Thursday, January 17, 2019

Your Turn

Did your parents spank you?

54 comments:

Former CNN Anchor Candy Crowley said...

I asked my dog how her day was. She said “rough”.

HeffalumpsAndWoozles said...

Not after I told them it gives me erections.

filmfanb said...

Anyone hyped that dancing boy has disappeared. blessed.

Brayson87 said...

@film, don't say his name three times or he might reappear!

LA Native said...

Once in awhile and yeah, I deserved it.

sandybrook said...

Dancing Boy disappearing made our lunch suggestion chats disappear too. Besides calling Dancing Boy out those were the most interesting parts of the Dancing Boy BI. Certainly not the gibberish nonsense Dancing Boy sent to the Enterns.
No my parents didn't spank me.

Jon said...

No, but my Daddy does.

yepthatsme said...

Just hearing the name Dancing boy made me hungry, damn! And no I was never spanked, only once in my life i was tapped on my head by my dad and my mom never raised her hands on me! Although I gave them many reasons to!

cheesegrater15 said...

I can't remember, but they did smack us around once or twice and my brother and sister used to beat me on the reg.

firestarter said...

Only a couple of times.

Jeff said...

yes, and I loved it

:| raven |: said...

not only spanked, but brutally beaten with belts, paddles, wooden spoons, hands and anything accessible that would inflict the most pain.

this was on a daily basis.

if my mother was alive now and i was a kid, she would be in jail for a very long time.

junebug630 said...

Sometimes but I am over 50 years old and my Mom used to hold me as a baby in her arms in the front seat.

Aquagirl said...

Never. And I rarely got punished either because I was a ‘good girl.’ But man, my parents were brilliant at thinking up good punishments. They knew if they grounded me, I wouldn’t care, I’d just read a book or something. So they thought up other things (like taking something away from me that I really cared about & it was pure torture, but quite effective.)

TVAnnie said...

No. We were raised to respect our parents and in turn they respected us. No spankings. I got grounded for being late a few times, but nothing serious.

Aquagirl said...

Sort of O/T but has anyone been following the story of the guy who punched the 11-year-old girl in the face in Asheville, NC?

Jennifer said...

A bit. With those paddles that have the ball attached with elastic. That was just when I was little. When I got older, I got slapped in the face/mouth from my mother. She had a big ring that she used to "accidentally" backhand me with. She was and is quite a bitch and she would deny this ever happened now.

Anonymous said...

Occasionally but I definitely deserved it when it happened. The worst part was waiting for my father to come home to administer it.

Brayson87 said...

We were more of a yelling and grounding family in general.

IrishEileen said...

I'm the youngest of 6. I still have scars! Yikes.

hothotheat said...

Yes, parents beat us. With belts usually.

americanpanda said...

Yup. my parents are immigrants so they never thought twice about smacking us up

Angela said...

@Aquagirl, yes, I watched the unedited video. If I was surrounded by a dozen punks pushing me, I'd start swinging too. The unrestrained animals scattered after that. I'd opt for a jury trial, & show the entire video, including what they pulled inside the mall.

yepthatsme said...

@Angela what happened inside the mall? And in todyas environment you never know if a group of youngsters are going to jump you or run away! Its sad but true!

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aemish said...

@Angela that's what I thought too! Those hoodrats ran up and tried to jump that dude!

filmfanb said...

petition for dancing boy blinds to return so we can discuss our lunches. i had wendys today and i needed inspiration

Brayson87 said...

Love that wendys frosty

Thot Crimes said...

DancingBoy!
DancingBoy!
DancingBoy!

daddylonglegs said...

Nope. Just give kids candy and ice cream when they are naughty. Works every time. :)

amelia said...

My parents spanked me with a fly swatter. Later my father became extremely abusive (verbally, emotionally and a bit physically). He stepped up his game and went to using his belt and belt buckle. My parents seemed to look for a reason to spank me and did not use alternative disciplinary choices dealing with me. I wasn't a bad kid but I sure grew up to be one. Had some therapy and read some books and I am a different person now.

Raised my only child totally different than how I was raised and he turned out wonderful!!

shakey said...

My mother was The Queen. 12-inch ruler with a metal insert. We lived in an apartment building full of kids. We were spanked so much the other kids would gather around our door and take bets on who was getting beat - me or my brother.

Trapped said...

Yes I was spanked twice and I never did that again.. You knew what was coming if you did that again....

Angela said...

@yepthatsme, he broke up a fight between the girls and other patrons, they followed him outside, & surrounded him and his family.

VeeBee said...

