Thursday, May 16, 2013

Today's Blind Items - Destruction In A Bottle

Charming as hell when he is sober and lusted after by many, this foreign born B- list mostly television actor has women throwing themselves at his feet all the time. He prefers finding women though who will not be intimidated by him when he has had a few drinks and decides to get a little rough. OK, very rough. Super rough. Have to be prepared to go to the hospital rough. He says it is all part of who he is and does not apologize for it. Most people would say it was a beating, he says it is part of sex, but it is not always part of sex with him, it is part of who he is when he drinks. He says if he tells people in advance what they can expect, then it is not wrong and they come fully aware into the situation. He is adamant about that and has had no problems finding women who go along with it for awhile. His problem is though that as he has been with the woman a certain amount of time he needs to get more and more rough and there comes a time when they can't handle him or it or his drinking. Last night he ended up going home with this former A list mostly television actress who is now kind of a mess in her own right. This could be big trouble.

87 comments:

me said...

Yikes...buyer beware!

MontanaMarriott said...

Was Mischa Barton ever A list? Still working on the actor

MontanaMarriott said...

I so hope it is not him but perhaps Canadian born Nathan Fillion?

Munch said...

First name that popped into my head was Alexander Skarsgard. I really hope it isn't him though. He always looks kind of unhealthy to me, like he drinks a bit and not in an undead-vampire kind of way, although that isn't really too hard to look at...

SKOR said...

I thought of Jonathan Rhys Meyers

SKOR said...

Scratch that - I don't think he is 'mostly television'.

MontanaMarriott said...

Oooh or perhaps the Australian guy who play's Sookie's brother on TB Ryan Kwanten?

MAC said...

Sean Bean? I only think that because I remember a blind about a mean drunk that everyone thought was him.

Renoblondee said...

Oh @SKOR good guess. He is a bad alcoholic. I hate that for him, I really like him a lot. Hope it's not him though, and he's still working on his sobriety.

B626 said...

Nathan is A list in my book :)
But I cannot imagine putting
up with that.

Renoblondee said...

^Well, he's mostly TV now though? Never mind. Don't want it to be him anyway.

Jeneral said...

Keifer?

Count Jerkula said...

If the women consent, then no harm no foul.

It is obviously a way to force women away so he doesn't build an actual connection/relationship with them.

One thing booze does is strip away the bullshit and show who a person really is.

The Real Dragon said...

Christian Grey!

All about Eve said...

I like the Sean Bean guess, doesn't he have a new tv show starting soon?

Tyger Lilly said...

Foreign born? Easy... Michael J. Fox

Just kidding... I have no clue, but this doesn'tsound like a sex thing or a drinking thing, it's probably more of a psychological issue. Rather than finding women who will "take it" for a while, he'd be better off seeking help before he either kills someone or meets a less-accommodating woman who has him thrown in jail & sues.

Joey Joe Joe Shaboe Jr said...

Sean Bean is a good guess.

But I'm going to say Tom Hiddleston for the hell of it.

The Raving Badger said...

Alex O'Laughlin.

shakey said...

Alexander Skarsgard was the blind about him only wanting vanilla, missionary-style sex, so not him. Ryan Kwanten is gay.

Hrm ... Nathan ... I sure hope not, either. Matthew Perry isn't lusted after. Just for fun let's say Raj from Big Bang Theory.

I have to agree with the Count - unless the woman says no after agreeing to the abuse. And yes, to what you said about keeping women away, and about the booze.

Frufra said...

Wow Count - you're totally on target here. Used to date a guy who'd always say, "a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts". And, yeah, he drank too much, and pushed me away when what we had was turning into a relationship with feelings. But I still can't smell Seagram's 7 without thinking about the sexay times. Seagram's 7 and clove cigarettes. Ah, the '80's.

SecretTorture said...

No one lusts after Nathan Fillion. 10 years ago maybe, but not now.

Jonathan Rhys Meyers is a good guess but supposedly his drug of choice was cocaine. And he hooked up with Katie Mcgrath and even now they're great friends. Which probably wouldn't happen if he smacked her around while he was sticking it to her.

My guess...
Jeremy Irons. He hasn't been in films since early 2000s I believe. And his roles in Television way outnumber his film roles.

MISCH said...

This is crazy and so are the women.

Munch said...

@Shakey - I'd forgot about the vanilla sex thing. Happy it's not him in one way, sad in another - if I ever had a shot at him he'd be a bit of a disappointment...

@Frufra there's an old saying "in vino veritas", and it's very true. A nasty drunk is just a drink away from a nice guy.

trainrides said...

