Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Blind Item #7

"I would love to have another marriage where it is just about friendship and not always having to try and fend off a horny man. Sex is completely overrated. I have done my greatest acting when coming up with excuses." A list mostly movie actress talking to her makeup artist last week.

51 comments:

D Brown said...

At least we know why her last husband cheated on/divorced her.

jane3113 said...

"It came true!" Anne can have a sexless marriage with Not Gosling.

Kristin said...

Nicole

StewMcG said...

Nicole Kidman

cricket said...

Kidman

sandybrook said...

I immediately thoughtvNicole because she was a beard in another marriage

laura ramona said...

I don t see tom cruise horny lol

PugsterMom said...

Wow! Frigid much??

Cecilia00 said...

Not Kidman - she is well-trained on her image, not letting stuff slip, and very concerned how she is perceived.

Her current image is happily married with kids and gushing about how Keith a urban "opened her up sexually". (See Vanity Fair article)
She wouldn't trust the makeup artist enough not to gossip.

Jaded Horror Geek said...

Not Nicole, clearly someone who isn't married now, but was before, and to someone who wanted to have sex with her (which isn't Tommy). Not sure if I have any good guesses.

Anothergrayhare said...

I always remember seeing a lawyer on the Today Show years ago talking about divorce. He said, "Well, we've never had a couple divorce yet because they were having too much sex." At the time I was single and having a lot of sex. 2 kids and 20 years of marriage later.... man, I miss those days.

Snapdragon said...

Meh, some people just aren't that into sex. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

NapAssasin said...

Didn't you discuss this before getting married? Do you communicate at all? Why bother being married if you're so incompatible? Idiot.

KellyLynn said...

Sex is great, but it doesn't have to be the main focus of the relationship. It doesn't mean someone is frigid, just that they may be looking to a connection other than between the sheets. There's no shame in that.

Me said...

My first thought, someone over 40 who needs hormone replacement therapy. Hummmm, who's older, single and already been a beard?

Boxes Little Boxes said...

It does read a bit like someone who isn't married, or is considering divorce.

There are people who quite simply have no desire in sex (and in some cases, any romantic relationships at all). Google AVEN (the Asexuality Visibility and Education Network).

It's be a good idea to make the person you're with is sexually compatible, though. If you're not into it, don't marry a horndog!

Jacq said...

Sounds like me. No drive after having our son. He's three now :-/ But I took up running, so I'm in the shape of my life and devoid of that desire. Bearding for an a-lister is my dream job! Lol

Young Carrie Bradshaw said...

I haven't had good sex in so long I feel that way. I just wait till its over.

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Pogue Mahone said...

Nothing wrong with that. Not everyone is obsessed with sex and it's not the be-all and end-all.It doesn't mean that they're "frigid."

shopgirl said...

Bullock?

Kate said...

Ugh you just reminded me if her speeches. I was hoping to forget!!!

car54 said...

My guess was Sandra as well.

Sherry said...

On the heirarchy of needs (sex,respect, compatibility etc) it is important to discuss where sex falls for you. Not everyone places it in the top three but if you do it should be clear to your partner. Sadly not enough people discuss this before they get married because they've got on the love goggles. Hopefully whomever this is does address that if they decide to have a close relationship again.

scratchy kitty said...

Nicole Kidman? SHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET!!!!!!!!
Okay, she's gay, right--because I would kill to have the "problem" of trying to fend off Keith Urban every night! Send him to me!!!!
I'll be damn, theres just some women I do NOT and will not EVER understand, and she's one of them. Smdfh.

rock me sexy jesus said...

napassasin right before they got married they discussed indepth when where how often they would have sex for the rest of their lives
idiot

The Real Dragon said...

Well Damn

urban chaos said...

Idk, sex isn't everything but suggesting its overrated means they're probably doing it wrong.

Mag said...

Reese Witherspoon
Wasn't there a blind some tine ago about a sweetheart acress who doesn't really like sex and slept with her husband like once a month, and didn't mind him cheating, and paid for his lovers' abortions, but divorced him when his cheating became too public? She was a popular guess.

Tina Mallette said...

Everyone has different needs in that department but really don't get married to someone unless both of you are completely honest abut your expectations and you both at least start out the marriage with same views on sex or similar sex drives - life will throw enough curves balls ha ha at you both later. People think the other person will change, honey if they ain't got a sex drive before you got married they ain't going to have it after you got married unless you are really really good at bringing that out or you and your partner get therapy. Or if you have different sex drives and you can come to a mutual arrangement, fine but my guess is that situation doesn't last for long.

I think it is deceitful if a woman or man marries someone under false pretenses, like being gay or faking it with the sex. Both men and women will fake it if they are using their partner for financial and status reasons. I guess it can't be too hard for Casper and J Lo though.

nudibelle said...

cant have good SEX everynight. Its nice to have, but i wont lie, having someone thats a true friend and a life partner, supporter, a good dad , good listener.. is more appealing to me

Count Jerkula said...

It is fine if a chick doesn't like sex. It isn't fine if she sold some schmuck a bill of goods, then put the pussy in a vault. Either find a dude that hates sex too, or be cool with yer dude fucking other women.

That stuff refreshes daily. It either gets out or festers and turns into blood pressure and prostate problems.

CJ said...

Kate Winslet?

CJ said...

Kate Winslet?

it took forever said...

Not Kidman , do you really think Crazy glue lips seled and taped with duct tape nicole would just say stuff like that out loud to a make up artist, NEVER she was well trained

Renoblondee said...

I don't believe Nic is frigid. She was with Lenny Kravitz for God's sake! LOL

NaughtyNurse said...

Before marriage, a woman has NO idea what her body will be up for in 15 years. I wish I was still the horndog I was so many years ago...before difficult pregnancies, fertility treatments, emergency surgeries, postpartum depression, working my ass off while taking care of a house and kids. Wah wah wah...I know I sound like a whiner, but I'm just saying...I get where this woman is coming from.

Suzie P said...

Julia Roberts - friendship marriage - Lyle Lovett

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Cee Kay said...

I read this as Nicole, referring to wanting "another marriage" like what she had with Tom instead of the fending off one she has now. Which makes no sense if Keith Urban is supposed to be gay. LOL

leemonada76 said...

Princess Buttercup.

Kenneth said...

Anne Hathaway

KittensRUs said...

That's it. No woman doesn't want GOOD sex. The problem is so many of us have men that aren't good and don't care to improve. Why are we married to them? Rest of the package was great in most cases. Great friendship, good as parents, similar goals - but the sex is awful so we avoid it as best we can.

Henriette said...

Sorry, I got married for sex. I have lots of friends I don't have sex with. I dropped a guy who thought the same way as this actress. It really made me feel horrible and undesirable. Sure, I knew he was the asexual one, but it still hurt. People who don't care about sex should stick with each other.

c said...

Katy Holmes

studio gulag -- said...

CZJ

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J Goode said...

It's Halle Berry. That's why her first husband cheated. He was a sex fiend.

Sorry to break it to you ladies, but most men marry for sex. The other stuff is a bonus for us. My first wife didn't want to have sex often, but it turned out she has a lot of mental issues that i hope she got help for. My current gf is as horny as me and I have never been happier.

crila16 said...

It sounds like someone who isn't married at the moment.

doctressjulia said...

...and I will continue to avoid associating with, dating, having sex with, cohabiting with or marrying any man. Ugh. What energy suckers.

tamarind said...

i agree w/ henriette.