Jillian Harris Says Ed Swiderski Has Some Growing Up To Do

Jillian Harris gave an interview to US Weekly and reading between the lines I would say she finally opened her eyes to the realization that Ed cheated on her a lot and was probably still cheating on her even when she moved to Chicago.

"It's terrible to leave because the other person doesn't know what they want." To me, that is code speak for he liked having sex with me when he could not find some other woman to have sex with him.

She also said she had a really sad summer which means that she really did like the ass. To me Jillian actually was in it for love and she got screwed over. Later she said, "He's not a bad guy. He's just not quite ready to grow up." To me that is code speak for I am Canadian so won't say anything bad about the guy, but he wanted to go out every night and be with a different woman every night and played me like a fool on national television and I moved all the way to Chicago from Vancouver for the prick.

Shocker!!! Jillian Harris And Ed Swiderski Break Up

You know what is the shocking thing about this, that Jillian Harris still moved to Chicago after knowing that Ed Swiderski had been cheating on her even during the taping of The Bachelorette. Not just after the show, but during the actual taping of the show when he went to Chicago. Despite that she changed countries and quit her job and moved in with this a-hole.

I can't believe it actually lasted this long.

They both talked to US Weekly and had this to say. "I love him and I'm really sad, but I have to look out for me," Harris, 29, tells Us.

Adds Swiderski, 30, "We're both kind of resetting. Jillian isn't happy and I'm definitely sad about the whole thing, but we've got to work through some things on our own if we decide to move forward."

Sounds like Ed dumped her. Here is what I think happened. Ed kept seeing other people or looking for other people and may have cheated a few times and Jillian would forgive him and think she could change him and she did change countries for the guy so she had incentive to make it work. I think she still loves him, but Ed wants to play the field before he loses the rest of his hair.

Jillian & Ed Are Finished - They Just Don't See It Yet

Jillian Harris and Ed Swiderski are going to split up. At this point I am just counting down the days. Thankfully it looks like Jillian finally woke the hell up and realized Ed is and was and forever will be a tool. I mean Ed is the guy who told his friend that Jillian was going down on him when they heard the first rumors about his infidelity on television. Who shares something like that? The same guy who tells the women he is sleeping with to bring over beer and condoms.

Anyway, Jillian was in New York for Fashion Week and she was accompanied by Mike Steinberg. Mike was on the show also but kicked out in the fourth episode. Well, he had Ed are friends so Ed said she should hang out with Mike. Why wasn't she with Ed? Listen to this crap and tell me what you think.

"Ed was supposed to be here today, but then he couldn't book his flight."

Step 1 - Open internet
Step 2 - Find your favorite travel site. (I recommend one that advertises on here)
Step 3 - Type in Chicago to New York
Step 4 - Book it.

WTF is so difficult about that? And don't tell me flights were sold out or too expensive. There are a million flights a day between the two cities and because of that they are cheap. It is a convenient excuse, but doesn't stand up at all to any kind of followup question. Thank US Weekly for not asking a followup.

Jillian was then asked about her wedding plans and the date. Remember she was all gung-ho about getting married as quickly as possible and is supposed to move to Chicago next week and blah blah blah. Well now she says, "We want to try to live a normal life and get to the point where we live together and start to come together and then start planning."

I wonder now if she even moves to Chicago. Once she moves she will be there for awhile. Even if he cheats on her everyday I think she will keep trying to work it out because it will be front page news and she will be embarrassed. My advice to her is to not go yet. If he loves her he will fly up to see her every couple of weeks and fly her down to Chicago as well. Make him work for it a little bit and show that he can be faithful while they are apart. My guess is he can't.

Jillian Harris Wants Out Of The Spotlight

When you sign up for The Bachelor and Bachelorette I think whether you are going to be the one doing the picking or being one of the hopefully picked, you know what you are getting into. The producers of those shows don't just drive around streets in a van looking for single people to throw on a dating show. The people who finally get on know exactly what they are getting into and they sign up for it willingly. They don't do it for love or the chance for love. They do it for that 15 minutes of fame and the chance to make a few bucks on the side or if you are Ed Swiderski, a chance to use his appearance as a pick up line for the next ten years. Married or not.

