Monday, October 01, 2007

Britney Loses The Kids For Now--Will Now Party Even Harder


A judge has ordered that Britney Spears turn her children over to Kevin Federline on Wednesday at noon. The ruling came about as a result of an ex-parte motion filed by Kevin's attorney.

I don't know what caused Kevin's attorney to file an ex-parte application, but whatever Britney did, she must have done before 10am Friday because that is the latest Kevin's attorney could have given notice to Britney's attorney for the hearing today. There was nothing in the order suggesting it had anything to do with not being properly licensed to drive in the State of California, so it may be that she did fail a drug test or some other condition that was put in place last month.

All I know is that having the kids was probably the only thing keeping Britney from going totally off the deep end. The judge did keep all the orders in effect which means Britney still has random drug tests and must fulfill all the other requirements set forth by the judge, but honestly, I don't think she is going to have much incentive. Once custody transfers, even in a "temporary" situation like this it is extremely difficult to regain custody. Britney is going to have to show a remarkable turnaround and probably subject herself to supervised visitation and will have to do this for a year or so before she will be able to have any shot at trying to regain custody or even unsupervised visits.

It's not just Britney. Many times, I have seen a parent just give up when they see what hurdles they have to face and just go completely off the deep end. It often takes years before they turn their life around enough to get back what they once had. This week will test Britney more than any other she has faced. It will be really interesting to see what path she chooses.

40 comments:

Melissa said...

Damn. That must hurt, but it's time for her to grow up - even if she's forced to.

Connie said...

Frankly, I can't think of a better incentive to turn your life around and follow court orders than the incentive TO GET YOUR KIDS BACK!!!

Is the woman that narcisstic and/or self destructive that she would go off the edge rather than do the right thing for her babies?

Lets hope that Federline can finally grow up and start being the better parent.

Once more its the kids who suffer either way. What a mess.

Melissa said...

Yes, connie. She is that narcissistic and self destructive. Only time will tell what she is willing to do to break her nasty cycles.

spasuzy said...

Nah....she'll party at Pure tonight...

kellysirkus said...

"it will be interesting to see what path she chooses."

come on, now, enty, the only think that would make it interesting is if she actually chooses to step up to the plate, check herself in for intense medical help.

The odds on any of this happening are slim and none

Leah said...

ENT,
Would/could the judge order a Special Advocate/guardian for Brit's boys? Would/could they place the boys with a grandparent or grandparents?

Dharma said...

Sad. So sad. Federline's the better parent - those poor kids don't have a chance! At least they'll have plenty of $$$ for all the therapy they are going to need. Again, sad.

Michelle said...

The ex parte motion is usually only used in serious, immediate situations. I had to file an ex parte motion against my ex husband, because he took my daughter out of school and would not give her back to me. We were in the process of filing for divorce and we hadn't put a custody plan in place. Legally, there was no way to stop him from taking my daughter until the ex parte was granted. The other party does not have to be present in court for an ex parte either.

Something must have happened, either late last week or over the weekend, to make K-Fed file this motion. Maybe it was the photos of the margarita in the car? That was less than 12 hours prior to her having the kids again. She is so stupid!

ms_wonderland said...

Brit just can't stop herself. Totally out of control - you can see she failed that drugs test last week, days after the judge put all that stuff in place. All she lives for is the attention the paps give her. I dont believe Brit is capable of caring for those kids in any meaningful way, and there's no-one around her to step in.

I hope Kev is a great dad, for the kids sake.

jax said...

Wahoo...finally a judge with some sense in LA!

OK you can hate on Kfed all you want..but if the court says he's a fit parent then you guys need to bite it already and realize that maybe the guy is a decnet father...hey Shar jackson said it herself they might have their issues but that he was and IS a great father...aside from marrying that wreck and being somewhat unemployed what has he done wrong that you all see as unfit? He may smoke weed,but i would too if i was divorcing Shitney..but he doesnt in front of the kids and he doesnt try and exploit them for the paps like their mother does. Family means a lot to most people and when your family is on your ex's side..it speaks volumes. My parents would enver turn their back on me..unless i was a complete fuck up of a mother to their grandchildren.

jax said...

sorry in my haste i forgot to spellcheck...im country y'all.

jax said...

haha i just told my co-worker she lost custody..his deadpan reply
"i wonder if she'll notice"

classic.

jenner said...

