I do not usually comment so soon in response to comments, but I think Anonymous made a good point about Budapest and Vince. I think the triggering event though happened over a week ago and this was the first time everything was done. I think the triggering event was the Thanksgiving dinner in which Brad's parents were invited but NOT Vince. When that story broke, it kind of looked silly that Vince was not going to be there and that is when the phone calls probably started. Again, I may be wrong, but that is what I am guessing.