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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 241 of 241I agree on most fronts. The blog thing was brought up well before the Scott thread so I'm trying not to lump the two together.
And yes, I get the hypocrisy of "leave the blog alone" with my bringing it up. It's been too much gross use of someone's personal tragedy and there are too many good people on this site to be throwing shit like this.
PS you even admitted they were "derogatory slurs" yourself. You knew EXACTLY what you were doing & now you got exactly what you wanted. Nice try..
It's all good. We have an understanding now.. Glad that's all settled. Night night.
@Kristin & Bacon, they were definitely two different things - done (from memory) by different posters/groups. I sort of skipped over the mean ones because it makes me a sad panda, but I think this is right:
- concern based on (fairly, imo) reading a linked blog -L'Wren post
- mean spirited use of details from the blog to taunt (a few times & posts)
Pretty unnecessary.
We don't need to like everyone (I sure don't), but that kind of meanness says something fairly unpleasant about the speaker. It stains them, and makes me think they suck at being human.
Well, on nights of insomnia, I thank R'amen for the fuckery that is CRAZYDan. ;)
I'm disappointed in all of you!
Hear you Meanie ... sometimes it's just a big load of Lohan ... and I can't look away!
Hope you sleep soon, lovely.
Let me know when it's time for the group trust fall exercise. I don't want to spill my vodka when you a-holes drop me on the gym floor.
I'm trying to think up a new handle, Prunella Buggerweeds is just too long.
Which one do you like best?
OD Hater
O Hatred
Or Death
Dater Ho
Ho Trade
Or Hated
Hert DOA
The Road
Red Oath
Thanks, lovely Alita. xo
@Kristin, I get what you're saying, but it's kind of hard to keep feeling empathy & compassion for one who spits on those who want to give *it* the benefit of the doubt. Sorry (not sorry), she lost me (& many others) when she repeatedly told well-meaning folks to kill themselves. *shrugs*
Well, Proonie, it's not as if you have to type out Prunella Buggerweeds every time...
Oh, I apologize...am I being a buttinsky? Pardon me. ;)
@Meanie, that's a good point. Although, I really like Proonie - thanks for that!
Mostly that was just an excuse to play with anagrams of the handle of She Who Must Not Be Named.
Spare me sweetie, I don't hide my past user names nor do I use more than 1 a time. Don't be salty cause I pointed out your spelling mistake.
Rhysie, I'm not sure what you being mean to someone would even look like. Maybe manifest as a slightly miffed nose-crinkled face?
You might not feel compassion but you don't try to make anyone feel worse.
Proonie...yeah, I like!
Look, Alia, I' ve had my unkind moments and I feel bad about that, y'know? As BR says...internet is forever. It's not easy at times, but I think it's important to try to be kind, and if you can't be kind, don't say anything. I *try* to live that way and I am not always successful, but dagnabbit, I try!
Be well, be happy...
*Alita Gahddam autocorrect will be the death of me!!
Meanie, thanks and I totally understand. Btw, where have you been??
Ah, Kristin, long story short: was going to move, but decided not to, had the internet at house cut off, then when I was gonna have it turned back on, found out some yahoo in another country somehow raided my bank account and blah, blah, blah..
So, I have limited data on phone, read all you crazy folks every coupla days. I should be back to regular schedule in about 3 weeks. ;)
And, now, @ 6 am, I'm finally sleepy. ;)
Don't care for sjp or whoever this random ass woman she was tweeting is/was. Just don't go for kids!! Disgusting, abhorrent behaviour.
@ Baconranch, the internet is forever and it scares me. I work with late teen/early 20's, and the things they think nothing of posting.... SMH. It will come back to bite them but they can't see that.
When someone breaks the illusion of privacy, it bothers me.
@Derek Harvey
Wow. I must have missed that exchange. Derek, that was some misogynistic rambling if I have ever heard some (being a woman of my age, I have). Lady H is like a ray of sunshine on here - the American TTM!.
@Kristin and @Steampunk
I became angry with headrot when she tried to make me and many others feel foolish for trying to help her, and for her unprovoked trolling of fancy and aemish.
