Friday, July 19, 2019

Blind Item #6

Apparently there is something much more serious at stake in this lawsuit involving the permanent A list male singer. He is HIV+.

51 comments:

Tricia13 said...

Usher

MDAnderson said...

Usher

americanpanda said...

R Kelly?

Rosie riveter said...

Usher probably. He used to be A list, not sure permanent.
Smdh
Why don't men use condoms?

Trisha13 said...

Why don't women make them?

Trapped said...

Usher

Samantha said...

Trisha13 - no one can "make" anyone put them on.

Some people lie about being +, or try to make being HIV + sound like nothing. (More and more people say "oh no big deal just take a pill" like chronic illness is a picnic, pills are cheap, and HIV isn't potentially deadly.)

Some people fake putting a prophylactic on, or clandestinely pull it off mid play.

The women blaming never gets old, though! /s

Everyone should use them.

JT0130 said...

I agree with Tricia, you and your sex partner can say they are tested regularly but it doesn't prevent the spread of STDs like regular condom use. If a guy won't use a condom, then don't sleep with him. Ladies have to be adamant about this since women are more susceptible to contracting disease since we have more mucus membranes exposed.

JT0130 said...

@Samatha, Tricia is not blaming women. Woman have to vigilant in protecting their health. They have to check if the condom is on and if the men don't want to wear it then women have to be willing to walk.

Nonya Bidness said...

I hope it's Usher, since Rkelly doesn't have the money left to pay settlements to all the peeps he exposed. He'd better do some real time for knowingly exposing them.

Rosie riveter said...

Samantha, I agree w everything you said.
However, that's one that we don't respond to. Note the spelling of the name tho...it's spelled different than the good one.
Just a heads up. Ignore them.
xo

Trisha13 said...

Thank you! Don't be passive!

Trisha13 said...

Thank you! Don't be passive!

sandybrook said...

The "Trisha" you are agreeing with isn't tricia13. Ignore it.

sandybrook said...

Sorry Rosie yours wasn't up yet when I typed.

Miss Teak said...

HIV blinds always flush out ignorant comments. Absolutely no one who is poz thinks HIV isn’t a big deal. That’s something only negative folks can say. Also, safe sex and prevention is more than condoms bc Prep has been on the scene for 10 years now. It’s no different than taking a pill to prevent pregnancy instead of using a condom. Also, are we really talking about female sexual partners in the same sentence as Usher??

Tricia13 said...

Was gonna say if you can’t see a troll at this point..lol. Thx though,Rosie:)

J said...

Tom Jones?

Samantha said...

I understood her comment very well JT (it's NOT original) thanks for the patronizing reply though.

"Woman have to vigilant in protecting their health. They have to check if the condom is on and if the men don't want to wear it then women have to be willing to walk."

YOU did not understand MY comment.

"Don't be passive!"

No one is telling women to be passive. SMH

How many males use female names online to try to make males sound better?

Or to denigrate women in PASSIVE aggressive ways?

You apparently didn't read my comment that closely either, let alone think about it.

And it is not only women men do that to, but other men, too.

Coercion and lying are a thing, so is sneakily removing the condom or claiming it "broke" and had to be pulled off. And "in the heat of the moment" they didn't have time to mention it.

People can't be unaware of those things, but yeah, blame women! And say it's for their empowerment. Again, NOT an original ploy.

"Absolutely no one who is poz thinks HIV isn’t a big deal. That’s something only negative folks can say."

Which wasn't what I said or was tlaking bout.

People who do NOT have it, are mostly the ones saying they're n Prep so it is not a big deal, and I've seen sooo many people saying things like "oh if you get it, just take pills" and "no one dies from it any more," and "if you are on Prep you can't get it" and "if you are taking anti retro virals you can't pass it."

Why would anyone argue against my saying NOT to be casual about HIV? But trust me - way too many people are.

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Rosie - oops wish I'd seen this before. After this - I won't. Thank you though.

(I am too tired to go back through and figure out who I said what to now, since I omitted names next to the quotes.)

"Absolutely no one who is poz thinks HIV isn’t a big deal. That’s something only negative folks can say."

Samantha said...

Tricia13 - I just got here, I knew that Trisha wasn't you though.

But I don't yet know who is a troll vs. who just rubs me the wrong way or pushes my buttons but *might* not mean to.

But usually if my button(s) is/are pushed, it's because someone is trying to do it, which is part of what annoys me to begin with, tbh.

I need to learn to believe my first reaction more.

Guesser said...

Usher is trying to keep all his health records sealed.

TwoDots said...

Oh Derek, you sad fuck.

Also and Usher is considered A+? Well that’s depressing.

Samantha said...

I am Too tired to be typing, apparently...

I must have not clicked "copy" accurately on Rosie's comment to quote it. So, it pasted the last thing in the dashboard; ugh. Sorry!!

Rosie did NOT say that quote about HIV, that was someone else...Should I delete my entire comment?

This is what Rosie said that I was replying to.

