!! HANGER IT IS!!!!! I feel like I just about said "hanger" but I didn't put two and two together lol. It's funny how obvious and perfect it is thank you!

Ingrid Superstar said...

dia - I perform in kitchens. My performances typically involve peeling about a bajillion potatoes and washing an endless succession of dishes.

FlirtyChick74 said...

I've gone back to the same guy before so I can't throw stones. All I can say is to put one foot in front of the other and keep it moving girl.

Lala said...

I think from all the blind items and gossip about him he is gay but deeply closeted and when confronted with being outed he lashes out and becomes violent. That's why he got devorced from his ex wife. He beated her after she caught him with a man.
Maybe he tries to sleep with his beards in order to convince himself and them he is straight or at least bi.

dia papaya said...

Any kitchens I would know about and want to sample?

Blindfolded said...

@katsm - closet hanger...

lostathome said...

Esposito won't even talk about him in interviews, and what little she has said, says a lot. He did some shit.

Ingrid Superstar said...

dia - Not at the moment, unless you're itching for some hospital food. :(

childeroland said...

"Broke free from one bad relationship." That sounds like it's not her and Cooper? Who was the other bad relationship? Is that a blind reveal (I'm always missing these things)?

Mari said...

Moth Balls?

Mari said...

Hanger is better!

Just Browsing said...

Hi, Himmmm - Since Enty cracked open the secret door on this one, would you be willing to share some of your insight? It's Sunday; no one else here but us mice!!!!

Blindfolded said...

Zoe, si lo que esta escrito aqui es verdad, espero que realizes que tu ni ningun otra mujer merece este tratamiento. Tu eres una mujer bella, intelligente y fuerte-mereces lo mejor de la vida. Toda niña sueña en encontrar su principe azul. En ser tratada como una princesa. Lo que tu estas viviendo es una pesadilla. Se fuerte y alejate de ese monstruo que no te ama y que no te merece. Tu puedes!!!

Agent**it said...

Balls? I thought Enty had big ovaries :)

Sunny said...

@Just Browsing
Ha ha. Squeak! :)

@ingrid
I don't if you're saying you're a hospital cook or you're in the hospital (I hope it's the first!), but I just want to say your posts always make me so happy :)

FlirtyChick74 said...

@Blindfolded: I read Spanish better than I write it but I agree with what you said.

Sherry said...

Ingrid: Me too baby, me too.

Sunny said...

Hi Sherry! I hope you're having a good weekend. We're never on at the same time

I want to hear the real dirt on Bradley too. The only movie where I liked his character was Valentine's Day. I think he played that creep in Wedding Crashers a little too convincingly

Maggie Casey said...

He looks like an emu

kim butler said...

Zoe girl run! You know you can do better than him. If we think he is bad just imagine what people in Hollywierd are saying. Don't do it girl!

DivaJulia said...

@pretzel -- I don't know, I thought "Party Dress" was hilarious. As in, "Gaaah!! he's SUCH a Party Dress! I thought EVERYONE knew that!"...

Ingrid Superstar said...

Aww, thanks folks, I like making people laugh and be happy, much love to everyone here from me!

dia papaya said...

Well Ingrid, keep putting that love in your food and healing up the hospital peeps. Food heals, darlin'!!!

Alma said...

Moth balls sounds neat on many implied levels.

Robin the Mad Photographer said...

Allow me to perch my glasses on the end of my nose, peer over the top of that at everyone, and slip into English professor mode:

Regarding Himmmm's comment & the responses thereto, the one advantage "balls" has in this context is that it's a one-syllable word that rolls nicely off the tongue but still maintains a punch; while "ovaries" is more technically more accurate in many cases, it doesn't seem to flow quite as well in conversation due to having 3 syllables. Of course, we could just say "gonads," or "huevos" if one wants to wax Hispanic, both of which are reasonably accurate, but I'm not sure "Enty has gonads" works quite as well as "Enty has balls," even if the latter would be better suited to not being sure of her/his gender identity.

Now, metaphorically speaking, based on what they've both posted over the years, it could be said quite justifiably that both Enty and Himmmm have balls the size of church bells; literally speaking, though, that's for Enty's next wife and Mrs. Himmmm to know and the rest of us to speculate about. ;-)

(Hey, I may as well use that B.A. in English; God only knows I paid enough for it...)

Anyway, as for BCoop/BPoop, weren't there stories about him being abusive even before he married Jennifer? I could well be wrong, but I could swear it's been known for years that he's a jerk and an abuser, so surely Zoe's heard the rumors by now. (Zoe, honey, you can do better than him, really! Just DTMFA and go on w/your life, because being single is a hell of a lot better than being with someone who doesn't treat you right, because anyone worthy of your tears wouldn't make you cry them in the first place.)

*DTMFA=Dump The Motherfucker Already, for those few of you not already familiar w/Dan Savage's Savage Love advice column; it was so often his advice regarding any given situation that he finally came up w/an acronym for it. Dan is also the man responsible for the "It Gets Better" videos, and for making Rick Santorum's surname synonymous w/something that couldn't be described or named on broadcast television... ;-)

Robin the Mad Photographer said...

As for the synonym for "deeply closeted person," I was going to suggest "garment bag," just because hangers have an unfortunate association with illegal/self-administered abortions, but then again I am an old geezer...let's see, what else is in a closet? Shoe rack? Shoe tree? Drawer sachet? (Different piece of furniture, but hey...) Hatbox? Pomander ball? (You know, like an orange covered w/cloves that hangs from the closet pole & makes things smell nice?)

Roman Holiday said...
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dia papaya said...

Welcome back @himmmm. Hope you're having a stellar Sunday?

How's that leg doing?

All about Eve said...

This is sad, I really think she's a nice person but him, I've never quite liked him. Maybe his first wife found him in bed, threatened to expose him and he beat her?

missmol said...

Interesting- this is usually blind fodder- wasn't there a blind like this within the last couple of weeks.Bi, straight or gay he is a douche.

Himmmm said...
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FrenchGirl said...

i know what Enty wrote or said about them but they broke before her OUT OF FURNACE filming then they again began to be together in june.
For the note,Cooper looks like her ex-boyfriend and for me,he's bisexual or gay who uses his partners to be more famous (aka his relation with Renee Z)

E Gee Be said...

Wow, Himmmm, I hope she listens...

Boriqua said...

Wow @Himmmm. That is one hell of a comment with some serious backstory to it. Fingers crossed Zoe listens to you, Enty, or anyone else who can get through to her.

And thanks for stopping by again! :)

Me said...

well I don't comment much (been reading enty's blog here for years as a lurker) i wanted to welcome himmmm back, and express my hope that Zoe listens and that she doesn't learn the hard way like I did and like many women do.



Me said...

btw- i know there is another poster called "ME" here I've changed my nic but it doesn't seem to STICK (will try try again i don't want to conFLICT. :P love puns, and word play. probably a bit out of place in such a serious thread but ....)

Basil said...

