Friday, May 08, 2009

Four For Friday - Mother's Day Edition

I posted this blind item last Memorial Day weekend, but it happened during a Mother's Day weekend and when I think of Mother's Day, it is one of my first memories. Sorry mom. Anyway, it is one of my favorite stories and I don't usually repost old blind items, but I thought I would make an exception this time. Plus, there may be new readers since last year who haven't read it. I didn't change anything so the Memorial Day references may seem odd. You can click on the title if you want to see the old guesses.

A Mother's Day To Remember

Obviously this would have been more relevant if I had posted it a few weeks ago, but hey, if you have learned anything over the past two years of reading this blog, it is that I'm a bit lazy, or busy or both. Can you be lazy and busy? Is it because you are lazy that you are busy? Anyway, at least it's still May so this is still kind of relevant. Plus, it's all you are getting today unless Mischa Barton decides to show herself. If you think only actresses skip out on Cannes and their obligations, then you obviously didn't read about my adventure tracking down a certain director who should have known better as well. If you haven't read it, shame on you, but just click the label, long blind item at the bottom of this, and you shouldn't have to scroll too far down. Give you something to do anyway if you are at work. Sorry if you are. I probably should be as well, but sometimes you just have to say f**k it. If you did read about the director, then you will enjoy this because it also takes place in Europe. People always e-mail and ask how come I don't write more of the longer items, and the answer is simple. I used to all the time. But, inevitably the longer items involve me, and honestly, too many people read the blog now, and it isn't like I haven't told the stories to other people before, so I try and keep them to a minimum. I know you like them, but there are other people to consider as well, and you have to remember, when I tell them at a party I usually name names. No, not in the big ones. The MV's of the world and some of the other deeply intimate ones, are locked up in the mind. The one you are about to read isn't known to very many people because, honestly, the four of us did some things that we are not necessarily proud of, and as a consequence we were not exactly running back home and sharing it to the rest of the world. That being said, enough time has gone by, that if you ask one of the others, or myself, we are not exactly hiding anything. I mean it is being written now isn't it?

Happened about ten years ago. Throw in a year or so on either side just to make you work, but it isn't the most difficult one in the world to figure out. Four people. #1 is me. Hell, it's my blog, I'll be #1 thank you very much. #2 is a singer and so from now on will refer to him as SR just to keep things easier. Great guy. One hit wonder, but it was a hell of a hit, and he has no problems with being a one hit wonder. If you do figure out him, and see who he worked with when he first started, it does open up a bunch of other clues about another person who has contributed to the blog. This singer was riding the high from this #1 song when this little adventure took place. I absolutely, positively guarantee you that each and every person who is reading this blog has heard this song, and hummed along or sung to it. #3 is an actor. Honestly, doesn't do much now. At the time though had a very nice run going on a very hit show. Although he wasn't with her at the time, he was the guy who introduced me to AP, so you have that whole thing going. He had a very recognizable face and still does if you watch reruns. We will call #3 AR for actor. Finally we have #4. #4 is someone none of you know or will know and is only in the story because he was there, and since he was there, it kind of makes sense for him to be mentioned, although he will not be heard from much, and you will soon discover why. We will call him NN for no name. Cute huh?

I had met SR when he was just starting out because he was friends with and working for one of my best friends at the time. Damn that is vague, but it is what it is. He and I had hung out and liked each other, but lived in different cities. If we happened to be in the same city at the same time we hung out and we kept in touch when not. AR and I had just kind of met by chance at some function or other and at the time he was seeing AP, so I might have wanted to meet her more than him, but it turns out that I ended up with two friends which is really nice. After that initial meeting though, we rarely talked or saw each other. Once or twice a year we would run into each other and do the whole we should hang out more often thing, and of course never did.

So fast forward a few years from when I first met AR, and into the present. The present at the time this happened, and not the present as in now, because, well that would be odd. Turns out AR and SR are working together on something and my name comes up. They are drunk and of course invite me, because, hey, I'm a lush and they know I'll bring booze. So, I go over to AR's house where they are drunk out of their minds, and the next thing you know SR is saying he has a five day window free, and AR just finished shooting his show for the year, and everyone knows I won't be missed where I was working at the time. Too true. The fourth came about because we wanted to go eat some chicken and waffles at 3am and so I called the one guy who had less of a life than me and NN came and picked us all up and he somehow got drafted to be the fourth.