Anyway, Jillian Harris gave some kind of interview to OK! Magazine. She said that tabloids have said the couple is about to split or close to splitting. Whether or not that is complete speculation I think that is a fairly good guess by the tabloids and who can judge whether they are close to splitting. Who knows exactly how many times Ed has cheated on Jillian? What is her breaking point on that? Will it take one more woman to come forward? Two?

Anyway, Jillian says they are more in love than ever and she is going to move to Chicago next month and live with Ed. She is even willing to bring over the beer and condoms. I still can't believe he said that to a woman. That is priceless.

Jillian said in her interview, "[It] claimed Ed and I broke up, when in fact we have not even come close… I really want out of the spotlight so bad. I hate it so much."

Umm you hate the spotlight so much? Seriously? Why did you sign up for the show then? Did you think it was going to be just you and the guys and no one else? You didn't seem to mind the spotlight before you found out your potential husband was a cheater. No one minds the spotlight when things are going their way. It is only when real life starts to creep in and you realize that in the 10 days you knew this guy before he asked you to marry him that maybe you should have known a little bit more about him first. It especially annoys me because wasn't she already on The Bachelor? She went back for more fame. She went back for a second helping so I have absolutely no sympathy for her at all.

Bachelorette Winner Celebrated Engagement By Cheating - Twice

For once in the history of their publication, US Weekly has some great gossip. Juicy in fact. If they could keep this up then maybe they would be worth actually reading at the checkout stand. In their latest issue they have interviews with two women. Two actual women. Not sources, but actual women who are identified by name and who have texts and e-mails to back up their claims. They claim that while Ed Swiderski was on his "break" from The Bachelorette he slept with both of them. He also slept with one of the women after he asked Jillian Harris to marry him and tried to sleep with the other one. He proved to be unlucky with the second one though. Apparently he thought a text saying, "bring beer and condoms" would get him some action. You already know he is the biggest a-hole in the world for cheating a week after asking someone to marry him, but that text is the tool text of the year. It shows you exactly what he thinks of women and it isn't pretty. If you can't provide the alcohol and birth control than you shouldn't be having sex.

Neither of the two women knew about the other. Ed had actually been sleeping with both of them before he went on the show. Then of course he slept with both of them while he was on the show. He then told them both he had to go on a business trip which is when he went back to the show and had sex with Jillian. Maybe. I guess we know why he had problems performing. Too much sex with too many people. After he had sex with Jillian and asked her to marry him he went back to Chicago and cheated on his soon to be bride.

What does Jillian have to say about all this? "It's not possible... This is a bump in the road and we'll get through it." She needs to stop kidding herself and dump the guy right now. Right now. He will always cheat on her. Always. If she lets him get away with this he will just get worse. I know there are lots of people in Vancouver who read this and must know Jillian. Tell her to run, run, run. Throw the ring at him and run.

Kiptyn Locke Is The New Bachelor - Oh And Jillian & Ed Won Or Whatever They Do On The Show

As I remind you at the end of every Bachelorette/Bachelor season I don't watch the show. I do have enough friends who watch both of them religiously that I know it is best not to call at certain hours. It is also one of those shows that they seem to watch live rather than DVR because they enjoy talking about it while they are watching it to the point where I am not sure they actually listen to any of the show.

Anyway, for those of you who are like me who don't watch it, Jillian Harris won. I don't know much about Jillian except for the fact that in Canada they call her the Olympics pimp because of her constant plugging of the Olympics in Vancouver next year. Hey she loves her country and as a bonus someone probably paid her for her it so it's a win/win.

The only thing I know about Ed Swiderski is that he left the show apparently at one point in the season, came back because he was desperate for Jillian and then couldn't, umm, get to full strength on their fantasy date. Wait until after they have been married a few years. I can't imagine having the entire country know you couldn't get it up.

It turns out that one of the guys Jillian rejected was Kiptyn Locke. Well he doesn't have to feel too bad because I heard he is the new Bachelor. So, even though Jillian turned him down he will get to choose from a bunch of women and will achieve his own 15 minutes of fame.