Just a lowly blog reader here, and have no idea what the heck is going on. But whatever is going on, it appears that 2 people in the know seem to care very much about Zoe, and are also quite sure she reads this blog. Not only the posts, but the comments.

I have to say I am a bit surprised at hearing all these seriously negative things about Cooper. I have never seen a movie or a show he has been in, and have no idea whether he actually is or isn't a nice guy. If he is violent, it certainly should be made known. But if he isn't and people are just assuming he is because of what they read on the internet, well that isn't really fair.

@himmm Whether you are an insider or not, or who people think you are, I have liked your comments and your insider tales and look forward to them. But I really hope what you say is true and not some 3rd hand gossip or even made up.

This should be an interesting thread now. LOL

S.joy said...

Yaaaaay! Himmmm is here! :-)

Mango said...

@katsm0711 - How about... "Closeted"?

Gee, I hope Himmmmm emails that to Zoe, or is he implying that she reads this blog??

celebrity gossip hag said...

Did Bradley Cooper attend Villanova? What did he do there?

dia papaya said...

Himmmm and Enty - I would like to swoop in and high jack Ms Saldana away to Lady Support Island. We'll feed her some of Robin's delicious brownies, make her laugh and bolster her self esteem. I'll give her the best acupuncture body mind soul healing treatment and disconnect the cords to that Poop-head once and for all. Send me Rihanna too while we're working our magic.

Maybe you two can actually make some things happens. Please don't let her end up like all the other used up ladies. Not that I know her personally, but from what I've seen she's an awesome lady who deserves so much more! Zoe, darling, wherever you are, your fans live and support you! Now high tail to Brownie Island!!!

Hugs, dp

Silly Girl said...

Welcome back, Himmmm.....I hope Zoe is listening....

Dianne P said...

I have gotten a bad vibe off BC from pretty much the beginning. And after he and Jennifer Esposito had that brief marriage with no explanation (and some rumors) it just confirmed it. I know my vibe and some rumors don't amount to any proof, but, still.

I hope ZS gets the hell away from him. Life is too short.

Me2 said...

dp what a beautiful idea- brownie island. love the idea of brownies, acupuncture/healing body & mind & soul and cord cutting. definitely add rhianna too if she's open to it.

rejectedcarebear said...

I need swooped away to Brownie Island too!

BigMama said...

well, I would just like to point out that Renee' has been more or less absent from media outlets for quite some time....all since the break up.

Having someone call you out in a public forum can be cause for extreme hurt feelings...however, it would appear to be a kind of intervention on the part of her "friends". I hope both of them realize what they are doing here cause it could backfire tremendously.

dia papaya said...

Love & Support, sorry for the typo.

BigMama said...

@dia papaya - I'll send my lemon meringue pie and Margarita recipies to help with the therapy. ;)

Renoblondee said...

Wow. I see I've missed quite a lot today. @Himmmm you sound like you really do care for Zoe, and I hope she lets this sink in. If he's messing with her head, I am so sorry, and hope she can find a way out soon.

Jazzy said...

Zoe is lucky to have people like Enty and Himmmm in her life. Hopefully she can move on to a healthy relationship with someone who deserves her.

I have also been guilty of giving too many chances in the past. In one case, the violence that sent me packing got much worse before I was able to leave for good. Hope this isn't Zoe's fate. It isn't easy to let go, but it's definitely worth it.

didi67 said...

hmmmm mentions Verb (I wonder if Verb is Victor Garber) and Vartan who knows EVERYTHING and says to call Jennifer. Does he mean Jennifer Esposito? Is Zoe friends with the Alias crew and Brad's ex?

katsm0711 said...

Ooooh I kinda like moth balls...

Renoblondee said...

And Enty, you are a good friend too.

katsm0711 said...

Yeah I'm going with hanger unless someone can think of that thing that hangs in the back of your closet for years gathering dust. Like the dress u wore when you were 22 that fitting into now seems like just a dream. Garment bag? Idk. I have a tiny closet.

Audrey said...

Is Himmmm referring to Michael Vartan from Aliad??

Oh, and @ Robin and Himmmm, vaginas are MUCH tougher than balls. ;)

Audrey said...

Alias...

katsm0711 said...

Thanks @mango but "closeted" is too proper

The Black Cat said...

Lucky to have Enty and Himmmm in her life? I don't know about that. If someone I knew posted something like that on a gossip blog or other work related blog instead of personally calling me I would disown them. They would be dead to me. It's not something real friends or even acquaintances do.

redronnie said...

Zoe is lovely, I hope she reads or someone close to her reads Enty and Himmmm's post and lets her know people care about her emotional and physical safety. I know what it is to hope and pray he will change or to feel momentary relief when he promises it will not happen again. But it does..

astrogirl said...

Katsm0711 I think moth balls is a better description, as men too long in the closet may find their balls, as dried up, weird smelling, round rocky things. And they flitter around their beards, like moths around a flame.

The Black Cat. I had the same reaction. Famous people can easily contact other famous people. No need to shout out in a public forum.

Robin the Mad Photographer said...

Dia, I'll be more than happy to get baking right now, so we can help all these ladies (and probably some men, too) get away from people who are horrible for them but oh, so seductive (physically or psychically). Does anyone around here do massage therapy or reiki? We could use some of that along w/the acupuncture and baked goods (I do bake things other than brownies, for those unfortunate souls who can't handle chocolate). How about some good hydrotherapy in the way of lovely baths with natural oils and herbs? I know just enough herbalism to help make that happen, too, and there's nothing quite long a good long soak to help soothe body and soul.

(Zoe, please listen to Enty & Himmmm, and all the rest of us who don't know you--a lot of people care about you, not just as an actress but as a human being, and nobody wants to see you come to any kind of harm. You can't make him change--the only way anyone ever changes is when they decide themselves to do so, and nothing you say or do will make it happen any faster (assuming it ever happens...). Get out while you still can, and take care of yourself, OK? *hugs*)

katsm0711 said...

I'm starting to wish Enty puts a character cap on posts like twitter...

Me2 said...

to black cat & astrogirl- in some ways i agree with you that calling someone out in a public forum is painful and potentially harmful BUT......

Only if the person they are trying to communicate with isn't hearing them, not listening or doesn't seem to comprehend the seriousness of their circumstances and don't want to see it. I do not know Zoe, or Brad. I've enjoyed Brad's performances (yes. guilty pleasure. i enjoyed that mess of movie A-Team because of Liam Neeson and Brad Cooper. ) but it stops there.

i'm only saying in some circumstances someone that genuinely cares will stop at nothing to get someone to see that the road they are going down will end badly.

(shivers. typing that made me think back on a something that echoes what I just said done now.)

katsm0711 said...

@astro he HAS moth balls or he IS a moth ball? I think you're right also bc "balls"

Me2 said...

*sigh* i meant in my last post that if a person is going down a path to self destruction, isn't listening that a forceful intervention even if painful is necessary. is that caring? or is it foresight, knowledge & courage?

I know those who are reiki attuned, and are willing to help. I Also can add gluten free goodies to the mix :)

astrogirl said...