SR had to be in London a week from then, and so we decided to hit Europe. For some reason we decided to go to Amsterdam, but it wasn't for the reasons you think. It was actually because the flights to Paris the next day were completely booked. That had been our first choice. Well, turns out all the flights to Amsterdam were booked as well, but we did find four seats to Brussels. One note. This was prior to the extensive use of internet booking. There may have well been seats available, but the yellow pages, 3am, and being drunk does not lead to much checking beyond one or two calls per city.

So, let's catch you up. As far as I go, I had awakened at probably 8am, worked all day, went home, was about to go to sleep when AR and SR called. Got drunk beyond belief with them, and got maybe two hours of sleep before we got on a plane to from Los Angeles to New York. There may have been a brief nap in between the Bloody's, but it wasn't long. Then got on a flight from New York to Brussels and this is where the real fun starts.

While all the other flights may have been booked, this flight was empty. As in ten people in Business Class and another ten in the back. More crew than passengers. Well, AR seeing the situation on one of the trips to the bathroom says this just won't do. Because the flight attendants were all in love with him, he convinced them to let all the passengers fly up in Business, and then proceeded to drink. We all drank. And drank, and drank. By the time the flight landed, all of the beverage carts were empty. Dry. Nothing. There was one family and the rest were men as I remember. Drinking, cards and swearing, oh and lots of smoking. This airline hadn't switched yet and it was like a thick fog of smoke. Amount of sleep? 0

Landed in Brussels and the first thing that is noticed is that at some point SR has managed to throw up all over himself. Wiped it off to some extent, but looking rough and he was being really surly. Going through customs and everyone is just holding up their passports and getting waved through. Then comes SR. Apparently he had taken offense to a kid from the family stepping on his foot and so was swearing loudly. So much for a smooth ride through customs. "Yes, we are with him. Sure, we'll be glad to wait." Somehow we were on our way really quickly. I just remember that what I thought was probably going to be an hour ended up being like five minutes.

Next. To the car rental counter where we waited and waited and waited. SR had brought a flask and was sipping liberally, and swapping it back and forth with NN. AR decides he is the only one who can drive. I got shotgun which would prove to be very fortunate.

At some point during the flight the four of us had agreed that since we were in Europe, and there to have fun, it hardly made any sense to just make the short drive from Brussels to Amsterdam without seeing a bit of the rest of Europe first. So, we decided to see five countries in one day. Belgium-France-Luxembourg-Germany-The Netherlands, and of course to drink in each country.

So we drank. Belgium was easy, because we had already been drinking so we figured we were good on that front. Got to France and found a place to drink and AR kept himself to one glass of wine while the rest of us each had about a bottle, and took two each for the road. Looking back at it now, perhaps bottles were not the best choice. At some point immediately after crossing the border into Luxembourg, NN and SR who were sitting in the back got into some type of disagreement about space, and who was actually responsible for the four cigarette burns in the rear upholstery of the car. Apparently SR said something to offend NN, which caused NN to take an empty wine bottle and strike SR firmly with it across the forehead. Ahh, nothing like blood streaming from a forehead wound to bring the trip to a rest area. In this case a bar parking lot, because we still had to drink. The bartender had some gauze or tape and there was plenty of liquor with which to clean the wound. So, tape applied and filled with liquor we continued. To Germany and beer. Lots of beer. But first a pit stop on the side of the road. Oh, I forgot to say that part of the deal was to avail ourselves of the outdoors for at least one bathroom break per country. Due to the amount of liquids we were consuming, this in fact took on several stops per country. During a break in Germany doing out business, a motorcyclist came down the highway at about 150 mph. We all remarked at how fast he was going. A short time later as we were going at a much reduced rate down the highway, several police cars and an ambulance made their way past us. Where were they going? Well from the wreckage on the side of the road it appears that perhaps the motorcyclist should have slowed down. Honestly don't know what happened to him, but it didn't look good. On that note we headed to a cafe and got some beers for there and for the road and made our way to Amsterdam.

