Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Today's Blind Items

This B- list R&B singer just had her second abortion that her A list producer/singer boyfriend made her get. He says he doesn't want anymore kids and that if she wants to be with him then she needs to stay childless. I don't know if she is on birth control or not. I just know the details of what happened. She did get a nice $200,000 piece of bling after the first abortion. No word on what she got after this most recent one.

58 comments:

Praetorian said...

Diddy and whatever her name is... I don't really care if she's dumb enough to put up with that.

Rene said...

Yep this is def Cassie!

MontanaMarriott said...

Is Cassie B lists?
Is Diddy a singer?
Hmmm not sure I am feeling that

mooshki said...

Aargh, people who use abortion as birth control infuriate me. I know birth control can fail, but if it happened twice she ain't doin' it right. :(

Mexi said...

Who is Ciara dating? Just throwing another name out

Anonymous said...

ciara is dating 50 cent...good guess

Lori said...

Brandy? Doesn't she or didn't she date someone in the biz?

mooshki said...

Brandy's dating Tyrese.

ktmonster said...

Diddy and Cassie!

hromaki said...

I thought of Ashanti and Nelly, but since R&B's not my scene, I have no idea.

Unknown said...

Don't think it is 50 cents.. i think he only has one kid.
Sounds more like Diddy since he pays lots for child support.
Don't think Tyrese has kids either.

Maja With a J said...

I thought Diddy too, although I don't know whom he's dating. I think the word "singer" is in there because if he said "rapper", that would really narrow it down.

MontanaMarriott said...

If it is Cassie she is an idiot to let Diddy let alone any man inside her without a condom. Also wouldn't it be the best way to be set for life a la Kim Porter if she is pregnant as oppose to aborting????

lmnop123 said...

Tyrese is not an A list producer/singer and neither are Nelly or 50 Cent. Come to think of it as someone else stated Diddy doesn't sing either.


Jermaine and Janet. Okay just kidding. LOL

Oh well back to the drawing board.

Sean said...

this one's easy. It's Diddy and Cassie. Diddy doesn't sing? Nobody heard "Last Night"?

lutefisk said...

I didn't know if Babyface could fit, but I thought of him.

MontanaMarriott said...

@Sean
I stand correct, I guess you guys are right

Daniel Alex said...

I would say that since Puffy doesn't sing then this would be someone in the same category as Babyface.

Unknown said...

Plus isn't Diddy allegedly on the downlow?

Anonymous said...

yes. diddy is on the downlow but clearly he still has sex with women. he has like 5 kids now. he's a prominent baby maker. I like him and cassie for this. Think of the backlash in the press if diddy had yet another baby on the way. escandalo!!! and more poor kim porter etc.

Paisley said...

Whoever the guy is, if he doesn't want more kids, why doesn't he just get himself fixed? He's save a lot of money in the long run.

Unknown said...

From celebritique.com July 11, 2008: "Even as we reported yesterday that Cassie and Diddy have split, reports from a very reliable Bad Boy insider are now say that Cassie might be pregnant with Diddy’s child!

The first pregnancy rumour was March 29, 2007; and then July 11, 2008; and

According to the insider, Cassie who is currently living with Diddy in his New York apartment, is telling pals that her “monthly friend” hasn’t been around for six weeks. And the insider told MediaTakeOut.com that Cassie has not “had a sip of alcohol since then.”

Squeezebox said...

Mooshki said...

"Aargh, people who use abortion as birth control infuriate me. I know birth control can fail, but if it happened twice she ain't doin' it right."

Mooshki, people who assume only the woman is responsible for birth control infuriate me. This guy has control over his own fertility. If he's the one who does not want kids, HE needs to take steps to ensure he doesn't get a woman pregnant. If he's still knockin' women up, he ain't doin' it right.

There are guys out there who are super proud of knocking women up, but they don't want to support their kids. For all we know, this loser is forbidding her to use birth control because he wants to get her pregnant to show off his manliness, but then insists on an abortion since he doesn't want to pay yet more child support. Even if that isn't the case, he can take steps to prevent a pregnancy and should do so.

And frankly, this girl should dump this loser.

Cupcake said...

well said, squeezebox!

Victoria Barmak said...

Squeezebox, It is the woman's primary responsibility to use birth control, since she IS the one to get pregnant, NOT the guy. Unless it was a rape, she is completely in control of what happens, and it is up to her how far it goes.

Lady J said...

Sounds like Diddy and Cassie although I wouldn't consider Diddy a singer or Cassie as B-list.
If this Cassie and Diddy then they are both pathetic.
Her for dealing with him and agreeing to what he wants, and him for being such a stupid dick. He is definitely too old to be acting
like this.

Victoria Barmak said...