Me2. Yes but when you're famous you have access to other famous folks publicists, agents, etc. It's absurdly simple for one celebrity to contact another. If she wasn't receptive to a call, a concerned celebrity could email the letter posted here.

It's a huge leap from that to posting on a blog and assuming that she will ever read it.

astrogirl said...

katsm0711. He has, conjures up the best mental image for me.

Me2 said...

very true astrogirl, very valid point unless the person posting has personal knowledge that this will get back to her by people that DO read it? But yes thats a pretty giant leap.

Question- don't these celebrities have 'layers' between them and unwanted people, communication etc? if this is an abusive relationship is it possible there are problems getting thru?

(purely hypothetical question out of curiousity)

astrogirl said...

The only thing I can conclude Me2 is that himmmm may care for Zoe, but is more invested in getting the information out there to us the public, that Bradley Cooper is a BAD GUY.

Celebrities are prtoected by their publicists, agents, etc but these people are placed by the celebrity.

Take Michael Jackson for example, his entire family knew he had serious problems, but ask them publicly (when he was alive) they would deny, because they knew he could cut them out of his life in one stroke. That the security who protected them all those years would suddenly shut the door in their faces, if Micheal gave the word.

So if Zoe wants someone in her life, she pays all their bills, she gets the final word, even if they can see their meal ticket going on a train to hell, they can do nothing but watch.

Roman Holiday said...

I agree Black Cat & Astro Girl. Like did they stop texting all of a sudden or maybe an email??? Sounds kinda absurd to me!

Colleen said...

Zoe & Vartan were in Colombiana together, weren't they? Maybe that's why she'd listen to him. It could be unrelated to Alias other than that connection.

Roman Holiday said...

@ Ingrid I love jazz hands and do it way too much myself LOL!!!!

astrogirl said...

Roman Holiday makes me think of panini and gelato

Roman Holiday said...

astrogirl, I dream of panini and gelato on a regular basis!! and I only want it if I am in Rome:)

BunnyBingo said...

The guy has a history of drug and alcohol abuse.
-Cooper tells the story of the night he spent in the hospital. “I was at a party, and deliberately bashed my head on the concrete floor.
http://article.wn.com/view/2012/09/07/Bradley_Cooper_I_dont_drink_or_do_drugs_anymore/

astrogirl said...

Roman there is a place at Bondi Beach that sells organic gelato they import, my favourite is the pistachio from Sicily or the Amedei chocolate, dreamy...

Roman Holiday said...

Oh Astro, your making me hungry now, and I already ate pancakes for desert!!!

dia papaya said...

Robin, I do reiki and sound healing (with Tibetan singing bowls) too!

Lets start this healing center!!!

astrogirl said...

If anyone is interested I remembered something and went back to check.

On the "Petition Generated to Fire Zoe Saldana..."post from September 15th, several posters say some fairly nasty things about Zoe and himmmm comments several times, even jumps into stand up for Johnny Depp, but says nothing to defend his friend Zoe.

So I definitely think the agenda was about B Cooper not Zoe at all.

rejectedcarebear said...

I remember BCoop was on some talk show and they asked him why he was sober and he just replied "because I'd be dead if I didn't quit" I'm pretty sure he was on Chelsea Lately cause you know she finds it unfathomable that people don't drink and would ask someone that.

smashbash said...

Damum I missed a lot today. He has always creeped me out. As dia said earlier, looks can only get you so far. He always plays kind of ass hole characters, or atleast that is my vibe from his rolls.

astrogirl said...

Same, same smashy, every time I see him I get shivers, not good ones either.

Unknown said...

lol I forgot about the Villanova story. Asking her to talk to Michael Vartan is probably not the best route. I am pretty sure Zoe has heard all of this though.

Colleen said...

Okay, now I bite. @Unknown, what's the Villanova story? All I could find on Google was that he transferred after his freshman year.

dia papaya said...

Thanks Big Mama! That sounds delicious!!!

Carebear! You are welcome any time, sweetie pie! Hugs to you :) Hope your mom is on the mend and back to her feisty self!

dia papaya said...

Astro, I must have missed 9/15 post :( But I think you're right that this is more about trashing BPoop then helping Zoe.

That's ok though, she's coming to Brownie Island with all the other helpful CDaN Ladies!!! Thanks to you Robin and Big Mama for the recipes and herbal knowledge. I totally wish this was a real place! I want to go to there ;)

Sunny said...

Ok - has anyone who knows the Villanova story had any truth serum today (aka Martinis)?

Dia
Your little island sounds incredible. Maybe this could be a real thing? Fiji? Tahiti? A healing island with acupuncture, reiki, singing bowls, but instead of spa food it's brownies and margaritas? I think I need to renew my passport :)

Jaime said...

I was a big Alias fan and have actually always thought it was strange how close much of the cast has remained, yet I have never seen BCoop around any of them anymore. However, it's not like I stalk them so they could all be besties and I've just not seen the news stories (quelle horror!).

Anywho, I think Jennifer is Jennifer Garner in that blip from Himmmm. I also agree, Verb is Victor Garber whom I adore. Vartan, well that's obvious. Stacey...no clue!

Zoe is stunningly beautiful and a great actress. I hope she's smart. I must say, though, I've always had a soft spot for Bradley as he was Will in Alias and everyone loved Will. Boo if this is true.

I love CDAN. Read it daily. I want to believe all I read, but I also want to not be an idiot by believing all I read. ;-) Did that make sense? This is one of those that I believe. Amy Adams stalking Jessica Alba is an example of a story I don't believe. Just saying...

Roman Holiday said...

@Dia, I think there is a place like that it is called "Fantasy Island".

missmol said...

I have been around long enough-don't post a lot, but been around since original MV post- and know that if Enty actually names names and Himmm backs it up, then stuff is seriously messed up. It also speaks about the kind of person Zoe is if they are willing to go out on a limb to help her.

smashbash said...

Look up the roratunga, my spelling is off. It is a beautiful island! Someday... :)

I loved alias. My mom and I would watch it together. After Michael Vatan left we stopped watching as much. Bopper didn't do it for us ;)

astrogirl said...

What about the island I live on dia? Lots of room, bring your ladies here for sun and sand and sightings of Thor type men

dia papaya said...

Astro! You know I'm already moving there! I just don't know when :)

Universe, please help me get to Astro's Island and start the Brownie Healing Center. The Thors and Surfers of Oz need me ;)

Popnursing said...

Boooo to Himmm for sending his concerns this way. Send a girl an email dude. Don't post a bunch of titilating tidbits on a GOSSIP forum to show how much you care for Pete's sake.

dia papaya said...

Could Jennifer be Jennifer Aniston? We're they connected for a bit? Or am I thinking of Gerry Butler?

No wait, weren't they sort of a thing before he ended up with Renee Z?

Unknown said...

Jennifer Epsosito - his ex wife.

Audrey said...

Did Tracey Morgan just pass out at the Emmys?

Memories from me said...

