Monday, September 26, 2016

Today's Blind Items - Daddy

From Reddit

I'm one of those 'famous for being famous' people. How famous I am is debatable but it's enough that what I say/do will impact people I care about.

I wasn't born knowing what I was. I found out in my teens. Not everyone in my circle knows but the ones that do are ashamed. I'm assigned male at birth but don't have testes, I have an inner fem reproductive system that wasn't active at the time because of a lack of hormones/sexual organ to expell uterine lining from. I didn't know at the time but everyone considered me infertile and was glad for it. I also was born with some mental issues and was figuring my identity out at the time and I liked not having the pressure of having to conform to the manly role gender biases direct us to. (NOTE: I'm stupid. This will be a constant here.)

Being a parent has always been my goal. Being a parent in an unconventional way wasn't going to stop me! So I started to 'become' fertile. 'Activating' my reproductive system was a minor operation (An incision in my "testicles", plus hormones. Yes people who give birth can have dicks. Human bodies are weird) and hormone injections. (To give birth you need a c-section since the unvagina can't dilatate but it's possible)

I got a boyfriend during all of this shit. Shit was good even if I was a mess (for the mental issues) because I was doing therapy and I was chill and it wasn't going to be just me it was the two of us. If I wasn't going to be 100% there all the time he was going to be.

Anyway he left me for no reason and to this day I haven't found much closure about it. A lot of shit about my body got said. I got hit with a bike (I was a pedestrian) Shit didn't end up so well. (Rereading this makes it sound like I was far along but I wasn't it took most of the time to get myself fertile, pregnancy is like. Easy. People do it by accident all day) I had to take meds for some fainting-post-accident/not-that-serious anemia I got after the miscarriage that didn't react well with my mental issues treatment so I stopped (I know. Moron)

Fame started to enter the picture. Mandated relationships too. I sucked at the few I had. I'd treat them as friendships/something more and I shouldn't have (Not blaming the women I got paired with here, don't do this) I reacted badly to most of it. It's not something I wanted but going against it was going to hurt people I care/cared about. Anyway I had a mental breakdown eventually. I told those same people about my miscarriage. And they dismissed it. They laughed. They said it was something that wasn't meant for me anyway. They said they were glad. That I wouldn't have handled it. That I was going to bring shame to them and bad publicity to other people like me because I'm useless. I don't know why I didn't hate them right when this happened but I didn't. It's starting to change now that I'm less depressed though.

And I deeprolled into depression ever since. Every once in a while they remember I have periods and I get made fun of it plus a lot of other things related to what I said that one time.

I guess I wasn't going to look like any pregnancy ad I'd ever seen. Because of muscle stuff my baby bump would've been awkward as f**k. I'm f**king hairy in some parts too (Sadly not as much in my head but you know) But pregnancy is more than that shit! l wanted to experience it! I still do. And for once I told someone and they got it. And they're fine with me! And they're helping me get mental health (...Severely neglected. It shows) And I'm starting to not care about my "circle" opinions for once But I'm also terrified. I couldn't have a kid without making them a punching bag for the media. Hell I couldn't become a father without becoming a punching bag for the media. But I also am getting better with my psychological issues. I truly see myself becoming stable in the future. And I want to. For now I'm just getting my head in order but these thoughts are with me a lot. I feel a lot for the pregnancy I lost.

I gues I'm just scared confused and whiney and I wanted to let it go.

55 comments:

sandybrook said...

no idea....if this is true good luck to whoever but I don't place much faith in reddit.

Tricia13 said...

I would say Jonathon Cheban but I don't think he speaks that way, and he is so tight with Kardashians/Caitlyn it would not be an issue, I'd think?

Chloe said...

I could see this for a number of people surrounded by fame-obsessed family. Someone on the periphery, maybe, like Rob Kardashian or Jaden Smith. Part of me feels like this might be fiction.

Malibuborebee said...

Meh. Seems like total bullshit to me.

fbag said...

Pfft this is probably one of those kids who has a YT channel that gets a lot of hits.

Zilla1 said...

No matter who this is, this is an incredibly mean item.

Lurky McLurkster said...

Chuck Norris

Tiggytiti said...

Reminds me of the book Middlesex. Sad that a lot of people can't accept others as they are

Sharon said...

Hey it's your right to parent. I'm not famous or semi-famous but it's universal.
I went thru IVF to be a single mother, doing it solo, it's hard on my body and bank acct and I had to use double donors(i'm 46) I feel sick a lot but i'm nearly done and am about to have my baby! so happy.
I've lost friends. I've made better friends. ps Don't wait til you're 40, it gets much harder. You are strong. Good luck!

CooCoo Catchoo said...

I think this might be Burke Ramsey.

Mjm said...

First thought was Ryan Cabrera

I ate my own head said...

Ryan Seacrest.

Hot Cola said...

Holy Fu*k, what a story.
Brave sole. Wishing him the best.
Not easy

Hot Cola said...

Soul

marlo said...

Congratulations Sharon!

Elle B said...

This reminds of when there was a Lady Gaga intersex conspiracy theory.

Crystal said...

Congratulations!

BETTY BOTOX said...

It's so obvious it's Enty venting.

Lolquint said...

What an interesting guess!