He forbids her to use birth control? First you throw in the feminist garbage "he needs to control his fertility". And then you say he forbids her to use birth control. Has she ever heard of pilss or IUD?

Unknown said...

I'm with Squeezebox. Whoever the guy is, if he's that worried about getting her pregnant, he should have a vasectomy. Of course women who really want to avoid unwanted pregnancies should use birth control, but it's not "feminist garbage" to suggest that men take proactive responsibility for their actions and avoid impregnating people if they don't want any more children.

Anonymous said...

I normally post under the name "shoe addict". Hi everyone!!

i will throw in my two cents on the vasectomy/pills debate.

she won't get on birth control because she's delusional/in love and believes that he will let her keep the baby the next time, and she will live happily ever after on her ten million dollar payday or perhaps marry her.

he doesn't care that she keeps getting pregnant. he is only concerned with the pleasure he feels in the moment. Vasectomy??? why would he?? that would affect HIM physically. selfish....successful...music industry.
if she did have the baby he would take care of it and come around etc. so its not worth him having a vasectomy. But if she had it after he told her not to, he would be pissed and she would not get the perks of being his "girl". she would be put aside as a "baby momma".

You guys assume they have morals and a conscience. clearly they made a deal with the devil and put that all behind them years ago.

Kiradris said...

Victoria, you have to be the biggest idiot I've ever read a comment from. Expecting a man taking control of his own baby-making powers if he doesn't want children isn't feminist bull, it's common sense. In fact, if he leaves it completely in the hands of the women, then he's as big an idiot as you, since it is not unheard of for a woman to stop taking the pill on purpose.

I seriously can't believe there are women alive today who think the burden is only on them when it comes to birth control.

c17 said...

Victoria (is a GUY), please take your Sarah Palin ass on out of here. Kthxbye.

Squeezebox, you are right on the money. And women in love (as I can imagine Victoria (is a GUY) would be) are STUPID and willing to take all kinds of risks/believe the assclown they're currently screwing. Ugh. I hope some irate former lover takes care of him for the rest of us.

Lady J said...

Cassie is delusional to think Diddy would change,
but what do you expect she still believes she can sing.

Kelita said...

Are any of these blind items even real tho? I mean, what guarantee do we have this is even true? I love this site, but I came across a BI reveal site, and they say this ENT person is fake. So how do we even know this is a true story? I don't mean any disrespect, it's just I'm new to this BI stuff, and I love this site, but how do we know what is real or made up?

nieceytee said...

@ Squeezebox: I agree with you.

@ Victoria: Diddy is well know in the industry for knocking his women around. Misa Hylton-Brim left because he beat her. JLo left after the same treatment. Kim Porter allegedly had to have a plastic surgeon fix her face after a particularly brutal beat down from Diddy.

So it makes sense that a young, naive woman would be afraid to anger a brutal man by using birth control or demand that he use it. It happens all the time in domestic violence cases.

Also, as someone who used to work in the health care field, a lot of ob/gyns won't install an IUD in a young, nulliparous (a woman who has not undergone childbirth), fearing future lawsuits stemming from "impeding" future fertility. IUDs in nulliparous women are very common in Europe, but not as common in the US. You have to luck upon one.

It is also not recommended to have an IUD if you are not in a monogamous, STI free relationship, due to the risk of STIs doing extensive damage to the uterus and fallopian tubes. Diddy obviously dosen't use condoms (rumored to have eight children, not five), and he is not by any stretch of the imagination monogamous. An IUD would be a huge mistake for Cassie.

Besides, violent men are also usually very controlling. Do you really think that he would wait for Cassie to heal properly after an IUD insertion? I don't.

nennycakes said...

I like Cassie/Diddy.

nennycakes said...

I also like how, like the Taylor Momsen BI, these items wind up creating an interesting discussion out of a segue. Unlike the Taylor Momsen BI (Gossip Girl: tween or not tween?), this discourse is much more interesting and ultimately entertaining.

Oh: c17 - I agree. "Victoria"? Come on! Why not just use "RuPaul" as your handle! ;)

Anonymous said...

PK,

If you follow the website long enough, (I have been for about two years now)....These "blind items" are eventually revealed in real life i.e pink and carey hart; david duchovny and the tennis instructor; john edwards etc. If you care to do enough research you can figure them out. Enty's blinds as opposed to everyone else's blinds. They all write about the same shit esp. if it happened at a premiere or sundance etc. Its not even like its far fetched. people in hollywood cheat, people in movie's star's lives gossip.

Enty wrote about how he gets wind of blind items. I don't care enough to look it up, anyone else feel free. Have you ever had friends who were in LA trying to make it..workin as extras, personal assistants etc. If you did you would know that its so ridiculous you couldn't make it up if you tried.

Anonymous said...

While I'm at it.....