Ok, well...here goes... (and I rarely post on here) 
I have addressed my past on here 
I'm sure you can google my screenname and read my past post
1. To Himmmm:
As someone who has suffered so greatly at the hands of an abuser,if you truly do care (which it seems you do): an intervention will go a lot further than blog-calling-out.  If this is, in fact, whom everyone suspects it is and it is sorta portrayed in a thinly veiled way or meant as a distraction, then as a recovering addict with presumably a history with support groups, sponsors, and counseling you would know that this may hurt her or put her in a very DANGEROUS predicament.  If she does in fact read this and he is abusive, if it gets to her it will get to him.  Imagine the moment if they are together when they both read this.  If he is, in fact, abusive.  
(I am not going to pretend to know B.C. -although I do in fact know a lot of A list folks (and dated a few, don't ask bc I won't tell))- nor make an aggregious error of pretending to have any knowledge based on heresay or otherwise that he is abusive.   
Himmmm, an inetervention will go a lot further with the abuser and the abused.  Getting one OUT in the cloak of night is going to be a lot SAFER than all out war on the internet.  She is also probably concerned about her career, if she leaves (an abuser will threaten to hold your future under water if you leave).  If you are who you portray you are...then your friendship and Hollywood status can ease some of her fears.

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Popnursing said...

@Memories from me - Did you just call out Himmmm for putting Z in danger by addressing her on this blog and then do the exact same thing in the next post? wtf is wrong with you people?

chachi said...

I think the wording of Himmmmm's letter, specifically, "karma might make HIS life a brutal, rip-ass hell", is suspiciously specific.

In other words, did B.Coop cause a literal ass-ripping in someone's life?? Maybe in a brutal, illegal way that got him kicked out of school, perhaps??

Just kickin' around ideas of what this dude is guilty of. Ideas, anyone?

astrogirl said...

Touché, Popnursing, touché

Memories from me said...

@popnursing look .....wtf is wrong with you? Just quit already. I was stating that if a friend was involved in someones life that was being abused then this is dangerous territory. I merely shared my expierence and hope for "her" and ANY WOMAN IN THIS SITUATION
1. I am not her friend
2. Do not know her or anyone around her
3. Nor know the specifics of her circumstance....

Tread lightly when it comes to people sharing sensitive stuff in their lives. Be gentle.

Memories from me said...

I addressed to "Zoe" as ANY WOMAN IN AN ABUSIVE RELASTIONSHIP....

astrogirl said...

She had a good point Memories. It's very positive and good to hear your experiences to help other nameless women, but you did contradict yourself in regards to advice, when you addressed your letter directly to Zoe.

Memories from me said...

Well, here, let me fix it....

Memories from me said...

To ANY WOMAN IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP:.  I have been there.  I am a single mother, while her father drank himself to death exactly 1 year and 1 week to the date of my bailing and running to a shelter with my then 1 1/2 year old child.  Don't wait.  Get out.  It will only get worse.  If it gets good for awhile, and it does happen again, it'll be worse than what you ever thought possible.  Funny, how constant streams of beatings wee easier to take than the ones that just came out of no where after "good times".  DO NOT GET PREGNANT!  This will be terrible and will not fix anything and he will probably try to hurt the baby to get to you (mine tried to make me miscarry on Christmas Eve....nice huh....and yet I still didn't leave ... And somehow if became my fault).
Look, this is bullshit.  Talking to complete strangers on a supposed life threatening situation.  But, if it is true, it is in fact life threatening.  Make no mistake.  I am sure there are plenty of famous woman who have died at the hands of their abuser.  Famous does not = safety.  Just makes it easier to afford the super expensive make up to cover the abuse up.
I don't care about who you are, nor who the abuser is.  I look at my child every second of every day.  Every "dream" I gave up to be a mom & dad to her.  Every financial struggle to provide what she deserves, all on my own.  Get out.  A life full of wasted moments vs. a life full of respect. Love and safety.  You and only you can decide.  How bad is it?  One time is hell!  And...it will ALWAYS happen again.  You should read this book, Why Does He Do That?.....a book that saved my life.  You will NEVER win, be good enough, or fulfill every wish.  Get over it.  Pack up.  move on.  I say this to any person in an abusive relationship.  Get out.  The first breath of freedom when you wake up and realize you don't have to make anyone happy, or you can do whatever that annoying habit was, be as clean or as messy as y want.....gahhhhhhhhhhh!  I was so happy I cried.  
The financial fears suck, when leaving a "breadwinner", too.  I am fortunate....I finally bought actual brand new furniture for our beds (hey, it's a big deal to either not sleep on a mattress on the floor - which we did when we first left- and brand new mattresses- to 3 years later slowly going room to room to slowly buy what I save for.  (I am in the business, albeit, in a sort of production sort of way.....which allows me to be able to work from home so I can take my daughter to &from school...my boss' husband is a list...)

Whatever...this situation and the fact that it's in the internet is humiliating.  But, hey...maybe whoever reads this post will find some sort of strength to get the FU$& out.  

I made it.  You can too!  :) 
Now.....RUUUNNNNNNNN.

astrogirl said...

You sound like a lioness of a mother, Memories. Your little girl is very lucky.

dragon said...

Okay, what the fuck is going on here. This Just gone over board. I dont know what to say anymore.

Memories from me said...

@aatrogirl.....I am not a lioness...haha! I live with a lot of guilt. Guilt that I had a child born into a dangerous and unhealthy situation. Guilt that I didn't leave, soon enough. Guilt that he did die ( it's almost a multiple personality relationship...haha...on one hand you have a man you had a baby with & some very good times with and on the other hand you have someone who hurts every aspect of your being....this is why it's so difficult to leave or watch someone die in this situation. I had to decide, literally, for whatever fucked up reason my life wasn't worth fighting for...my child's life is....and then I got out). I'm simply a mom. But, I bet some lioness may hang out in me...somewhere....lol....Hell hath no fury....or something like that..haha!
You're sweet.
And, to clarify, I wasn't "calling out" himmmm...just trying to give helpful tools and realities. Good for anyone that cares enough for someone else's safety.

califblondy said...

Crap, have a football-filled Sunday (yay Raiders) and miss a lot.

Oh well.

astrogirl said...

Memories I want to give you a huge hug. Thanks for being honest, brave and kind. :)

Memories from me said...

Awww thanks aatrogirl....if it helps one woman, then the uncomfortable feeling of sharing ....well...it's worth it. Hugs back.

dragon said...

What if Bradly Cooper read this if the allegations are true wont it be worse on her now

smashbash said...

You sound like a very strong woman. Thank you for sharing.

Himmmm said...

Okay kids...

I know that all of us are prone to read into things, and judge things, when we are not fully aware of the situation. It is called being human. Even when we do not know the parties involved; nor the underlying reasons for exactly why someone might do something a certain way. People still judge from their perspective.

In this case I can say without fail: Message received. Point made. Mission accomplished.

As far as WHY I elected to say what I said, and the method I elected to deliver it? There are reasons beyond those which the critical of you cannot fathom and ways I care not to explain.