___________

"Samantha, I agree w everything you said.
However, that's one that we don't respond to. Note the spelling of the name tho...it's spelled different than the good one.
Just a heads up. Ignore them.
xo"

Lisa said...

I'm with @TwoDots, if this is Usher and is described as permanent A list? Lord help us!

Mstyles said...

Anyone who chooses to sleep with a 'celebrity' is a gambler. You are LITERALLY playing roulette with your life when you are a starf*cker.
These men sleep with ANYONE, male or female, they do not care as long as they are getting something out of it.
And most are hard core drug addicts and you expect a drug addict to use a condom? Drug addicts don't make good decisions and since 75% of Hollywood are DRUG ADDICTS of course they pass around the HIV and AIDS like suburban mom's pass out Halloween candy.
Darwinism is real, let's all let it be.

Orville said...

Usher

Samantha said...

Nah, it's not Darwinism even. What if one of those people goes home to a loving trusting partner for instance.

gauloise said...

I know a lot of girls who got STDs in a long-term committed relationship because their man was cheating on them

HeatherBee said...

Ugh. Mucous or actual mucus is just right up there with the word moist for me. Blech all around!!

Boldblonde said...

I totally agree @Mstyles

MissPeach said...

Unless you are in a relationship that you know is 100% monogamous, knowing your partner is "tested" isn't enough. They can go get a test and then the next day go and have unprotected sex and get contracted. Testing doesn't mean sh-t. Unfortunately some of these women probably don't push condoms because they hope if they get pregnant they will be winning a golden ticket for 18 years.

Samantha said...

MissPeach: Yeah, because being a single mom to a deadbeat dad is winning Lotto.

In most cases the guy simply lies or pressures or pulls the ILY card. Again, with a male or a female partner.

Younger folk are in SERIOUS denial about HIV.

STDs are also rampant among the elderly set, who believe that everyone else they're dating was married 40 years and is 'safe.'

gauloise: it happens a lot. Anyone remember the politician's wife who got HIV from her cheating husband, or was that too long ago?

Notyomommatoday said...

Definitely Usher.. He's in the middle of a lawsuit right now and is begging the judge not to release his medical records...

https://www.hotnewhiphop.com/usher-begs-judge-for-medical-records-to-be-sealed-in-std-lawsuit-report-news.86072.html

VikingSong said...

Please explain how women can "make" men use condoms and why is it the responsibility of women? What about gay men? Are women to make gay men use condoms? Think before you post, @Tricia13.

Tricia13 said...

Read a thread before you do,if you don’t mind,@VikingSong. I (Tricia 13) did not post that. That would be my troll who among many other names posts as (Trisha13). Kinda not a hard observation to make.realky?

Flashy Vic said...

It's not the real Trish, Vikey, it's that fucking head the ball Derek.

Tricia13 said...

make, Really*

Tracy said...

Someone who shagged Diddy

Tracy said...

Diddy adjacent

TwoDots said...

“Head the ball”!! Haven’t heard that in a while! (heid the baw if you’re Scottish -which I am 😅)

SillyWhabbit said...

Ya know what would be really cool Enty? A chat room to watch the real life drama here in comments absolutely live.

TheBPlot said...

Tricia + 1. People can only control their own lives and live by their choices to sleep with some9ne without a condom. If thats what happened.

James Howlett said...

Man that picture of Jacko gives me legitimate nightmares had three so far

Seabee666 said...

That's why I those parent-shaming Gardizal commercials with these millenials whining about how they got HPV. Gardizal wouldn't stop all the other diseases that condoms do not to mention unwanted pregnancy. I would just love for one of the parents to say, "Bought you rubbers and told you to use them. Not my problem, skank."

MountainMama said...

@Seabee666 I fucking hate those parent shaming commercials. My kids are totally going to give my grands this vaccine and I told them to start extolling the importance of condoms or total abstinence. It is absurd to think a pill, a vaccine etc is ever going to protect you against multiple diseases, yet a condom can. We need to go back to free rubbers everywhere as it was after HIV was identified.

Habibti said...

R.Kelly

Samantha said...

Not to mention, that vaccine has been accused of causing a LOT of horrible side effects. It only protects against some types of HPV. And obviously it does not protect against other STDs. They want to mandate it anyway, to grade school kids! Not all of those kids will even become sexually active, and other might have only one partner who had only one partner.

There is no reason to mandate it other than $$$$$$$$

Samantha said...

SillyWhabbit - I think a chat room on this site could be fun but, you'd also need 24/7 mods in the room for legal reasons.

Unknown said...

No one questions if it's Drake, because of the lawsuit mentioned right?

Candy said...

This is sad, my guess is most of those celebrities have some form of STD'S it wouldn't be shocking if it is usher they all sleep in a circle with each other I'm not shocked I don't know exactly who this blind item is but my guess it's usher but usher isn't A list far as I know he hasn't had a new CD in a while so that make it difficult to know who it is but I guess I'll go with it being usher

orangesoda said...

Yeah if you have unprotected sex with a stranger, you're a clown. Not saying you deserve any kind of STDs but it's just incredibly stupid regardless of who it is.

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