It was fairly late when we got into Amsterdam, but not quite dark because it was May. Good thing too, because Amsterdam isn't the easiest place to navigate. Imagine an inebriated person with barely any sleep in 48 hours looking at a map and telling the driver to turn left at arnghivstaal street and you can see the dilemma. To this day I don't know he we managed to find our hotel.

Check in, go to our rooms and 30 minutes later we are on our way out. First stop, and it turns out the only stop of the night was a club which featured topless female bartenders and an array of other women whose only goal was to have the customers buy really expensive drinks. It's funny, but AR couldn't go anywhere in LA or for that matter anywhere in the US without being recognized, but, except for the flight over had not been recognized once. He was loving the experience. So when we walked in to the bar and noticed an episode of his show from the first season playing on the television we almost bolted. Funny thing was though even though the entire episode was about him, and he was sitting there in the bar, not a soul recognized him. There was jukebox in the place and we had wanted to create a surreal experience by playing a SR song while AR was on the screen, but SR's song wasn't in the jukebox. Neither myself, SR or AR were really interested in the women. Not so much NN who struck up a conversation with one of the women, left about an hour later with her and didn't show up again until we were about to leave Amsterdam. He's still married to the woman. Yes, awww, and all that. What AR and Sr decided would be fun would be to pay for the drinks of two kids from the UK who were pretending to be about 25 and were more than likely about 17. They were mesmerized by the women, but had run out of funds until SR and AR came along. Wanting the kids to feel like hotshots, SR and AR kept giving the kids money in which to buy drinks and soon had six or seven women all over them. They loved it and SR and AR got a kick out of it. For the most part though this was a party that just wasn't going to get started because the three of us had nothing left to give. At about 4am we walked back to the hotel and called it a night, but not before finding an unlocked bar and no workers. Ahhh free booze. It was like we owned the bar. Trusting lot there at the hotel.

Woke up around 2pm and decided that what was in order was a swim in the North Sea. Sounded really good at the time. Two cases of beer and a few hours later we found ourselves jumping in naked into the North Sea. Funny thing about that sea. It was May and the outside temperature was warm. The water? Not so much. It was about a week before I saw my balls because they had disappeared inside my body not to be seen for sometime.

Another case of beer on the way home and it was time to go out. First stop was a coffeehouse, but honestly we didn't buy any pot. It just didn't seem fun right that second. Next stop, was a biker bar. Didn't know it was a biker bar. Didn't know that the bartender was an American and that he would spend the next hour telling us in great detail why the US was so f**ked up, but he did. We were the only people in the bar and figured his people skills might have had something to do with it. We did stay an hour because we honestly couldn't believe what we were hearing.

We decided to forgo the live sex shows, and instead went to another club which was also completely empty. This was a Saturday night at around 11 or 12 and we literally were the only people in there. Didn't matter though. The bartender who was female and Portuguese was married to the owner who was Dutch. In some half assed Spanish and French we taught them how to make a margarita and a kamikaze and were having a great time and getting very drunk. People started streaming in around 1am or so, and pretty soon I felt a hand on my back and then on my neck, and was thinking to myself, "ok!" Turned around and it was a guy. The whole place was filled with guys. Yep. It was a gay bar. Well this particular gay bar was about to have a Karaoke contest and we decided after seeing SR's song on the play list to enter him right into the contest. First prize was like 1,000 Guilders (yes, before the Euro), and we figured SR would be a shoo in. The guy can sing. No backing tracks or anything like that for him. Ummm. He came in 3rd. To be fair, the guy who won was pretty good, but the guy who came in second did so only because he decided to drop trou and seems that was a real crowd pleaser. No one recognized SR although everyone did sing along which he enjoyed.

Next stop was some college type bar where everyone was singing soccer songs and Abba songs. Honestly, I don't think they played anything else. It was packed and hot, and sweaty and AR got recognized by some American tourists who started screaming. This was not part of the plan, and was not what AR wanted since he and SR were in deep discussions with a dealer who said that he could score some coke. Unfortunately AR just couldn't say, "glad you love the show. You know, could you come back in a little while. My buddy and I are trying to get some coke, and you are kind of ruining it for us."