Justice.

Kamie said...

I think she did all this crazy shit on purpose. Look, I am not fond of ankle-biters BUT I would not want someone to take mine away. She must be home getting ready.....to step out tonight...Another web source has her dropping them off already today.

GammaGirl said...

As inevitable as this was,I don't think its going to end well. The fact that Britney continued to drive without a license is an indication that she's totally starting to lose her mind and the negative publicity isn't helping her at all.
Hopefully, this is push she needs to get help.
OR she'll go on a LiLo-esque bender.

Bryn said...

I also don't think this will end well at all. I think she's proven that she does not care - about anything or anyone but herself. She doesn't care about her kids enough to do what the court asked. She does as she pleases - drives when she knows she should not, defies the courts requests, etc. She is totally into herself and is addicted to this sick attention by the press. SHe thrives on it and needs it. I think she's headed for a really huge crash and it will be a tragedy for all involved.

Kay said...

I think her behavior has shown she was deliberately trying to lose custody of the kids. It's like she used the judge's order as her own personal to do list. There was no way in her current condition (drug addled and/or mentally ill) that she was capable of raising those kids. She was going to lose custody at some point. The judges orders practically guaranteed it. I'm not sure if KFed is a decent father or not. For the sake of the kids I hope he is.

kitty said...

It's not Wednesday, and she's already handed the kids over.


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J. R. said...

She is so fucked.

Was just talking about it with hubby and wondering how someone raised like her could begin to deal with these problems.

If it was any normal person, we could honestly just say get your shit together. But she's been raised in a fantasy world, had every whim catered, truthfully been whored out by her family, screwed over by the love of her life (who proved she can't make a good choice in the first place). Plus she's clearly mentally ill, and an addict, which will only exacerbate that.

She's the only one of these starlets I actually feel sorry for. Completely fucked.

Had a dream last fall that she jumped off a building, and I'm thinking that may very well be a possibility. Poor girl.

On the other hand she should take a good look at those darling little boys and see something worth living right for, if she won't live right for herself.

Paris, Lindsay, Nicole love themselves far too much to let themselves die, but I feel for Brit and also Amy Winehouse who are both on a short path to total self-annihilation.

Of course, there are worse things in the world, like, um, genocide and poverty...

J. R. said...

haha i just told my co-worker she lost custody..his deadpan reply
"i wonder if she'll notice"


That is some funny shit.

budford said...

Her ex doesn't really seem like such a bad guy. So what - he married someone with bucks. If it was the other way around, nobody would say anything about a woman being broke and marrying up.

brendalove@gmail.com said...

I feel like she has either bipolar disorder or schizophrenia. She seems unable to equate her actions with the consequences. It's really sad and I'm worried in more ways than one.

There's no way the grandparents could get custody unless BOTH parents were declared unfit. I'm sure Fed is going to be relying heavily on the grandparents though.

I'm on Team K-Fed, I don't think he's going to let us down as far as getting these kids raised.

Customer said...

If she really wanted those kids she would've tried a little harder. Let's face it, she's probably happy she lost custody.

Toni said...

I am not a Britney fan and am very very guilty of devouring all that relates to the trainwreck that is Britney.

For some reason watching her spiral makes my life seem not so bad - what a loser I am. Because there is really only one ending for this particular story and it is going to be a sad sad one and I will have contributed to it. I truly do think that it is only a matter of time before Britney attempts suicide - most likely sucessfully.

I hope the paps and all others leave her alone for a while. I know I am done devouring all the stories about her. It is one thing to make fun of a person for marrying K-Fed, for not wearing underwear and the million other things she has done that deserves ridicule but quite another to actively participate in watching a person self-destruct.

She is after all a human being - believe it or not.

Just my thoughts.

dbpinecone said...

Britney's subconscious wants to lose the kids. She's too proud to admit she's over her head. The driving w/out Calif. license was in opposition to a direct court order. That's the only evidence they needed. There's no reason to have the state appt an atty for the children because this is a straight custody case and the father seems fit.

Anonymous said...

I agree with j.r. and toni - I feel bad for her too. She's been used her whole life and never protected by the people that were supposed to be her caretakers, her parents.

This is one saga that I'm afraid will end the Anna Nicole way.

Customer said...