I do not make it a point of explaining myself on here, as it is a losing battle and accomplishes nothing. Just please know that I am not some disrespectful, cold-hearted hippo's ass trying to shame ANYONE into bending to my will to force any grudge or agenda I may have. Far from it.

I wanted to get something across to someone for whom I care deeply. I did so. End of story. Nothing to see here. You may now return to your regular-scheduled snark, sniping, bitching, and cursing (at me and others). Except for the sweet ones on here...I truly love you (and will donate that island if you can find a tax loophole for it! ;-)

I am sorry for those of you who have been in abusive relationships. I mean that sincerely. No one deserves that, and I cannot presume to know your strength and fortitude. My respect to each of you who survive it. Nothing I've written is meant to comment on nor touch upon the survivors of abuse. Those brave enough to live through that do not deserve to be trivilaized by me, or anyone, who has never been there. Which is why I DID NOT DO THAT.

I do not want my words to get hijacked (as has happened before) and people's comments to get twisted into reposts of me "having said...". When that was not the case.

So I have erased the letter as it is no longer pertinent (it has been delivered and accepted). Please know that my comments have been deleted by ME (not Area 51, Enty, or wtf-ever).

Meanwhile, I hope you all have a nice week. Thank you for your kind words, and indeed - the leg is much better now. Better than it was before I think. Been back working a while now. Take care my friends and for the lover of Fiona Apple's hash press...be KIND to one another (please!).

Himmmm said...

Point of Clarification: In that last post (1st parag. I beleive) I was not referring to myself. In fact I do know the parties involved here. And had reason to comment. I was not saying I made a mistake. In fact, I've never made a mistake. Every fuckup in my life has been on purpose - not by accident! :-)

Memories from me said...

Himmmm.... It's all good. I'm sure whatever your reasons....it was pure in intent.
* I didn't take your message as triviliazation of abuse* for the record
Whatever the message, maybe this thread helped someone else.

Yes, be kind...butter world is hard enough.

dragon said...

@himmm. I just starting coming here so i dont really know u or anyone of the matter lol but I truly believe ur concern. I dont know wtf is going on between Cooper and Zoe but wish those who needs it the best.

thanks for sharing.

Memories from me said...

P.s. I know a tax loop hole! Hahaha!

Memories from me said...

CORRECTION
**our world is hard enough***

butter? Wtf iPad ...wtf!

E Gee Be said...

Oh, himmmm, you are a very cool human being,and after a day spent away from the internets (after you first post), I feel lucky to come back to the denouement at the end of this Sunday...and I will organize all kinds of fun on Brownie Island, plus I ave a BFF who has a lock on all the essential oils we need to make this place especially harmonious!

dia papaya said...

Himmmm, I will remember this day and hold you to it! Brownie Island WILL happen ;)

Now about that acupuncture job on a film set? Hmmmm? That would be a nice compromise in the meantime while we figure out the loop hole. I am specializing in sports injuries and pain management lately. Great for all those daily aches and pains - for cast and crew ;)

Nighty nite, Mr Himmmm. Hugs to Herrrr and the wee one :D

HalleGoLightly said...

Shitballs! Looks like I missed something...again. I'm always gone during the these types of posts.

Hope everyone had a good weekend.

Caitlin Costanzo said...

Neither. He's from my city and so is the ex wife. They married when they were like 20 and were divorced like a year later because they were 20.

Agent**it said...

Just ask Mel if we can "borrow" his private island and aircraft to take a meeting or two...complete write off for you rich folk. Course we won 't be leaving the island. Then there 's Depp's private island...possibilities are endless.:)

Treesap-Covered Lady, the Humanist said...

I swear, I always miss everything.

AB said...

Dear himmmm, I just wanted to say how much I appreciate what you have done in telling some harsh truths about Hollywood and the behind the curtain realities of that life. I have a pretty good sense of people and their sincerity and have really been impressed your willingness to shine a light into some very dark corners. Not that you need my accolades. I just wanted to say thanks. We shared a moment the other evening as I paid tribute by watching KKBB again .... It was a good time! Thanks!

Basil said...

Speaking of Himmmm, I have no real reason to disbelieve who he says he isn't (aka Ironman). But I am wiling to bet that there are few clebrities who read this blog. We already know the CO$ drones come out in force to defend the chosen ones. But I bet Angie is here somewhere. We know she reads stuff about her in the news, so it isn't much of a stretch for her, or others of her kind to come here and defend themelves using a fake account. If I was a celebrity, you can damn well bet I would do that.

Even this past week, someone posted that they knew for an absolute fact that Jakey G was straight as an arrow. Could that have been someone from Team Jake? I think so. No harm though. I think it is great his team is protecting his image. But the sad thing is, Jake doesn't seem like an asshole or a diva or treats people badly. So why does he need protection? The gay rumour? That one bothers me since there is nothing wrong with being gay.

Robin the Mad Photographer said...

Awwwww...bless your fuzzy little heart, Himmmm--we love you, too. *hug* Will you come by and cut the ribbon when we finally get Brownie Island open for business? :-)

While I can't offer to work craft services for a full production crew (unlike dia, who probably can handle acupuncture for everyone), I can certainly make a liberal contribution to the dessert & baked goods table. (Why, yes, I do have references, and based on previous posts, it sounds as if you know at least one of them...care to tell me who it is? ;-) At the very least, I can always drop off a goodie basket the next time you do press up here, and make you & a whole pile of PR folk very happy-if-all-sugared-out campers...

(Pssst...Don't worry! Should you decide to take me up on any of my offers, your identity would be perfectly safe with me--after all, why would I want to spoil all the fun over here by revealing you? ;-)

katsm0711 said...

OT but I think it's cool how twitter limits posts to 140 characters.

BigMama said...

^^^ HA!

goheels83 said...

Oh man I go rollerblading and break my arm and knock out my front teeth and miss himmmm's visit ! Rats! I want to come to CDaN island too...I went to culinary school and can help out in the kitchens!! I think I can still cook with only one functioning arm....

Hope you all had a good weekend!

goheels83 said...

Also @memories - good for you for overcoming that shit. Hang in there. Thank you for sharing,

goheels83 said...

Also

mynerva said...

Guys, did anyone screen grab himmmm's detailed post that is now deleted? Or could someone give me the Cliff Notes version? Thanks

Unknown said...

missed out on the great Himmmm comment... anyone summarize for the rest of us?

as for those getting on ENT or Himmmm for making their comment's public.. chill out, i bet it ain't as easy as it seems to just call up or go through lawyers when there are layers upon layers of "people" with differing motives surrounding those you may have a message for. Hollywood is full of "games" gossip and tabloids play a role in that game and sometimes some CAN be reached through this "method"

Himmmm thanks as always for your comments. I am a daily lurker, never comment but just want to say thanks!

jax said...

you fools are still falling for the Himmmm crap?

Himm, why don't you write your own blog since you "claim" to be such an insider? hey? Why run away once you've gotten everyone's interest?
We all know you are NOT RDJ, nor anyone famous, as you once claimed.
You are a man by the last name Talley and you are a sycophant who likes to come here and stir the pot with your no-facts and speculation.
Your bullshit has driven away a LOT of people from this blog and I am completely fucking over it.

