Wednesday, July 10, 2019

Your Turn

Age when you lost your virginity. Do you think it was too old, too young, or just the right age?

64 comments:

sandybrook said...

Nonya Bidness

Girl with a Hat said...

in your podcast, Enty, you talk about Leni Riefenstahl as though it were a man. She was a woman, and a very attractive one at that. She was and still is considered a genius for her cinematic effects used as propaganda. Although she claimed later that she wasn't into all that Nazi stuff, that's what people all said after the war. She died recently, at over 100 years of age.

cheesegrater15 said...

I was 22. It was just right for me. I was doing my internship and I was away from my family for the first time.

the girl in question said...

19. just right.

arribaoabajo said...

16. and I do not regret.

Field must not be blank said...

We were 16 and in a way I do regret it. I feel, now at 40+, that I've always equated relationships with sex. I wonder if that's more my lack of upbringing or guidance or if it's because every relationship feels like a rush to that end. Physically we were both ready but I don't think emotionally or mentally we were. She was my longest relationship before my ex-wife, which will be my last relationship as far as I see.

Rosie riveter said...

Ayyyee some the guys here not answering this one

Rosie riveter said...

*present company not included, sandy*

Wivenswold said...

18. Just about right I'd say. Age of Consent is 16 here in the UK so there was some waiting involved.

J said...

lol Rosie.

Do you spend all day thinking about the roster of people who post here, whom you don't know in real life?

No wonder everyone says your poor kid doesn't stand a chance.

Rosie riveter said...

Derp.
There him is.

J said...

Rosie, if it makes your miserable little slob life a bit brighter to imagine I'm a virgin, go for it. See, you annoy me, but bottom line is I don't give two fucks in a cat's ass about you. Apart from enjoying the fact that you think about me during the hours you're not here, and look for me when I'm away.

How empty... the void howls. To have nothing and be nothing but a mouthy slob.

lol

trufflepig said...

I was too old, but I'm not gonna say how old!

Age of consent in my home country is 14, and when I was young, if you hadn't lost your virginity by 16/17, you were considered a loser.

Rosie riveter said...

Not gonna answer huh?
What about the podcast Enty doing,
"Men at the End of Your Life: What's it Like to Never Sexually Satisfy a Woman"

Please do show up and answer that.
Personally, and fabulously, I wouldn't know that answer

TeeHee@U said...

I won't give a specific age as I was older than most, but if any younger virgins on here reading this it is absolutely worth waiting for someone you love or at least trust. A lot of my friends when I was in HS did it just to get it over with and it kind of made their college years worse because they were often tooted and booted/ used just as they were there first time.

That's my PSA for today. ; P

J said...

lol @ rosie overnight, wondering whether I'll be posting the next day. And not only me... she's fixated on everyone. Has some sort of spreadsheet or table keeping track of who she thinks is neato and who she thinks isn't.

I can't believe someone comments so much about other anonymous internet people.

I usually feel bad for shut-ins with no hope, no prospects, but the piggish aggressive proudly-ignorant qualities rosie revels in make her an exception.

Going nowhere, living for this. ha ha

Anonymous said...

Why would you want to know that Entertainment man, and why would anyone want to volunteer that information? Ah but every one wants their 10 minutes of fame....

Natalie said...

15 and they guy didnt even know who I was 10 years later.

Henriette said...

21 and it was the perfect age. Unfortunately he was a good lover, so when I got a bad one after him, I was quite bummed out.

AListDiva said...

16, and too youn! Plus guys love to brag about that stuff in high school. Wait til 18 or 19 or u are in a committed relationship. Wish I would have waited a few more years!

Henriette said...

Is Enty best friends with John Stamos? Stamos is obsessed with this topic.

hunter said...

six - it seemed a bit young.

Williedynamite said...

Too young as in it would be considered a crime. Didn't even realize what had happened until I found out what certain words meant when I was about 9 or 10. Clearly wasn't by choice. Fully understand and sympathize with other victims.

EponymousAnonymoud said...

Stop trying to groom me enty.

txredhd said...

17 it was in Hong Kong and I will just leave it at that.

TommyWantsHisMommy said...

I don't even remember..not in high school. I was giant nerd. I use to get beat up by scumbags.

Trapped said...

23 I waited until marriage it was the right time for me

Andrea said...

19 and I probably should have waited a bit longer as I was an extremely naïve 19 year old.

CannaCasey said...

17 almost 18 to a guy I was dating forever. I was glad I waited. He still sends me BJ memes from now and then as I was the best. :P This is 20 years later now. HAHA

420 Friendly said...

@williedynamite I'm so sorry that happened to you. Lots of hugs & good vibes sent your way.

orangesoda said...

Too young but it was with a boyfriend of two years who was honestly a very lovely and sweet first boyfriend to have. I'm a serial monogamist though so I didn't exactly rake up the numbers as I got older.

Anonymous said...

17 but I was also a freshman in college. It was the right time and right circumstances for me. I chose very wisely and have no regrets.

Unknown said...

This question is too personal & disrespectful.
side note: not everybody's story is gonna be pleasant and these types of questions triggers the wounded!!! Idiot.
stop asking stupid questions, Enty.