I disagree with David, j.r. and toni. By all accounts, Britney only had a "big heart" when it suited her. Are you forgetting that she was the one who cheated on Justin Timberlake, had a 1 day marriage to that Jason Alexander guy, started dating KFed when his girlfriend was pregnant, doesn't speak to her whole family, etc.

I have read several accounts where she treats her fans like crap, ignores and abuses her managment, and is an all around attention whore. Why does everyone pity her? She's in the same position as Christina Aguilera and Justin Timberlake, both whom were Disney kids. She took all her oportunities and blew it! I wish her no harm, but she really was the cause of all of her problems.

Pope-rah said...

budford is right on! K-Fed is totally held to a double-standard here! Both parties knew the financials status of the other one and entered into that marriage. Britney willing had two babies. If K-Fed can be a "stay-at-home-dad" thanks to his ex-spouse child support than good on him. no one would say anything if he were a she.

Beth said...

TMZ has a pic of her all smiles tonight leaving the Penninsula in Beverly Hills. Doesn't seem to be too bothered by losing her kids. She'll be drunk off her ass at Hyde before midnight.

The judge gave her every opportunity to turn things around, all she had to do was follow the rules he set down. She blew off EVERY one off them. She lost her kids 100% by her own actions.

It's also pretty damn telling that she has until Wednesday to keep her kids but instead, as soon as the order came down she met up with Kevin's bodyguard and passed off the kids early. Any loving mother would have hung on to those kids til the last minute. Brit got rid of them the second the judge's order came down.

But not before going through the drive-thru at Jack in the Box. Gotta get a nice greasy meal before handing your kids off. Pure class!

Nosey Parker said...

There's a 3:13 min. clip of Kevin filming Britney on YouTube. She seems out of it, and they were still married. She was probably a bit crazy even before the divorce, but was partying at home instead of in public.

Here's the link:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJSEN8eNtI0&NR

imtiredsotired said...

Ok, everyone has pointed out that shes is a pyscho, and we are all happy that the judge took her kids away, which I agree with.

WHAT I DONT UNDERSTAND
Is how, she doesnt/didnt have a valid california drivers license, she's been driving around for years without one, AND she is the culprit of a hit and run, but she went to the DMV yesterday and they issued her one!!

Its fucking bullshit. You know if you or I had done anything like that, they wouldnt give us a license. They'd do whatever it is they do to people who get pulled over without a license...which im thinking is you get arrested, but i dont know about that.

simone said...

The kids are better off with Kevin. Britney is immature and mentally unwell. For her sake, before she accidentally kills herself, I hope she turns her life around. She's incapable of taking care of those babies!

She's an embarrassment to all mother's around the world.

Customer said...

She's such a pig. She obviously could give a crap about those kids. All she cares about is showing her twat to the world. I despise her.

lainiekazan said...

Seriously -- she went to the DMV yesterday and they gave her a license? Oy.

I thought of something last night -- will she now get pregnant again in order to Have A Kid In The House and show everyone she doesn't need to pay attention to any advice or disciplinary measures?

lainiekazan said...

Seriously -- she went to the DMV yesterday and they gave her a license? Oy.

I thought of something last night -- will she now get pregnant again in order to Have A Kid In The House and show everyone she doesn't need to pay attention to any advice or disciplinary measures?

imtiredsotired said...

ok, someone said they did give her a license, but hag perez is saying they didnt, AND that she was still out driving last night.

Why arent the cops arresting her?!

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mngddess said...

Britney is nothing more than a pathetic piece of crap. The only thing she's in love with is herself. I look at those two beautiful boys and feel such sympathy for them. When my kids were that age they were the joy of my life. I couldn't wait to watch them walk, or discover something new. (Now they're stinky teenagers.) Britney is missing things she can never get back.

My God - if I was her mother I would storm that house, grab her by the hair and slap the daylights out of her.

Cyn

Fabiola Thing said...

LEAVE BRITNEY ALONE!!!!!

j/k

Virgo74 said...

Britney's issue is immaturity! Having yes folks around her all of her life (and yes, that includes her mom and dad). No one ever telling her she was wrong or giving her the direction in life she needs to be a woman. Everyone around her sees her as a $$.

I don't believe her driving on a valid Lousiana license is enough to get your kids taken, but having recent pics of you drinking and partying after the Judge laid down the law might encourage him to get you tested for alcohol and drugs, which she might have failed.

I wish her best. She needs to get herself together.

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