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A new study suggests that women now think a fifth date is the ideal date for sex and not the third. What do you think the ideal numbered date is for first time sex?
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32 comments:
I'm pretty sure this has been asked before. The ideal time is when both people want it, no matter how long they've been dating.
With all the STD's I'm in no hurry, I like to get to know someone first.
What a stupid question.
Sex isn't an obligation. Date 1 or 100, it depends on the person.
Just because some goof takes you out and you have fun with them a few times doesn't mean it's drop yer pants time.
ENTY PLEASE STOP TROLLING ME
if you are going to cite "studies," please don't use ones administered by private sector dating websites that are published in the DM. Especially when hundreds of scholars have spent their careers studying exactly this kind of thing, why not cite those? Done griping on this, gender politics and slut shaming discourses, have at it. I say do it whenever you want to!
There shouldn't be an "ideal date" for sex. Whenever both parties are on the same page, that is when it should occur. I actually think women don't do themselves any favors creating arbitrary benchmarks for when things should take place. If I were a guy, I would see that as "playing games" and it would be a turn-off. That's just me.
First date. Weeds out the nots :).
Just kidding! Chemistry decides. Faster/slower depending on chemistry IMO!
An Entern just picked up a new romantic interest and is on date 2.5, now incredibly frustrated.
The answer is - no one who's ever actually had sex with a fellow live human gives a shit what anyone else's pretend date number is. Boink or don't.
Well said.
Me, I'm willing to put out on the first date. I'm easy that way. Though I do draw the line at Rosanne Barr or any Kardashian. That's more like second or third date.
When I was single in mid-2000s, I was amazed that guys expected sex within 5 dates. Can we get to know each other first?? Nothing wrong with having sex sooner if both consent, but nothing wrong if someone needs more time either.
Karen FTW!
I have no idea as I've never actually been on a date. Been with my husband since I was 18, and we never went on dates, just got together.
As long as Blowies are doled out on dates 3 & 4, then sex on the 5th date is OK.
As long as Blowies are doled out on dates 3 & 4, then sex on the 5th date is OK.
Depends on the quantity. & quality of booze I've consumed. Box wine=nope, Pappy Van Winkle=yep gets me out of my panties every time.
Who knows when its right? In this day and age, after blood tests and full disclosure, go for it!!
Several weeks after marriage.
ive waited i think abt two months worth of dates and conversations with each one my big ones
10 years. Then lie back and think of England.
10 years. Then lie back and think of England.
Whatever date you get married on.
First date, I don't wanna suffer their female bullshit longer, I prefer different holes everyday. Happily females these days are liberal and agree with me.
Whenever I feel like it. First date, 5th date, never fucking ever.
I wait until after I talk to him during the date to decide. If I just want to fuck him because he's hot, but otherwise an insufferable asshole, I hit it and quit it on the first date.
If I like him and decide to keep him around, I make his ass wait it out.
LOL @Count. I assume that with you, there IS no fourth date without a BJ on the third.
I can't imagine having sex on the first date anymore. When I was 20 and stupid, okay. But now? Not a chance. Beyond that, I dunno. Yeah, when both people want to.
I give thanks every day of my life that I'm married and don't have to deal with this shit.
No way am I waiting until date number five to have sex. 2 max.
I hope Max agrees with you Erik. Be sure to let him order the lobster.
I think it's different for everybody.
haha i generally have to
@CeeKay: Yeah, kinda. I'm friggin old at 39. I'm not investing an extended period of time to figure out sexual compatibility.
If you're willing to date divorced moms, like I am, it's first date almost every time. Too much hassle getting a sitter to wait longer.
Depends on wat I drink on the first date.
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