90% of hollywood IS on drugs
AAAANNND the men are just as gay as they were when they were the lead in every play that was put on by the drama club at your high school, lol.

They were gay/bi then. They R gay/bi now....

Mother Campfire said...

Long time...well, poster, and short time pissed-off gal. Seriously, regardless of the gender of this Victoria, insults during a discourse on the ramifications of sexuality is so counter-productive.

I agree with you all. I think that Victoria is right - if you don't want children, as a woman, then take the fucking pills already. If you're a man, and over kids - get snipped. It's the responsibility of both parties but in this case, the one with the least power had the burden. Or not, depending on her motive. Makes sense?

Either way, in the words of the great Dan Savage - dump the mutha fucka already.

Love you all....now continue the bitching. ;-)

The Writer said...

I immediately thought of Diddy, too, but with Aubrey O'Day.

The Adventures of... said...

I agree with Squeezebox re contraception being a joint issue. Sure, the woman is saddled with the primary headache (to birth or not to birth? that is the question!) but we'd be foolish to think the man has no involvement or responsibility here. Just because you can spread your seed, doesn't mean you should. No contraception also involves the risk of STDs too, esp if either couple isn't practicing safe sex outside of the relationship. If Diddles has paid Cassie off, it's selfish on his part not 'responsible' and stupid on hers (risking her ability to carry a child without miscarrying due to excessive abortions)

Grace- good detective work, girl!

Kristen S. said...

In this case, it's the GUY who doesn't want kids. Maybe the woman in the scenario wouldn't mind having a baby. So, since it's the GUY that clearly doesn't want the kids, then the GUY should take steps not to have kids.

brooketrump said...

who is russell simmons dating now?

mooshki said...

Big Sur, I continue to love you.

It's nice in theory to say a guy should share equal responsibility for birth control, but (and maybe I've just heard too many nasty stories) I would never trust a man to ensure that I didn't get pregnant. Men can lie about being snipped and they can lie about putting on condoms. It takes two to tango, but only one has to carry the watermelon around for 9 months. I think a woman should insist on a guy wearing a condom every time, but should also use a backup method. Just my opinion.

Molly said...

i agree with mooshki - until a man is the one who can get pregnant, the woman needs to do all she can to make sure she's not going to get pregnant. i wouldn't put that in the hands of another person no matter who they were. after a child is born, it's both their responsibility.

but kristen is right. since he's the one who is so hell bent on not having kids, he should man up and take part of the responsibility, too, instead of trusting a woman to make sure she doesn't get pregnant.

Anonymous said...

I just want to put this idea out there - the blind never says the guy (A-list singer/producer) is in the rap or r&b field.
Are there any producers/singers in another music genre dating a r&b singer?

Three sisters said...

Jay-Z and Beyonce!

kari B-rum said...

Starburst beat me to it.

I'll have to Kermit and Miss Piggy

mooshki said...

NOOOOO!!!! My boy Kermie would NEVER do such a thing! LOL.

Anonymous said...

beyonce is Not B-list....definitely a list.
Not even enty would slip up on that, lol.
I just went to WIKI and her resume is a mile long.
in summary she has ~10 grammys and every album went at least 3x platinum,
solo and/or group albums

merrick said...

jay z and his jump off rhianna ..

MnGddess said...

Kermie and Miss Piggy -

Well, I am just saddened by this. I thought they were more responsible.....

I am throwing out all my episodes of the Muppet Show. (sniff)

lyz said...

If you are having consentual sex, and do not want children, you are completely irresponsible and negligent if you do not use birth control. This goes for both men and women.

Ema said...

i say ashanti and nelly!

Unknown said...

Gillian; I didn't do any detective work; you can find anything on Google! And, yes, there was a pregnancy rumour with Aubrey O'Day and Diddy, too.

Hey, I would never trust a guy with the birth control -- if I want to be 100% sure I don't get pregnant, I will take responsibility.

Rhetorically it sounds great that both partners should take responsibility, but let's get real here.

slappywhyte said...

Janet Jackson and Jermaine Dupri? ... the B list A list part doesnt really fit, or does it based on sales over the past few years

mobell said...

Don't think it's Cassie. Reason being, I am myspace friends with her and Lauren London and just recently they were in New York for some Sean John business having drinks in there hotel room. Plus Cassie's man is Pleasure P from the group Pretty Ricky.

mabel said...

It's called personal responsibility.
If you go to a party, and you are the driver, do you drink because everyone else is drinking or do you stay sober to make sure you and your personal property are well taken care of?

And to the idiot that keeps calling those of us idiots who believe in personal responsibility? Yeah, you know who you are: Guess what? You're on the opposite side of uber-feminist Camilia Paglia so sit down and STFU you moron. Post when you have some life experience under your belt and not a couple of womens' studies classes.

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