Yes; both of my parents spanked me. My dad used a belt folded in half (never used the buckle) and my mom would use a paddle or a wooden spoon or a paint stirrer. My mom slapped me in the face a few times too. I was a back-talker and could be too mouthy for my own good. I turned out fine though. I am super close to my parents and do not feel they were abusive at all. I'm definitely someone who thinks kids nowadays could use a few more ass whoopings early on to nip that bad behavior in the bud!

:| raven |: said...

yay to the survivors. <3

Stevie Nixed said...

No. My father was abused as a kid. He would never ever have spanked me. In fact if he witnessed it in public, he's approach/reproach (sp?) the parent. He's awesome. Nor did my mom hit me.

SydneyInSeattle said...

Amen sister. Same here.

hunter said...

i was spanked with a wooden spoon but only when I did something really bad. I was never beaten abusively like others in this thread.

I turned out fine. I would probably spank my kids too if I wanted any.

My mom says super young kids can't be reasoned with and if is something dangerous (playing in street, playing with stove/fire, etc) they need to get the point immediately. Sounds reasonable to me.

FrenchMaurice said...

Sounds awesome. Same with my dad, for the same reasons.

AbbyRock said...

No and I never spanked our children either.

FrenchMaurice said...

I don’t think you can call it spanking but there are only 17 years between my mother and I and we had quite a volatile relationship. On occasion she would push me around in not a very nice way. When I got to about 16/17years old I would push her back as a way of defending myself. Not very nice, any of it.

OKay said...

Oh yeah. Lots. My parents were not the most evolved or insightful people.

Sal T said...

Enty force fed us all that Dancing Boy bollocks for nearly a year until we took our power back and created the lunch threads! They were fun! Now Enty has removed DB without a word as to why 🤔 Was DB a prank? Did Enty finally realise that DB had mental health issues? Did Enty notice that DB seemed to get off on describing sexual abuse? Or was Enty just pissed that we didn’t give a shit and hijacked those threads for food talk? I learnt about food I’d never even heard of before (thanks Sandy!) DB threads became food porn. Nom Nom!
What was the deal there Enty? You were right up DB’s arse for months giving him unlimited reign to barf out his fantasies in long, indecipherable dollops of bullshit and now nothing...any explanation, did you two have a tiff?

I was slapped across the back of the legs once for being ‘cheeky’! I deserved it ;)

Guesser said...

No,and feel bad for those that did.

Astra Worthington said...

Same here, and your mom is 100% right. Spanking isn’t that big of a deal. Far worse to raise entitled little shit heads that grow up thinking actions never have consequences and the world revolves around them. Of course there’s a difference between spanking in a disciplinary way, and beating a kid out of anger or malice or whatever. Sometimes it’s the only thing that actually works.

fairylights said...

Yep, once. With an open hand. After that, just the threat was impressive enough. I always found it more effective to either take something away or add some extra chores with our kids.

More Cowbell said...

Yes. My mom spanked me with the back of a hairbrush (no idea how she settled on that method. :) )
It was an effective punishment.

Thot Crimes said...

There's a big difference between spanking and abuse. Spanking is 100% valid for teaching the difference between wrong and right, while abuse confuses those same things.

As a headstrong youth, I learned some valuable life lessons at the opposite end of a paddle.

Henriette said...

My mother could never catch me.

Aquagirl said...

Let’s turn the Musk blinds into our lunch conversations.

Velvet Voice said...

My kid sister passed away at the age of 2, I was 4, my parents were like ... ghosts after that, zombies I should said, my dad sank into work and my mom seemed to hate me -Cause I was the one alive-

So she used to beat the shxt of me for no real reason till the point my godfather used to try to stop her

That lasted till I was 12 cause I became taller than her and one day I stopped the broomstick and yealled "DONT YOU EVER TRY TO HIT ME AGAIN!!!"

The psycological war continued and she left me living alone since then for weeks or months cause she used to go to stay at our farm and me in the city

Everytime people say latin mothers are soo caring I just think .... yea yea ...

But I guess her pain was too much to handle with and in somehow she buried me with my sister

Cuddlebutt said...

My dad, once. Paternal grandfather, once. Now my mother was physically and emotionally abusive. The last time, I was 17 or so and she convinced herself that I was in the wrong and when I wouldn't admit it she beat me horribly with a riding crop. When I wrestled it away she called the police on me. She was then furious that they wouldn't take me in to juvenile detention. I didn't tell them that she had just beaten me. I had welts over my thighs and back. That is one of my very few regrets in life-that I didn't tell.

Zsa Zsa said...

Yes. My mother did 😞

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