So, outside we went. As we were walking and discussing a deal, we all found ourselves in the red light district. Funny how that happens huh? Well, the friendly drug dealer told us to enjoy ourselves while he went off to get it and would be back before we finished. Well, all I can say is I he would still be waiting today for me because it just wasn't going to happen for Mr. Shy. Nope, 3 days of drinking and a dunking in the North Sea and the thought of wife #3 in the back of my mind kind of ruined it for me. SR and AR apparently had no such issues. Well, they are used to performing, and I'm not. My excuse anyway. Well the dealer showed up, and he did so with a few of his friends. Apparently he decided that since we had so much cash, perhaps we would be willing to give some to he and his friends. Ummm. Run? Well this wasn't the movies, and running wasn't in the cards so we passed along what money we had. Got to avoid a good ass kicking though. See, there's always a positive.

Stumbled back to the hotel, slept for a few hours, and then it was the drive. You know the one I mean. The one where the fun is done and at least for me all you have to look forward to is that damn desk and at the time, a job which was no fun at all. AR didn't have anything to complain about. He was going on vacation and then to film a movie. NN? Well he got himself a wife, and was sticking around for a few days to meet her family. So it was pretty good for him. SR? Well he flew to London for a show and some stitches and AR decided to go with him. Me? I flew back all by myself and probably moved four inches on each of the flights. Really the first and only time I have ever been able to sleep on a plane. Stopped in Chicago on the way home and called my mom from a pay phone to wish her a Happy Mother's Day. Decided to keep the whole hooker, coke, gay bar, four day bender out of the conversation though. Went home and kissed the wife. Decided not to mention the whole coke or hooker thing. Told her about the gay bar and she could smell the 4 day bender. Went to sleep, and the next morning was right back at that awful desk.

56 comments:

Merrit said...

wow--I never thought I'd say this, but I miss Ted C.

MontanaMarriott said...

LOLOLOL @ Merrit

Wheeew Enty that is a long one.
Hmmm
I gotta do some research!

califblondy said...

Reminds me of my 20's (and 30's and 40's) Great story.

Quintessential Southerner said...

lazy bastard!!!

Sylvia said...

Sorry too long to read.

pomme said...

Ted C out of his body! please i'm french,i can't understand this veryyyyyyyyyyy lonnnnnnnnnnnnnng blind itemmmmmmm!!!!!!! LOL

MontanaMarriott said...

Ok SR is Sugar Ray frontman Mark McGrath, I JUST WANNA FLY being the one hit wonder song

Daniel Alex said...

@Sylvia, what was the point of you even posting that?

Harriet Hellfire said...

Oooh, I remember this one, it's a great story!

We all wanted to believe that the singer was Rick Astley but he doesn't really fit...*L*

Kate said...

Went through the old item! Loved it last year and love it now.

Here were some of the most popular/plausible possibilities:

SR: Duncan Sheik
AR: Scott Wolf

We know Ent knows and loves Scott Wolf.

Other possibilities:
SR: Gregg Alexander (New Radicals "You Get What You Give"), the Chumbuwumba Guy ("I Get Knocked Down")

AR: Matthew Perry



Duncan Sheik and Scott Wolf have a connection with Party of Five. That fits the quality of the show.

I GUESS DUNCAN SHEIK AND SCOTT WOLF!

MontanaMarriott said...

AR-David Faustino from Married with children?

Harriet Hellfire said...

Yeah, I guess I was really the only one who wanted it to be Rick Astley...*LOL*

Jennifer said...

I'm way off base with my guess then (wasn't around here last year)...

I guessed Rick Springfield for SR. Jesse's Girl. Best one hit wonder... in my book.

No idea on the actor.

Eddie said...

SR - Jamie Walters was on 90210 and had #1 song How Do You Talk to an Angel in 1992.

Cooper's Mom said...

aah, i remember this too; though
i am dealing with a terrible hangover right now so won't be contributing much i'm afraid.