J said...

Unknown, it's all voluntary. No one is forced to answer. Grow the fuck up.

Cathy said...

20. I wish I had waited.

YummyBoogers said...

I was 16, a few months shy of 17. My boyfriend was 19. I wish I had waited. I was with the guy I lost it to for 5 continuous, stressful years and he was the kind who constantly threatened suicide if I mentioned splitting up. I felt guilted and trapped into staying, and was resentful toward him, and mad at myself for not having grown a backbone sooner than I did (I left him at age 21).

If I never would have put out that one summer evening...my ex would have eventually lost interest and bounced onto some other b*tch. I could have been spared from wasted years of my late teens/early adulthood. *le sigh*

Rosie riveter said...

Jesus unknown, i was personally more offended with the "Is the hotdog a sandwich?" Your Turn.
If people are going to be triggered, they won't answer.
Along the same thread, Hunter:
All due respect...that wasn't sex. And best to you

Aquagirl said...

17. I had just graduated HS. I’m one of the ones who ‘just wanted to get it over with.’ Half of my friend’s had, and half hadn’t and I just didn’t want to think about it anymore, so I just did it. It sucked (he was a virgin as well). Definitely the worse sex I ever had. We broke up soon after. No regrets. I think it was the right time for me, especially since I moved to NY soon after. Would rather lose my virginity to a nice guy from my hometown than to some random guy in NY.

sshockley said...

21. Just right.

hothotheat said...

19 years, 11 months and 2 weeks. 2 weeks before my birthday. And it was just right.

Pogue Mahone said...

Just a couple of weeks before I turned 22.

Max Power said...

14 and she was 26.

IT. WAS. AWESOME.

My only regret was that my somewhat-Christian upbringing filled me with enough guilt to not visit her regularly. If I could go back in time....

Motörhead said...

14 and she was 17, in a magnolia bush in town centre park on a Saturday afternoon. I had known her half hour and she kept saying hurry up my bus is coming, that wasn’t a euphemism she had to get home. Told me later her mum wanted to know why she had leaves and detritus in her tights. I dumped her the next week and then nothing for a year. I was ‘molested’ by my babysitter when I was 11 but I don’t count that, she was a bit weird and I saw her last year for the first time in like 35 years.

Fann8& said...

Still a Virgin at 30, not my choice I just don’t know how to connect with people due to my Aspergers, don’t have a lot of friends and I’m really shy. That’s also why I don’t have a job. 😔

splatford said...

Lost mine at the state fair ..My virginity was supposed to meet me back at the car after closing but never showed ..might have been the victim of a serial killer 😪

Mahogany1 said...

I guess you've been watching Euphoria.

Joel Theriot said...

20. It was absolutely the right age and with the right person too. I was pretty lucky in that regard.

Harlita said...

16 and I should have waited.

Unknown said...

14. Way too young and still not sure how the fuck it happened.

HeatherBee said...

Hey Fann8&amp- thanks for sharing! I can only imagine what this must be like for you. I relate somewhat in that I was a military brat. I was always the new kid in school, and by the time I could make close friends, it was time to move again. It’s hard sometimes to get close to people for various reasons, but I encourage you to keep trying. Just know you have friends here.🙂

Dear Yui said...

18 and it happened a month ago at the locker-room showers, right now I don't regret it but I probably will 6 months from now. It was with a complete stranger and there was zero chemistry just physical attraction.

Wendy said...

I was 17 and with the first boy I ever loved. I don't regret it but it hurt absolutely terribly. I had sex with him 3 times and every time hurt really bad, and I thought it was just because I was a virgin, but then 5 or 6 months later when I got a new boyfriend and we did it, didn't hurt one bit. So I think my first boyfriend was doing something wrong lmao

rednoir said...

44. Just right.

princessstarstripes said...

18 to someone I didn't know, in a skeevy club with a spiked drink. Regret not being 'present' for the occassion.

Count Jerkula said...

25. It dont count until its bareback

longtimereader said...

1'st week of College thanks to this wonder drug called Ecstasy. Who knew women were basically normal human beings and treating them with humour and respect got you laid? I certainly didn't until I went to my first rave and took drugs. Learning how to get good @ sex by listening to what the lady says she needs is the next step.

Count Jerkula said...

How much E did you have to give her to get her to drop panties?

longtimereader said...

Count - She and her friends supplied ME. A good time was had by all.

Count Jerkula said...

You have my sympathies. People think only men can rape, but this is a clear example of a woman drugging and raping a man, stealing his innocence in the process. I hope you can heal, my brutha.

BRAD PITT said...

Still a Virgin at 33, not my choice I just don’t know how to connect with people due to my depression, don’t have a lot of friends and I’m really shy. That’s also why I don’t have a job. 😔

Vextrove said...

as though it were a man

🤔

OKay said...

I was 17 and it was the absolute perfect time. I tend to have this very conversation with other women once we've known each other a while. Almost universally, 16 or 17 is the threshold. Those who had sex younger ALWYAS say they regret it now, but 16+ almost never do.

Trisha13 said...

Still a virgin, I see

Trisha13 said...

Makes sense, so make some money from it now. Buy back your childhood

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