People, you are smart, do not fall for the snakeoil salesmen in your quest for gossip.

Done.

Silly Girl said...

SO, I'm sort of new to all of this, I get Enty is an 'insider' and Himmmm may be as well, but are you, Jax? I'm not being snarky, I'm just trying to figure everyone out. I always think people are telling the truth (except in the blinds, actually, I think a lot of those are made up), so now I'm wondering how you know who Himmmm is. I'm a totally armchair celebustalker and I'm getting confused as to who knows who and who's real and who's full of crap (still waiting to see more posts from B Profane, too).....

chachi said...

I'm with Jax in the sense that it's a little gross/silly how many people (especially certain ones) seem to fawn over Himmmm's posts in a personal way, like they know this person/want to hook up and be friends.

It's the internet with strangers, enough with the "hugs", "kisses to babies", etc, to people you don't know.

shiny_special_one said...

I have to say, I am fascinated by how much of a "thing" this has become with Himmmm. I've been reading this blog since its first year, though not consistently or continually. I missed Himmm's debut, and though I have caught some of his funny, interesting posts, I think I always miss the "big" ones. I didn't notice until recently what a sizable impact this poster has had. For better or worse, it seems that Himmmm really has changed the landscape of commenters. I know Jax is right when she says that he has driven away a lot of people. At the same time, though, it seems like he's also brought a lot of people in to it.
Just making an observation, no judgement attached nor statement intended.

astrogirl said...

I think himmmm is off his meds, but if he wants to post long winded diatribes to make us think he's RDJ, it's his time and folly.
I used to enjoy his posts when he was Brad the EMT medic, but he has started to believe his own hype.

Like Jax said he is a snake oil salesman and his credibility is crumbling with each new ridiculous post.

Let's break down himmm of late (yes I am hijacking and paraphrasing from other himmmm posts a little, oh no why don't you sue me hahaha)

I needed to post this letter to Zoe, I can't explain my method or reasons, I do not make a point of explaining myself here, yes I know I usually do, but it's a losing battle when I drop giant hints about myself and who I claim to be.
I can't prove it though, that would be gauche, what's really cool is to shout out publicly to someone I call a close friend. I am really clever, superhero smart hee hee, I anonymously call her out using a name I have said in public isnt me, but she will know it is me, by this snippet of a conversation some waiter may have eavesdropped on....

I can't contact her for whatever reason that I won't tell you, sigh, she is such a dear friend, except here in a public forum which I know from reading stories of victims above, could make things worse, but I DID NOT DO THAT, oh I did? Well I didn't mean to trivialize it, so that's ok, I mean you know who I am don't you, wink wink?

Ok so somehow, even though we arent in contact, for reasons I told you I won't tell you (ok its osmosis) I do know that she saw the open letter and acknowledged it to someone, yeah I know I heard about it super fast, so I can jump on here and tell everyone about it. Oh dear I am trivializing again..
I am good at that, it's kind of what I did the other week too when I made a blackface joke in a post about racisim. Oops, did I tell you my leg was getting better, yes lucky I have all these great people on set.

Yeah that's what real friends do, when we know our friends are in trouble, we tell everyone, like the time I posted my friend Natasha Wagners phone number, oops, but its a public listing and she is such a good friend, I know she didn't mind all those phone calls with questions about her mum being raped, or having to change her number lol, silly me did I trivialize something again...

I will delete my original post, because this is the Internet, no one kept a copy right?? Oh did I tell you about the time I was a medic.....


Chachi, Some posters purposefully try to draw him out, or like the fantasy, is that so bad? They aren't the ones pretending to be famous. :(

Likewise, I love that I've gotten to know some folks better through our OT chats on here.

What's so bad about blowing kisses, or sending hugs? Yes it's a virtual world, but good energy keeps on flowing, I know a kind word or a *hug* can lift my day.

And we don't know who is out there reading, celebrities read gossip too, but sorry folks himmmm ain't RDJ.

katsm0711 said...

I think himmmmm is Enty

Sunny said...

Well said, Astrogirl :)

I love playing along with the fantasy to an extent because it is fun for me and I've always enjoyed himmmm's posts, but it really tripped me out when there became a definitive line between guy next door/former serviceman/EMT "Brad" and Yo Yo Yo I'm RDJ but I share the account with TG. I don't know. I don't want to offend anyone, but there was a line crossed at some point that makes me a little uncomfortable if that makes any sense

astrogirl said...

Thanks Sunny, I think that to any CDaNer who used to love the guy who said the words below, (actual real quote this time) your post makes perfect sense. Come back original himmmm, the new one sucks.

"You do know me outside of the internet world you silly thing. I'm that guy you knew in school who was the perpetual nice-guy destined to finish last. The one without the cheerleader girlfriend or hot camaro in which to cruise. Or maybe you recall me from at work, when I'd smile and hold the door open when your arms were full. Or from the park when I'd be sitting there writing in my notebook on a sunny Spring day with a grin on my face. Or maybe when your car ran out of gas or broke down? That was me who called the tow for you.

No, I'm no saint or DudleyDoRight. I'm just a guy, like a million others, just trying to do the right thing. Just trying to make the world better than when I arrived. Just trying to give someone a smile or laugh or shoulder when hell finds its way into their lap.

I don't always succeed, but I try. If you wanna thank me? Then hold that door for someone today. Say hi to the quiet guy in the park, or tell a silly joke to the nerdy guy in class. As much as we'd like - we can't save the world with a giant wish...but what we can all do - and its free - is to try and do one small little thing for someone else every day. That's how we win. "




dia papaya said...

Astro. Thanks for the memory lane! I want to work for that himmmm!

You know, I'm pretty sure it's not RDJ but I like playing the game. And I've gotten to know a lot of awesome people on this blog who I never would have met otherwise. CDaN brings people together.

FlirtyChick74 said...

So, after reading the comments above, are some of you really just set people? Not actual friends of the celeb? That's the impression I'm starting to formulate. After all, if you're close friends with Zoe, why wouldn't you just call her? If you're a friend of a friend, why wouldn't you wait until the next party or girls night to just tell her what you think?

I enjoy going to gossip sites. It's fun to read. It's good to know that beauty, fame, and money don't shield you from life's problems - just like everyone else. You have to work through them, just like everyone else. I think that often times we tend to be sold the idea that having all 3 of those things are the path to an easy, carefree life. One in which everyone will love you. Not so though.

astrogirl said...

No worries dia I used to enjoy playing the game too.

I agree this place brings people together. :)

Robin the Mad Photographer said...

Who knows who Himmmm is? Who cares? He's a fun poster with an interesting perspective, and I'll still bake him brownies/have dinner with him any time, whomever he may be. I can't speak for anyone else, but hey, anyone who's up for feeding me compliments while simultaneously being a wiseass, as well as being righteously indignant on behalf of those in need of such, is someone with whom I can have fun bantering. Nothing wrong with that...nothing at all. ;-)

dia papaya said...