But Christian is no mean drunk :)

ms_wonderland said...

I can't see it being Sean Bean, he's on his fourth (?) marriage. His relationships last longer than this blind implies. Plus he's made loads of films, so not mostly TV.

Gayeld said...

@Secret. Wait, you think no one lusts after Nathan Fillion, but we all go weak in the knees for Jeremy Irons?

Iceberg said...

SecretTorture, does that mean I can have him all to myself?

trainrides said...

@shakey But it's sooo hard to picture Raj beating women. Women beating Raj, now that one's too easy.

Frufra said...

@Munch - one of the world's oldest sayings, probably - back to the Ancient Greek, who loved their vino :-).

trainrides said...

@SecretTorture Uhmm, Castle fans, I'm guessing

Lee Anne said...

Charlie Hunnam? I think that's the name of the Sons of Anarchy actor.

yodelay said...

Sean Bean is not mostly TV. Given yesterday's drug dealer story, my guess is someguyIdon'tknow from someshowIdon'twatch.

SecretTorture said...

Oh, duh, Kiefer Sutherland.

He's been sober on and off.
And yes, ladies would love to tap that.

Silkprint said...

I turn into 'the other' when I drink hard booze- so I don't

SecretTorture said...

Yeah I'm thinking Kiefer Sutherland. He dates non famous women or women I've never heard of (excluding Ashley Scott) and has had a new relationship every 12 months or less. Thanks whosdatedwho. Sigh.

M52799 said...

It's not Charlie Hunnam, apparently he's had a girlfriend for 6 years. I don't think it's Alexander Skarsgard. He dated Kate Bosworth for about a year, didn't he? She's so thin, there's no way she could have taken beatings like that for so long. I like the Kiefer Sutherland guess.

Olive said...

Nathan Fillion? Never!

Turkish Taffy said...

I don't know much about Jonny Lee Miller. Is he foreign born? Or just because he plays an Englishman? Yes, Google is my friend...bye...

Turkish Taffy said...

Oh my... Seems to have a lot of TV work on his resume....

Turkish Taffy said...

I wonder if the former A-lister was a special guest on "Elementary"?

lizness said...

Jeremy Irons has an Oscar for Reversal of Fortune which would make him a little more than a B- mostly TV actor on Enty's scale I would guess (and I think he is past his prime of being lusted over)

Jaded Horror Geek said...

Lots lust after Nathan, but it is not him. He has a steady gf in Vanessa P. and he isn't a big drinker anyway.

What about Ryan Kwanten of True Blood? He is about B-, foreign, has women throwing themselves at him. I mean this is the guy who boasts about doing Triathalons drunk.

FrenchGirl said...

sean bean?

SecretTorture said...

I wanna know who the former A list TV actress could be. I'm drawing a blank.

But I stick to my Sutherland guess!

Millie said...

What's this about Ryan Kwanten being gay?? I mean... I can totally see it but I've never heard those rumors before. Anybody have a link to such info?

Flora Goforth said...

Julian McMahon from Charmed?

msgirl said...

I don't think this is Kiefer - he's been in quite a few long term relationships, including marriages (the exes continue to let him see the kids), is supposedly a gentleman, and is not a mean drunk but a funny one: witness the Xmas tree!

msgirl said...

Also, is Kiefer B-, I'd think higher, he is the star and draw for his TV shows also award winner.

Feisty said...

Raj is married to a former Miss India (and a runner up Miss Universe?? not sure on where she placed in that competition). Not him.

Count Jerkula said...

Thanks Fru. I not only play and a-hole and a perv on here, I also dish some reality from time to time.

steph518 said...

Benedict Cumberbatch?

Nellie said...

The Alex olaughin guess is a good one

trainrides said...

@msgirl I agree. Jack Bauer is totally A! or A+! or AA!

SecretTorture said...

About Ryan Kwanten - calling him B- is being extremely generous. He was turned away from a party this awards season because well... he's not that famous.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2284313/Dont-know-I-True-Bloods-Ryan-Kwantens-fury-turned-away-Oscars-party.html

Meli said...

Ryan is gay?!?!?!

Isa said...

Fassbender!

AnneBolyen said...

I think this is def Sean bean. He has done loads of tv here in the uk. He is also very lusted after and known for being rough

Anna Nonymous said...

Nathan Fillion is the nicest, sweetest, aw shucksiest guy ever, at least from what I've seen on dvd cast interviews. Ok, who's a guy that women throw themselves at? I dont' have any idea who this jerk is. I'd like to see someone get rough with him after a few drinks and see how he likes it, he might sing another tune.

ac said...