Anyone who saw the l'Wren Scott thread would see that headrot thinks suicide is romantic, and that it is a viable option when things get too rough. At any time she could have said 'just kidding!'. Did she? No.
It angers me that people may think this is what happens when you try to help a suicidal person. It isn't, of course. She was obviously never suicidal, and instead of just saying so, she accused people of not 'getting her' and the usual 'you're stupid', etc. stuff. It angers me that every time suicide is even mentioned on here, I know for a fact that there are dozens of people on here who cringe at the memories that even the word brings forth. I feel sorry for headrot in the sense that she is too narcissistic to seek help for herself. That would mean admitting that she has any problems, which is very difficult for a narcissist to do. It's much easier to blame the world and those around us.
and leek is too narcissistic to see that she is worthless and noone wants her "help" and all her "help" did is make things worse which is why i think she is a low life disgusting human being who isnt worth shit.
everything kristin said is right and why i absolutely cannot stand and loathe most of the people on here and refuse your "help" and think that youre idiotic scumbags and why i look down on most of you.
sorry thats so far beyond your comprehension. as for the justification of "oh its out there, so i can use it" i hope psychopaths find your addresses, because theyre out there, and show you what the worlds really about. because you put it out there, its perfectly ok to be used against you! amirite? obviously i am because its the fucking dumbass argument you all used.
my blogs was linked in my profile well before i started coming here. my mistake was thinking you all were decent human beings and keep blog shit on the blog. whoops! my bad. you burned my trust so i am disgusted by the fact people like leek even are allowed to exist in this world.
sooooo shocking.
as for why i dont want "help" when i dont have any problems from nosey bored housewives who cant even seem to help themselves who i dont even know? gee, really? if you cant figure that one out i dont know how you arnt a drooling vegetable.
i dont find suicide romantic. i think suicide is a fundamental right to choose that everyone should have and be able to freely exercise. their body, their life, their choice.
if any of you had bothered to ask for my feelings about it, rather than jumping on me and trying to force your forced, fake, lame, unwanted attempts at "help" you might have found that out. or if you had had the common respect and decency to back off when i asked you to.
i dunno, if you had ever acted like sane, rational, decent human beings, i'd treat you as such, like i treat other people on here who dont try to meddle in my life and act like sane, rational, decent human beings.
i havent blamed anyone for anything, other than the way you treat me leek, so by your definition, youre the narcissist. fucking cunt. go get a dog or something.
headrot
Headrot, you have offered information about yourself over the months. If you want personal information kept private you need to change the settings on your profile as soon as possible.
I did not post links to your blog or address anything that you hadn't already addressed yourself.
I was angry because of the way you treated people who were just trying to help. I'm a lot older than most here - I have a long fuse, but it did no good to let you keep trolling fancy for no reason without saying something.
If I were you I would apologize to the people you lashed out at. They were only trying to help. That is one way you can set things right.
I was a severe addict for longer than you've probably been on the planet. I was also in a co-dependent relationship for part of that time. I also know what it's like to love a person that is poison for you.
If I can quit, anyone can. I have no will-power. It actually came down to the realization that something else was controlling my life instead of me controlling it. My offers of help were not fake BTW.
BTW, I am not a housewife. Housewives do a hell of a lot of work, though and have to sometimes sacrifice their dreams temporarily, or even permanently to raise a family. Raising a family is the dream for some people, and that's all right by me. I have my own business so I can see more of my children. I am very fortunate.
There are some people on the board that are angry because they feel betrayed. They reached out to help. Instead of saying you were just joking or that you were all right, you immediately started spewing venom.
Spewing venom and blaming people for not understanding you is not a sign of being 'all right'. That is why people persisted: to make sure you were really all right. Most people would consider themselves fortunate if they had as many offers of help as you have had.
Suicide is a tragic answer to usually temporary problems. Stating that suicide is an answer to any problem other than problems of old age, or some extreme circumstance, makes people crazy. It's a selfish act that punishes the people around us.