I really do love the long bling items that involve you, Enty!

warmislandsun said...

Fun story, whoever they are.

figgy said...

Is Enty serious about being married 3 times? Or is that a joke?

Majik said...

Tal Bachman--She's so High. Was a HUGE hit in August 1999, which works if the timeline includes 2000. He seems to be the kind of guy who wouldn't much care whether he's a OHW or not because he's a musician--does it for the music, not the money. Plus, not too bad to look at. Oh, and Enty said he was "still riding HIGH". He worked with people on Dawson's Creek--wonder if any of those folks are contributors to the blog...

And Tal's Canadian...I'm still convinced Enty is either a Canuck or a border baby.

Rocket Queen said...

Isn't Rick Springfield British?

Anonymous said...

Does it fit for AR to be Mathew Perry and AP to be Lauren Graham?

Christine said...

You know, I just want to meet all 4of these people and hugs them. Phenomenal story.

kris said...

I remember this one too and it is BY FAR one of my favorites.

This blows Ted C outta the water...please don't even try to put Enty in the same category. It might be long but at least it makes sense...

Anonymous said...

Honestly, some of the songs listed in guesses I've never heard of, so I don't think they were that popular. He does say each blog reader would know the song.

I'm beginning to think that Enty only reveals blinds that some people (or a majority) have guessed correctly. Based on that theory, I'd think that none of the old guesses is correct.

AnonMom said...

I love the part about the two people meeting and still being married to this day. That is really sweet.

Enty - you must be a hoot to hang out with. And you also must have a lot of liver damage! Well, more boozing around, more stories for us.

selenakyle said...

I remember this one! Can't remember the guesses though...

Jennifer said...

still no idea on the actor - but wanted to add that Rick Springfield was tied to a show called "High Tide" from 94 to 97...

Anonymous said...

The date of the original BI is 2008. It said it happened 10 years ago give or take a year. Making the BI take place between 1997-1999.

#1 Enty

#2 SR = Mark Mcgrath (Sugar Ray) Song: Fly (1997)

#3 AR = Mathew Perry
#4 AP= Lauren Graham

They LATER dated. AND Mathew Perry went to rehab in 2002. Its also when it was rumored that they were dating.

Winston Ono said...

I think about this one a lot, actually. I love it.

nunaurbiz said...

Rick Springfield is from Austria. But he did a good job at losing the accent.

Who's Duncan Sheik?

I'd go with either Rick (Springfield or Astley).

But I'd like to suggest this one-hit wonder just for fun:
Billy Ray Cyrus!!!!!!!! LMAO!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

#3 Show being Friends....obviously. : )

#4 She was on Gilmore Girls at that time.

DNfromMN said...

I still think it's Duncan Sheik there were a couple of photos posted over the last year where Ent implied knowing him. And I am pretty sure we were convinced it was Scott Wolf.

sunnyside1213 said...

figgy...he's been married more than 3 times.

Cindy said...

um Rick Springfield is from AUSTRALIA, not Austria, lol

Jasmine said...

ANON @ 2:39 - I think you have it.
Only thing that confuses me on this blind is how he introduces AP out of nowhere. Here is what I am talking about: "#3 is an actor. Honestly, doesn't do much now. At the time though had a very nice run going on a very hit show. Although he wasn't with her at the time, he was the guy who introduced me to AP, so you have that whole thing going. "
When was a prior reference to AP made???

nunaurbiz said...

Cindy, oops! Brain said Australia, fingers typed something different!!!! Is it happy hour yet?

April said...

tl;dr

Jasmine said...

Hmm, after taking a look at the old comments, AP seems to reference Amanda Peet and that AR is Matthew Perry and the connection is the movie The Whole Nine Yards.

Anonymous said...

what does tl;dr?? I've been on ONTD and that is a popular term but i apparently am too slow to understand what that is supposed to represent. tl=too long? dr=no idea

vian said...

tl:dr = too long didn't read

Anonymous said...

Haven't posted here in a really long time, but I could swear that AP was Tara Reid (American Pie). For what that's worth.

Anonymous said...

