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Blind Items Revealed

March 10, 2014

I talk a lot of smack about this actress. A lot of her issues stem from a boyfriend she had when she was first hitting it big. She is on the fringes of A listerdom. I normally call her a B list mostly television actress from a hit cable show, but she has had her chances at A list. The roles have been there, but she has not got the results. She definitely has A list name recognition. Back in the day before she was a beard she dated this, at the time A list mostly television actor who was on a very hit network show. The actor thought really highly of himself and still thinks the mirror is his best friend. Yes, he says all the right things now but just does that because his current A list mostly movie actress makes him. He is still an a-hole and always will be. Back in the day he was especially a-holey and would make our B lister do all kinds of things and just treated her like a piece of meat. He would have sex with other women and tell our actress about it and he would leave abruptly during a meal and go have sex with a woman who texted him and he did this all the time and he dared our actress to leave him. He found her weakness and he exploited it and pounced on it and treated her like the worst piece of garbage. He did this again to other women which is why it always amazes me when he makes statements like he did last week. He is such a f**king tool and, yes, women need to stand up for themselves more, but he would find women who had low self-esteem or other issues. Those are the women he wanted. Those are the women he loved to toy with and he still does. He just does it in other ways now.

January Jones/Ashton Kutcher

62 comments:

Susan said...

I think everybody got this.

Lady Heisenberg said...

Triple Win for VIP

Susan said...

I guess she was bearding for Josh Grobin?! I love January. So misunderstood.

sandybrook said...

Asston with emphasis on ASS poor Demi and Mila.

Senor Salty said...

who does she beard?

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0_0 said...

Wow, the Enties and most commenters really really don't like Ashton.
I never heard anything against him until he left looney tunes Demi.

Brenda L said...

I know someone like this.

sandybrook said...

Josh Groban or Bobby Flay are the only 2 beard possibilities on her list. The rest of her list (and its big are losers like Piven and Brody and that slob who dated Paris Hilton from the oil family.)

FearN said...

When emotional abuse like this happens it's a mixed bag. Sure Ashton is an asshole but January also is conditioned to exacerbate this in her partner. Its not her fault of course, she has issues and needs to work through them. It's not so black and white. As someone who has recovered from emotionally abusive relationship I must say that while the guys I were huge fuckfaces, I did bring something to the table as well.

auntliddy said...

Wow, he's quite the tool and karma's a bitch; he has a daughter!

Mama Ray said...

Ashton was said to do this exact same thing to Britney Murphy as well. What a douche. January was linked to Groban previously, was that a bearding thing? I hadn't heard he wasn't into the ladies before... I have heard him on a few podcasts & he has a great sense of humor.

Just saw online this morning that Groban is now dating Kat Dennings... odd pairing!

FearN said...

Karma working its magic. Let hope learns from it.

Kno Won Uno said...

Maybe Mila just wanted to use some physically attractive genes.
I'm going with that for now because I like her.
I've had my share of putting up with assholes with no excuse, but I always try to make other people less stupid that I am.
That makes no frickin' sense, yet is totally true. FML.

Cheryl said...

@Mama.. I was just going to say that about Brittany Murphy. He told her she was ugly and lucky to be with him. World class douche. Demi has always had problems but she was able to pull herself together with Bruce up in Idaho.

Henriette said...

Old news since JJ outed Asshat as a major douchebag who gets off on emotionally abusing women in GQ. I lost all respect for Kunis when she went in his direction. I really feel for his kid though.

FearN said...

I think Mila doesnt take his shit, but assholes can wear you down. Ashton is an undercover asshole - nice in the beginning and once you're commited, the claws come out.

Tina Mallette said...

I can't see how JJ exacerbated the asshole in Ashton.

This kind of guy gets off on this, this is a pattern with this guy - see I am so famous and hot and women want me so bad I can treat them like s**t and they still come back for more and then of course brags about it to all his buddies - that's an ego trip to a guy like Ashton. What happens is these kind of guys can sniff out the women who will put up with this or for fun they will find a woman who still has some esteem left and enjoy trying to break her down for sport.

Be interesting to see how long Mila and Ashton last. I was shocked she married him because she has to know full well who she is marrying and what he has done in the past and she has always struck me as the kind of girl that will not put up with any crap from any guy for one minute. Perhaps I was wrong.

Jason Blue Eyes said...

And Brittany's self worth was so eroded after what Ashton did to her she hooked up with Simon Flapjacks or whatever the hell that slimeball's name was.

skippy said...

^^ typical abuser scenario. Lure you in with compliments & acting as an incredibly decent bloke , creates a false sense of security, then the insults etc start. Insidious at first, but it gets gradually worse & you start to doubt yourself & believe whatever crap is thrown at you.
It's horrible. The abuser is the one with the issues.
Yep I've been there, for over 20 years :(
Just got out. Very happy.

FearN said...