Well said Robin! Much better than I could.

I still want to start Brownie Island. I was totally serious about that and wanting to do acupuncture on set for cast and crew. You never know who else is listening.

And I think you are an awesome lady and would never have gotten to chat without this place. So big hug to you and your brownie recipe. All that talk about your essential oils made me take a bath last night! Heaven :)

Himmmm said...

Jax (and astrogirl), you have all the right in the world to believe anything you choose to believe (about anything). I still cannot quite recall the times I've ever tried to "convince" you of anything. Or the times I've insulted you on here. Or the times I've DEMANDED that you post YOUR SSN, scan of your birth card/passport, and your home and work numbers for everyone to see.

It has been explained many times as to multiple friends sharing this account over many years. Why that fact escapes you remains a mystery.

So you are welcome to believe as you wish, which is the same right others have. I respect that right, and you may wish to consider respecting others too. Or not. The choice is totally yours.

The only difference seems to be that I don't need to come here and tell you to FUCK OFF and curse you, ridicule you, attempt to humiliate you or belittle you (or any commenters) to make MY point.

Good luck on working through those issues dearest "jax". I sincerely wish you peace, happiness, and some degree of vacation from your inner-turmoil. Take care!

dia papaya said...

Hi Himmmm:

I don't know if you're gonna come back tonight, but I want to say I've always enjoyed reading your comments. I especially enjoyed the ones after the Colorado shooting. Your compassion and words of kindness were really helpful during that difficult time. They really touched me, the self proclaimed sensitive.

So regardless of who you really are, you promised to tax loop hole fund Brownie Island and I'm holding you to that even though I have no idea who you really are or if you have the $$$. I could be a crazy lunatic too. My BF tells me this constantly so it's probably partially true ;)

Let the snarky games continue!

Hugs to you
dp :D

astrogirl said...

Thanks himmmm I appreciate that you don't ask for my ID but I don't purport to be someone famous.

Yes I know you said that several people write, but lately its always the RDJ one. Come on don't be coy now, you know you constantly infer you are RDJ in your posts lately. I don't mind that, its a bit of sport and you do write with concern for others.

Ok, so whilst writing under this persona, surely you realize you can't complain when asked for proof of identity after throwing these tidbits in for us all to bite.

You don't have to add that 'personal RDJ' stuff when you write your posts, you do it for the attention, that's cool, but don't get cut if others take umbrage at certain stuff you post, whilst you're inhabiting this persona.



astrogirl said...

PS I don't want you to fuck off, but maybe you could let the other himmmms post more please ;)

Agent**it said...

I take a little vacation and this is what happens...... I don 't think Himmmm has driven away readers. In fact, he has brought to this blog a ton of new and younger readers. That may upset some of the original readers but it apparently doesn't upset Entward. Of course, I will now be chastised (again) for saying that but I 'm used to it. Astrogirl, I would not lump you in with Jax, Not Never!! Himmmm, see you soon :)

astrogirl said...

Ha ha Agent I was wondering where you were....

It wouldn't be the same without your '2 cents worth'. Have a nice holiday. :)

shiny_special_one said...

I'm fighting insomnia, so I hope no one minds if I drag this thread back into gossip, lol. Re: the following excerpt from Astrogirl:
"...like the time I posted my friend Natasha Wagners phone number, oops, but its a public listing and she is such a good friend, I know she didn't mind all those phone calls with questions about her mum being raped, or having to change her number. "

I remember that, lol. I missed the posts as they happened, but I read read about it a few days later.I always wondered what happened about that. Even if the number was a public listing, I can't imagine Natasha Wagner being pleased that her phone number was on some gossip blog, even if it was up for only a few minutes. Anyone know of any fallout from that? Has NW commented about it? Just curious.

astrogirl said...

shiny_special_one it was all over the different gossip pages, when it blew up, so I expect some crank calls were made.

ONTD did a big write up here is the link, it has the entire transcript of his Natalie Wood post

http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/67395829.html

shiny_special_one said...

Damn, link won't work on my phone. Can't wait to check it out on my computer tomorrow, thanks.

astrogirl said...

That's ok, shiny, have a great night, hope you get some sleep :)

Robin the Mad Photographer said...

I'd just like to point out that there's a major problem inherent in asking for legal proof of persona/identity in a public forum...identity theft, anyone? I'm a person of very little significance, and I sure as hell wouldn't post my SSN/birth certificate/passport info in a public forum, and I wouldn't suggest anyone else do it, either, especially someone potentially well-known--it's just begging for all kinds of trouble that no one ever needs.

Another very good reason for not making such a revelation--2 words: plausible deniability. As long as Himmmm's identity hasn't been officially 100% confirmed, he remains free to post pretty much whatever he likes, including all that fascinating dish and dirt so beloved in gossip forums such as this one. No one is sure who he is, so he's at least somewhat safe from repercussions of both a personal and professional nature, and he still has (apparent) access to sources. The second that it was determined beyond any doubts that he's a particular individual? POOF! Bye-bye sources, farewell to posting here, and out come the knifes...which, as we've seen, in the entertainment industry can be exceptionally long and sharp, capable of great harm, and no one is above being damaged.

(Why no, I don't think it was a coincidence that RDJ had a role yanked out from under him within 24 hours of the shit hitting the media fan this spring--rightly or wrongly, assumptions were made and the consequences swift and sure, in spite of his PR rep saying on the record that he wasn't Himmmm. Any guesses on how much worse it would have been had there been legally acceptable proof?...)

Sorry this isn't only 140 characters long :-P , but it seems to me we should recognize that perhaps Himmmm has his reasons for not fully coming out, and they're not necessarily nefarious in nature...there were reasons Clark Kent and Bruce Ward didn't want to be exposed as Superman and Batman, after all. Remember all the crap Tony Stark had to put up with when he outed himself as Iron Man?...Precisely.

Silly Girl said...

Late to the party again....I didn't know RDJ had a role yanked out from under him after the shit hit the fan before....what role? What happened? How'd you find that out? What were the reasons?

Seriously, I'm always late to the friggin party....

VK said...

Quick question -

where do we stand with getting a screen shot of Himmmm's post? I missed it too :(

Robin the Mad Photographer said...

Aw, thanks, Dia! You rock, too! Group hug, everyone! :-)

Yes, in a sense we're all strangers here, but the Net has an odd way of turning strangers into friends (or at least friendly acquaintances), not to mention that you don't have to know someone well to send them good wishes or think good thoughts for us--haven't most of us done that with other posters over time? I may not know JBE up close and personal, but I can still sympathize as a human being with his loss; conversely, I don't have to be your friend IRL to rejoice when something goes well for you. Being a kind and compassionate human being does not automatically equal "sucking up".

