There is not love if you are beating the crap out of your partner. That is not love. Just because you include a bunch of sex scenes does not mean there is love. Just because you give excuses like he was molested as a child does not mean there is love. You do not do that kind of physical damage to someone you love. You do that to someone you want to control and because you are a weak idiot who gets off beating people who can't fight back.
There is no glamour or love in domestic violence. None. There should be no fan fiction celebrating violence against women and calling it love.
I won't give the link to the book but I'm pretty sure you can find it if you Google it.