Jassmine, AP is an anonymous friend of Ent's who used to contribute posts to the blog about her experiences at various award shows.

Jasmine said...

anon @4:03pm - ooh thanks!!! ap makes more sense now, to me i read that as anon poster.

shakey said...

This is my favourite BI, and I've been hoping since it's first "airing" that it would be revealed. I am on that Matthew Perry train. If this gets made into a movie, I want Matthew Perry to play himself.

Road Trip for Men.

Jamie's Girl said...

Wow, I enjoyed reading every sentence of this. Amazing and fun!

Sue Ellen Mishkey said...

Anonymous @2:39

#1 isn't Enty, we know it is him. NN is the fourth.

linnea said...

What an amazing blind... The only part i didnt enjoy and could see myself partake in was buying hookers, but that has more to with my country´s morals than anything else.

linnea said...

What an amazing blind... The only part i didnt enjoy and could see myself partake in was buying hookers, but that has more to with my country´s morals than anything else.

Kim said...

Far and away one of my fave BIs, even though I know we'll never know the answers. (is it fourth of July yet?)

I'm no closer to coming up with a one hit wonder in the late 90s that everyone would know-the only one of those I came up with at all was Macarena but Los Del Rio were not on a show-who also had a run on a tv show at that time.

I shall sleep on it. Again.

bflogurl said...

Would I sound totally crazy to mention the "Rembrandts" singer and Matthew Perry?

I didn't read through the old guesses yet, sorry if thats already out there...

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carolyn said...

THANKS, Ent - Now I can't get that $%#@ "BARELY BREATHING" song outta my head!!

...."Cuz I am barely BREATH-IN', and I can't find the AIR... I don't know who I-I'M kidding, imag-in-ing YOU care..... And I could stand here WAIT-ING, a fool for another DAY... But I don't s'pose it's worth the price, worth the price, the PRICE that I would PA-A-A-A-AAAY...." Oh, who am I kidding? I still love that stupid song.

Here are my answers:

SR: DUNCAN SHEIK (obvs)
AR: SCOTT WOLFAnd the way-back connection to Duncan Sheik is LISA LOEB! ...Geez, I wish I were friends with her since "back in the day!" (I also wish I'D been in that backseat - crammed right between DS & SW! ..Minus the puke, of course.)

bflogurl said...

But Duncan Sheik also sang "She Runs Away" (one of my all-time faves!!)... so I don't see him as the one hit wonder who (as Enty said above):
"I absolutely, positively guarantee you that each and every person who is reading this blog has heard this song, and hummed along or sung to it."

Duncan Sheik.. really?? Come on!! No way has everyone "hummed or sung along" to my buddy Duncan, as much as I love him.

I really think he is talking the Friends theme song "I'll be there for you".

mygeorgie said...

Lawd, that is looooong! The preview 'skimming' is scarier than a mortgage commitment. Saving this one for Mother's Day coffee/ relaxing while my family cleans my house. (fingers crossed)

Happy Mothers Day People! Even those with no kids, your a mom to someone, something :)

Karmen said...

tl;dr? You all are pansies.
I waited all weekend to read this on a big computer screen, as opposed to my tiny crackberry screen. This was AWESOME! I love long BIs and I always hearing about other people's drunken debauchery stories. Thanks, Enty!

I don't think SR is the singer from The Rembrants. I also don't think it's Mark McGrath. Sugar Ray had other hits, albeit none as popular as "I Just Wanna Fly".

I think this is best bet:
SR: Duncan Sheik
AR: Scott Wolf

Here's more proof for the doubters: Enty mentions that SR's hit was at its high during this escapade (around Mother's Day). "Barely Breathing" was at its peak on May 10, 1997. Mother's Day that year was May 11.

bionic bunny! said...

if y'all click the link at the top, it's the same story, but it has the old comments at the end. i'd forgotten this story, until i got a bit a bit into it. and lawdy, i love the personal stories, too!!


i have always thought enty was from texas. didn't he post a lovely story about meeting ann richards back in the early days of the blog?

yes, i have been reading since day one, but so much of it gets jumbled, and i didn't post for the first couple of months or so. i was a bit of a chicken shit then.