Miss b said...

Congratulations! I wish you all the best!

Dick said...

Alex Trebek

H said...

Derek Harvey?

SnarkIsFun said...

Not sure that this blind is real, but if it is . . . I hope the author gets the mental health treatment that they need, & that they find peace.

Bingo said...

+1000000000000

FakeHousewife said...

Congratulaions, Sharon. You'll be a great mother. So much wisdom accrued over the years.

FakeHousewife said...

Jason Davis, a/k/a Gummi Bear, brother of Brandon Davis.

Psdoctorps said...

What about Warren Beatty and Annette Benning's child? Or, Richard Simmons.

Guesser said...

Assuming the story is real, the person needs to get their mental state under control before becoming a parent.The writing style sounds very contrived,in the old days people wrote fake letters to dear Abby. I think someone created a story for the reaction, People do this all the time now.

Etak said...

I was thinking Rob Kardashian.

Late outta gate said...

This was posted 176 days ago!!!
Alexis Arquette few..
RIP

back again said...

good for you & congrats!

Mike said...

Most intersex AMAB people usually find out they're intersex when they go through menopause, so they're not really able to have kids, and most IVF clinics won't help them have kids on their own. Doctors usually lie to patients and don't tell them the truth. Or force them through a sex change once they start having periods. If they find out as babies they usually remove working internal reproductive organs, sometimes without telling the parents.

I'm a different kind of intersex, but it is hard to find therapists that won't force you to get sterilized or do things against your health just so you have kids the "normal" way. I can see this being true. There are people that come to mind but IMO it's kind of mean to try to guess who this person can be.

Anne said...

If Rob gets pregnant in season 2 of Rob and Chyna I might actually have to watch it.

But I think OP is a model or involved in fashion of some sort because intersex people have kind of weird faces and they're perfect for runway. But Anwar Hadid and the Beckham kid are too young...

Anne said...

Ohhhhh this is a good one!! This explains why she kinda went back on her sex change (She didn't go back to male but said she was someting more), and maybe people just want her story told now that she passed away!

TTM said...

Me thinky Lady Gaga and the "famous for being famous" part was just to throw us off. Would explain her messy relationships and plastic surgery fixation

Anne said...

IMO, Gaga would use this for attention though

OKay said...

Parenting is not a right. And I don't think this particular person should do it. He/She (?? - sorry, the whole thing confused me) is pretty messed up by his/her own admission. Leave kids out of it.

Eric said...

Someone that was in big brother?

BTownGirl said...

Congratulations!!!! Best to you and your little one :)

Jeni said...

brandon davis

R said...

EJ Johnson?
Famous parents - Magic and Cookie
His circle - the rich kids of Beverly Hills
Hair everywhere but his head - he shaves his head/balding

A said...

Not saying this is automatically true but most people who post on that subreddit type like that

Mim said...

Most people on that subreddit type like they're typing a letter, maybe it's for 'dramatic effect'

I can see this being true, knowing some intersex people, his face def gives me a vibe

Jen said...

Oooh.... good one. He doesn't seem intersex (but who knows?) and the rest of the clues fit.

If this is a real person. Anyone can post anything on Reddit, so I'm fairly certain this is fiction.

Guesser said...

Actually is a good guess because if there is a clue, it's the bald head and muscular body. Anyone know of someone who got hit by a bike? If it is a true story it is likely to be someone famous for their parents, who would be upset by the publicity.

Ethan said...

Checklist:
Baby crazy (He didn't only have a son fast with Chyna but he'sbeen wanting to be a dad since forever)
Is fat (muscle issues?) and going bald
Family full of assholes
Really crazy, hates himself (The person in the blind calls themselves stupid over and over)

Counterpoint: Intersex people with uteri can't produce sperm. They have penises and they can get erections, and sometimes some sort of ejaculate, but they have no testes.

However: Maybe the blind items about Chyna not being the baby's dad are true and he knows? Maybe it's IVF or something. Maybe that's why his family didn't question that he "meant" to get her pregnant. But if this is true Rob secrecy is going to be Janet Jackson territory

Sharon said...

Sorry... my mind kept wandering trying to keep up with all that and I have A.D.D.
Is there a TL/DR version of this crap?

Shandy said...

Jeffrey Star?

Mellie said...

I'm going to say Tila Tequila. There is nothing to suggest this person is not currently living as a woman. She dated women at one point and I'm pretty sure I remember her saying she miscarried. She appears to wear a wig or have extensions and she's as crazy and stupid as they come. She fits.

Bubbles said...

They have a trans son, who most definitely was not assigned male at birth.

Bubbles said...

Menopause? Do you mean puberty because a male having a period would kind of give it away.

Bubbles said...

Well since Chyna has a baby with Tyga it's safe to say she's not "the baby's dad"

Ethan said...

Lol I meant that Chyna had a test tube baby with guest sperm, not that she had some bizarre alien reproduction

Mike said...

No I meant menopause. Most people only assume they have arterial problems and that's why they piss blood, not that they're having periods.

Such a case: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/health/news/11397560/Man-born-with-a-womb-prepares-for-hysterectomy.html

Cate Chandler said...

Not Alexis Arquette. There is a picture on line of Alexis ' huge dong.

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