I'm sure folks are now bringing down the hatchet regarding my comment but its what I leaned when healing from emotional abuse. It takes two to tango. If I didn't help myself I would continue to exacerbate other assholes, plain an simple. It takes two to tango. Ashton is a huge asshole for preying upon insecure women, but if those women took the time to heal themselves then they wouldn't be attracted to Ashton in the first place. If they didn't find Ashton they wouldn't found another asshole. It's a cycle and taking them time to heal can break it.

FearN said...

*Would've found another asshole.

Tina Mallette said...

Yes Aunt Liddy it is kharma that he has a daughter. In my experience many men who are or were players when they were younger have a very hard time dealing with their daughters hitting puberty. It is quite funny actually. Of course many decent guys now fathers of girls have problems too.

Oh FearN I understand what you are saying, you are correct in that a woman who allows herself to be emotionally and otherwise abused contributes to the abuse when she doesn't leave at the first red flags and if it is a pattern, she has to take responsibility in not getting the help to break the pattern.

But Ashton is still no less an a-hole - just because someone is willing to be the victim does not make what he does as right and esp since this kind of guy is gleeful about from his victimization which he sadly seems to need to make himself feel like a man.

FearN said...

Agreed with everything you wrote Tina.

skippy said...

I'm pretty sure there is no willingness to become a victim.if the abuse very gradually gains momentum there are often no startling red flags. People doubt themselves and their judgement, which gets increasingly eroded. Doesn't help when to the outside world the abuser is a great guy/ girl.

Diana Maras said...

Happy healthy people don't behave this way so you have to wonder what his damage is. He obviously hates himself and seeks to punish those stupid enough to care about him. I don't understand why most humans are so fucked up.

FearN said...

There is no willingness to become a victim but there is a willingness to stay a victim. Just like there is a willingness to become better person.

LooLooEasy said...

So now she's so "troubled" that she goes after married men?

meme deemed said...

He's an asshole dirt bag and she's a useless fame whore.

And the news is..........????

David Howes said...

In my view, the only way Mila would even make a baby for Ashton is the potential large child support check that is forthcoming. I think it will be something like $50,000 per month? I had always thought Mila was smarter than Ashton with her mom a PhD Chemist(?) and her Dad a PhD Physicist(?). AND, her brother has a PhD, too!

Seven of Eleven said...

Ashton is the new Wilber? Good to know.

I'm guessing the reveal and the "bearded" line coincide with JJ hanging out with Jason Statham's lady.

Bunni said...

Ashton and Mila aren't married yet. He's very charming and well mannered, it would be easy to fall for his act.

plot said...

Or maybe Mila is extremely insecure coming from such an intelligent family. I wish she would leave Ashton, who is the definition of douchebag for me. She probably thinks she controls him, or that he has compromised all his rank urges by finding the perfect woman - HER! OH JOY!

It won't work out. Ashton is Ashton, a dickweed narcissist. As soon as Mila spends more time with their baby than him, off he will go and blame her for it, naturally.

Anyway, Mila was beginning to look like a Babushka, even before the pregnancy. She might be sick of the Hollywood shit anyway, not resorting to plastic surgery shit or anorexia. Maybe she thinks this makes her the most real for Ashton, the most honest, but he's only temporarily infatuated with it. It's all about Ashton, always.

Runswithscissors said...

Wow @fearn, that was pretty brave of you to post. Bravo.
I hope you've made peace with your side of things and have moved on to a healthier relationship with yourself.

Dexamyl said...

The bearding was for Groban, who shouldn't even bother anymore. It's like Merv Griffin bearding at age 80--who would care?

I don't get Ashton's appeal. Yes, he’s cute but so are many others and he's not that young anymore; his looks won't age well, I suspect.

FearN said...

My armchair analysis - he's probably always wanted Mila and he has finally got the prize. He feels like he stepped up so he is willing to take mila's stronger personality, as opposed the insecure people he was with before.

Over time he will wear her down or she will get sick of his shit. One of the two. We'll see.

Maybe he always wanted her and treated other people like crap because he never had her. Either way, he is an asswipe to the millionth degree.

Henriette said...

I think Mila feels insecure about being the "pretty one" in a family of brainiacs.

I agree with Tina, just because a person has issues does not give another carte a blanch to abuse that person.

I think in many ways Asshat is worse than Sean Penn. Penn is an open asshole, but Asshat is an asshole on the downlow.

Jason Blue Eyes said...

Doesn't Mila make $200,000 per episode of Family Guy? $50,000 a month? I doubt Mila bats an eye at that.

headrot said...

@O_O how is the hole you are living in?

i assume you must be living in a hole or under a rock if you never heard a bad word about Asston prior to the Demi breakup.

I, for one, could never fucking stand his dumb self absorbed ass and i cringe at the fact he loves the same fucking sports team as I. its an embarrassment to me and the team.

either that, or you are willfully ignorant.

enjoy your dose of reality.

Sincerely,Your Friend said...