Ryan is not gay, I think he has a gay sibling and supports gay rights. He is also really into yoga. Just sayin.

Groovy said...

Johnny Lee Miller

Jaded Horror Geek said...

True, but he was also at Eltons Oscar viewing party. I think that is why the rating fits. If you are a fan of the Show, you definitely know him. But not everyone does, putting him around B-, maybe C+. Back in 2010 he claimed to be writing a self help book about sex.

JohnR said...

Nathan is single...again, four girlfriends in the last two years, not that he's B- list

Stephanie McDonald said...

@Turkish Taffy...Yes, Jonny Lee Miller is foreign born - he's English. He's also Angelina's ex-husband.
Having said that, I have no guess for this blind.

Jessie said...

Yeah, where did the gay rumors about Ryan Kwanten come from? You can't just drop a bomb like that and disappear!

Suzie P said...

Bullshit in response to the comment that if they consent then there is no foul. He's not pulling this crap in a power vacuum - most likely he's picking on women/men who are vulnerable for any number of reasons. He's a dick and a coward.

The Real Dragon said...

@train. True True =p

Audrey said...

I like the Benedict Cumberbatch guess. There's something about him that seems dangerous.

just curious said...

"I'm looking for a woman who can keep up with me."
- Charlie Sheen

A lot of guys live by this mandate. They say they want a strong woman and this speaks to a lotta females egos . Over time however, some women don't test well who consider themselves strong especially in areas of extreme sex and physical confrontation.

I read that Tyson like to dominate strong women.

Jaiden_S said...

I like the Johnny Lee Miller guess.

GiGi said...

First time posting. I really don't want it to be him, but what about David Lyons? Aussie actor, mostly tv (Revolution, ER, The Cape, Sea Patrol-hit in Australia). Not sure if he's B- list, but he was just in movie Safe Haven with Josh Duhamel and Julianne Hough, which I think did well at the box office. He's charming, no problem with attracting women. I'm hoping I just thought of him because of his realistic portrayal of an abusive alcoholic in Safe Haven and that it's not really him. He's one of my favs!

brooklyngirl said...

I second Alex O'Loughlin quote "I am a big fan of vampires. I've always been obsessed with the genre, and the beautiful romanticism and erotic kind of nature of the immortal being, the undead who lives on human blood."

he has already been in rehab once for pills but I bet alcohol is part of it. He also was roommates with Jonathan Rhys Myers yikes!

di butler said...

Not Fillion, Skaarsgard, or Sutherland. Hope not Hunnam...

Dolly72 said...

What abour Gerard Butler?? Lots of talk about his drinking, and he never seems to be seen with the same woman twice??

Dolly72 said...

Ignore me...TV actor:( sorry

Steampunk Jazz said...

Not Nathan Fillion. I have been a fan of this man for a while and I will wrestle anyone here to the ground if they won't share nicely! That said, I have no problem believing this about Johnny Lee Miller.












MadLyb said...

The only guess up there I lust after is Charlie Hunnam, so I'm going with him.

NaughtyNurse said...

My money is on Jonathan Rhys Meyers, who is known for being a belligerent drunk and who is also HOT. I wouldn't mind him throwing me around a little bit.

Persiaa said...

for someone different, Goran Visnjic ? Is he B or maybe A- for tv?
I know he's married, but it could be the subject doesn't do rough sex with a spouse/gf.

mzmarymac said...

Charlie Hunnam-first word of the blind is "Charming" where Sons of Anarchy is set. Charming, California.

yodelay said...

The dude that plays Puck(?) on Glee.

portlandjewel said...

I am a fan of his too. I hope this isn't him and I hope he is able to maintain his sobriety. He is a good actor and so handsome. LOVE the Tudors!

Steampunk Jazz said...

Good one Yodelay! I forgot about his troubles with the law... God I wish I could figure out how to access a random memory of a previous blind, lol...Hasn't this guy already been outed as abusive?

Mala Propism said...

I totally lust after Nathan Fillion. That said, Johnny Lee Miller sounds the most plausible guess so far - but I hope it's not him. I like to think of him as the one non-crazy relationship Angelina had.

Anna Nonymous said...

Holding hand up, I lust after Nathan Fillion too... seems super sweet, like a big labrador, but a little bit rakish too. Johnny Lee Miller's got that dark inner demons look to him, but is he known as charming?

Silvia said...

Cory Monteith? He's canadian and seems has some trobule with alcohol lately...

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epobirs said...

Simon Baker?

Jesse Spencer?