In other news
The City Council announces the opening of a new dog park at the corner of Earl and Sommerset, near the Ralph’s. They would like to remind everyone that dogs are not allowed in the dog park. People are not allowed in the dog park. It is possible that you will see hooded figures in the dog park. DO NOT APPROACH THEM. DO NOT APPROACH THE DOG PARK. The fence is electrified and highly dangerous. Try not to look at the dog park, and, especially, do not look for any period of time at the hooded figures. The dog park will not harm you.
Also headrot, don't worry. Things will get better.
@Bacon Ranch
Things always get better if you allow them to, I agree.
That sounds like quite the dog park! No dogs, no people *and* an electric fence! Are they still working on it?
Best. Inaugural. Post. EVER!
*applauds*
Did headrot just out herself as the poster who stalked another poster and took a pic of their house on the computer while also catching a reflection of themselves in the computer screen glare? Shinola.
I see what you did there.
@Bacon Ranch - brilliant post about the "dog park" - loved it!
There's a phrase I like to repeat: presume goodwill.
Some people don't know what that means.
Now, I'm feeling suicidal ... or at least I want you to think I am. So, I'm going to go completely silent for 36 hours while you all desperately try to reassure me that I shouldn't commit suicide ... then I'll come back and tell you what pathetic excuses for human beings you were for being worried about me.
Cuz you know, over on that "16 mistakes men make on dating sites" I actually posted that I'm passive-aggressive. It's what I live for.
Meanwhile, while you're all worrying about me, I'll be hanging out in my parents' basement eating KFC in my pajamas and trolling OTHER forums under a different name.
Because I'm not actually interested in celebrity gossip or any of the topics on the other forums I hang out on. I'm just interested in finding people to take the bait I dangle so that I can hijack threads, insult people, and make everything all about me, all the time.
It's the only way I can get any attention because in my real life, people have NO interest in me. I only feel important when I'm on-line and even then the only way I can get attention is to be a raging bitch.
Hey, Leek
@Seven
Hi chickieboo
@Leek, Steampunk and I were talking about something else. You either didn't read it, didn't get it, or choose to ignore it to insert yourself into the situation again. Sorry to be harsh, but I already read why you're angry with headrot. It has no bearing on why I think what has been done with her personal information is wrong.
@Leek---Clearly your intentions are good and you are a nice lady. However I would like to know what your definition of misogyny is cause I am one of the least misogynist guys on the planet-let alone on this site. Maybe you can join Count and the name that will not be mentioned and have a giggle about gang-rape porn and blue waffles. Cheers.
If SJP got that excited about someone saying her kids don't look like her, then she needs to take a seat. I don't look anything like my mother and she was continuously asked about my "adoption" when I was a little girl, but got over it.
On a side note, I find SJP extremely insecure about her education, hence her use of large words in random and slightly off ways.
of large words and
@Kristin
Sigh. I think you're sort of shooting the messenger Kristin. As long as headrot stays angry at anything but her problems, she will not face them. It's 'ignore and redirect'.
@Derek
Lady H. has a good heart, and I'm glad you apologized to her. Just because I defended Lady H doesn't mean I am going to start following Count J.
@Leekalicious Again, I'm not talking about what headrot does/doesn't need to do. It has nothing to do with you but you insist on making it so.
@Kristin
Sorry, just tired, I think.
Wow; what a thread! This could become a gold-standard model of how trolls operate when well-fed. They mix passive-aggressive button pushing with a smug, condescending tone to prompt replies.
Once they get a hoof in the door, they toss out baits to draw people in. Some trolls are simply miserable souls desperate for attention; others are angry sickos who deliberately scatter poison to throw commenters off-topic & set them at odds with one another.
After getting nourishment in a thread, the troll may drive the game further O/T with choice words here & there, but mission accomplished. Feeling well-fed, clever, & Important, the troll can sit back & relish the power trip
of conning a friendly community into forgetting the ancient axiom: if it smells like a Troll, don't feed it! Ignore the critter til it moves elsewhere for sustenance. Otherwise, like harpies, they foul everything they touch.
Actually, CDAN is lucky. RADAR has a Troll Colony--some are basic attention-seekers, but there's also a cluster of bottom-feeding bigots... Oh, wait. A lot of them are just faithful readers ;-) .
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