@0_O I guess I live in the same he you do. A little deeper down I suspect, I never heard he was the asswipe in the marriage to Demi. I heard she was tho. IMHO She's still obsessed with the "asshat".
Frankly, JJ and Brittany Murphy have never been my favs, or likable IMHO.
I was surprised he went there.

Having said that. Maybe it is that I just don't know, and I've heard and seen a lot but just missed it (?? ). And I guess I can relate to being shocked if I found someone didn't know about Micky Rourkes dispicable acts....but ....it doesn't mean that person needs to be disrespected because they didn't know.

Sincerely,Your Friend said...

*hole. (Not "he")

john b. said...

Never did care Asshole Kutcher. He's got all the talent of a dial tone.

john b. said...

Care for

Unknown said...

Jeremy Piven is gay as a fucking goose, he likes to be spit roasted (his favorite)...

sugarbread maker said...

Not undercover. . Expert manipulator. .
Almost sociopathic

sugarbread maker said...

Mila hasn't married him yet.. I'm sure now that she has the babehhh. She will hold out for huge prenup.

sugarbread maker said...

Sociopathic behavior like Asston is that he's so nice and then hurts you a little and is so sowwy..
Then once you get used to a little hurt he turns up the dial on cruelty until you get used to that...
Then keeps turning up the cruelty until it seems normal. .
Then he has you..

bellaluna said...

I, for one, have always found him to be painfully douchetastic.

As in, I have NEVER liked him in anything, find him distasteful to look at, and feel the actual need to shower from the douchesmarm that oozes off of even pics of him.

bellaluna said...

Most abusers are sociopaths. I speak from whence I know.

bellaluna said...

Abusive behavior is insidious by nature. It starts out with you being "rescued" from another relationship, being pampered, protected, and cared for.

Then the isolation from friends and family starts. "No one will ever love you like I do. I mean, look at you. "

And the "call me when you leave/get there so I know that you're safe" (control).

Once you've been properly beaten down emotionally, the physical abuse starts. And continues. And continues. Until you have whatever epiphany it takes to make you realize it only ends in one of two ways: You in a body bag or thoroughly humiliated by getting a restraining order.

0_0 said...

I'm still nonplussed by the comments.

Mila has known Ashton since he first made it big. I'm sure that she knows him better than anyone here.

The emotionally abusive relationship stuff? Those make me sad, but people are stupid for putting up with it. People are stupid for not ending things as soon as they know- and one can tell early, if not before beginning the relationship. And I don't pretend to know why anyone puts up with it, but don't cry "poor me" if you have been able to leave at any time.

bellaluna said...

You don't get it. And you're lucky.

mooshki said...

She will never be A list, because she is a terrible, terrible actress. She lucked into one big part that works for her, but she'll never be able to do anything else.

plot said...

0_0, Sure, Mila has known Ashton forever. There have been rumors her folks hated him when they worked together and aren't too fond if him now. Maybe Ashton is her rebellion.

Frankly, I don't trust men who have relationships with women who aren't as young, good lucking or successful as they are. It's like those guys need women who owe them something to keep the women in line. It's about control. Ashton always picks women he can master on some level. He always leaves his relationships as the more successful member, with the women always somehow less successful, confident, youthful or mentally stable. You have to hand it to January Jones. She broke the Ashton curse with Mad Men, even though he berated her for even trying to be an actress.

@mooshki, yep, Mila isn't a great actress. She won't succeed beyond Family Guy with her voice work since she doesn't have the talent for other voices. Too bad she signed up to be Ashton's next trainwreck and baby maker. She does seem quite bright. She has made a small fortune already. Hopefully, she can hold onto what she has and do interesting things with her life.

__-__=__ said...

All the gas lighting and crazy making are powerful manipulation tricks. There should be more education about this at an early age so fewer people are damaged.

Count Jerkula said...

Low self esteem broads are fun at first, but then the constant neediness really wears on you.

I wouldn't be surprised if he wasn't "daring" her to leave, but rather hoping she would leave. There are plenty of broads out there who gonna do just the opposite of what you ask. Ask em to leave, they aint going anywhere. ya gotta make em want to leave.

Bee Haven said...

Yup @ bellaluna. Sèems to be the case.

Cee Kay said...

Not to nitpick, but if her issues are what kept her with someone who treated her poorly you can hardly blame the boyfriend for causing said issues in the first place.

Jen-V said...

Mila has known him for so long and they worked together so long, whatever his personality, she has to have known what she was getting in to.

Bee Haven said...

bellaluna: you perfectly summed up a previous relationship of mine. They groom, isolate and wear down your independence and self esteem.

Bee Haven said...

Wow 0_0. Just wow.

headrot said...

i'm pretty fucking sure 0_0 has to be a troll.

i refuse to believe that someone who appears to be that stupid, ignorant, and narcissistic knows how to type.

mostly because the rage i feel at this trolls existence makes me want to use again. because believe me, nothings better to turn out idiots than a blurry heroin high.

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