Case in point: I'm in the Society for Creative Anchronism, or SCA, a medieval recreationist group, and we have kings and queens who win their titles by doing battle with arms and rule a given kingdom in what we call the Known World. It's extremely common for people who were previously friends with the new royals to suddenly disappear, and for others who didn't know them before to deliberately not try to make their acquaintance...because everyone's deathly afraid of being called a suckup/brownnose/etc., or, sadly, out of jealousy; ironically, this all too often leads to royals being surrounded by people who are indeed suckups, because everyone else bailed. It's not enough to stick by your friends in bad times, you know; sticking around when times are good is every bit as important.

Admittedly, I have my world-class bitchy episodes, but I try to be a decent, compassionate person who doesn't wish anyone harm--it's damn hard sometimes, but I grit my teeth and do my damndest. (Hey, I'd be happy if LiLo got her act together, or if the K Klan gave up being professional famewhores and became productive members of society. Why shouldn't we want to see people doing better, whomever they may be?)

With that, I shall step down from my podium for at least a little while, and hope that not too many rotten tomatoes are thrown at me as I walk back to my seat...

Yours in service,

Lady Robin de la Pesterye,
aka Robin of the Bakery ;-)
(www.sca.org for the curious)



Robin the Mad Photographer said...

Silly Girl: I'm sorry I don't remember the name of the project, but I do recall that he was listed on IMDB as being already attached to it...and then, suddenly, he wasn't. Perhaps it was just one of those things, but the timing did make me suspicious...

goheels83 said...

I think it was a cartoon about a dog. Ty Burrell from Modern FDamily took his place.

Agent**it said...

I missed all the nonsense re ID? re Himmm? We've already agreed....Free Tibet or Where's Shelly!! Code, people, we had a code....... Now we have to start over :)

Happymostofthetime said...

It was Mr. Peabody, and Enty had a clumsily put together shot of RDJ and the cartoon character in the random photos the day after it happened.

Whoever Himmmm is, it's not really fun for the faithful to have missed the post and have everyone going on about it for days.

katsm0711 said...

Here kids. Just to show you how stupid and scripted this whole thing is. Read with a grain of salt.
EXACT CUT AND PASTE QUOTE--->

"Himmmm
has left a new comment on the post "Zoe Saldana Is Making A Really Bad Mistake
":

(whew...deep breath here. sorry to do this here enty, but i too know this WILL be read, felt, and considered. apologies to cdanners for doing this here, now, this way).

Zoe:

Yadira-Nazira, my deara:

You are an amazing woman. I respect and admire you - and love your optimism in life. Despite your intelligence there are still those who will take advantage of you (as you sadly well know!). It did not stop when you came west either. It just takes different forms.

This time it is not about money or status - it could well be about your well-being. I know this is not the best way to do this, but options are limited currently. Read carefully and it'll sink in.

On that night at the Bastide in WeHo after the birthday party, do you recall who you were with? And what you discussed? And you said (quote): "I feel like I've been blind for so long". Remember that? And to whom you were referring? This time will be much, much, worse unless you do an about face.

(That should also clear up any questions as to who is writing this to you and exactly how full of shit I am).

I truly do not condemn Brad based on his past mistakes or actions. But when he continues to do damage to people, and invokes it as an entitlement? Then it is a problem. Not for him - but for those who are damaged. Especially when the next in line is someone as sweet and gentle as you are my dear.

I am all for forgiving people who change. People make mistakes, hit rough spots, and do stupid or vile things. I am no exception. I am a monument of past stupidity and damage. Yet, gloriously, people CAN change.

But change is demonstrable - and evident. With age and maturity, you either see your faults and fix them - or you don't. And if you don't, you can - and will - be held responsible for the damage you continually do. And he has not changed. You respect Verb, so talk to Verb about it. Ask Bryan. Or his assistant. Or ask Stacey, she has been there too. Hell, just ask Vartan - you know he knows EVERYTHING and cares for you as much as I. No agendas beyond caring for you.

Do not take my (or our) word for it. Find out on your own, direct from the source. Over dinner one night (preferably in a public place), ask Brad about Villanova. What happened at that party that night? Ask pointedly: So why did you then leave the school...honestly? VERY HONESTLY. If his answers sound a little too pat, too fluffy and sweet - it is because he is full of shit and refuses to stop the same bullshit he still does today.

Pull out your phone - at the table - and call Jennifer and ask her the same questions about him to her. THEN compare that to his recent exploits. See if that equates to change in your mind.

THEN make up your mind if this is a man you can trust, feel safe with, and with whom you desire to waste your amazing wealth of feelings.

Yes, you are right to think that it is not my life and none of my business. Yes, this may be a dick move to tell it to you like this. But something has to shock some sense into you.

It's not my life, but I do worry for you. That is what friends do my dear. If you wanted to drive off the Pacific Coast Highway, I'd try and talk you out of that too. So please, Zoe, back away slowly. It may gnaw at you briefly, but in the end you will be much happier.

When the time comes and karma makes HIS life brutal rip-ass hell...you won't be collateral damage. Be safe, be smart, and be the "FLORA DEL SOL" you know you were meant to be.

With all love, respect, and appreciation for you, I remain...

Me
(the same guy with the funny hat)"

VK said...

Thanks, Kat!!
Interesting stuff...I always liked Bradley Cooper. Sure he seemed arrogant but ridiculously good looking people usually are, right? Shame he's such an ass!
So does anyone here know the Villanova story?

Agent**it said...
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ecua said...

I cringe at my poor judgement in jumping into this clusterfuck, but here goes...

Does anyone REALLY think Robert Downey, Jr. has the time or inclination to read CDAN and post comments multiple times over the course of a night? If so, more power to you.

For what it's worth, Jax has been on this site probably longer than anyone else and fills in for Enty on occassion, so she (I assume) knows Enty, and probably knows more truths than the rest of us.
She's always been rather blunt in her posts, but I wouldn't discount her overall message.

Happymostofthetime said...

OK... RDJ seems like a really nice guy in everybody's book, so could Himmmm just pretend to be somebody else then? RDJ doesn't need the stupid Gawker articles - let him focus on his hard-reachieved career.

I think we all enjoy Himmmm's presence and comments, so just keep posting and drop the masquerade part. Just be an insider with interesting stuff to say.

Agent**it said...

Just sayin' ..... we all know himmm and the entities. Some were left ..out of the loop.

astrogirl said...

Just sayin'. That's an odd phrase for you, Agent.

Are you perhaps being a 'cunning linguist'? Clever girl, me thinks there a double entendre in there and I'm not referring to myself. :)

Agent**it said...

Astro. you are good... very, very very good :)

Aubra said...

Ok, I get that somone is concerned for their freind and feels that this is an outlet in which to reach out to them. However, alot of the comments that proceed the initial post are SPECULATION. Nothing but repeated rumors floating around, and none of the parties that are labelled are here to defend themselves nor confirm/deny. I don't doubt there is a bit of concern from some of those here commenting, but seriously, please do not allow your "feelings" or your "vibes" or whatever "hunch" some of you have about somone to get you mistaken. Just because you hear something repeated so much on the internet doesn't make it true. It's unfair and VERY libelous! Stop it!

Silly Girl said...

Are you referring to this post from 2 1/2 months ago? Way to be concerned.....